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bill_1992 60 points 3 years ago

Some of y'all getting angry need to look at yourself in the mirror. The whole point of federation was to allow communities to do things like this if they want.

A lot of new people are going to see this mudslinging and rightfully turn around. Nobody is coming to Lemmy to see drama between instances.

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smartman97 14 points 3 years ago

I thought the whole point of federation was that everything from every federated instance was connected and I only need one account to see every part of it. The fact that federation has been the only discussion since the blackout is not good for the alternatives to reddit. My whole life is tech and if it's this distracting to me I can't imagine any remotely average user being interested. The fact that this was the perfect time to be part of an alternative but the whole experience has mostly just proven reddits "give it a week" response true.

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ParkingPsychology 24 points 3 years ago

I thought the whole point of federation was that everything from every federated instance was connected and I only need one account to see every part of it.

That was never going to happen, not even in the best possible case.

Far left and far right are always going to split off. Do you want to be having discussions about race with neo nazis? I don't. Let them go to their own dark corner of the internet.

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SQL_InjectMe 9 points 3 years ago

I thought the whole point of federation was that everything from every federated instance was connected and I only need one account to see every part of it.

No. If an instance hosts toxic communities then your instance can choose to defederate from it. You don't have to wait for the centralized authority to ban them. It's about being able to choose your admins and form a web of "good" communities.

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Noki 3 points 3 years ago

kbin is only live a month or so.... of course there will be problems and missing moderation tools - it wont be much better for lemmy.

There is no perfect time - some people will stay some will go back to reddit witout any change. thats a user thing not the fault of beehaw or the federation of servers.

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spaduf 6 points 3 years ago

I do think it's fair to criticize the decision to try to be one of the largest instances while only having four moderators. They should have accepted a place as a midsize instance with midsize communities in order to maintain their moderation goals. Or they could have worked to get more moderators. Blaming the defederated instances and mod tools seem disingenuous at best. That said mod tools undoubtedly need improvement.

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yozul 11 points 3 years ago

To be fair, they said the reason they were defederating from those two instances in particular is because most of their moderation involved people from them. They didn't expand beehaw beyond what they could handle, the rest of lemmy expanded beyond what they could handle. If this really is just a temporary measure, which is also what they said, then I think it's pretty reasonable.

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spaduf 2 points 3 years ago

That's because they defederated from the two largest competing instances. I'm talking about the communities users not the instances. The issue is that beehaw has the largest and therefore defacto default communities. The timing is bad and will likely affect wider adoption. The biggest problem is that it is entirely foreseeable and solved by either accepting a smaller community (closing signups) or improving moderation capabilities (getting more moderators or investing in an alternative moderation system) before it meant splitting the threadiverse in half.

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yozul 8 points 3 years ago

I'm not denying that it sucks, but if you'd told anybody this was going to happen a month ago they'd have just laughed at you. Of course they were unprepared. Everbody has more than they can deal with. Adding more mods isn't as simple as picking some names out of a hat, and this isn't a thing anyone was preparing for. There currently are no alternative moderation systems, everything is too new and until recently was all way to small for that to be important, and they just have more work then they can deal with trying to suddenly moderate all of the threadiverse.

This was a bad option that sucked, but every option was a bad option that sucked. I'm more concerned with how they deal with things as they normalize over the coming weeks and months than I am with how they're trying to put out the fires in the short term.

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surrendertogravity 3 points 3 years ago

The admins have always been clear that they’re not trying to replace Reddit, and I’m quite sure they were not trying to be one of the largest instances.

If they weren’t trying to get large then how did that happen? Based on admin comments, beehaw was one of the more active instances when the first wave of migration happened; and a decent amount of the pre-first wave posts about lemmy I saw on Reddit were about how Beehaw was a good instance to join as it was defederated from lemmygrad.

