Best vaginal penetration 10/10 - face to face angled so there is some stimulation of vulva too, that is the most physically pleasurable way to get off.

Best anal is just not hurting, maybe 5, not bad not great, it's only good if the guy likes it, and isn't too big - I had a partner hung long but not thick, it felt pretty good with him but:

Both? One guy in ass and one in vagina? So good. It does add to the pleasure in that situation, certainly. Like 11/10. But the one in the ass kind of still not the more active.

ETA: I also really like when guys prefer vaginal, like you do. Even if they like both, even if they are bi, if they get off easiest in the pussy and prefer it that is the hottest feeling.

What I miss is normal nudes, the subreddit. The place for unposed nudes to show different body types, anybody, no boners and no advertising for your paid site; with a "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all unless poster asked specifically for critique" comment policy.

Also nakedprogress. I miss the nonsexual nudes sites I guess.

Other than that, I don't think what else I want is possible, all NSFW sites are just guy driven with nearly everything for men's taste. That I don't think can be adjusted if the audience is overwhelmingly male.l, it's not a problem with lemmynsfw, just a state of the world thing.

I think it's going OK overall, growing slowly and organically seems the way to go.

I am a (heterosexual) woman and the only porn I really like is D/s stuff. Threesomes if MFM or MMf (2 dom bi guys, one subby lady) But video is least favorite media. Written stories > pictures > video.

In real life nothing is actually hotter than one on one, it's the gold standard. Plain ol sex is great. Everything else is good but mostly because it makes that plain sex afterwards so hot. But power dynamics works best for fantasy, always has and I guess always will.

The girl/girl stuff id imagine it's because we believe the women are actually getting off, and it's easier to buy in. I don't enjoy it though, so can't say for sure.

For original content: If you can't say something nice, don't say anything.

I'm a lady, and think that the expectation that men ought not be too emotional is absolutely damaging and unreasonable and am not sure how it still persists.

The second shift - get yourself a single dad, ladies! And a cleaning service for the biweekly bigger cleaning. I don't have that problem. We do each have half a second shift because that stuff doesn't go away, but it's shared, and I didn't need to explain that it exists.

Sexy - When a guy is really good at something and not at all cocky about it. That understated competence.

I am hetero, and it doesn't feel like a choice, at all. Sex only feels like sex when it's with a guy. I wish it were otherwise, honestly, men are troublesome and I think cause most of the world's problems (sorry, guys). My kids think I should be gay, too, it's funny. But what I affirmatively like about men, in particular?

Fit guys are so fucking gorgeous, men's bodies can be beautiful and so strong. And men in general are less hung up about their looks, and mine - they see what is good more than what is bad.

I like my partner to be bigger than me, at least as tall as I am or close, and that's much easier to find with a man. And I'm subby but sometimes like to fight back and with guys I know cannot win, I can let go.

The obvious - PIV feels oh so good, my favorite sex is just sex.

And I do like that we are different. I am not sure if I would be straight or gay if I was a guy.

On average maybe once a day? There just aren't as many good looking men wandering around, as there are good looking women. Maybe that is a selective brain thing but I don't think so. My bisexual kids and friends say the same thing.

Isolated body parts, no, not really. But when I see a guy around my age who has taken good care of himself and is hot, yeah.

Probably a pretty normal opinion for a lady, but based on the content here apparently an unpopular one on NSFW.

Stories > Non explicit stills > Explicit stills > Video

Video is usually the least sexy porn. Even if it's one I enjoy. It's almost an inverse relationship, the less work my own mind has to do, the less stimulating it is.

You can't "clean" away the bacteria that are healthy to have in your colon and unhealthy for your vagina. It's not just literal poop that's the problem. That's why we tell girls to always wipe front to back. What's in your urethra won't hurt your vagina (thank God, or PIV would be a nightmare) but what's in your ass can certainly harm your pussy or give you a UTI when it gets too close to that area.

Literally even ass to mouth is safer than ass to pussy.

Front to back is the correct skating direction.

Oh how I miss the threesomes we used to do with other guys. It's funny - literally the second time I ever had sex as a teenager was with a couple of bi guys and it is such a delightful arrangement. Straight guy MFM too, that is fun.

Alas, fucking HPV is a demonic virus when you get older and I was very lucky to clear it at all, and had to get part of my cervix burned off to finish the job. So monogamy it is, and each year I test clear.

