I canโt even bear to look at my plants
Honestly again I'm more than happy to look after them in the interim until they either follow you and/or for when you find them a new home (I promise I won't eat them).
Daily Discussion Thread: ๐ผ๐ผ๐ผ Friday, November 1, 2024
2 years ago by Seagoon_ to c/melbourne
I canโt even bear to look at my plants
Honestly again I'm more than happy to look after them in the interim until they either follow you and/or for when you find them a new home (I promise I won't eat them).
I appreciate the offer! But many are not long for this world anyway (biannuals/annuals that i didn't bother replacing).
I've got several offers of good homes for the big plants from friends and colleagues (helps when most of them are into plants heh). Could even take the manzano to the office courtyard. I'm pretty fond of that lil dude
Glad there's a plan it's such a roller coaster with plants :)
As difficult as it is, it really is such good news. ๐ค
Sending you my love, I am glad that you have a place to move to.
I'm sorry about your plants, it's difficult to let go, especially when the circumstances are so lame. But there will be a time when you will have plants again to pour your love and care into. This is a temporary stop on your journey, and you have already proven yourself to be capable, intelligent, and motivated. Trust yourself, you are awesome.
Wherever you end up, you're always always welcome in the DT here. And we'll always be here rooting for you and waving our flags for you ๐
<3 thank you for this heartwarming message. Like literally heartwarming; I felt relieved being reminded that of course I'll have future opportunities to have a little garden again. The housing market may be bleak but I have freedom and options up my sleeve that I never had before...
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It's true :) change is just a bit painful, and through it we sometimes have to let things go. But we also open ourselves up to new experiences and places, opportunities.
There will be plants in your future, I am willing this into being for you :D
Here's to a new chapter for you. ๐ฅ
Iโm so glad to hear you were able to get a place but sad for your plants.
Iโd offer to take them up but Iโve have not had a good time with plants myself and Iโm sure they donโt like me back due to neglect.
Celebrate tonight and over the weekend.
I hope youโre able to sleep better now that you donโt have to worry about a place.
Haha, I wish I could feel celebratory but it's more a blunt/muted sense of relief. For now I'm just enjoying relaxing to some tunes and tucking into dinner in bed. Got some smoked salmon in the fridge as a treat for tomorrow am.
I'm going to make an early start on culling and packing because my brain will need to feel like it's doing something productive otherwise it will eat itself. I think I'll sleep alright tonight at least ๐
What kind of plants and what sort of setup? (Not asking for anything doxable, just an idea of what you could be working with in the new place.)
Thereโs a lot of creative ways to have plants, even ones that are just indoor plants. There are also small hydroponic indoor garden kits that could fit on a bench top or windowsill for herbs, bonsai, or air plants.
(Iโm so sorry, Iโm not good with emotional support and tend to be a fixer but I understand if this is not helpful or wanted)
I can probably take most of my indoor plants over, there's a decent south-facing window ledge. Bedroom is west facing (ugh) without a ledge. The outdoor ones are gonna have to go as they're not suitable indoors esp without so much light
This is a really small apartment so there won't be much bench top space. It's alright tbh, I've been neglecting my plants the last few months due to exhaustion and I won't have that much time over the next few months either. I'll head to a friend's place to garden if I need a green fix
Ah yeah that could be challenging.
Congratulations!
Im sorry it's such a big change. Having some time to let it out can be incredibly cathartic
We've decided to campervan around NZ. There will be a luxury hotel at the end.
My dog has graduated from hearing a freezer bag (contains deli meat) to me opening a loaf of bread.
Hehehehe.
I only have to get a knife out and he's in doing a little dance.
I wish I got dances, I just get incessant bitching. Misha is most vocal on the subject of the cheese. "Where's the cheese?" "When are you going to give me the cheese?" "Why aren't you giving me the cheese right now?" And so on.
Bribe:

Oh, she likes you!
She's a good one :) Just need cheese though or all bets are off.
What a great shot!
Ted better behave.
Chief, next month is YEScember! This month is MOREvember! Didn't you see the email? Cos all the promo material is already at the design consultants.
Consultants are paid out of your budget. I'm just letting you know as a public service and to build community goodwill.
It's FriYAY the 1st of YESvember!
Oh I've got a slot next Thursday at 8:15pm at Lyrebird lounge again if anyone feels like hanging out :)
Really going to try and make it to that one :)
No stress at all mate, see how you go :)
Will get there if I can. I like your music.
The highest compliment :)
It was a pleasure meeting you!
That's incredibly kind of you :)
I'll be honest, that whole night made me feel the best I've felt in a really, really long time.
It was really nice to meet you mate, and very appreciative that you came along :)
In Ripponlea? I thought you were a Westie these days?
Oh yeah it's a mission and a half to get there lol
If you can get a gig in the west or north I'll be there.
Done deal! There's a place in fawkner I'm looking at that has open mic every week.
I do wonder if she did good potato cakes though (not that'd I'd buy one but I'd eat it if it was free).
it bothers me how when she first started she was mocked for being a woman, for being a red head, for being working class, for having a working class business
and then people wonder why she got votes ๐
few people reported on or cared what she was saying, nor that what she was saying was normal LNP party policy
there are few good guys in that whole fucking drama
It isn't, but it's like when you have someone that everyone knows has ADHD who finally gets a diagnosis. It's good for everyone that it's finally on record and they can get the support they need.
Actually I don't know if that last bit will happen for Pauline ๐ค
why are you making shit up, I never said I agreed or supported her
I am saying how she was reported and what the public response was
it pissed me off how the LNP lied when they said they weren't racist and that Hanson doesn't represent them, she exposed them all as being racist. She was originally a LNP candidate.
Hanson was quoting the policies in the members handbook the LNP gave her
the racist LNP were angry at her for exposing their hidden racism, the city middle class mocked her , this is such a fucking classist country
the news did not focus on her racism and nativism, just her class
I hated Fraser but at least he wasn't a racist cunt like Howard and the rest
๐ I just realised last week that I didn't have to do that crappy xmas dinner in July shitty deal. MIL#1 really wanted me to cook a xmas dinner and have all the celebration but without presents. So last year I did, I made a lovely three course xmas dinner then made everyone watch two different Scrooge movies so they truly understood the meaning of xmas. They did not expect to celebrate the meaning of xmas, they just wanted a fancy dinner and to be fashionable. They did not like the Scrooge. They have never mentioned xmas in winter/July again. ๐
About to walk to the shops down here on the foreshore and I reckon I'll get 13 'hellos' Gonna count that shit then when I get back to melbs in a few days going to say hello to randos and I'm going to compare how miserable we all are.
I miss that from when I lived in the country.
I'd say G'day to ya then I'd wonder who the fuck was that for the rest of the day.
Heh that's the funny thing down here you'd think why the fuck didn't they say hello back.
If one does not reciprocate then one must say it a bit louder and a bit more aggressive.
It's PS5 niiiiiight. I'm so fucking lame lol
Don't say the word "lame" around Cup weekend.
Thank you for your vote of support :)
I kinda forgot till a little earlier. Come here Final Fantasy Rebirth!!!
I did last year before I sold my old ps5.
The story was fucking amazing. Wish the combat outside of the massive fights was a but more interesting.
If it had the new ff7 combat it would have been probably my fave game of all time.
Glowing quarterly feedback. Hooray
Yay!
It might be radioactive be careful
My holiday has begun with a pint of Guinness at the pub, and a lamb kebab n chips grabbed on the way home. I will now find something brainless to watch and enjoy it in the happy knowledge that nobody expects me to do anything for several days
I got some cans of cat food from the food cupboard this arvo - diet chicken mousse that someone else's cat presumably didn't like. Miss Meow seems enthusiastic about it so that's definitely a win.
Have discovered a fantastic little cafe near my work that does the most amazing toasties. The first time I had one I had my mind blown, thought it could have just been a fluke, but nope, 2 different toasties later, tis confirmed delicious place, completely with excellent vibes! Anyone near Moorabbin Airport needs to checkout Milhouse!
Yup, that's it! Highly recommend it!!
Oh thatโs lovely
Stay calmer
When you wanna harm a llama
Call a llama farmer!
True story. Last year at a bar I met Australia's biggest llama guy. He was in Melbourne before his flight to Peru to conduct llama business. I bought him a cocktail and gave him a shoulder massage (I was wasted af). He gave me his card but I don't think I have it anymore
Someone smells like they've bathed themselves in aftershave today and it stinks, I don't know how they walk around without knowing how bad and strong it smells.
I feel like my senses are being assaulted, let the day end quickly!
I once used lynx africa on a tram and still feel guilty.