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spaduf 2 points 3 years ago

I'm not saying this has anything to do with replacing reddit but it is bad for the larger threadiverse community. Notably there were several other instances that closed registration for the purposes of not growing quicker than they could handle long term (see lemmy.ml). Beehaw has most of the largest (and therefore defacto default) communities. Active steps to avoid that would have allowed them to maintain their moderation goals while growing in an organic and sustainable way that benefits the larger threadiverse community.

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surrendertogravity 4 points 3 years ago

I was strictly replying to the part of your comment where you said they made a decision to try to be one of the largest instances – imo they did not make a explicit decision to try to be that, but rather the growth was a side effect of the circumstances around reddit users checking out the fediverse.

Is closing registrations is better than having an application with questions that weed out low-effort users? IMO it’s probably a wash. beehaw has only banned one user from the local instance that I know of, so the application process seems to be working overall. The issue is that other instances are growing too quickly and needing to moderate those users, not their own.

I do agree this isn’t great for the threadiverse and I wish it hadn’t come to this, both on a personal and community level. I was subbed to the knitting community on lemmy.world, it was the most active of those communities that I saw, and now I’m locked out. Idk if I want to move to an alt on a different instance, or self-host my own so that I’m fully in control of what I can see, or what. :S

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Cylusthevirus 1 point 3 years ago

I mean some people absolutely do love and feed on drama, but is that who we want to attract? They're not the nicest bunch to have around in my experience.

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eta_aquarid 1 point 3 years ago

exactly this; the whole point was so instances could pick and choose who they wanted to interact with

I'd always heard that federation was good because if you get an instance infested with fascists, you (and everyone else who doesn't want anything to do with them) can just cut that instance loose and let it drift away

I guess others thought different?

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BaroqueInMind 34 points 3 years ago

This simply solidifies my opinion that I've had all along that Beehaw is a trash instance full of sensitive censor-happy ninnies and I hope they all resolve the issues they are having to eventually be finally free from trolls and assholes in their humble & beautiful walled-garden paradise echo chamber. All the best for them.

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bill_1992 58 points 3 years ago

Isn't the whole point of the fediverse that you get to create and craft your experience for your community? There's a really good reason defederating is a feature. I don't get it, Beehaw decides to use the features of federation so now we: firstly become tribalistic (them vs us), and secondly decide to get angry? Like it or not, this is what you signed up for when you wanted federation.

I don't see the point of getting angry like this, and really don't see how this negativity being conducive to a thriving community. Some new people are going to explore fediverse, see tribalistic mudslinging among instances, and say "not for me."

I'd say respect their decision and move on, if it's not for you it's not for you.

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zalack 23 points 3 years ago

Yeah, they're saying "look, we only have four mods, have a highly targeted type of community we are trying to build, and have had to disproportionately moderate users from these instances" which seems reasonable on it's face.

That's kind of the beauty of Lemmy/Kbin right? You can spin up an instance with whatever rules you want. I think people are reacting to the fact that during the Reddit exodus Beehaw kind of looked like a "default" general instance, including me.

But that's a misreading on our part, not them going back on that.

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BreadDog 14 points 3 years ago

Its both a value add and a negative. For those more focused on their own community (Like beehaw) it's an obvious positive. But for many users, losing access to certain communities on your own instance of choice is going to be a negative. I personally don't blame Beehaw for favoring the former. I think improved moderation tools and more granular federation would at least make the move less of a blow to users.

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SemioticStandard 12 points 3 years ago

Absolutely. It’s disappointing that this person read a post made by the Beehaw admins that was written with nuance and grace, and then decided to respond with vitriol. That’s exactly the kind of attitude that is so prolific on Reddit, and I am happy to leave it behind. Thank you for your reasoned reply.

OP, I encourage you in the future to choose grace.

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Ski 6 points 3 years ago

This kind of post right here is the gold standard for why I chose Kbin over other instances. Well reasoned, free of vitriol, and looking to build a new culture outside of the one a lot of us left behind on Reddit.

