Found this in my college sociology book (Henslin 2007)

3 years ago by UnpopularCrow to c/196

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wrath_of_grunge 125 points 3 years ago

pic of the newly married couple

this was pretty bad. it was bad enough that even back then you had people pointing out how bad it was. it was so bad that various states passed laws so that it would be against the law, going forward.

the textbook's point is that even though this wasn't common place, it was somewhat taken for granted.

i can kind of understand somethings. like how it was probably far more common back then for people to be married by the ages of 15-18. i can get that. but the case of Johns and Eunice, it was shocking even then. that should tell you something.

that thing being that Johns was a pedophile.

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UnpopularCrow 44 points 3 years ago

I agree. It was certainly more common for child marriages but not that extreme. That guy was definitely a pedo. If you are buying your wife a doll for her wedding present you need to rethink your life choices.

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FlickOfTheBean 35 points 3 years ago

Ok, this may be wrong history but I could have sworn I saw some article a few years ago explaining that this marriage happened because it was the middle of the great depression and her parents couldn't afford to feed her or something like that.

Makes it worse, imo.

That said, was he a pedo? If sex happened then obviously yes, but I thought this marriage was a charity case more so than a "indulge a pedo who's interested in our daughter during the depression" situation...

I'm gonna have to go find that article at some point...

Edit: welp, I went looking for it, couldn't find it, so everything above this line may be bullshit, but based on the age she had her first child at, yeah I'd say that obviously counts as some pedo shit

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lightnsfw 5 points 3 years ago

Even if it was a charity case and he waited to fuck her until she was of age it's still grooming. They should have lynched this motherfucker as soon as he expressed interest in marrying a 9 year old.

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Soulg 10 points 3 years ago

Yes yes death is the only solution to anything bad

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kay 1 point 3 years ago

I've tried to get a pedophile to see a therapist. I can tell you from a pure harm reduction perspective a bullet is much more likely to be the solution.

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lightnsfw 0 points 3 years ago

It's the only solution to child molesters.

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UnpopularCrow 4 points 3 years ago

Interesting. That would certainly change the situation. Please post it if you do find it or DM me. I would be curious if that was the case!

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orcrist 3 points 3 years ago
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ReluctantMuskrat 16 points 3 years ago

My dad was born in Eastern Kentucky in 1916 so grew up in the same era and region. He knew a guy that married a 12 year old and the guy confided in him that the first day he came home from work after getting married he found his wife playing with a doll. He felt bad, and of course he should have.

Even that marriage was considered bad back then, and this 9 year old of course is about as horrible as can be imagined.

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Rhynoplaz 15 points 3 years ago

Maybe it's just unfortunate connotation with the phrasing but "these marriages were taken for granted" sounds like the author is saying that people didn't appreciate that they could do that back then.

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randomsnark 107 points 3 years ago

Apparently this was actually a pretty significant case, as it was publicised at the time and led to the creation of laws setting the minimum age for marriage at 16. Although, wikipedia claims he was 24 rather than 22. I feel like this suggests this wasnt really the norm at the time the way the textbook suggests. https://en.wikipedia.org/...

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blaine 37 points 3 years ago

There are only five sentences of text on that page, with the last one explaining that this sort of marriage was not common at all. Where did you get the idea that the textbook is suggesting that this was the norm?

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randomsnark 49 points 3 years ago

The second paragraph to the right of the photo talks about how our perception of these things changes with time, and while it seems shocking to us now it would once have been taken for granted. It was a big news story at the time and was not taken for granted.

Edit: I guess my wording was a bit off. I meant to say that it was not within the cultural norms of the time. As worded, it sounds like I'm discussing its frequency rather than its level of acceptance - that's my bad.

Intended meaning: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Social_norm

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fine_sandy_bottom 12 points 3 years ago

Given that the law was passed two weeks after they were married I think it has already been drafted and the whole subject was probably one of much debate. Also note three neighbouring states passed laws at the same time.

It seems likely that someone said "find a story about under-age marriage for our front page", and these two hapless yokels (or should I say Johns the hapless yokel) were the only ones stupid enough to have their photos taken.

In summary, I think society was working up to passing a law like this, and these two had a bride that was younger than most and got married at the right time.

That said, the author has definitely tried to imply that this sort of marriage was commonplace in the 30s, when it was probably at most "unusual".

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frezik 10 points 3 years ago

Maybe an example that gets the point across would be European royalty. When Mary Tudor was six, she was promised to Charles V of the Holy Roman Empire. He was 22, and they were cousins.

While that might not be typical of marriages in England at the time, there are certainly similar cases among the nobility until relatively recently. Enough to make the point about how cultural standards change.

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TheActualDevil 3 points 3 years ago

While it is suggesting it was common at the time, it doesn't outright state they're talking about that time. At earlier points in history it certainly was acceptable, but we probably don't have pictures of it to go in textbooks. This reeks of them having a general point to make and having a picture that almost fits that point. I've made more tenuous connections for college papers before.

Also, while it's not as drastic, I was doing some looking into family history recently and I found some ancestors who got married around that time. The marriage certificate listed the wife as 17 and the husband as 21... but the math didn't add up when I found their birth certificates and on the marriage certificate she was aged up from 15 and he was aged down from 22. It was in a small farming community and at that point in time and place schooling was largely abandoned during harvest and as soon as kids were old enough to help out on the farm full time they would just stop with school. And for women, helping out on the farm meant taking care of the house and raising kids generally. Time at school was a waste for them so they just got right to the adult stuff immediately.

