Is it just me?

3 years ago by oh_so_hazey to c/memes

LlamaSutra 30 points 3 years ago

…for now.

Once you get critical mass it’s a race to the dumbest post.

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catboss 9 points 3 years ago

I am trying to get there, but so far I don't seem to be dumb enough. Please kick me when I make it.

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orclev 4 points 3 years ago

Would it help if we just started racing to comment "first" on every new post?

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MoreIronOre 2 points 3 years ago

Second

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manitcor 5 points 3 years ago

this is why small instances ppl

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celerate 21 points 3 years ago

I'm sorry, I'll try to be more violent.

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nutomic 4 points 3 years ago

This is the spirit!

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croobat 4 points 3 years ago

I beg to differ, but if you wish so I may try to throw you that chair, sir.

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testaccount789 2 points 3 years ago path: 0 144889 247907, hotness: undefined, score: 2, children: 0
Windshear 15 points 3 years ago

It's what happens with a small community. Interaction and discussion VS lowest common denominator humour for mass votes.

We all want Lemmy to succeed, but that only means that it'll turn back into reddit. It's the natural cycle of social media.

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possiblylinux127 7 points 3 years ago

Possibly but at least Lemmy is federated.

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oh_so_hazey 5 points 3 years ago

Come a day, we'll all end up back on Fark and the cycle will repeat itself.

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NewEnglandRedshirt 8 points 3 years ago

I told my gf, who I met on Reddit, about migrating from Fark to Reddit, and I'm trying to get her to join us here... but now she went and is exploring Fark, which is somehow still around, and I'm like you're doing it wrong!

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Fredselfish 1 point 3 years ago

What Fark? Never heard of that.

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bruzie 2 points 3 years ago

I was seriously considering going back to Slashdot.

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flambonkscious 1 point 3 years ago

I never knew what asinine meant until I used fark... It was educational in many ways, for sure.

I dunno, I think there's still some rose colored glasses going on

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gelouse 1 point 3 years ago

Oh God no...

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peeonyou 1 point 3 years ago

never again

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catboss 3 points 3 years ago

Thanks for the gold kind stranger?

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Kempeth 14 points 3 years ago

As long as you don't go into any post regarding the Ukraine war...

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cryptosporidium140 3 points 3 years ago
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MoreIronOre 0 points 3 years ago

I've read the term 'tankie' more in one week on Lemmy than in the rest of my life combined.

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cryptosporidium140 3 points 3 years ago
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Chainweasel 11 points 3 years ago

So far the people who were most likely to jump ship on reddit were those who were the most fed up with what reddit has become lately.
I just had my 10th cakeday on reddit about a month ago and I've seen a steep decline in quality for both posts and interactions for the last 4-5 years, with it accelerating in the last year or so. Those that never tried old reddit on desktop or a 3rd party app see no reason to jump ship for another platform, and a large portion of the rude commenters and trolls showed up after the new layout was default and reddit had their own official app in the app stores.
Reddit just filtered out most of the people that made the site what it was in the first place. If it was turning into a shithole before all the people that actually care about the site left, just imagine what it will be like in the coming weeks now that we're gone.

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oh_so_hazey 5 points 3 years ago

If it was turning into a shithole before all the people that actually care about the site left, just imagine what it will be like in the coming weeks now that we’re gone.

i don't know why this made me lol but it did

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hydra 2 points 3 years ago

it's going to rapidly become a poorly moderated dumpster and people will eventually stop visiting until it becomes a zombie forum

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sdrawkcabsihtetorwI 0 points 3 years ago
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Lemminary 11 points 3 years ago

Absolutely not. But I must say that I don't miss the toxicity at all. Being on the (liberal?) Fediverse has done wonders for my mental health. There's little tolerance for bullshittery and that helps foster a stronger sense of real community for a greater cause in my mind.

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name_NULL111653 5 points 3 years ago

I don't think it's even necessarily all the same political alignment, so much as it is that we're all united against Reddit and this corporate tomfoolery right now. It won't last forever, but in being united for a common cause, we've sort of achieved world peace lol. I'm a libertarian. I've seen us, republicans, democrats, liberals, conservatives, socialists, and everything in between uniting to discuss technology, bash Reddit, and work to build back our global communication forums. This is the progress in humanity that the internet's creators envisioned. This is unity and peace. It won't last forever, but if we can at least continue to respect each other (while holding different opinions), unite against those who show no respect or dignity, and continue to rebuild together, we have in my opinion bettered humanity for years, hopefully generations to come. Even expecting that this platform won't last forever - none ever will - we have learned through this to not take our open forum and free discussion for granted.