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BaroqueInMind 2 points 3 years ago

Vitriol is a strong word to describe what I said about Beehaw. I do not hold a bitter spite to what Beehaw did, in fact I understand and accept their decision as prudent and appropriate for their community.

I simply hate how they act benevolent where the reality is the opposite; that their admins are legitimately overlords akin to a full-time power-abusing reddit moderator.

Regarding your comment that I need to act with more grace, my apologies. You are correct, I should be less aggressive in my opinions and will self-censor henceforth to protect and maintain the humility of the discussions that occur here.

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SemioticStandard 1 point 3 years ago

I simply hate how they act benevolent where the reality is the opposite; that their admins are legitimately overlords akin to a full-time power-abusing reddit moderator.

What do you mean by this? Do you have examples? Maybe you’re correct and I just haven’t seen it, but every example I’ve seen of them responding to something has been great.

Regarding your comment that I need to act with more grace, my apologies. You are correct, I should be less aggressive in my opinions and will self-censor henceforth to protect and maintain the humility of the discussions that occur here.

Don’t sweat it, brother. <3

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eta_aquarid 1 point 3 years ago

yeah, this is the weird thing; Beehaw's reasonings are incredibly reasonable, and they're not saying that the other parts of Lemmy aren't good enough for them, which is what I think a lot of people are getting mad at

that and thinking that they're entitled to access to Beehaw

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Noki 5 points 3 years ago

100% - the beauty of the fedivers is that everybody can chose to federatre OR NOT!

If people wanne follow beehaw they can switch server or even go to some other fedivers project and follow from there.

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eta_aquarid 1 point 3 years ago

Isn't the whole point of the fediverse that you get to create and craft your experience for your community? There's a really good reason defederating is a feature. I don't get it, Beehaw decides to use the features of federation so now we: firstly become tribalistic (them vs us), and secondly decide to get angry? Like it or not, this is what you signed up for when you wanted federation.

Yes, exactly

like we're not owed Beehaw's cooperation; it's their instance and if the users want to do this then that's their perogative

Regardless, this is being blown out of proportion; Beehaw outright said that this was temporary

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dan1101 47 points 3 years ago

Yeah I don't feel quite as harshly but as soon as I saw they didn't allow downvotes I knew their philosophy wasn't for me. Too bad about losing their gaming group though.

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Zebov 8 points 3 years ago

After reading that post, I'm actually pretty glad they're leaving.

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Captain_Wtv 4 points 3 years ago
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Noki 7 points 3 years ago

most of the fedivers has no downvote - please be respectfulll of the diferences.

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Captain_Wtv 1 point 3 years ago
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Arnl 2 points 3 years ago

I think you may downvote it but it won't be visible on their side.

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SQL_InjectMe 1 point 3 years ago

Like if you go to beehaw from another Lemmy instance you can downvote them.

the downvote doesn't register anywhere though

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DigiWolf 7 points 3 years ago

That's been my view too. There's definitely a need for moderation, but I've been on the internet for quite some time and the vibe from Beehaw is very much concerning. Any time I've seen a community run like that, it always always ends up feeling like an echochamber run by a dictator. I want an internet that's mostly wholesome, not a "happy fun camp where there's all smiles and you had better not frown!"

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goat 6 points 3 years ago

You are now banned from beehaw.org

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EnglishMobster 5 points 3 years ago

I wonder if there's a Pyongyang community.

...Come to think of it, Lemmygrad probably has one. But I'm not going over there to look.

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goat 2 points 3 years ago

And like all echo chambers, it will inevitably collapse

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lamentforicarus 2 points 3 years ago

I have a beehaw account. I've only experienced one user who's a bit too intense about their thoughts. Everyone else has just been chill. The admin aren't defederating from lemmy.ml, the other big instance, and have no plans to do so. They really were just overwhelmed by the two feds they blocked because of trollish users. It's not as intense as you make it sound.

