I strenuously disagree but that’s what this community is for, good post OP.

To be fair I don’t like gargling/gagging noises either.

I mostly disagree, but this line:

Blowjobs are psyop by Big Blowjob to make you have dumber sex.

...had me laughing out loud in the doctor's waiting room.

So categorical no, it feels great. That being said, I will say that the current porn direction for blowjobs is really gross. Most blowjob videos seem to be about make it as uncomfortable and painful as possible for the girl. I feel like I'm watching bdsm most of the time.

I'm sorry you've never had a good blowjob. There should be no scraping, it doesn't require jaw width as much as technique. Also the being unable to breathe is part of the turn on, if you're into BDSM. I love it when my partner holds my head down to prevent me from coming up for air, and she loves that gesture of domination. It's less about the sensation for us, and more about an act of service and submission. To each their own.

Upvote for a truly unpopular opinion

My gf goes crazy on that thing and I love all the noises and gasping and breathing, this is a hell of a bad take OP

Sounds like you've just had terrible blowjobs.

Gargle noises

Completely unnecessary. Ideally there is more tongue action and less... whatever is happening there

Porn has really done a number on people

Some people are better at them than others. I've had a couple toe-curling fellations, and a lot of "that's enough dear" ones.

The best thing about getting a blowjob from my wife is how much it turns her on.

This opinion sucks.

The average blowjob is mid. Mid is not the ceiling; far from it.

Find a curvy vegan chick who agrees to 69 you. That's the only animal protein she gets (you consent so it's ok) so she will pull out all the stops. You'll be gasping afterward, and not from having your face buried in her pussy.

Alright, this is truly an unpopular opinion 😂

Just want to add that this kinda works the other way around, too. Giving blowjobs is totally underrated and extremely pleasant and rewarding.
Please don't ask how I know...

You have clearly never had a bj from someone who actually knows what they're doing. Totally understandable to have this opinion if that's the case, how can you know what fine dining is if all you ever get served is junk food.

Skill issue

A good blowjob does not consist of deep throat or just using a mouth but tongue, lips, hands, other body parts, variety of pressure/speeds, and it highly involves speech and vocalizations. In short it is highly a multi modality event when done right.

Most people can't even open their jaw wide enough

You don’t have to brag like that

Jobs in general are overrated.

Imagine asking to hear bgbhfbfhgbbghgbhbbggbggbbgbggggggg

I read this and can hear the grapefruit

Most people can't even open their jaw wide enough to avoid scraping you.

The fuck.

This is touch as how popular it is is completely dependent on how good a blow job one has gotten in their life.

I think porn's deep desire to force deep-throating and arsehole licking is worse.

As someone who has never had my dick cut the only good feeling is getting the sucking and licking of the head.

I'm so so sorry for everyone circumcised Old mate Kellogg's, Christianity and Judaism really fucked America up.

Circumcision is a horrific, terrible thing to do to an infant.

You clearly haven't been with someone who takes their job seriously. You need a blowcareeer.

Granted, I don't have the equipment to enjoy blowjob more than enjoying my partners enjoyment, but I do not (and neither does he) understand the glug glug glug thing they do in porn. That is not a real blowjob sound, or at least I have never needed to make a glug glug noise, maybe a slurp or a accidental gag, but no glugs and certainly not glugs you can heard from next door.

I stand with you! Overrated. They’re fun enough but the sensation itself just doesn’t do it for me.

I actually agree with this. I have never had a blowjob that felt better than just vaginal or anal sex.

But, then again, I can't blow myself. Maybe everyone who has given me one sucks at sucking. 🤷‍♂️

I just wonder why it is called blowjob instead of suckjob, or perhaps vacuumjob?

I feel like this is ops humble brag about him having a big penis.

Some people are just really bad at it. That would be the only reason I could see myself holding this opinion. Having said that, BJ's used to feel better to me when I was younger. Still very much like them though, unless they're bad which is not all that often ime

I get it, I do.

For most of my life I've been ambivalent about head. It's so incredibly rare to find someone that makes it good.

But holy hell, when someone does? I wouldn't trade vaginal sex for it, but I would miss it if those people most stopped while I was with them. I mean, my first experience with head had me literally climbing walls, tearing down curtains, and breaking furniture. Hard to live up to, and there's only been two other people that could get me to orgasm via oral. None if the others really worked..

Part of that is enthusiasm. Someone who's really into giving head is going to be better than someone doing it because they think it's the done thing. Someone that loves sucking your cock is going to better than someone that treats it like a calling, but when the two collide? Hell yes. Absofuckinglutely!

You're right though, the structure of the sucker's anatomy is a limiting factor that is impossible to work around

This has to be bait.

I've had a lot of mind blowing blowjobs, but I've met two people who just didn't know what they were doing when it came to my equipment and those were not good.

