LGBTQ+ parents are being removed from their children’s birth certificates in Italy

3 years ago by terkaz to c/world

The Prosecutor’s Office of Padova (Italy) has asked a local court to remove any same-sex non-biological parent on birth certificates, denying same-sex families the right to State recognition.
Lamhfada 208 points 3 years ago

Fascist governments got to fascist.

Targeting the LGBTQ+ population and eroding their rights and making it a focus during a time of an international cost of living crisis, is a tried and true practice of the right wing to hide their incompetence in governing and in matters of economy.

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Demuniac 110 points 3 years ago

Here's this thing that doesn't affect me at all in any way but I kinda think is weird, so let me crush the spirit of a minority that already gets treated like shit?

Man some people suck so much.

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Damage 34 points 3 years ago

It's all political, for all their talk about the traditional family, Meloni had a child outside of marriage, and Salvini is divorced.

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dylcarinc 101 points 3 years ago
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theceoofanarchism 33 points 3 years ago
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dylcarinc 19 points 3 years ago
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gerbler 17 points 3 years ago

Labour hasn't been a party of labour in decades. Sad times we live in.

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TheThemFatale 6 points 3 years ago

Labour is ultimately just Tories with different colour ties. Neither support LGBTQ+ people. Either way, we will suffer.

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Transcendant 2 points 3 years ago

Labour are walking a very, very difficult tightrope at the moment. Imo Keir has done pretty well at the balancing act. Of course I would love to see him put his head above the metaphorical parapet and shout about LGBT rights, but he must know full well that to do so right now is electoral suicide. The rightwing rags are just waiting for a chance to pounce and give him an 'Ed and the bacon sandwich' moment. Principles are worth nothing from the sidelines, I'm autistic so sometimes I see things very black-and-white, and to me this is a very clear case of having to suck it up and hold my nose, so we can slowly walk the country back to at least the centre, if not the left. We're not going to do that overnight and maybe not even in one 5-yr term.

The sad fact is, that our country has been radicalised by decades of ragsheet propaganda. We tried a 'proper' leftwing leader recently and the country rejected it, so I'm withholding my judgement until he's had a year or two in power. Unfortunately it's the least-shit option we have available right now (imo). The vast majority of the LP are decent people, with a few notable exceptions. The vast majority of the CP (ugh maybe that's a bad acronym) are insufferable, selfish, nasty bastards who're completely out of touch with the reality most of us exist in. I know which I'd rather be governed by.

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Aux -1 points 3 years ago

I don't think that Tories will go down. I live in Labour constituency and people here now are very anti Labour.

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wiz -2 points 3 years ago

If it's true that people vote for right wings out of frustration then the tables will turn again at some point because fundamentally most of the voting population have problems with unaffordable housing, low wages, poor healthcare, etc. and these problems are unlikely to be solved by a populist government.

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Syrc 5 points 3 years ago

Oh I can definitely believe that. Most Italians are very gullible and populism sounds way better than ideas grounded in reality. Not to mention her opponents all sucked and would rather split up in hundreds of parties rather than actually form a coalition and have a chance at winning.

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TwoGems 1 point 3 years ago

Rabbits

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rikudou 74 points 3 years ago

That's disgusting.

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Delta427 65 points 3 years ago

and then people ask me, an Italian, why I want to leave this country asap

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csolisr 44 points 3 years ago

Unfortunately, the places where you can go are an ever-decreasing list. Some Nordic countries, a few EU ones, that's about it. Fascism is growing into a majority in literally the rest of the world.

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Delta427 1 point 3 years ago

I also have a Swedish citizenship so I always thought of going there but now they also have a right government. the list is getting thinner. Also my job doesn't have that many good places I can ask a transfer too. too bad.

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Silviecat44 -35 points 3 years ago

Not really

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Fezz 10 points 3 years ago

It certainly is in Europe and is only going to get worse as resource wars intensify in Africa more will flee to Europe pushing the public to the right as their resources are spread thinner and thinner.

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floofloof 2 points 3 years ago

The USA and Canada are both heading this way too. Here in Canada the new leader of the Conservative Party of Canada, Pierre Poilievre, had been courting the far right, marching with their protests, being photographed with neo-Nazis and dropping constant dogwhistles. Polls show the Conservatives well in the lead, for the first time in a long while. People love their fascism, it seems.

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Squizzy 8 points 3 years ago

More neo liberalism but it's not all doom and gloom, progress marches on.

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Silviecat44 -9 points 3 years ago

A lot of people are being very hyperbolic

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Aux -43 points 3 years ago

Fascism is not growing anywhere. But a lot of "lefties" behave like fascists for sure, so people turn away from anything that smells left.