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geoffervescent 1 point 3 years ago

I think it's great. I want an account there for the occassions when I want to visit a safe space or a SFW website. It doesnt have to be your identity. You can go to different instances in different contexts, for different modes of interaction. And a third unrelated instance can remain federated with them both, if that's amenable to all parties.

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Otome-chan 27 points 3 years ago

I kinda expected that after seeing them purge some threads made by lemmy users. I have to imagine we kbin users are gonna get cut next lmao.

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digitallyfree 14 points 3 years ago

Well we are one of the largest instances out there with open signups...

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BlueForestDev 11 points 3 years ago

Good riddance. I like the no-downvote style but overzealous mods just create their own pillow fort of the same 5 users regurgitating the same shit over and over.

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Otome-chan 15 points 3 years ago

Perhaps harsh but beehaw strikes me as the tumblr/progressive/sjw types that really wanna build their safe space. Which makes me wonder why they're federating at all lol.

I'm very glad that kbin seems to have a "let's get all the content and speak freely" sorta vibe going on right now. hopefully things stay that way.

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Nepenthe 7 points 3 years ago

I got the same sense. Authoritarianism runs on both sides of the political spectrum.

While their FAQ touted an emphasis on empathy, the heavy flowery language while also making a point to refuse to have written rules at all somehow gave me a feeling of double-speak. The idea is nice, but now you're open to being banned because they felt like it, and you can't even explain how you weren't breaking the rules if no rules exist. Refusing to allow anyone but themselves to create communities backs up the authoritarian streak. Not interested. I assume if they don't, I'll eventually be banned there anyway. I really like debate and I really dislike dictatorships.

At least if one of the largest instances out there goes full Korea, it will leave other instances a chance to be noticed in their wake. It sounds salty, but I'm still getting used to what federation means for a platform and when we were still initially federating my entire feed was utterly nothing but beehaw. I am salty. I want as much variety as I can get.

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Otome-chan 5 points 3 years ago

Yup. Taking a look at their ethos/manifesto stuff it instantly became clear to me what sort of place beehaw is, and it's not one I'm super fond of, so I doubt I'll ever make an account there.

Yeah beehaw is pretty big at least from my perspective. I see three big communities: lemmy, kbin, and beehaw. and beehaw is easily the odd one out with their weird manifesto stuff lol. Which is why when they said they were defederating from lemmy, it kinda struck me as "oh kbin is next then" lol. but each of the three kinda have a different vibe to me, so maybe kbin is tolerable to beehaw while lemmy isn't?

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iorale 1 point 3 years ago

Perhaps harsh but beehaw strikes me as the tumblr/progressive/sjw types that really wanna build their safe space

They literally said they want that instance to be their safe-space, so you are absolutely correct.
Still it's surprising how quickly a block-happy instance appeared, I was expecting it but not only days into this reddit-wave.

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Otome-chan 1 point 3 years ago

I'm still figuring out proper tone haha. but yes.

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msprout 1 point 3 years ago

sjw

ahh, it's 2010 again!

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GuyDudeman 0 points 3 years ago

Does kbin have good mod tools?

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Otome-chan 4 points 3 years ago

I'm fairly new to kbin but we do have mod tools here, and people have used them to moderate their community. So far I haven't seen any issues with spam or what I'd say is trolling (though beehaw may think different). As for whether the mod tools are "good" I guess is one's opinion. I find they're enough to moderate the small communities I started here on kbin, though I have to imagine much larger (100k-1m) communities might struggle with the tools available. kbin is very new and still under development. so we'll see.

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ParkingPsychology 1 point 3 years ago

Not to the degree what I'm used to. It's very minimal. It'll probably take a year or two before it's fully there, is my expectation.

It's not an easy thing to make and it doesn't have the highest priority generally. Reddit didn't even have automoderator for years.