This is the kind of idiotic take I could imagine I'd have if all my experiences were like those two.

You've never had a good BJ. Like ever.

Yep upvoted cuz this opinion is unpopular because it's very incorrect.

I never used to like getting blow jobs. I even once dated a girl with such a bad gag reflex that blow jobs were off the table for years and I didn't miss them at all.

Then I met someone who absolutely loves giving blow jobs and that all changed. She's able to push past her gag reflex, she's able to take my entire dick down her throat and she's able to keep it up until I inevitably cum. I feel incredibly lucky and I'd miss those blow jobs a lot if they ever stopped.

I've had blowjobs from 3 different girls, how they do it and their passion makes it feel completely different. Also deep throat feels amazing.

Whoever has performed the act on you didn't do a good job. Someone skilled can change your opinion.

It's so sad op hasn't had a good one :(

I respectfully disagree. But I acknowledge that everything you said can be true. That also means what you said can be wrong. It’s all about the delivery.

It feels better if you have the erogenous tissue (foreskin, frenulum, ridged band).

This is a clever ploy to solicit offers of blowjobs.

You poor slob. I have no idea where you get your BJs from? Possibly a Temu industrial blower-vac?

Sounds like it anyway?

I don't even love BJs but I've still had better ones than you have. lol

Gargle sounds while giving a blowjob are completely unneeded, based on porn and stupid. Not kinkshaming, just saying.

A good blowjob consist of more then the mouth. Part of the best blowjob is the hand and tongue and motion. I cum so much faster with a BJ nowadays.

Real talk this is kind of how I determined I've always been ace.

Completely incomprehensible ace rant here but after the first blowjob I had basically the same thought but, like, is anyone having fun here? Sex feels great, ideally there's lots of opportunity for mutual satisfaction there, but oral is like, one person gradually getting sore/frustrated while the other person wonders what the pussy's gonna be like later. I've had a variety of blowjobs but even the one girl who said that's just how she likes to spend an afternoon, who I totally believe, made it pretty one sided when she was like "no seriously you can read or something".

And of course to be totally contrarian I do like eating girls out but there is a point where it's like, okay, yeah, we should switch it up. It's fun and intimate but if it isn't a pleasant way to draw out the activity then why bother?

And yeah lotta years in ace denial. Pretty sure it was less of a sex drive and more like a special interest.

69 is better than a blow job? Repent my brother in Christ, 69 is both distracting for giving oral and recieving oral at the same time.

I thought this at one point. I was wrong, thankfully.

I love love LOVE giving head but I’m with you on the gagging and gargle sounds. Bleh! That can ruin porn for me VERY quickly.

Maybe I’m weird but for me oral sex has always been more intimate than standard, as such it’s always required more communication between me and my partner, and with the increased communication it means everyone’s having some great orgasms.

Yeah going to have to disagree here. I both love giving and receiving oral sex. At times I like it better than intercourse. My wife orgasms with her legs wrapped around my head when I do it right.

Height requirement for 69? My wife is a foot shorter than me and we don't have any issues.

But I hard disagree with the opinion. Good BJs are almost better than sex, although it sounds like you might not have had a good one yet.

I'm with ya on this one. Don't get me wrong, if vaginas didn't exist - blowjobs would be the best thing in the world. But vaginas do exists, and they're fucking awesome.

Will comment back when I actually experience it. If I never comment back then you know what happened.

Well, this is unpopular allright. To each their own, I guess, but blowjobs are amazing. Especially done right. About the visuals of it, whatever. I've been blowed in complete absence of light so many times that I find that part preposterous. Also, gargling is just natural, can't tell someone not do it.

Strong no on all counts. Imagine arguing that getting your cock slobbered on is mid.

Anybody who thinks a blowjob should be spent with his throbbing member thrusting repeatedly in and out of someone's mouth to their gagging point has never had head from a lip, tongue, face, hand, mouth master. You have to take part, too. Pull that thing out and rub it around on her face. Do some pushin' between her boobs if boobs are involved. If both of you aren't moaning, gimacing and writhing in pleasure, it's not being done right. (There is no height requirement for 69ing - while you're young and limber, anyway.)

I'm sorry for OP and share their sentiment. I've been refusing blowjobs for decades out of fear of having my peen massacred, as it has happened way too many times in my sexual life. One would expect guys to give good ones though, but uncut guys just don't know how to handle a cut peen without hurting it (most euro guys are uncut). I take charge and give BJs. I'm way better at giving them than receiving them anyway.

Also, a good BJ is an active BJ. Throat fucking is just bad porn. You can't manage your teeth, etc because your face is just getting stupidly plowed, forcing you to do damage control as you're getting your face fucked instead of just performing oral on your (bad) partner. If you want to fuck a hole, fuck the ones which are made for it. Else, let the BJ kings and queens do their goddamn job and enjoy the ride.

