what are your experiences with deathgrip?
9 months ago by primordial to c/asklemmynsfw
been working on upping my sensitivity for a couple weeks and finally came without needing my hands (just in a soft toy) and woooow, the difference is crazy
thought i'd see what folks' experiences with deathgrip have been
(for anyone who doesn't know, deathgrip is the phenomenon where one grips one's dick too hard to come without the force only a hand can provide)
I've "started" the process of quitting multiple times, only to fall back into old habits. The issue is that I don't really feel any hope of meeting someone, and right now I kinda need to masturbate just to fall asleep. I can do it without porn at least. I have a silicone stroker toy but it's large enough and makes enough noise that I can't hide it well (cuz, you know, at some point I gotta take it from my room to the bathroom and then back to clean it). If I lived on my own I'd use it more, but that's not really feasible right now.
not living on your own is brutal for any sort of sexual connection with yourself. hang in there friend
Really sorry, that's part of our new slavery system. It's designed to take all our dignity and keep us down, until we break out of it.
I don't think there's much new about jerking off tbf
Oh, I meant the way we are keept from experiencing ourselves fully. There's so many ways to jerk off, and to be jerked off, really.
An acquired taste. But I suggest you start with The Money Store album. That's a good starting point. If you're into that then give Ex-Military a try. You might get into Death Grips that way.
Deathgrip is a real problem, and i think it's pretty common. Regardless of what can be seen on the internet, I imagine most people are crankin one out as fast as possible in most day-to-day life. Before you have to be somewhere or have an event, or after, or you just have limited private time because of spouse, family, roommates, whatever. Deathgrip is an easy step to take to get it done quick.
The problem is, once you get used to it, it can really mess up your sensitivity (along with normal aging, health, etc affecting it). Once I figured that out, I started being more deliberately gentle. Looser grip, lube of some kind being a must, more playful strokes and touches. I quit caring if I finished before I ran out of personal time. Just made it when I finally did cum, that much better.
Highly recommend getting some vibe toys too. There's this sleeve that attaches to a hitachi that I dont even move once I'm in, and the vibrations hit juuuuust right. I suppose that isn't hands free, but it's a huge win for my sensitivity personally.
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Good band. I bought The Money Store on CD.
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