madcaesar 131 points 2 years ago

Social media sucks

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RecluseRamble 76 points 2 years ago

People call stuff like Lemmy, 4chan or Reddit social media too but to me it's always these Facebook or Instagram style self-presentation platforms. All of them suck ass.

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spread 42 points 2 years ago

I'd categorize these as forums rather than social media. I mean there isnt that much socializing happening around here

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Birch 21 points 2 years ago

Neither is it on social media anymore, it's all just dick measuring, scams, MLMs, attention seeking and hating on outgroups now.

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metallic_z3r0 10 points 2 years ago

I call it asocial media, personally.

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Saledovil 3 points 2 years ago

Anti-social media.

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Honytawk 8 points 2 years ago

Forums are also social medias

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madcaesar 6 points 2 years ago

True those are definitely worse

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jjagaimo 7 points 2 years ago

One thing I'm not a fan of is the argument that "it is what you make of it," because platforms act entirely differently depending on the other users, the algorithms, methods of interaction, interface, content and culture. Its very difficult for me to to have a good time on facebook because it fails in a lot of those aspects: toxic users, algorithms tbat push nonsense, a bad interface, incompatible content and culture. The general theme is that many social media sites end up being very polarizing and echo chambery.

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edryd 24 points 2 years ago

Envy has existed far longer than social media, none of these things would go away if social media doesn't exist. Social media just amplifies it.

Comparison has always been the thief of joy.

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kex 1 point 2 years ago

Yep, "keeping up with the Jones's" was a phrase I heard growing up in the 1980s

Also, attachment leads to suffering

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MentalEdge 9 points 2 years ago

Communication is a good thing.

But that's not what most social media facilitates. The mainstream platforms were about staying in touch with friends and family, once, but now they are about parasocial celebrity worship and broadcasting your life in a fake light of endless positivity. All the while secretly hating the habit of feigned contentment, never realising everyone else is doing the same.

Social media could be about sharing our passions, forming real and meaningful connections with other individuals around the world, as well as truly coming to know ourselves as a species on a global scale.

Some small parts of it are exactly that.

Those are the parts I'm trying to perpetuate and nurture, and though they are a tiny part of the whole thing right now, it does mean it isn't all bad.

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Paradachshund 96 points 2 years ago

I think this lesson can be valuable but I also feel like it can be flippant to the point of implying everyone's situation is equally bad or good, which is very dismissive of those in truly bad positions in life.

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stebo02 19 points 2 years ago
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chunkystyles 12 points 2 years ago

Verging on toxic positivity.

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Microw 4 points 2 years ago

Judging what a bad position in life is is pretty subjective.

There are some we can probably all agree on as a bad position, but none of those portrayed here fit those.

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absGeekNZ 95 points 2 years ago

Comparison is the thief of joy

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ByteOnBikes 62 points 2 years ago

Nah that would be Bill, who stole my bottle of Joy when he house sat.

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thisbenzingring 41 points 2 years ago

buy it in bulk my dude, just use any ol squeeze bottle. Those bottles of Joy are easy come easy go

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lugal 20 points 2 years ago

Did you really buy these, thisbenzinggring, or should I call you by your real name, Bill?

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anemoia_one 4 points 2 years ago

Especially easy go when Bill’s over

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ArbitraryValue 92 points 2 years ago

I too drive with my cellphone in one hand and my gut in the other.

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Empricorn 89 points 2 years ago

Cars can be parked!? Big if true...

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SzethFriendOfNimi 44 points 2 years ago

Or LA traffic. Which, now that I think about it, is the same thing.

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explodicle 6 points 2 years ago

Metro is the way

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blandfordforever 15 points 2 years ago

I ride a motorcycle and can confirm that most drivers use this method.

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CluckN 44 points 2 years ago

Then it cuts to the dog using social media looking at skeletons.

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yumpsuit 42 points 2 years ago

sobbing over my phone because I couldn’t stop a friend from pairing full-bodied red wine with lobster

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BarrierWithAshes 34 points 2 years ago

This is like that other comic about 'girls only like guys who treat them right' (i dunno the name) but actually good.