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catboss 2 points 3 years ago

Also there is (as of now) still far less shitposts and low effort commentary. I definitely won't miss the endless circlejerking either.

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Mir 10 points 3 years ago

Yeah, for now...

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hydra 10 points 3 years ago

Reddit has excessive bureaucracy and modbots who shadowban you for reasons as stupid as posting in a certain sub once despite never participating in the sub you got banned from.

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SOS 8 points 3 years ago

we need to introduce lemmy to the power of extreme violence

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aka_oscar 7 points 3 years ago

For now dun dun duun

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Micfoo 5 points 3 years ago

Give it time, we're all new to the party.

Once we're all comfortable we can argue like we used to.

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Grander 4 points 3 years ago

Hey fuck you man! I'm comfortable!

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Flukemaster 4 points 3 years ago

You can't tell me what to do! I wanna argue now

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Fredselfish 3 points 3 years ago

I'm ready lets do this thing.

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agentshags 1 point 3 years ago

Stop being such a shill for argument!

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Sokkahhplayah 3 points 3 years ago

Hey, fuck you!

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Grosboel 3 points 3 years ago

Enjoy it while it lasts. It probably isn't gonna be like this when more refugees have arrived.

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qprimed 2 points 3 years ago

federation makes the possibility of a sane lemmy experience much more real. we can all slink off to our own quiet (but still tightly on-topic) "slices/sublems/whatever" when the insane ones get too much. federation is the killer app.

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DonJefe 3 points 3 years ago

I don't know if the Lemmy culture is going to stay that way with the new influx of redditors

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electroskunk 3 points 3 years ago
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oh_so_hazey 6 points 3 years ago

It was either that or just get absolutely buried under the thousand other voices. I'm sure 80% - 90% of my comments were never seen.

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brainschaden 5 points 3 years ago

now you will be seen my friend

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die444die 2 points 3 years ago

Shhh keep it down yall.

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A_Toasty_Strudel 2 points 3 years ago

Yeah, people be chillin'.

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dusk 2 points 3 years ago
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Hagarashi8 2 points 3 years ago

Well, it's just feels like more close community, so it's just subconsciously feels better to be not too rough.

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ohellidk 1 point 3 years ago

gonna be a while until the place starts arguing and fighting like reddit did. just need some differing opinions mixed in, then BAM! I doubt it will be as bad since people aren't chasing karma as much.

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momentary 0 points 3 years ago

What's the deal with karma on lemmy, is there something that makes it much different from reddit?

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Flukemaster 2 points 3 years ago

No global count afaik.

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redonyo 1 point 3 years ago

The eternal September will come in due time

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southsamurai 1 point 3 years ago

There's a few slapfights here and there, but it isn't just you. I'm fucking loving the relative chillness of the feidverse as it is now. It's the internet, so there are assholes, and the bigger it gets, the base percentage of assholes will grow with it, but the learning curve is just the tiniest bit higher than reddit or facebook, or even twitter, so the worst assholes haven't decided to go through that yet.

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TheAnonymouseJoker 1 point 3 years ago
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gaytswiftfan 0 points 3 years ago

so far I've experienced a ton of whataboutism and really sus views/devils advocate type shit on here (lemme.ml) that makes me not want to browse. is there a better alternative that's not saying "why can't we all just have our own opinion ❤️🌈" on shit like genocide and anti LGBT culture

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BetaAssimilation 6 points 3 years ago

Beehaw has a strict no hate speech policy and the mods aren’t afraid to put their foot down when people are sort of toeing the line about being a terrible person. That’s my instance and I’m very proud of it and it’s mod team. Sounds like it would be a good fit for you, too. Also, even if you don’t get an account there, you may be happy hanging out on the communities they host. Here’s a link to the mods describing their philosophy. https://beehaw.org/post/107014

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gaytswiftfan 1 point 3 years ago

you're the second person to recommend beehaw! I'll switch over !! thank you ☺️

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golden_zealot 6 points 3 years ago

There are other lemmy instances which might work better for you than lemmy.ml in that case.

I believe the beehaw.org instance might fit that description, would recommend checking them out.

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manitcor 0 points 3 years ago

so many more instances, back when these were ISPs people would change to save a dollar, now that its free social media people are trapped?

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gaytswiftfan 1 point 3 years ago

I'm not sure what you're saying here?

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