This is why I don’t like giving BJs I’m sure I’m bad at it and I have no idea how to get better other than just be bad a lot and hope it “pays off”. I also have a teeny tiny mouth that my dentist has to use pediatrician sized tools on so I feel like I’m working from a deficit. I don’t want to give bad BJs so I just hate giving them in general, the focus on having to be good at them versus it just being a thing that feels good to both partners more or less by default is frustrating.
Some people are better at them than others. I've had a couple toe-curling fellations, and a lot of "that's enough dear" ones.
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