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Jilanico 69 points 3 years ago

"...in 2017, Human Rights Watch pointed out that Afghanistan has a tougher law on child marriage than parts of the United States..." 😨

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/...

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barsoap 22 points 3 years ago

Make sure to insist on a honeymoon in Germany as over here marriages under 16 get auto-divorced (16-18 a judge will decide) and you have a solid reason for asylum.

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CoffeeJunkie 2 points 3 years ago
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CileTheSane 10 points 3 years ago

They're so fucked up.

That's the point. The fucked up place has stricter rules on this fucked up thing than places in the US.

That's fucked up

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jdf038 1 point 3 years ago

That was post-pre-taliban though (jfc typing that feels so dumb)

I'd guess it's worse in 2023 for Afghanistan now.

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m12421k 48 points 3 years ago

Did I read this wrong or the author is really trying to frame it as a cutesy normal thing?

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protist 73 points 3 years ago

I don't see that at all, seems like they're just pointing out how cultural norms can change over time, which is a basic tenant tenet of sociology

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fine_sandy_bottom 24 points 3 years ago path: 0 6328082 6328124 6328436, hotness: undefined, score: 24, children: 1
Rusty 2 points 3 years ago

Nolan really outdone himself in that movie

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m12421k 12 points 3 years ago

makes sense 👍

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academia_sucks1024 2 points 3 years ago path: 0 6328082 6343271, hotness: undefined, score: 2, children: 0
ULS -16 points 3 years ago

Idk that sounds completely American pride-ish to me... 🤮

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protist 36 points 3 years ago

To think child marriage is just an American thing is to ignore reality

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yesman 36 points 3 years ago

Textbooks can be wild. My A&P textbook had a graphic showing the difference between Caucasian, Asian, and SSAfrican skulls. I was like: what the eugenics?

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theUnlikely 35 points 3 years ago

Pardon my ignorance, but aren't the skulls often shaped a bit differently? If the textbook was just showing that and not saying something about one shape making a certain race superior, is that still a problem?

Different races will often have little differences right? My favorite example is the gene variant ABCC11 that is extremely common in South Korea. It limits the production of odorous sweat by reducing the activity of apocrine glands. I think it also affects whether ear wax is wet or dry. I'm kind of jealous of that one and am waiting for CRISPR to be available for it. Well maybe not, but I'd at least think about it.

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Nowsuiluj 4 points 3 years ago

I did not know that. I'm part Korean and my friend keeps telling me I always smell fine even when I'm camping for days. Always thought it was a myth though. Kinda cool

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theUnlikely 1 point 3 years ago

So lucky!

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TwinTusks 3 points 3 years ago

I do believe there are differences in different race of people, isn't there a small part in Africa where the population are best suited for running? However, there shouldn't be much difference in skulls by itself. All infants are borned with malleble skull until age of two or so.

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TheActualDevil 12 points 3 years ago

I remember reading an article years ago about a village that put out an absurd amount of Olympic long distance runners. The article noted that the village was on a high plateau and far from other places. The extreme difference in height led to better lung capacity and the normalcy of having to travel by foot long distances just raised a bunch of people who conditioned their bodies from birth to be adept at long distance running. None of it resulted in any major changes in population physiology as it's just training your body to deal with environmental conditions after birth and doesn't cause the mutations in the genome that would mark evolutionary changes.

I mean, obviously there are some physical differences between races. They look different, some have more prevalence of certain diseases or conditions, but races are entirely a social construct. Scaled out, the differences in races aren't more severe than the differences in variability in smaller groups within a race, or even a family. It's like, yeah, uncle Steve's side of the family all have kinda pointy ears because he passed that on to his kids but his brother didn't pass that gene on but they're still family. Zoom out and view all humans not as different races but one giant group and uncle Steve's branch all just have darker skin or straighter hair, but they're still clearly part of the human family.

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Shelbyeileen 19 points 3 years ago

We learned it in forensics and reconstructive cosmetology. The shape of the skull can often be used to determine race. I loathed having to list out the scientific names, because they're not words you say nowadays.

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Landless2029 3 points 3 years ago

In the American TV show BONES this was literally done every episode. It wasn't a race thing really it was presented in a respectfully "scientific" manner.

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Thcdenton 18 points 3 years ago

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buckwheat 14 points 3 years ago

Formerly Chucksville.

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AlfredEinstein 12 points 3 years ago

The problem with a pedophile marrying a child is that it's all downhill for the next seventy or eighty years potentially.

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boborhrongar 5 points 3 years ago
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antonim 11 points 3 years ago

Sneedville

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ohlaph 6 points 3 years ago

Which textbook?

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UnpopularCrow 10 points 3 years ago

“Sociology, A down to earth approach” by James Henslin, 2007.

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Ilovethebomb 1 point 3 years ago

1937 is surprisingly recent for this to be considered acceptable.

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JusticeForPorygon 4 points 3 years ago

According to some other comments, it wasn't.

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DannyMac 1 point 3 years ago
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