Husband Hid Gun on Visit to Erie County Nursing Home, Killed Wife and Himself
16 days ago by the_wizard_of_0Z to c/cleveland
Cross posted from https://lemmy.ca/post/71792598
A 75-year-old man concealed a firearm when he came to visit his 73-year-old wife at The Meadows at Osborn Park on Thursday morning, and both ultimately died. The Erie County Sheriff's Office says the woman was a patient at the Huron nursing home when staff heard two shots ring out around 11:30 a.m. and rushed in to find the couple suffering from gunshot wounds.
Erie County Sheriff Paul Sigsworth confirmed the shooting happened inside the wife's room at the facility and said deputies were investigating it as an apparent murder-suicide, according to the Sandusky Register. The sheriff said no other residents or staff members were injured. The woman was pronounced dead at the scene, while the man was transported to Firelands Regional Medical Center in Sandusky, roughly five miles away, where he was later pronounced dead, Cleveland.com reported.
The sheriff's office said the motive for the shooting remains unclear. Erie County Commissioner Pat Shenigo said he was deeply saddened by the loss of life at the facility, offering thoughts and prayers to the affected families, residents and employees. A County Facility Inside a Public Park
The Meadows at Osborn Park is a county-owned, 130-bed skilled nursing facility sitting inside the 172-acre Osborn MetroPark in Huron, and it has served Erie County families for more than 145 years, according to Seniorhomes.com. The facility is run under the Erie County Board of Commissioners in partnership with Continuing Healthcare Solutions, the same account notes. Erie County's highest-paid government employee in 2025 was Donna Patrick, the facility's nursing director and assistant administrator, who earned $164,900 annually, the Sandusky Register reported in January.
Thursday's shooting raises questions about firearm access at county-run care facilities located inside public parkland. Ohio law treats private and county-operated long-term care facilities differently: private facilities may prohibit concealed handguns through notice, while county facilities face a statutory prohibition. Coroner Holds Final Word on Cause of Death
While Sheriff Sigsworth's office has characterized the shooting as an apparent murder-suicide, Ohio law places the official determination of cause and manner of death with the county coroner rather than initial police statements, under Ohio Revised Code Section 313.19.
The Erie County Sheriff's Office is investigating the shooting at the nursing home. Part of a Troubling Statewide Pattern
The case also lands amid a grim statewide trend. Ohio recorded 157 domestic violence fatalities across 108 cases between July 2024 and June 2025 — a ten-year state record — with 40 of those cases ending in murder-suicide and firearms involved in 84 percent of deaths, according to the Ohio Domestic Violence Network. Similar cases have surfaced elsewhere in Ohio in recent months, including a murder-suicide on a Cleveland porch in August.
My initial and unsubstantiated assumption was euthanasia followed by suicide. It could have been an act of love.
Being real?
Good for them.
The right to death shouldn't be infringed. That the possibility that they had to resort to this is disgusting.
Now, I acknowledge the other possibility that this isn't what it looks like on the surface, a mercy death pact. Which is definitely not a good thing. But people deserve to be able to exercise their body autonomy by choosing how and when to die, and do so without having to resort to things like this.
I've seen the misery of nursing homes first hand, trying what little is possible to reduce it as a caregiver. But the ugly truth is that nursing homes aren't about making people' lives better. They should be and could be, but they aren't. They're places where we stack people that are waiting to die, far more often than anything else. Best case, you can manage to give someone more comfort and support than they would have alone at home. That's best case, but good luck finding best case in the real world. And that's if the person was alone. No nursing home can match the quality of life available to someone being provided care in their home, even if said care is provided by professionals rather than loved ones.
So, even with the possibility that this wasn't a couple wanting to exit on their own terms, or a spouse seeking to grant a quick death to their spouse, I still say good for them. There should be better options available for everyone.
go to feed...
go to feed...
Might be a suicide pact
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