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Shortcake 5 points 3 years ago

there are already users over there asking this very question lol

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Captain_Wtv 5 points 3 years ago
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Otome-chan 2 points 3 years ago

really? that's kinda yikes lol. like I can post on beehaw just fine from kbin, so I'm not quite sure that's the case? I think they just want to be able to moderate strictly and they've only got like 4 mods over there.

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Captain_Wtv 1 point 3 years ago
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experbia 20 points 3 years ago

All this talk of defederation and blocklists makes me generally uneasy. I understand how it's easy to fall into. Nobody wants political extremists and criminals and bad actors and stuff on their instance, so it makes sense you might want to ban trollfactory dot xyz, nazihq dot us, and/or uncompromisingmarxist dot boats, or whatever.

But I think the stupidest shit I saw on reddit were the subreddits that would ban you for even posting on an ideologically competing subreddit, with no consideration for the message you'd written. This is worse than that because it's the opposite, and includes even reading the content.

Imagine if when you went to post on /r/RestaurantOwners, and its AutoMod had the power to then immediately ban you from even looking at /r/antiwork and /r/WorkReform. Imagine posting to /r/conservative to correct someone's error only to get permanently banned from viewing any "leftist" subs ever again. This is the vibe I get from this and as much as I want to avoid creating nodules of extremism and hatred, I want less to have people grabbing my head, taping my mouth, and averting my eyes from things they don't like when they don't even know what my thinking is.

I feel like widespread trigger happy banlists are the death of small instances, too. Maybe one small instance doesn't catch some newly registered asshole for a day or two but it's too late. The 16-hour a day lifestyle moderator on a massive instance who has gangstalking delusions over nebulous "trolls" has already blacklisted all 150 of your users permanently and listed your domain for defederation as officially owned by the Nazi party in a massive register shared by the top 100 largest instances. The number of times I've heard this story with small Mastodon instances is more than I care for.

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Sentrovasi 10 points 3 years ago

You're not banned from looking at anything. Just go to their instance, abide by their signup rules and don't do the shit they defederated to avoid.

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Nymphioxetine 4 points 3 years ago

A very good take on the pros and cons of this kind of thing.

Personally as someone with an account on Beehaw I don’t think I’ll mind mostly. I’ve been pretty happy with the communities they have already made and been quite impressed with content amounts.

Let’s be honest, this federated forum/link-aggregator is in its infancy. Rexxit brought it into the lime light and just kind of put a magnifying glass on these sorts of growing pains.

I’d like to point out that most of the criticism I’ve seen has come from outside the community. I don’t feel like this will be a long term thing only. It’s really an attempt at trying to preserve the community brand and feeling for its members especially while things are still young.

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Captain_Wtv 3 points 3 years ago
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sim_ 1 point 3 years ago

The admins at Beehaw have been explicit that this choice is not about locking their users in but about keeping bad actors out. But all of this is new, so the tools to accomplish that are crude for now.

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Syo 17 points 3 years ago

I guess. That is the whole point right? If you like how a instance is run, you join them. And if any beehaw users don't like this direction it's taking, they can always make another account on Lemmy.

Fediverse allows for great potential of redundant, diverse, and flexible meta content consumption, but we the users are bearing some of that growing pain right now as this all grows and things get shuffled on the fly.

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akselmo 13 points 3 years ago
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arkcom 9 points 3 years ago

They should be running a standard forum software, but are already in too deep to fix the actual problem.

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Shortcake 8 points 3 years ago

this is interesting!

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BreadDog 7 points 3 years ago

Certainly so. From a sort of... sociological point I'm wondering what the impacts are of major instances growing independent of each other. I feel like I can already feel it with kbin and lemmy both growing separately during the blackout. I'm wondering if the trend for major instances is going to be where each one has their own unique culture or if they will eventually homogenize.

Only real concern here, although I didn't participate during the mastodon surge last year, I heard that defederation became a bit of an issue with how common there. Granted, I feel like the impact is probably less here with the fact that you are interacting with topics rather than people.