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Sam_Bass 31 points 2 years ago

Grass is brown all the way around

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Kolanaki 18 points 2 years ago

You know you're fucked up when seeing things that are happy makes you sad and angry.

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WilderSeek 3 points 2 years ago

Yeah, the last three panels actually bug me (though for different reasons).

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barkingspiders 14 points 2 years ago

This hit me just right today. Good reminder to be grateful for what we have.

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Damage 11 points 2 years ago

One of these is not like the others

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feedum_sneedson 6 points 2 years ago

Ha yeah everybody is miserable.

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mesamunefire 4 points 2 years ago

Fuck

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Kowowow 2 points 2 years ago

Oh is there a im14andthisisdeep instance now?

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brbposting 7 points 2 years ago

What’s 14 about a such a common issue countless adults face?

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Kowowow 0 points 2 years ago

it's more of a saying I guess it has something to do with adolescence and hormone nonsense

like all this stuff https://knowyourmeme.com/...

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brbposting 0 points 2 years ago

Ya I just don’t think this one applies given how pervasive this issue is in adulthood. It’s a good reminder for those of all ages on social media.

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CeruleanRuin 1 point 2 years ago

You're in it!

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tjsauce 1 point 2 years ago

Look at that new car!

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WoahWoah -1 points 2 years ago

Unless you're a republican from South Dakota, then you shoot the dog and dump it in a gravel pit and publicize it so others can be envious of how truly American you are.

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Donebrach -5 points 2 years ago

Is this loss?

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lawrence 6 points 2 years ago

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Varyk -6 points 2 years ago

sorry, drinking, can you help me out?

the 6th panel is chubby man's son?

why is young couple from first panel in last panel?

i thought it was a generational story.

their dead brown dog is related to the white dog in panel 7?

I'd love to know how my drank messed me up, thanks.

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ouRKaoS 31 points 2 years ago

Top panel sees Marta w/ new BF, is sad.

Next guy sees buff guy, is sad.

Next guy sees guy eating lobster, is sad.

Marta & BF see dog, miss theirs, are sad.

Everyone wants what someone else has.

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Varyk 20 points 2 years ago

thank you.

art style and similar physical features had me thinking it was generational rather than simultaneous.

appreciate it.

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ripcord 7 points 2 years ago

I thought the same. Or, ay least, that there were different connections than there were.

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zloubida -9 points 2 years ago

I get the idea and I like it; but please don't put poverty in this comics. Poor people aren't envious of richer people, they deserve to live normally.

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Rai 17 points 2 years ago

As someone who was poor and now is not poor, that’s bullshit. I was for sure envious of well-off folks around me. Now I absolutely don’t take it for granted.

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zloubida -2 points 2 years ago

It wasn't envy. It was a normal reaction to an unjust situation.

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Rai 18 points 2 years ago

Don’t tell me how I feel

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zloubida 3 points 2 years ago

You're right sorry. So it was envy. But I don't think it's the same kind of envy, coming from someone who also left poverty, and felt that too.

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JoYo 11 points 2 years ago

I mean, same for all the other examples.

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Damage 7 points 2 years ago

Poverty shouldn't exist.

Edit: someone disagrees with this, apparently

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zloubida 6 points 2 years ago

To loose a dog, to be overweight, to see a relationship end are sad but normal things. Poverty isn't.

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JoYo 1 point 2 years ago

the cops shot their dog. if you are adding in your own back stories then I'll add mine.

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zloubida 1 point 2 years ago

I didn't add anything. I just know how to.read an image. Elementary school stuff.

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Varyk 1 point 2 years ago

boooo

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DrSteveBrule 0 points 2 years ago

I think its a valid example though. Sometimes poor people can save up to go out once and splurge on lobster. People tend to post the highlights of their lives on social media. I think the point here is to not buy into it so much

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DarkCloud -6 points 2 years ago

You're assuming he's poor, and not just shit at cooking, or too apathetic to try or learn.

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ripcord 3 points 2 years ago

How likely do you think it is that the auth9r meant that and not that he was poor...?

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zloubida 2 points 2 years ago

Look at the walls.

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Welt 0 points 2 years ago

I think he's going for a hipster New York Loft aesthetic.

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