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Gaming posture rule [CW: slightly transphobic, CW: references to cross-dressing]

5 days ago by Miisha ♀️ to c/onehundredninetysix

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EggInDisguise 19 points 5 days ago

Me then

Vs

Me now (minus the extra set of hands 🙃)

(ps I don't find the post problematic, although I understand the other users' pov and agree making trans people inherently sexual is an issue, I don't agree this post in particular is doing that)

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Miisha 7 points 5 days ago

Me then
Vs
Me now (minus the extra set of hands 🙃)

You know, kinda 🤣

I understand the other users’ pov and agree making trans people inherently sexual is an issue

Yes, I totally agree! It's bad and dehumanizing and just plain wrong. I hate it when people do it and don't have any tolerance for that kind of sentiment. I was just making a dumb and horny post...

I don’t agree this post in particular is doing that

Thank you 🩷

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EggInDisguise 8 points 5 days ago

Less "helping hands" and more "I'm dressing up more fetish-y today and breaking out the toys" for me but the sentiment is there either way 😜

Hornypost away, and don't feel bad for having fun with something!

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Miisha 5 points 5 days ago

Thank you girlie 🩷
Not like I can stop anyway, too much prog in my blood 😂

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EggInDisguise 4 points 5 days ago

Lmao don't break your boyfriend!

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alapakala 5 points 5 days ago

I need help. Can someone help me hold my hips like in :green_verify:?

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Miisha 2 points 5 days ago

Omfg stahp, now I need that so bad 😭

Having your hips held like in that position, at least for me, is one of the HOTTEST things EVER! No exceptions!
The thrusting is pretty good too, ngl :3
I love that position so much. Really anything from behind is my favorite 💜

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alapakala 2 points 5 days ago

Need missionary for gaming buddy to hit my player-spot.

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Miisha 2 points 5 days ago

Truee...but also, it's too romantic 😭
I like the raw, primal feeling of rough sex from behind. It's just literally heaven ❤️

And yes, I'm totally saying I'd want my potential gaming buddy to bend me over something lol. Hand on hips, cock inside, deep and hard thrusts, pulling my hair...all the good gaming stuff :3

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theuniqueone 4 points 5 days ago

Uh prefer under the desk this interferes too much in the game.

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Miisha 3 points 5 days ago

Yesss, under the desk is good :3

Under the desk is best, actually. Being someone's oral support, distracting them from their game with pleasure...it's fun ;3

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orioler25 0 points 5 days ago

I mean, I get it's a (one of many) horny post, but yeah if you're gonna mention it, the whole "t-femme gamur gurl fuckmeat," bit is like, way more than slightly transphobic.

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Miisha 5 points 5 days ago

the whole “t-femme gamur gurl fuckmeat,” bit is like, way more than slightly transphobic

It definitely is, not denying that.
What I think this meme is tho is not even about trans people. I think...and I'm probably wrong, but I think it's just a cross-dressing reference. Which somehow didn't seem as transphobic to me, let people cross-dress however they want to.
But yeah, this (I hesitate to call it this) subculture you mention is actually transphobic, degrading and dehumanizing af. It's just a dumb hornypost, sorry...

...now with that out of the way...I totally wanna be someone's fuckmeat :3 /s

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orioler25 4 points 5 days ago

Yeahhh I don't think there's some very positive implications for trans women if we accept the concept of feminized "male" bodies as inherently sexual objects, and then normalize their subordination for the funny hahas.

Yeah though I get the like, underlying hornypost intent.

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Miisha 4 points 5 days ago

I'm...sorry, I guess? I wasn't implying any of those things you mention here, or at least I wasn't trying to. Wasn't trying to offend anyone, just being my usual dumb hornyposting self.

I guess you're right.

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orioler25 -2 points 5 days ago

Yeah no I get it; you just mentioned it in the title, so I felt it would be useful to point out why this actually is transphobic, or at least reflective of transphobic culture.

If we expected all trans people to purge their internalized misogyny automatically, we'd be here all day.

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