On the other hand, modern definition of left includes authorisation ideologies and regimes, so no wonder that happens.

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Bo7a 14 points 3 years ago

This comment is making it very hard to follow my personal lemmy rule which states that I should not just comment 'you are a fucking idiot'.

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pinkdrunkenelephants 6 points 3 years ago

We ought to ask the mod of this sub to just ban people like him on site and to stop giving hate speech a platform. That's what we really ought to do

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imPastaSyndrome 5 points 3 years ago

Please back up any of what you said with facts

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aeternum 1 point 3 years ago

The way italy is going, they're trying to be mussolini all over again.

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TwoGems 1 point 3 years ago

Rabbitszz

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cupcakezealot 61 points 3 years ago

It's almost as if the stated goal of dividing the LGB and the TQ so that it's easier to go after the LGBTQ is going off exactly like they planned.... :/

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Drivebyhaiku 2 points 3 years ago

Gods, Marriage equality was one of rhe biggest hurdles in Trans activism back in the day and one of the reasons for the banding together of the T and the LGB. It really is like watching progress undo in reverse chronological order.

History facr. Back in the before days you couldn't change your gender designation on your legal documents because people were worried that gay and lesbian people would use transitioning as a way to get around the marriage ban which was the major hangup. Same sex marriage thus made it possible for trans people to socially transition from a legal standpoint.

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blindbunny 50 points 3 years ago

Any historians care to explain why Italy jumps to fascism so quickly?

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PumpkinSkink 28 points 3 years ago

Not a historian, nor Italian, so double check me on this, but a big part of the "why" is that the facists were never removed from Italy. They've just been kind of allowed to fester since 1946. I mean, Germany didn't really get rid of their facists either, but the Italian facist movement was basically unscathed. Movimento Sociale Italiano (MSI) was founded in 1946 by Facists literally from Mussolini's party, and maintained relevance by making political alliances with other, more moderate conservative parties.

Some facists just straight up joined the Liberal parties. Fernando Tambroni, Christian Democratic Prime Minister of Italy for 116 days in 1960, for instance, was a Facist Party member during the war, and was quite the fan of Mussolini. The subsequent Prime Minister, Christian Democrat Party leader, Amintore Fanfani, who served five non-consecutive terms as PM, was also a member of the Facist Party.

In the 90s other facist parties, particularly Forza Italia, and Alleanza Nazionale were spun off from MSI and basically wore a better better mask, and managed to get Berlusconi, also a Mussolini Stan, in as PM.

We could continue doing pointing out facists in powerful positions in Italian politics, and we skipped the whole "decades of facist terrorism" thing, but really the reason Italy jumped to fascism is because it has been there the whole time, and has had power semi-regularly.

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Anonymo 1 point 3 years ago

How come most Italian names sound badass?

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cupcakezealot 21 points 3 years ago

Not a historian but their location makes it easy to scapegoat people so fascists can rise to power

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someguy3 20 points 3 years ago

Why does their location make it easy to scapegoat people?

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SocializedHermit 45 points 3 years ago

Edge of Europe bordering Africa and it's aspiring immigrants. Italy is often the first stop for immigrant boats, and on-shoring desperate people. All a right wing government has to do is point to those people and say how they are going to destroy everything you know. Rinse repeat, voila fascism.

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prole 8 points 3 years ago

Is it Italy? Or is it just humans?

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blindbunny 4 points 3 years ago

I choose not to believe that is humans natural path.

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Kinglink -10 points 3 years ago

You can deny it, but have you really thought about it.

Think about American Politics. "Well conservatives are just fascists." Sure, I mean there's the party that wants to control what people say, Cancelling them if they ever said anything they don't like. Want to remove all rights from people in specific parties, and mandate how others act at all times... and then there's the republicans which are also clearly fascists.

I'm not trying to say "Republicans are better than Democrats" they're not, they're clearly not. But Democrats aren't that good either. It's a problem with a desire to control others and when one party wins, they should feel they have a mandate to GOVERN but instead there's a feeling they have a mandate to RULE or CONTROL. Luckily most politicians are somewhat sane about this, but god damn, some of the die hards on both sides have lost their mind.

Power corrupts, and Absolute Power corrupts absolutely. That's kind of a fact of being human.

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possum 4 points 3 years ago

Can you give an example outside American politics?