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Nepenthe 5 points 3 years ago

I'm personally hoping for a unique culture, especially since we currently have quite a good one. Going solo is just going solo -- it's sad and kinda dumb, since it defeats the entire point of the fediverse, but if they're ok hanging out on a closed forum it's not like those haven't existed for decades.

I hadn't thought something like Mastodon would be able to defederate. Thinking about it, that would be far more disastrous for a platform aimed at following individuals to be able to do. The stress induced from having to choose an instance knowing they block other instances and being unable to even tell if that's a bad thing or not until you investigate each and every one anyway. Having to look up what your favorite people are on, if you're on Mastodon, so you can get news without leaving any of them out. What a mess.

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GuyDudeman 6 points 3 years ago

They’re not going solo though. They are still connected to hundreds of other instances. Including Lemmy.ml, which is still the biggest instance.

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cnnrduncan 2 points 3 years ago

Additionally, the Beehaw admins have said they're open to refederating with lemmy.world et al if/when Lemmy gets better moderation tools.

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eta_aquarid 2 points 3 years ago

they defederated from Lemmy.world and the other one, that's it

they're not closing themselves off; they made it very clear what they were doing and why; people keep just catastrophizing about it over and over for some reason

like they made it clear what they were doing and that it wouldn't necessarily be permanent

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Shortcake 4 points 3 years ago

i think it really depends on the admin. I saw many threads on mastodon of hundreds of instances defederated with and listed reasons. some made sense, others did not.

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AbelianGrape 2 points 3 years ago

Lemmy specifically hasn't implemented less harsh measures yet. This is a stop-gap action to cut off a trolling problem at its source. The beehaw admins say they will reevaluate when less drastic tools are available, e.g. allow beehaw users to interact with lemmy.world but not the other way around.

I'm not sure I 100% agree, personally, but beehaw's ethos is "be(e) nice" and if trolls are trolling, it can make it very hard for some people to open up and contribute. So I see where it's coming from.

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SQL_InjectMe 7 points 3 years ago

That’s fair, buuuuut why are the admins moderating comments? Why shouldn’t the moderators mod their communities and report problematic users to admins so those users can be blocked.

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SQL_InjectMe 17 points 3 years ago

The admins are probably modding the communities because they probably created them but the proper solution should be to find mods, not just defederate

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GuyDudeman 8 points 3 years ago

It’s not a permanent defederation, and it’s only with those two instances. There are still hundreds of other instances that they are still federated with.

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AndreTelevise 3 points 3 years ago

Like this one I'm on right now.
(Tbh, I'm surprised how much kbin and lemmy are compatible with one another despite using different codebases)

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Gormadt 2 points 3 years ago

Honestly the more I see how well such federated sites can connect with each other gives me more hope for the future of federated sites

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SQL_InjectMe 1 point 3 years ago

While true, beehaw hosts some of the largest communities so it's still a loss (temporarily). As long as they find mods within a week things will be fine.

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Nepenthe 15 points 3 years ago

No one on beehaw can create communities except the admins, with the promise that they will personally split the ones they have into more distinct topics as it becomes necessary. As such, that also makes them automatically the mods. It's one of the reasons I decided against it, as well as.... * gestures to headline. *

I was quite curious what removing the downvote button would do to foster actual discussion, since its use is frowned upon in my one remaining reddit kebble sub, and everyone who remains each week is shockingly cordial with one another. Pity to see beehaw crashing and burning so fast like this.

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LimitedBrain 4 points 3 years ago

Is it crashing and burning if it aligns with their explicitly stated goals? Seems like they're sticking to their guns and having a well moderated community by doing this. Some people will want that, some won't. But if we want this federation thing to work, we can't start whining about instances making choices about what their users interact with. If anything I'm glad this is happening early so that people can see how the federation stuff will play out and get used to the idea.

