People call stuff like Lemmy, 4chan or Reddit social media too but to me it's always these Facebook or Instagram style self-presentation platforms. All of them suck ass.
I call it asocial media, personally.
One thing I'm not a fan of is the argument that "it is what you make of it," because platforms act entirely differently depending on the other users, the algorithms, methods of interaction, interface, content and culture. Its very difficult for me to to have a good time on facebook because it fails in a lot of those aspects: toxic users, algorithms tbat push nonsense, a bad interface, incompatible content and culture. The general theme is that many social media sites end up being very polarizing and echo chambery.
Communication is a good thing.
But that's not what most social media facilitates. The mainstream platforms were about staying in touch with friends and family, once, but now they are about parasocial celebrity worship and broadcasting your life in a fake light of endless positivity. All the while secretly hating the habit of feigned contentment, never realising everyone else is doing the same.
Social media could be about sharing our passions, forming real and meaningful connections with other individuals around the world, as well as truly coming to know ourselves as a species on a global scale.
Some small parts of it are exactly that.
Those are the parts I'm trying to perpetuate and nurture, and though they are a tiny part of the whole thing right now, it does mean it isn't all bad.
I think this lesson can be valuable but I also feel like it can be flippant to the point of implying everyone's situation is equally bad or good, which is very dismissive of those in truly bad positions in life.
Verging on toxic positivity.
Nah that would be Bill, who stole my bottle of Joy when he house sat.

buy it in bulk my dude, just use any ol squeeze bottle. Those bottles of Joy are easy come easy go
Especially easy go when Bill’s over
I too drive with my cellphone in one hand and my gut in the other.
Or LA traffic. Which, now that I think about it, is the same thing.
Metro is the way
I ride a motorcycle and can confirm that most drivers use this method.
This is like that other comic about 'girls only like guys who treat them right' (i dunno the name) but actually good.
Yeah, the last three panels actually bug me (though for different reasons).
This hit me just right today. Good reminder to be grateful for what we have.
Ha yeah everybody is miserable.
I find this sad yet soothing song very fitting.
We all lost our hearts
Trying to feel good
What’s 14 about a such a common issue countless adults face?
it's more of a saying I guess it has something to do with adolescence and hormone nonsense
like all this stuff https://knowyourmeme.com/...
Ya I just don’t think this one applies given how pervasive this issue is in adulthood. It’s a good reminder for those of all ages on social media.
You're in it!
sorry, drinking, can you help me out?
the 6th panel is chubby man's son?
why is young couple from first panel in last panel?
i thought it was a generational story.
their dead brown dog is related to the white dog in panel 7?
I'd love to know how my drank messed me up, thanks.
I think its a valid example though. Sometimes poor people can save up to go out once and splurge on lobster. People tend to post the highlights of their lives on social media. I think the point here is to not buy into it so much
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