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3 years ago by SteveXVII to c/196

So, how many of you are actually gay?

ImplyingImplications 34 points 3 years ago

If you mean gay as in homosexual: I'm not

If you mean gay as in happy: I'm not

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SteveXVII 14 points 3 years ago

As a bisexual, I often use the word gay to describe myself, so it isn't exclusively meant for homosexuals.

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Linuxduck 4 points 3 years ago

Same. I'm non binary, pan sexual... But I'm also gay af

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SteveXVII 19 points 3 years ago

I am bisexual.

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phuntis 7 points 3 years ago

same if we assume the people that moved over here from the sub are even demographics and no group was more likely to move then it'll be about 50% bi guys

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JVT038 5 points 3 years ago

Same

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AdaleiM 12 points 3 years ago

I'm het greyace 😔

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dsmaster7173 7 points 3 years ago

your heteromantic orientation is queer imo

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raspberry_confetti 5 points 3 years ago

Dude same

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thefloatingpoint 5 points 3 years ago

Excuse me, you are what? Hetero asexual but what is grey?

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AdaleiM 6 points 3 years ago

grey is like I'm unsure, I think? Used to be just plain ace but it's been changing the older I get.

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animelivesmatter 9 points 3 years ago

(gray? idk)aroace agender, so a lot of people would consider me to be "gay", even if I'm not really homosexual. Definitely queer, though

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Devonian 6 points 3 years ago

hello there other ace/grayace peep! nice to see ya :)

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GingerHobbit 5 points 3 years ago

Hey, found the aces what's up? I'm ace / pan romantic? (don't quote me on the second part)

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Dver 8 points 3 years ago

I don't really figured it out yet, but I'm (cis male) in a happy relationship with trans man, if it counts!

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merryGoose 4 points 3 years ago

I don't think you neccesarily have to have a label, as long as you're happy with yourself and your partner!

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AlexTheTurtle 8 points 3 years ago

I am so gay i like men, women and enbies.

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Gormadt 8 points 3 years ago

I'm not gay

I'm a polyamorous biromantic demisexual.

Or just Bi when the normies ask.

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lazy_digestive 8 points 3 years ago

:3

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SteveXVII 2 points 3 years ago

:3

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CoachDom 7 points 3 years ago

Cis straight but everybody should be themselves

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vinceman 7 points 3 years ago

I'm not gay, just deeply closeted.

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arp 6 points 3 years ago

I have no idea, frankly

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RayeRei 6 points 3 years ago

Bi i guess. But maybe not anymore idk i loose intrest in relationships after a couple weeks so I've stopped looking

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FriendlyGoose 6 points 3 years ago

Gay here

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danakongur 6 points 3 years ago

me me me!!

mostly at least

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Devonian 6 points 3 years ago

I'm ace/grayace, so definitely queer at least! But I haven't been in a relationship with anyone of the same gender, and I don't feel random sexual attraction to them or anyone, so... maybe? I'll see I guess!

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leamaya 6 points 3 years ago

Im poly and Omni (though heavily leaning towards the femme side), does that count as gay?

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SteveXVII 3 points 3 years ago

You tell me.

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Wispy 5 points 3 years ago

Am trans and pansexual ^^

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raspberry_confetti 5 points 3 years ago

All of us

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PaigePalisade 5 points 3 years ago

Yeah

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JackRiddle 5 points 3 years ago

Bi count?

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tara 5 points 3 years ago

Yes*

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amminadabz 5 points 3 years ago

🙋‍♂️

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magmaus3 5 points 3 years ago

am bi

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Lexica 5 points 3 years ago

I am a flaming dy**!

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merryGoose 5 points 3 years ago

:3

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OttoVonNoob 4 points 3 years ago

Cis White dude becoming middle aged soon:X.. But this community shares my values, humor and has always made me feel welcome on Reddit so it was natural to join here. Confused about 195 though?

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RomeCallen 2 points 3 years ago

aay me too!

tho i dunno if i believe in middle age

i think youre young until your not ;)

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bownage 4 points 3 years ago

Queer ❤️‍🔥

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donkeythesnowman 4 points 3 years ago

Guess

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SteveXVII 2 points 3 years ago

If only there was a hint in your profilepic or your username.

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SOS 4 points 3 years ago

im bi

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Unlix86 4 points 3 years ago

I'm not actually gay, I'm just bi and NB with a slight preference for NB

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ProbabalyAmber 4 points 3 years ago

Closeted transbian, so: very gay, but currently in a straight-passing relationship. My girlfriend is bi, so maybe one day we can be gay instead of pretending to be straight.

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Super_Stone 4 points 3 years ago

I am nonbinary

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I_like_cats 4 points 3 years ago

I'm a bi cis male currently in a gay relationship :>

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complicutie 4 points 3 years ago

poly bi non binary trans I think that's it

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Kaladin_Stormblessed 3 points 3 years ago

I’m trans and queer, but not exactly gay.

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sergio 3 points 3 years ago

Actually gay, as opposed to...?

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trips 3 points 3 years ago

Somewhere between 90% and the whole rainbow I imagine.

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Lux 3 points 3 years ago

Im panoramic and nonbiny

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henry 3 points 3 years ago

It's interesting how most of the answers are not just "gay" or "straight" but more complex, because it definitely is for me. I'm pansexual but definitely more into girls. And cis male but wishing I could be a femboy lol

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sharkfucker420 2 points 3 years ago

I'm bi but in a straight passing relationship. Most people don't know

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sharkfucker420 1 point 3 years ago

I also fuck sharks

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AllHailTheSheep 2 points 3 years ago

trans and gay :)

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NinjaFox 2 points 3 years ago

AMAB Ace Aro guy who is kinda genderfluid in training (help lol). Also in a poly triad so....am I gay?

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exohuman 2 points 3 years ago

I’m gay and married to the same sex. We have a kid too. I love our family.

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Gormadt 2 points 3 years ago

I'm not gay, I'm bi

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EnglishMobster 2 points 3 years ago

I'm a cis straight white male, but LGBTQ folks make the bombest-ass memes so I'm here for that tbh

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SubWoofer 1 point 3 years ago

I would love to kiss all the genders

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ssfckdt 1 point 3 years ago path: 0 209042, hotness: undefined, score: 1, children: 3
SteveXVII 1 point 3 years ago

What do you mean?

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ssfckdt 3 points 3 years ago path: 0 209042 211148 224117, hotness: undefined, score: 3, children: 1
SteveXVII 1 point 3 years ago

Ok.

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