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pinkdrunkenelephants 3 points 3 years ago

Democrats aren't the ones rolling back civil rights protections for women and the LGBTQ+ community, flying Nazi and Confederate flags, pretending hate speech and hate rhetoric are legitimate political opinions or beliefs, banning and censoring books that so much as talk about the LGBTQ+ community let alone support it, or hiding behind the first amendment to justify all of this while taking away first amendment rights for everybody else.

Nah, you the baddies, hun

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Damage 5 points 3 years ago

Italy had a strong communist presence since forever, after WWI fascism was supported by the elite to counter that, and after WWII it was supported by the "liberators", the US, for obvious reasons.

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DieguiTux8623 39 points 3 years ago

As an Italian, it's a cheap promise for politicians and it boosts consensus in a mainly conservative/catholic country. Removing minority rights doesn't cost anything in terms of money expenditure, which (unfortunately) is the only thing Europe is concerned of about what our government does. They are now attacking "alias careers" in education, and more to come.

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lasagna 25 points 3 years ago

How many world war losses before Italy cuts its ties with facism, I wonder.

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something_complex 8 points 3 years ago

Oh I live here, they won't. One of the most mamma's boy's type of culture, and I'm southern European too....

Here you still have shit like(specially in the small cities). If you are gay, you find yourself a wife and have a bunch of kids to hide it. I only know this because the parents of some friends that used to be REALLY close did it.

Dude that family is one of the most toxic shits I've seen regarding lying and bottling it all up inside. I could swear my friend is gay too, or at least like one guy mb a year ago....he won't ever come out until his parents and probably brothers die....

Shitty shitty facist exist and are made by this fucked up childhood and life.

Side note: They are cowards so wars won't kill them, they are the ones in fetal position refusing to move and crying if they where anywhere close to the front lines. Their cowardly manners will cost a lot to the ones that surround them. That I can tell you after spending a lot of time with them(more then I should have)

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GiddyGap 38 points 3 years ago

Looks like the motherland of fascism is moving back in time...

Not surprised with the new government.

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torezolid 33 points 3 years ago

Maybe I’m against the grain here but shouldn’t biological parents be on the birth certificate?

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AngryAnusHornets 68 points 3 years ago
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ashok36 48 points 3 years ago

If they cared about that, they would make a law that forces all newborns and their 'parents' to submit to a DNA test before issuing a certificate. This is just being done to make it harder for LGBTQ+ parents to have the same rights and responsibilities as straight parents. Not being named on your kid's birth certificate makes things so much harder when dealing with government programs and even enrolling in school or taking them to the doctor.

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bornyesterday 46 points 3 years ago

I imagine you think this because of medical things (heredity and all that) AFAIK It isn't used for such things, only for legal responsibility (adoption for instance would modify it), so in order to protect the position of those who actually raise the kid and the stability of their family, I don't agree with you. Not without changing the role of the birth certificate first at least

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Window 43 points 3 years ago

Mine does not, it shows my parents who have legal custody over me, they are not lgbtq+. That is what a birth cert shows, the people who have legal custody and responsibility for you.

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Aux -30 points 3 years ago

They definitely should.

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SavouryVegan 26 points 3 years ago

mah, their parents should be on there.

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Aux -46 points 3 years ago

On a BIRTH certificate? No! That will only lead to a lot of problems in the future for the unlucky kid. Imagine kid's bio parents have some hereditary disease and without them on a BIRTH certificate doctors will never know. No. Just no.

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FairlyConstantFox 64 points 3 years ago
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AngryAnusHornets 21 points 3 years ago
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CrypticFawn 31 points 3 years ago

This is horrifying.

God's, I hate fascism.

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Iteria 20 points 3 years ago

I had such a raw disgust reading that headline. I wondered what fucking state would do that. Then I got to the end. So Italy is just speed running to open fascism. That sucks.

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pinkdrunkenelephants 20 points 3 years ago

It's gonna get worse and they're gonna do more in other countries too, especially as climate change kicks in, everyone starves and they need someone to blame.

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Pregnenolone 13 points 3 years ago

Fascism moment

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misterwu 13 points 3 years ago

That's fucking terrible

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thisisme 12 points 3 years ago
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aliengenebk 11 points 3 years ago

This is horrible. :(

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randon31415 11 points 3 years ago

If they want the biological parents names, just do a DNA test on every baby. I am sure the upstanding straight citizens of Italy always know who the actual father is in every case and would be willing to submit that to public record.

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blindbunny 8 points 3 years ago

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Bismarck -11 points 3 years ago
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Blamemeta -12 points 3 years ago

Sounds like it's the law that's wrong, and the office and court are doing their jobs. This is on the lawmakers, and these guys aren't supposed to make their own laws.

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