My wife flashing me when we're alone for a moment.

Get a kinky hobby and then join your local community. For me it was bondage. Go to meetings, get to know people (emphasis on people). When you pass the vibe check you should get invited to parties. During all this you should be able to get to know enough people who are DTF.

Not exactly a pickup line. But at a bondage event I asked this woman if she would like to tie me up. She answered that she was actually looking for someone with tits. I pointed at my ugly manboobs and said that I've got some. And that sealed the deal.

Another event, same woman, same start, I asked her to tie me up. Again she declined, stating the she was waiting to tie up [same first name as me]. Again I just had to point out that I am [first name] and we got on. She literally took my breath away. It was awesome. Ended up double teaming me with another domme.

Harem Hotel, but only as the main character!

Water levels are much lower in Europe.

Not about sex with trans women, but generally about fantasy vs reality. Sometimes things seem great in fantasy but are boring or mundane in reality. And vice versa.

For me (other people's experiences may differ) some examples are:

Cell-Popping. You heat a needle white hot and hold it over your or your partner's skin to make the skin cells quickly heat up and burst to create a small superficial wound. Do that in a line or so and you can draw little pictures. It usually doesn't leave scars so it only lasts for a few days.

I thought it would be super hot. To mark my partner and be marked by them. To endure the pain.

In the end it wasn't super painful. And sure, the pictures looked nice. But it wasn't really anything special over just using a pen to doodle something.

On the other hand there was mummification. Encasing someone in seran wrap for example. I thought it would be boring because you could just lie there and do nothing.

Super wrong. It's intense. When you also wrap ears and eyes you are completely gone from the world. You lose all track of time. It's almost like being weightless because the wrap also cuts off all feelings from the skin. If you then get just the slightest sensation from your partner, like a touch or a kiss, it is magnified a thousand fold.

Once mummified a girl at a private party. And while she lay there our pizza order arrived and everyone was aflutter with sorting out payment and who got what and she didn't notice a thing. We brought her back gently and slowly and when she was somewhat coherent presented the pizza to her. In her words: "Best. Aftercare. Ever."

There's so much you can do to connect with someone, even with clothes on.

Wouldn't a swinger club offer what you're looking for?

Or as we in Europe call it: Driving

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How many sharpies can you fit?

Do you have any kinks? Joining a sex positive community where people regularly meet in real life (like a munch) goes a long way. I've fucked more girls after joining the BDSM community with my wife than before I got married.

Mind you, you can't go in there with the expectation of sex. You still have to actually get to know people and make friends and such.

Probably busy with their perfect lifes.

I'm using Liftoff. It currently has a bug where it doesn't show NSFW posts in the community view. But everything is fine with subscribed communities.

And development is proceeding pretty rapidly and I think the dev(s?) even mentioned that the NSFW bug will be solved in the next version.

Ever been to a BDSM party? Half the people there are in IT. The other half in medicine. Every other profession is an outlier.

It might not be to your liking due to the BDSM-content, but the Sunstone comics are pretty good with consent and very sex positive people. Drama mostly comes from the normal relationships between the characters.

The meta-story is that it is an exaggerated retelling of the protagonists' real lifes and is thus relatively realistic.

Harem Hotel is nice. Sometimes the writing is a little rough but still interesting. The story is not finished though. I think the conclusion is at least two updates away.

I wish I could upvote you twice.

To direct people who find it on whatever site back to the source. It's an ad.

Not me, but I know a bondage instructor who pronounces "bondage" like you would in French.

I think if you're teaching something you should know the pronunciations. Didn't take long to find other stuff wrong with him. My wife and I quickly left and sought our education elsewhere.

Preferably I'd get a slave to hold it steady.