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Girls...get a wand

6 days ago by Miisha ♀️ to c/mtf

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No I'm serious. I bought mine about a year before starting HRT. It was about 20$, not a real Hitachi one (the picture is the one I have). Even back then, it became my only way of finishing. Not because I couldn't, back then, but because doing it the "standard way" (ew) was and still is very dysphoric for me. Also, using a wand is just affirming? It feels that way at least. It was legitimately one of the best purchases ever.

Now that I'm actually on HRT, it's literally the only way I can finish. Doing it the other way is just dysphoric af for me and also it literally hurts, because the skin is thinner and more sensitive now. I cannot finish that way, no matter how long I try for...I just end up hurting myself, so I've given up on that method a looong time ago. Also, I may be wrong, but I'm at least 90% sure that the wand is one of the reasons I can have long, full-body orgasms. Vibrations feel gooood lol

I didn't think it would work on me (pre-OP) when buying it. Well...I was pleasantly surprised 😆. I'm almost convinced that a magic wand will work well for anyone, regardless of gender identity or anatomy. I really, honestly think that.
So please...no matter if you're a woman or a man (or NB!), cis or trans, on HRT or not, pre-OP, no-OP or post-OP...get yourself a wand. It's the best investment I've ever made in my life, no joke 💜

Bougie_Birdie 17 points 5 days ago

Witchcraft 101: everyone needs a wand

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They actually do give good massages too, especially in those hard-to-reach spots if you don't have someone around to do your back for you.

Fun fact: Hitachi almost killed the magic wand because they thought accidentally inventing the world's most popular sex toy would reflect poorly on their brand

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Miisha 5 points 5 days ago

LOL!

They actually do give good massages too

They do, funnily enough. Great on the back and shoulders!

Fun fact: Hitachi almost killed the magic wand because they thought accidentally inventing the world’s most popular sex toy would reflect poorly on their brand

Yeah, I heard. This is probably racist but...that's such a Japanese thing to do, lol /s
I'm glad they didn't kill it. It's a miracle toy

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Seralth 6 points 5 days ago

If you ever have a stuff nose having it on low power between your eyes.

Your sinus will never be clearer mid cold.

It's a god send.

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Miisha 3 points 5 days ago

Waow...that's not what I expected when making this post 😂
That's umm...creative...yeah. I'll give it a try if I ever get a cold! Thanks ❤️

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glitchdx 3 points 5 days ago

It was so bad that Hitachi Pro Tools rebranded to Metabo in order to continue selling tools.

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NerdyNeko90 14 points 6 days ago

The real one is worth it for the build quality. I have 2.. lol

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Miisha 8 points 6 days ago

I totally believe that. I'm planning to get a corded one in the future. No charging and it's also cheaper than wireless.
Mine is wireless, and the battery only lasts like two hours and I take a looooong time to finish 😭

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Seralth 4 points 5 days ago

The detachable cord ones have a tendency for the port to break cause of the vibrations.

Get corded. Trust me... I speak from experience.

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Miisha 3 points 5 days ago

Aha, I see. That makes sense actually. I was going to go for corded anyway, no matter what. Thanks for the info! ❤️

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NerdyNeko90 2 points 4 days ago

Huh, I have yet to run into that. I got the one with the detachable cord after my cat was about to chew on the original cord version.

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Entertainmeonly 10 points 6 days ago

Maybe I'm not using them right but they don't work for me. My toys are none vibrating. They do all have suction cup bottoms though... 😏

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Miisha 7 points 6 days ago

Omfg, I just got hit with the MASSIVE YMMV that is life, lol. I'm sorry to hear they don't work for you!

Also, suction cups are amazing! Being able to prop them up on walls, having fun anywhere...it's amazing!

NSFW, TMI

My favorite is mounting a toy on the shower wall and just totally going for it, fucking myself silly with a silicone dildo. I used to do it a lot!
Just something about getting penetrated in the shower is extremely hot to me. It's even better with a partner! 🤭
Getting bent over against the shower wall and railed hard is probably one of my favorite pastimes. Well...any wall works, really 😆

Also, if you're just using a wall-mounted toy, hearing the sounds of your wet, fat ass slapping against the shower wall is just...affirming? Strangely enough? At least, that's my case. And the slapping sounds different now, better. That definitely means my butt got bigger! Definitely :3

And you can also turn on the warm water and feel that on your skin while going at it! Omfg, showers are the best place for sex EVER 🩷

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Entertainmeonly 4 points 6 days ago

Haha, I've definitely had shower fun often enough. Lately I've been turning my wood chair around and using the back as a lever to rock the chair up and down on two legs. That can get intense 😅

Also, i have a tall bed so it's near perfect to get bent over on.

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Miisha 2 points 5 days ago

Lately I’ve been turning my wood chair around and using the back as a lever to rock the chair up and down on two legs. That can get intense 😅

I believe you. Sounds like good fun :3

Also, i have a tall bed so it’s near perfect to get bent over on.

YES
On the bed :3
Anywhere really...getting bent over is the best 🩷

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minty 7 points 5 days ago

Only problem is they're so LOUD. At leaat the one i have is. So can only use them when parents arent home and I am. Which is like never.

I am looking at the quieter bullet vibrator lol

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Miisha 5 points 5 days ago

They definitely are pretty loud, lol. But is it worth it? Absolutely

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OryxAndCake 3 points 5 days ago

I have this one by Fun Factory and it's super quiet but just as powerful as the Hitachi wand it replaced.

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irotsoma 7 points 6 days ago

I love mine. I have a Hitachi cordless. It just vibrates way better, more thump and less buzz than others and it's durable and the battery last a long time still. I had bottom surgery before I started using one though. I had some complications and lost most of my clitoral tissue, so it is one of the only things that can get me off these days.

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Miisha 4 points 5 days ago

Damn...I'm really sorry to hear about your complications. That sounds really rough and losing most of your clitoral tissue...holy shit girl 🥺
I'm glad the wand works for you, at least...

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Nouvellalia 6 points 6 days ago

Get the real one from a reputable seller. I can imagine with the price tag and ease of getting a similar shell, these are frequently counterfeited. So go to a long lived Internet toy shoppe with a good reputation.

They never go one sale because of agreements with the resellers. So if you see one on sale past the usual price tag ($129, $149? I don't remember) it's not real.

The cordless lasts 4 hours and can be used plugged in. I would highly recommend that one. I used to have ye olde, branded, 120v, mains powered beast, and the cordless is just as good.

It fits great in a curling iron bag.

Work up something to cover the buttons if you're throwing it into a backpack. There is no way to disconnect the battery without a screwdriver.

The only downside is that they are not waterproof.

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Miisha 3 points 5 days ago

I'm planning to get one! Once I have the money, that's what I'm getting. I'm totally getting a corded one tho.

It fits great in a curling iron bag.

LOL, that's such a girly thing to do tho, hiding your magic wand in your curling iron bag 😂
No offense, I respect and understand that.

The only downside is that they are not waterproof

Nyooooo 😭

Thanks for the recs! 🩷

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