livingintheworldfullofdistractions

6 months ago by Tharion to c/asklemmy

I don't know what question should I ask but How to actually live? There are so many distractions on my path, on the left side there is a phone with access to thousands of naked women, in front of me a computer with lots of games and movies, on the right side there is also a phone with a lot of content which is increases dopamine such as TIKTOK, INSTAGRAM, and on the back there is MOM which is telling me what should I do and what I shouldn’t doesn’t support any of my decisions…

HuudaHarkiten 9 points 6 months ago
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seahag 5 points 6 months ago
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Rhynoplaz 4 points 6 months ago

Just curious, what's your ADHD situation?

Got it? Don't? Never thought about it before?

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ArgumentativeMonotheist 3 points 6 months ago

Is there anything you want to do or be, so badly, that would move you to act despite the distractions?

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Tharion 3 points 6 months ago

I can't just STOP doing that because I'm already addicted to it, when I deleting all the distractions I'm returning to them after 1 month.

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MagicShel 8 points 6 months ago

Cultivate other habits. When you're bored, do some exercise or whittle some wood or do a puzzle. If your replace your bad habits with something else, you'll find it easier. I deleted Facebook and other apps that have notification counters, and I use them through PWA. Now I check Facebook once a month or less and they spy on me less. Same with LinkedIn. Lemmy is also PWA but I'm on here much more because I chose to be.

But I've mostly replaced my ADHD scanning with work, not anything healthy or fun.

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insomniac_lemon 1 point 6 months ago

Don't know if it'll help, but I turned off wi-fi for a while and that changed my habits a bit. I was able to finish a programming project (sweeper clone). If I ever used the internet, it was on my phone (browser mostly for questions, not logged into anything, overall less comfortable without a keyboard for me) and even then I turned the wifi back off shortly after.

I still played games etc. that I already had downloaded, but it's a lot more limited with choice and I also deleted quite a bit of stuff that I didn't care about (weighed against how much data it took up). So even that was not so bad.

I also hooked up the old PS3 and replayed some games, which made more sense with limited options.

Finishing the project sort of ended that though, was hoping to get answers to questions and did not. That and dislike the GH co-pilot situation so I haven't even shared my sweeper project, so kinda killed my motivation's momentum.

Going by my post history here, it was ~2.5 months for me.

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quediuspayu 1 point 6 months ago

Get yourself a degoogled phone, something with lineageOS, graphene or some other operating system. You won't be able to install any of those apps.

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