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Nepenthe 1 point 3 years ago

Having thought it over, I think the only two ways this can go are that beehaw defederates with almost everyone who isn't a carbon copy of themselves in order to lighten the load, or they put more admins/mods in control (is this possible? I assume it is). Nothing else is going to stem interaction between y'all's instance and every person and post on the fediverse that breaks the rules. What they wanted to do is admirable, but really doesn't scale well with the amount of interaction being seen now.

Temporary measures while they expand their abilities would be the much more expected way for this to go. If instead their solution is to just defederate everything all the time forever because people not signed up for beehaw didn't sign up for beehaw's rules, they might as well have built a wordpress forum for way less money than they're spending. There's going to be too much.

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AbelianGrape 3 points 3 years ago

I'm a bit confused by your comment. They say in their post that they will reevaluate when Lemmy's mod tools improve. More granular control over federation could help too. It's a temporary measure.

It's not like they're taking extreme action because they want to cause schisms. "They will defederate with everyone" only seems to apply if every other huge instance also has high numbers of trolls. Maybe not so unlikely, but mod tools on Lemmy will hopefully improve by then. Note: you sign up for beehaw's rules when you choose to interact on beehaw, not when you sign up to beehaw. The issue they are dealing with here is that they have had to disproportionately moderate users interacting on beehaw coming from those instances.

And at the end of the day, if beehaw becomes too isolated, it takes like 5 clicks to open a different instance in my browser and sign up there instead.

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Captain_Wtv 2 points 3 years ago
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ANuStart 7 points 3 years ago

The sad reality is that during the reddit blackout, people were pushing lemmy (specifically Beehaw) as the reddit replacement because yay decentralized, federated, fun!

For a lot of those reddit refugees the effort they put into making content and trying to make Beehaw their home is gone now.

They're not going to want to start all over at a new instance and rebuild yet again.

They're just going to go back to reddit

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Briskfall 1 point 3 years ago

I feel like the concept of "decentralisation" is good for the consuming users and people who want to discuss an interesting topic/subject, but not really for OC/content craetors... They just want their work to be as exposed to as many people as possible (exposure -> more clients -> bigger brand/value -> profit???), and defederalisating goes against that principle.

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eta_aquarid 1 point 3 years ago

I think the issue is that everyone's so focused on seeing Lemmy as a "notReddit" that they outright get pissed when it doesn't work the way they think it should (like Reddit except the parts they think are bad)

Lemmy (and kbin, and other similar platforms) and Reddit have the same niche, but they're not the same thing

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eric5949 1 point 3 years ago

Exactly. I've been trying to rebuild my account on lemmy.world but it's disenheartening and honestly makes me want to not bother. The answer isnt defederating, the answer is find some mods.

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Brkdncr 6 points 3 years ago

They can’t scale. They will die.

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zalack 24 points 3 years ago

Or they'll just be a smallish instance building the kind of community they want to build. There's nothing wrong with knowing what you want to be and not trying to be more.

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BreadDog 10 points 3 years ago

Ostensibly they don't wish to scale at the expense of the quality of their community.

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Kierunkowy74 2 points 3 years ago

They can't scale. They will survive, though. Other generic Lemmy servers are overshadowing Beehaw as a generic Lemmy server. And it is fine for both them and Beehaw, IMO.

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altair222 1 point 3 years ago

my friend ive been on beehaw since it launched. we dont care for scaling.

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eta_aquarid 1 point 3 years ago

What if they don't want to scale?

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FantasticFox 6 points 3 years ago

I created my first account there but left for lemmy.world once I realised users couldn't create communities and all the communities were controlled by the same small group of admins.

I had enough of such cabals on Reddit.

No mods, No masters

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PabloDiscobar 2 points 3 years ago

They did this?

Ok, that's the definition of a powertrip. And exactly what we want to avoid.

We sse it on some communities here btw, some mods owning 60 empty subs. I hope there is a reseting of subs ownership after a month of zero content and activity.