I like questions on the ASKNSFW, when people ask for advice or ideas.

I'd like more written erotica.

More BDSM erotica, and I love the evocative pictures that portray power play or violence without showing it.

Small boobs != underage, and most places you can't get body piercings until you are of age. God I hate when guys think small boobs are underdeveloped. They aren't, they are small. They work the same as the big ones, same equipment in there, less fat.

Now do some posts play up the pretend underage thing? Yes and yep that's gross. This one isn't, though I do agree low effort post.

Luckily I have only to ask, to get some. We have a compromise up not down policy so if either of us wants sex we do it.

He says when I move back against him in doggy is what he can't resist, also telling him about guys I've done stuff with (real or imagined) is a slam dunk.

For me it's always been rough stuff, make me. That is the quickest.

No, actually. As far back as I can remember my first fantasies were about force, or giving up, power more than anything else. I early was able to orgasm, maybe 7 or so and really cannot remember any fantasies that did not involve D/s. It bothered me for a long time as I thought it some sort of immature sexuality, thought I needed to grow into my adult woman sexuality and enjoy taking charge myself, that was what was shown as "sexy" in popular culture and when that never happened I was frustrated, felt stuck, and not sexy. Was around 40 when I figured out I never judged anyone else for their sexual preferences, and that I needed to give myself the same consideration, and found guys who liked sexual submissiveness, some guys are into that and not abusive at all. Also figured out that part of what bothered me was that I considered submissive as "passive" and that's not true at all either. I enjoy being active, just directed or forced. Even like fighting back and losing. It's not passive at all.

So basically no, but it's been a journey anyway.

I want to give perspective as an older experienced lady who has been structurally tight, then had kids, then had to do a lot of exercising and now am strong enough but not structurally tight. Have never (yet at least) had any issues getting slippery.

Worst of all is structurally tight. PIV was ok but kind of uncomfortable always, couldn't go for long (not a problem back then because my ex was a quick guy). It felt like my skin was stretching in an uncomfortable and slightly unpleasant way. There was drag, even when I was slippery.

Last baby was a ten pound bruiser of a newborn and I had to recover my muscle tone. But once I regained the muscle tone, oh yes. That's it. Flexible structurally (not tight skin) but strong muscularly is the best feeling from the woman's side. This is when I found I could get off from PIV, can go for longer and can enjoy bigger hung guys, who would have been a flat NO before.

What's funny is that this is exactly what my midwife recommended back when I had the first baby. She said to train until you can do fisting, that would prevent damage from childbirth and improve sex, and I thought she was crazy but if I could go back to 20 year old me I would tell her to take that advice.

First, be gentle with yourself. I think if you are marrying someone, you want them to know about all the aspects of your sexuality even if they feel neutral about some of them.

I think you will just have to straight up tell her one of your pleasures is posting pics online, first ask if she likes to do that herself, ask if she wants to see yours when you do. If you personally don't think you've done anything that crosses a line please don't borrow trouble. As long as you are ok if she enjoys the same, I think you are good. Sooner is better for this.

Oh, and I know you say that the relationship is more important than the kink, but you are a whole package. You can't be someone else, she is getting you. You say that embracing this side of your sexuality has brought you confidence, it must be important. What you are saying (I think) is that you don't need her to be enthusiastic and turned on by it, or directly participate, you can easily enjoy sex with her however she likes or needs, and be satisfied and happy, that makes sense. But you do need her to love you for who you are.

This is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. Courtesy is sex offense? I can only imagine they seek to cheapen the term so that it means nothing, so that their legitimate offenses seem not as bad?

So annoying but makes it easier to screen out the onlyfans posts.

For every person making thousands, there are thousands of people making pennies, I don't think it's worth it. Hustling is such a drag, and to do that as your main source of income very dangerous.

No, I don't think it's looked down upon here, there are a lot of commercial accounts, for better or worse I'm not sure, but promoting seems to be allowed.

As a side job it might make sense but I'd strongly suggest (as a mom to lots of kids) finding a trade you can enjoy, if you don't want to do university. Electrician, barber, welder, mechanic - something skilled will bring in more money with less stress, and you are at a perfect age to start. Even working your way up at Whole Foods or Costco or some other good grocery, there are more jobs than you might think.