How often do you have sex?

3 years ago by RBWells to c/sex

Since it's so quiet here, why not a general question to get things started? How often do you have sex (however you define it) and how often would be your ideal? And any details you feel relevant.

We are mid-50s and the kids left at home are teens now so family responsibilities are eased (more free time) we average just over 1x/day, and my ideal is once or twice a day.

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sasygle 8 points 3 years ago

[M]y wife and I are mid twenties, live on our own. We have sex usually once a day a couple days in a row and then none for a week or two.

Both of us have reasonable libido but we're usually horny at different times of day so it just doesn't line up super well. The sex we do have is really good though.

I also masturbate daily and she does sometimes as well, though less often since we got married I'm told.

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RBWells 1 point 3 years ago

May I suggest compromising up, rather than down? Part of how we get it on so often is that if either of us want it, we try. So sure, in the early morning it's great for him, we do it. In the afternoon so much easier for me to get off but not him, but if I want it, we do.

Maybe she would be open to something like that?

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