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lixus98 5 points 3 years ago

To be honest? I don't like the decision I wish there was a better way to handle this, this might make users not want to join the fediverse out of fear of losing contact with communities that they participate in.

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ParkingPsychology 4 points 3 years ago

Just make an extra account... I don't know about you, but I have a ton of reddit accounts, on reddit I already kept my participation separated and I used containers to quickly switch between them. It's fine, I wouldn't even notice a difference.

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AndreTelevise 2 points 3 years ago

This would make sense... if Beehaw wasn't invite-only.

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Noki 3 points 3 years ago

there is still enough serves that you can register that are not blocked by beehaw - or you can interact with mastodon/calckey software with lemmy and kbin. so easy.

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spaduf 4 points 3 years ago

Ultimately this is because beehaw allowed themselves to become one of the largest instances on the threadiverse with only FOUR mods. Any blame on the other instances/mod tools is deflection. This is poor management at it's core and is bad for the larger community. That said I would love to see more in the way of improved mod tools.

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msprout 3 points 3 years ago

I think this is a fair choice for Beehaw to make, but I am frustrated that now I have less content to read. I wish we had better community discovery tools.

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anthoniix 3 points 3 years ago

This is a bad move, what do they plan to accomplish here?

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retronautickz 2 points 3 years ago

I don't get the issue here.

This is common in de-centralized social media.

Federation allows the admins of a server to decide what kind of servers they want to federate with, but also to defederate from others.

It's only two servers that were creating problems with all the trolling and intolerant comments that came from there. Beehaw didn't isolate itself/blocked everyone else in the fediverse.

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tvix 2 points 3 years ago

Can I get a ELI5 or a source or something?

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anthoniix 3 points 3 years ago

If you make an account on beehaw you cant see anything from lemmy.world or sh.itjust.works. Same in the opposite direction.

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kratoz29 0 points 3 years ago

And what happens if users from lemmy.world were already following beehaw communities?

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PabloDiscobar 4 points 3 years ago

As far as I know the content is duplicated on each server federated, on demand by users requesting content. My guess is that the content will be frozen on the defederation date. Your server won't be able to read, or maybe read, but certainly not write to the other server, and the conversations there will happen without you.

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this 1 point 3 years ago

sh.itjust.works user checking in, my experience seems to confirm that theory. I can still see content from beehaw that I'm subscribed to from before they defederated.

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Otome-chan 1 point 3 years ago

beehaw blocked lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works. so people on beehaw can't see lemmy.world and sh.itjust.works content/users and vice versa.

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abclop99 1 point 3 years ago

I think one of the problems is communities all being created on the same few big instances that allow anyone to create one.

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Gormadt 1 point 3 years ago

Sounds like they really need more mods over there

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mounderfod 1 point 3 years ago
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altair222 4 points 3 years ago

thats really not the point of federation. the point of federation is consent. beehaw doesnt consent to being federated with lemmy.world. it just makes sense.

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deadsuperhero 1 point 3 years ago

Honestly, this is disappointing, but not particularly surprising. It's a problem that's at least as old as Usenet, in terms of different communities not getting along. It's also not uncommon that people setting up instances are new, inexperienced with moderation, and sometimes even just let people register without any kind of verification because why not?

I think an important point is for admins / mods from various instances to try to get on the same page, in terms of policies. Building that common ground early, and establishing best practices, really helps mitigate a lot of the BS that can happen.

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airportline 1 point 3 years ago

Let kbin.social replace beehaw.org

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soratoyuki 1 point 3 years ago

This is honestly the only major issue I have with the Fediverse. Most of my Reddit/social media posts are related to three or so niche interests. My first Mastodon account was on the central hub for one interest that later defederated with the central hub for another interest. Not being able to interact with 1/3rd of the people I want to interact with just defeats the whole point of joining these kinds of platforms. Moderators just carving out a chunk of the Fediverse for their users is just unacceptable.

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