Boobs

9 days ago by AnxiousMiisha to c/mtf

Mods, please forgive me 😭
I posted breast timeline without realizing NSFW pictures are not allowed in thid community. I'm really sorry.

For anyone who wishes to see the post, it's on Trans Joy.
Here's a link:
https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/46535721

Once again, I'm really sorry for being a dumbass. It's all my fault 😭

Edit: Why do my posts keep getting duplicated when I post them? What's happening? Did I break Lemmy?

Smorty 7 points 9 days ago

the posts duplicate when you send it, it looks like they dont go out, and you press the send button again. usually after the first press, the post is already sent.

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AnxiousMiisha 5 points 9 days ago

No, something's wrong...
This never happened before and now normal actions like commenting and upvoting get stuck, I have to retry them multiple times.
What's happening? Should I message the mod team? Did I mess up my Lemmy account. Please help 😭

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AnxiousMiisha 3 points 9 days ago

Also these posts don't load?? I have to click retry many times? Am I banned?

And I have like 4 deleted duplicate posts on my profile now, because Lemmy doesn't allow you to delete posts...just perfect

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Filetternavn 5 points 9 days ago

I'm having that problem rn too. I sometimes have to refresh posts bc they won't load. Seems unrelated to ur account.

The instance is probably having issues rn.

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AnxiousMiisha 1 point 9 days ago

It seems like it. I got a message from Ada, the whole instance is having trouble.

My anxiety got the better of me 😅

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Filetternavn 3 points 9 days ago

It seems like the issue that we're sharing with comment threads not loading the first time is likely a known issue that hasn't been fixed yet? I'm going to ping Ada abt this in the issue thread to see if she's aware there's still a problem.

https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/46024498

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AnxiousMiisha 2 points 9 days ago

Damn it. I was having so much fun on Lemmy 😭

Now I'm almost considering making a new account on a different instance. I broke something

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hildegarde 7 points 9 days ago

Blahaj is a small instance administered by a single Australian trans woman as an act of community service. Things go wrong with the instance sometimes, and it takes time sometimes for a fix because there's not a big team on call monitoring.

When blahaj doesn't load, or is slow, its normal it happens from time to time. It's not you, though I do have that worry too sometimes.

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gandalf_der_12te 1 point 7 days ago

yeah i have the same issues that you have. sometimes pages don't load and show an error instead (i also was worried that i got banned lol)

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AnxiousMiisha 2 points 7 days ago

I've kinda solved it...

Even though sometimes I get an error while posting or commenting, sometimes the action goes through. So, after doing something, I check if there actually is a new post or comment, then I retry in case there isn't.

With the page loading...I just refresh the page. It's annoying, but it works for now.

i also was worried that i got banned lol

Apparently our instance is being scraped rn. Should be fine in a couple of days (I hope).

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Smorty 1 point 9 days ago

you may want to post on the Blahaj Meta community about this.

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akunohana 3 points 9 days ago

Enough people in this world call us dumbasses. Don't do that to yourself. Beautiful pictures, btw, I'm happy for your progression!!!😊🩷🩵🤍

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AnxiousMiisha 2 points 9 days ago

Yeah. Unfortunately you're right 😔

Thank youuuuu 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

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dotCody 3 points 9 days ago

And you definitely had to remove the piercings before HRT? Will you get them re-pierced?

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AnxiousMiisha 3 points 8 days ago

And you definitely had to remove the piercings before HRT?

Yes, unfortunately.

Will you get them re-pierced?

Fuck no 😭
It already hurt so much the first time, I can't imagine surviving it again, with how sensitive my nipples are on HRT.

They were affirming tho...

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akunohana 3 points 9 days ago

Oh, by the way, I have similar issues on piefed.blahaj.zone when attaching images to a comment. When I press "upload", sometimes it uploads the image twice. Must be a 🐞

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hildegarde 3 points 9 days ago

The instance did this double posting thing recently. It was fixed but now it's back. It gives an error message that makes your client think it failed to post when it did actually work.

Ada will fix it soon. Edit: and probably already has.

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AnxiousMiisha 1 point 9 days ago

It seems like it's been fixed...I think.

What do I do about the duplicates tho? Does Lemmy just not delete deleted posts, ever?
My profile page (from my perspective) is now completely clobbered.

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hildegarde 3 points 8 days ago

Yeah, it seems to show all deleted comments and posts on your own profile. Not sure how it works, but they get deleted for everyone else, at least on this instance. Federation is weird sometimes deletions don't sync across all instances or something. The safe thing is to assume everything you post will exist forever.

The server issue still appears to be happening. When I get an error I just copy my post and check whether it posted and only retry if I can confirm it didn't.

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gandalf_der_12te 2 points 7 days ago

yeah i posted something this morning (about 12 hours ago) and i can confirm it double-posted. like you described, first posted with an error message (but it worked), then posted again with success message.

the weird thing is this:

the first post only included a link to the image, while the second post (which was posted in exactly the same way, just by clicking "create [post]" again) includes the image in a proper way. which makes previewing nicer. that's weird, right? i like the second type more, btw.

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gandalf_der_12te 2 points 7 days ago

and now it's double posting comments too 😩

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AnxiousMiisha 2 points 8 days ago

That's too bad. I actually liked how clean (?) my profile page looked. I could easily find stuff, everything was posted exactly once.
Now I have stuff that's duplicated, deleted and just sitting there. Should I just make a new account at this point? It's really bothering me

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gandalf_der_12te 1 point 7 days ago

uhhh if you open your own account in your browser's incognito mode, you will see how it looks to other people. that's cleaner, in case you want to see that.

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AnxiousMiisha 1 point 8 days ago
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gandalf_der_12te 1 point 7 days ago
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