You don't suck, and you're not the worst! You're not taking up space, you're included in the space. You're wanted and loved.

Also, that sounds like a lovely evening, I hope you enjoy!

mmm pizza :3

seriously though i want you to know how nice it is that you take up space here. it might not seem like it from my posts but i have a lot of social anxiety and self doubt that makes posting really hard sometimes. seeing you here being genuine and sharing your inner thoughts makes it seem like i could too, like its ok to be visible and engage with people. you definitely dont suck and im really glad youre here.

You are not taking up space in this community Miisha, not at all. You are welcome here. This community is here to support you as much as every other transfeminine person. Your presence is not detrimental, it has been enriching. My decision to add a rule about labeling vent posts was not motivated by any one person. It is a choice I have made after a long time moderating this community and listening to a lot of feedback.

I have been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder before. I have dealt with severe bottom dysphoria, severe depression, self harm, suicidal ideation, intense highs and lows, ive dealt with these things all my life. Believe me when I say this, I very very strongly empathize with you. You are not alone. My heart goes out to you. I'm glad that we can be here to support you.

I also want to chime in to say, that we love your presence here :>

You definitely don't suck. Thank you for not going through with anything, and if you can I think you should look into what you can do to get help. Enjoy the pizza :)

This conmunity can handle good times and bad times. Like any good relationship. Listen to the people here, and don't forget you've made them open up about their bodies and desires, and sometimes even the sad things in life, which is all healthy. You'll make it and you deserve every kind word 💜

you are not the worst, I've met worse. You are going through it for sure but that doesn't make you a bad person.

You should take up space here, makes it feel more cozy. You're not bad or the worst and you are welcome and you also don't suck <3

I'm glad you recovered a little, enjoy your Pizza!

Hey, I'm just a random guy who stumbled over some of your (quite popular) posts during the last week and a half and every time, they moved me in some way. You've made my days better by being on Lemmy, made me smile, laugh, horny and sad. Which, for a guy in depression, having problems feeling anything... From the bottom of my heart THANK YOU!

I don't know you, I don't know what you're going through. But know, that you are part of a community, you are welcome and appreciated.

Normal is a nonsense term when applied to human beings; there's no such thing as a normal person and there never has been. You are You, as unique and different and beautifully weird as anyone else. Also the trans community is huge, there's plenty of space. Make yourself at home, I'm glad you're here.

Since we're on the topic of mental illness and you bring up being undeserving, I'll share something someone once told me that helped me think about what I deserve: there's a difference between deserving something and being entitled to it, and people often conflate the two terms. Deserving kind words means you are worthy of receiving them, it has nothing to do with any obligation of others to give them to you. My words are my own to give to whomever I wish, and your deserving them puts no burden on me. They are given freely and gladly. You deserve kindness. I hope your evening passes with ease and comfort, and that the future brings you more good days and fewer bad ❤️

enjoy your foods and keep your chin up, youre a sweetheart and light this community up :)

You're very very welcome here Miisha ❤️ always.

I really like your posts, a lot of times I say to myself when I see a post that I think is yours: "Is this Miisha?" and find very funny that I get it right everytime, I'm sorry that you have to go into this weekly highs and lows, but if you enjoy it, please keep posting, you are part of this place :3

i have bpd and bipolar too... along with other stuff (major depressive disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, etc).. i definitively had to deal with similar depressive and spiralling episodes, like the one you've been describing.. but yeah, you're not a faiulre at all just for struggling.. and like, you will be always welcome here no matter what..

and like.. normality as a concept, is a subjective mess.. and also like, i'd rather be weird and abnormal if that also means, me being happy, free, full of energy and love, etc.. rather than complying with the cisheteronormative, patriarchal and overall bs society, where i was closeted and didn't tell anyone about me being transfem for years (while also being dead inside, due to the dysphoria and etc), until i finally got out of the closet in 2021 and started breaking free :3

but yeah.. you're not evil or whatever, just for struggling and just for not complying with what a bs society thinks is "normal".. we (as the community) will be there for you, if you need someone to talk to

anyway, i wonder what pizza flavor and style, did you order x3

It's ok to not be ok 🫂

We all struggle with something. You're allowed to take up space, vent your feelings, and lean on us for support. It's why we're here ❤️

We're glad you're still with us and that you're getting help

Miish...

I'm so glad you are here, you have every right to take up space in this community and others. You make it better here, with or without your problems.

I get that. I have the same kind of problem I feel. Although I'm lucky that it seems less severe.

And don't apologize for being yourself. You shouldn't have to. If you're suffering it's good to be heard. That's fine if you ever delete you account recreate it. I'll always love to see you comme back :3

I, for one, actually prefer the presence of other people who are fucked up like me as long as they don't lash out against me.