Girls...get a wand

6 days ago by Miisha ♀️ to c/mtf

No I'm serious. I bought mine about a year before starting HRT. It was about 20$, not a real Hitachi one (the picture is the one I have). Even back then, it became my only way of finishing. Not because I couldn't, back then, but because doing it the "standard way" (ew) was and still is very dysphoric for me. Also, using a wand is just affirming? It feels that way at least. It was legitimately one of the best purchases ever.

Now that I'm actually on HRT, it's literally the only way I can finish. Doing it the other way is just dysphoric af for me and also it literally hurts, because the skin is thinner and more sensitive now. I cannot finish that way, no matter how long I try for...I just end up hurting myself, so I've given up on that method a looong time ago. Also, I may be wrong, but I'm at least 90% sure that the wand is one of the reasons I can have long, full-body orgasms. Vibrations feel gooood lol

I didn't think it would work on me (pre-OP) when buying it. Well...I was pleasantly surprised 😆. I'm almost convinced that a magic wand will work well for anyone, regardless of gender identity or anatomy. I really, honestly think that.
So please...no matter if you're a woman or a man (or NB!), cis or trans, on HRT or not, pre-OP, no-OP or post-OP...get yourself a wand. It's the best investment I've ever made in my life, no joke 💜

load all comments
NerdyNeko90 14 points 6 days ago

The real one is worth it for the build quality. I have 2.. lol

path: 0 26200925, hotness: undefined, score: 14, children: 4
Miisha 8 points 6 days ago

I totally believe that. I'm planning to get a corded one in the future. No charging and it's also cheaper than wireless.
Mine is wireless, and the battery only lasts like two hours and I take a looooong time to finish 😭

path: 0 26200925 26200994, hotness: undefined, score: 8, children: 3
Seralth 4 points 5 days ago

The detachable cord ones have a tendency for the port to break cause of the vibrations.

Get corded. Trust me... I speak from experience.

path: 0 26200925 26200994 26216099, hotness: undefined, score: 4, children: 2
NerdyNeko90 2 points 4 days ago

Huh, I have yet to run into that. I got the one with the detachable cord after my cat was about to chew on the original cord version.

path: 0 26200925 26200994 26216099 26233112, hotness: undefined, score: 2, children: 0
mtf
mtf

@lemmy.blahaj.zone

login for more options
5879
1320
1532

A community for transfeminine people and experiences.

This is a supportive community for all transfeminine or questioning people. Anyone is welcome to participate in this community but disrupting the safety of this space for trans feminine people is unacceptable and will result in moderator action.

Debate surrounding transgender rights or acceptance will result in an immediate ban.

  • Please follow the rules of the lemmy.blahaj.zone instance.
  • Bigotry of any kind will not be tolerated.
  • Gatekeeping will not be tolerated.
  • Please be kind and respectful to all.
  • Please tag NSFW topics.
  • No NSFW image posts.
  • Please provide content warnings where appropriate.
  • Please do not repost bigoted content here.

This community is supportive of DIY HRT. Unsolicited medical advice or caution being given to people on DIY will result in moderator action.

Posters may express that they are looking for responses and support from groups with certain experiences (eg. trans people, trans people with supportive parents, trans parents.). Please respect those requests and be mindful that your experience may differ from others here.

Some helpful links:

Support Hotlines:

  • The Trevor Project // Web chat, phone call, and text message LGBTQ+ support hotline.
  • TransLifeLine // A US/Canada LGBTQ+ phone support hotline service. The US line has Spanish support.
  • LGBT Youthline.ca // A Canadian LGBT hotline support service with phone call and web chat support. (4pm - 9:30pm EST)
  • 988lifeline // A US only Crisis hotline with phone call, text and web chat support. Dedicated staff for LGBTQIA+ youth 24/7 on phone service, 3pm to 2am EST for text and web chat.

go to feed...