My go-to is to ask what they like to do in their spare time.

A lot of the time you’ll get answers about how they have none or how it’s filled with chores, but you can always redirect and say, if you suddenly had a bunch of free time just for yourself, and you couldn’t use it to work, what would you fill it with?

In my mind the latter gets you down to what brings them joy, and in some cases how they want to see themselves, which can tell you a lot about a person.

What music are you listening to at the moment?

Favourite bands can be divisive and sometimes people answer with what they think you want to hear. Current listens can be stuff you love, stuff you’ve discovered, stuff that’s catchy or stuff that’s a long term favourite.

What pieces of media influenced them the most.

Depends on the context you met the person. Say of it's a coworker, ask what got them into that line of work. This will reveal the motivations and interests, if any, behind their job choice.

You can ask something similar if you met doing some other activity ( tabletop rpg, kayaking, you name it).

Alternatively... You can ask what they do for a living and work from there.

If Superman got in a fight with a T-Rex, who would win?

I like favorites. If you think about it, each person has a favorite for most things. They've lived their whole life and have landed on say a single food or movie as their favorite. I think talking about those things can really give you some insight on a person.

And as a bonus you can get the chance to branch out. If anyone ever says X is my favorite movie and I've never seen it, I'll watch it. If it's someone's favorite it usually has something there worth experiencing.

When did you get your first Covid vaccine?

How many toes do you have.

You hungry? Cause im starving!

Vanilla or chocolate? That might tell you how much fun you'll have.