Last advice : if they can't manage their teeth, or won't do it even if you complain, just get the fuck out. A BJ is technical. If you can't handle it, just do something else, there are plenty of cool other sex things to do.

Updoot for sure. That opinion is definitely rotten.

Sum of the best nuts I’ve busted were from blowjobs buddy. Ur crazy

This is a good unpopular opinion. I'm with you on this one. Here's a little secret: all bodies are different. I think the vast majority of penises are very sensitive and bjs work great. Some of us have less sensitive penises or the sensitivity is such that bjs aren't stellar.

I'm a bit of a demisexual man whore so I've had a lot of different partners with different traits and body types. A wider variety than most, I'd say. I've had a lot of women who pride themselves on their bj skills, but for many if not most, it's unearned pride. It's basically like being born rich and thinking you made your own way. They did not develop a technique or skillset, they had a mouth and were willing. Since most guys cum easily from oral, I'm sure they feel very skilled.

I take forever to orgasm, even masturbating. I've had many partners just tap out from PIV or anal due to sensitivity or orgasm fatigue and I end up having to finish myself or just got used to being unfulfilled. I've only met a couple of women who can give head, vigorously, for long periods of time. And face fucking, if they can take it very hard for very long, it's inevitably going to end with your penis just polishing enamel at certain velocities.

That all said, they're still enjoyable. But I'd much rather oral be a pleasant very submissive gesture on their part, or a way for them to really familiarize themself with your body (it's good bonding). But I get to PIV or PIA as quickly as I can.

ehh, that's like saying food sucks because you've only ever been to McDonalds :)

I never came from a blowjob (and even less from a hand-job that was not self-administered). The fact that people think these acts work even as foreplay has me flabbergasted.

This is a shitty post OP. I wholeheartedly agree.

I mean, yeah this is certainly unpopular I guess.

I feel the same way about anal, you could get the same effect by putting a rubber band on a dick. Theres a bit of pressure and sensation at the asshole itself and then nothing. At least vaginally you can feel it all the way down but with anal you would get the same (or better) by just jerking off.

I think maybe your partners weren't doing it right. Never felt teeth before.

I still hope to be able to afford one someday

People take advantage of this sub.

Honestly, given that jaw clearance comment, I'd love the opportunity to prove you wrong, and if you don't like it, I gotta'nother option for ya

I have never had a blowjob but I agree because I have a fleshlight that is supposedly imitating blowjob experience and it sucks

Am I the only one to never had a bj in my life ? 😥

I used to have a dick and I completely agree with you. They are great fun to give though.

Are you circumcized? BJs might feel mid 'cause your glans is too desensitized.

The best part isn't when it's happening...it's just afterwards if they know good headplay.

Hard disagree. (pun intended)

There's so much more a tongue can do than other areas of a person's body.

Blowjobs are just kind of okay. I agree on the fact that they're often/always bite-y if they're trying to get more than a third into their mouth. I've had exactly two orgasms from blowjobs in 30-odd years of experience. I got very, very close a third time.

On the other hand, tying your partner up and face-fucking them while they choke and gag is pretty goddamn amazing, even with teeth. (Yeah, I'm a little sadistic; thankfully my partners after my ex-wife, including current, have been at least a little masochistic.) Pro-tip: quit before they vomit, both because that's unpleasant, and also because they usually want to stop after that point. I haven't orgasmed that way, but oh my god, so worth it.

Over overrated.

based on the answers this seems to be the most unpopular opinion I have seen :-DDDD - I got tired reading but didn't find one answer supporting it

Not for you. That's fine.

Most people seem to disagree with you. I'm interested in hearing from those who agree.

Have to agree, they're meh. Appreciate the gesture, but I prefer different things.

Downvoted because I agree, mostly. 69 were they only use their tongue and don’t try to suck your whole body out through the urethra, is pretty fucking great.

Yeah, I have no strong opinions about receiving blowjobs. I've always preferred eating pussy, to be honest. I could eat box for days.

So a straight bj is 5/10 but a hummer is 10/10? You got a peculiar dick my friend

Hello fellow male

Women LOVE a big one but it don't work for oral.

I've had a few great BJs, a bunch of okay ones, and a couple I stopped in the middle. No matter how good, I can take them or leave them. I don't miss it when it doesn't happen, and I've never outright asked for one.

As someone that's never had one, I agree and support this man

I imagine that in the days before ubiquitous and accessable contraception, blow jobs were more valuable in being a way of having fun without worrying about getting pregnant.

Except for that one person maybe....

Although she was very fine, the other girls were joking with her about vampires. Well, she had pale skin and those quite long, pointy, rasoir sharp teeths !

Nothing turns me on more than the sound of someone trying not to vomit…. /s