I was once in a lift with someone wearing lynx and am still scarred
The ones I haaaate are the girls who get on a crowded tram and proceed to spray themselves with perfume. A known hazard of Friday pm public transport. Or anytime on trams that pass a secondary school.
has flashbacks to Impulse in the post-PE girlsโ changing rooms
Remember when they used to spray everyone going through Myer?
so many stinky people out there
the way to do perfume
spray 3 short spritzes in the air and walk thru the cloud
after shave, put a few sprinkles on your hands and dab gently on all the shaved areas of your face. It's an antiseptic.
way to do perfume:
TINY. DABS.
Remember it's supposed to entice someone to come closer, to put their face near your neck to sniff that intriguing scent. They should not be able to smell you fifteen minutes after you left the fucking room, it defeats the purpose
another issue is are people using cologne or parfum? So easy to use too much parfum and that's why I use cologne. I also make sure I do the same amount every time because I don't trust my nose.
I find the unscented or โsensitiveโ antiperspirants arenโt as effective which is unfortunate. Really hate that they changed the Mitchum roll on.
I currently use it anyway because the other unscented options arenโt good and itโs better than accidental perfume cloud
I went with the Nivea women's sensitive roll on, It seems to be working so far the last 2 months I've been using it but it'll probably get a workout during summer.
I do find that it doesn't irritate me though which is good.
Hello everyone,
FYI I posted a meme about this community on !fedimemes@feddit.uk : https://aussie.zone/post/15001506
I'm always impressed with how active your daily threads are, what is your secret? ๐
Fucking wankers, eh?
I've cleared my schedule this morning to get high and watch hockey whilst working from home.
Gonna wander to pub. Back later
Been leaving before tinyest wakes up the last few days, get home and he wants almost nothing to do with me. I am home today though so he woke up with me and wanted all of the cuddles.
So cuddles only happen in the morning? I can live with that.
What's with all the people complaining about kids taking all the Halloween treats? They just leave a bowl out there , what do they expect.
You're supposed to decorate yer house a little, make a welcome sign then wait for kids to knock on your door. The kids say trick or treat and you decide. If no treat they can trick you. Give nice treats and maybe have something Halloweeny to do. They wear cute costumes and you get to talk with kids and community. It's meant to be interactive and fun.
the videos look like karma farming exercises. ๐๐๐
You meant well but if shits not nailed down people will take it. ๐
No. They live here. Random kids donโt.
Fucking hell I actually find children generally repugnant That I put out lollies is a gift not an entitlement.
I need candles. Please deliver you fat young ones for rendering.
That I put out lollies is a gift not an entitlement.
Aww that means you do have a soft spot.
You put a bowl out there like you would for animals and the animals came. ๐คทโโ๏ธ
It's a bit half arsed isn't it? Here's a bowl. Take one. It's an honesty system. Meanwhile I'm gonna be on the couch.
Get up when you hear the doorbell. Compliment the kids costume. Give them a treat. Repeat. Not hard.
Itโs an honesty system
A bit like when you buy horse poo for $2 from the side of the road. It builds community and a sense of trust.
Exactly
I honestly can't remember the last time I had a trick or treater.
The illustrated edition of The Hobbit is back in stock at Kmart. You can get it from other places, but Kmart sells it for half the price of everywhere else all the time.
Of course I'm only sharing this after I finally ordered a copy: https://www.kmart.com.au/...
Goodnight everyone โค๏ธ

Cheers Punters ๐บ



This could be you in this pic:

I'm the sly one in the green. Cheers ๐บ


Cheers ๐ป


These cgi horses are doing my head in ๐
Cheers! ๐ป

Thatโs better, ta!
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I fell asleep slightly earlier than normal last night (about 11) and was awake at 530.
It be like that sometimes.
Belly is full of food. Got some dranks handy. Heat pack on my poor sore back. Favourite movie on TV. Cat snoozing nearby.
It's a good night.
Finally paid off the toy sale laybuy. I tell you what, I'm not doing that in store again. Next year I'll add whatever can go through laybuy online and buy what can't in store.
All this for $300 worth of toys as well. I almost used laybuy to not have to hide everything at home for 6 months
I used to take the toys to my mum's house to hide. Now we just put cash in her bank account. So much more convenient.
Good morning children. Have you had your fruit today?
Coffee bean water counts right?
No, but I carry emergency ๐
i am currently eating overnight oats with apple, peach, strawberry and cherry in it. I also have watermelon cut up for a snack later ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐
Nope. It's Fruit Free Friday. (ok raisin bread doesn't count, or does it?) Overindulged yesterday and me bowels are suffering in consequence.
Iโm crawling out of my skin but have no energy to do something physical but mindlessโฆ also no focus to do something more mentally stimulating.
I wish I was out of here, had my health more in check and had the room/reserves to be doing things
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I'm just an average part-time drunk.
So I got 9 hellos on that walk and 2 dog pats so not far off. Now let's try it at southern x.
You might be lucky enough to get one "whatcha lookin at cunt"
heh yep.
At the off leash dog beach yesterday a doggo ran up just as I was about to jump in and it tried to push me in and not save me.
They normally try and save me.
I was offended. I'm the fragile self questioning apex predator here not you.
Lol when I go to the beach a whole lot of environmentalists try and push me back into the water
When I go they start screaming and running out of the water
I feel bad for how much this made me laugh. Will be saving that for future references to myself.
Dt. I'm gonna dedicated a song to youse
Bluuuuurgh
Edit: I'm burnt out today. Just want to turn everything off and go back to bed.
This is my first burn out day, and I'm in week 14, so pretty good by usual standards.
These last few days have been Hell-ish.
Yep. I told them yesterday. Everyone else is, so why not me?
Cleaning stresses Melbcat out so with the big clean sheโs been overgrooming :(
I havenโt had her on her anti anxiety stuff lately because sheโd been going ok. I was sweeping instead of continuing to vacuum and thought the cuddle breaks were calming her down enough. But seems I really should have restarted it well before this. Dropped the ball.
Iโm not even finishedโฆ
Beep Beep ๐
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Ooh, perfect timing. Can I have a giant heaped platter full of all the fried foods you have, with pavlova on the side please.
No thanks. I'm full from all the unattended treats left out last night.
Here's some for you ๐ญ๐ฌ๐ซ
I'd like some child fat and a broomstick please
I have no idea what you mean about water dipping status. I am over 18 and I have swam before
Can I plz have a less than a fist full of lollies, a dinosaur nugget, some deodorant, some horse poo (which I will actually pay for) and a consultant paid by the hour.
I'm yet to try five guys.
please be gentle with me
Kinky
How was it? Everything you desired? Are you satisfied?
I feel link since Filthy Friday has been kicked off by @Duenan@aussie.zone and @CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone, gimme your filthy songsโฆ
Let me get some drinks in and I'll think of some more.
Was also going to say closer. Itโsโฆumโฆdirect!
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Something by Amyl and the Sniffers
Professional Widow - Tori Amos
โgive me peace, love, and a hard cockโ
That's a crazy song. Much prefer the remix.
Yeah MrsGod would agree with you
She's got taste ๐
Alright! now we're in my element!
Hot Action Cop - Fever For The Flava
Electric Callboy - Tekkno Train
Honestly, EVERYTHING Electric callboy!
Glory Box - Portishead
Pet shop boys - we all feel better in the dark
Lords of acid ...well anything really, but show me your pussy or young boys top (heh) the list
Vnv nation, Cold
(You want real filth, mig29 remix)
OMG, such a blast! ๐
Finished work. A week of happy downtime - I have all of next week off - will now commence
Eh Iโm bored. Iโm usually happy to chill in front of tv most nights but am feeling like thereโs nothing I really wanna watch. Maybe I should read a book? Iโm too tired to go anywhere but not too tired to want to do something. First world leisure time problems.
awesome, I found a 25cm cymbiola magnifica at the op shop for $8. A large spiral shell. Not a perfect one, this one has been thru the wars when alive and has regrown it's shell. But still a cool find of a shell native to Victoria.
25cm cymbiola magnifica
Against better judgement I did some work and let time get away from me while the WBBL was having a rain break and subsequently the game got called off due to heavy rain.
Finished working and now I donโt have to do any over the weekend and I have the entire Monday off now to look forward to.
Relax. It's a yoga pose. It's called a cat pose.
No I got your filthy humour
Yoga was definitely not what came to mindโฆ ๐คฃ
Dinosaur chicken nuggets make my inner six year old happy, but there is seriously fuck all chicken in these
Adult me is chonky. I can spare some fat for the inner child
This is true, but sometimes I want to be an apex predator and bite the head off a t-rex
Dinner made and eaten. A somewhat poor replica so Iโll go back to something tried and true tomorrow.
I am full though I think. Now time to relax with the WBBL tonight and Iโll figure out the rest later.
On the bright side grocery shopping is done until I need more food and I really held back on buying junk food to save money.
Also got some cheap mushrooms and onions from the independent supermarket. I actually should have bought more mushrooms in light of that.
I know minimalism isnโt for the poors cos you always need that thing again. But Iโm having a strong urge to bin everything I own.
Itโs fine. Iโm putting everything away, doing a cheeky shove, and I can sort the cupboards out later. What matters is just getting things tidy and wiped down. Spring cleaning isnโt finished yet.
Edit: The guy showed up before I was quite done but itโs fine. The inspection was structural
I think my smoke shop has finally been barbequed. It's hard to tell because the only article is in the hs. I guess after the 100th, it's no longer news. It was a good run. RIP.
Update: It's not my shop. It lives another day. Phew.
Copy the article link and paste it into this site
archive.md
Have fun bypassing all the paywalls now :)
Thank you kind soul. I've tried this and it hasn't worked for me.
Hmm..odd...can you paste the link here and I can try
Remember this song
Oh my God this game is fucking awesome!
Damn....PBS was pumping for school drop off
I forgot what a banger this was:
I listen to APC. All. The. Time.
White Rabbits white Rabbits white Rabbits
One pill makes you larger
And one pill makes you small
And the ones that mother gave you
Don't do anything at all
Hun-gee Hun-gee Hippoooo
I've been planning a book for about 6 months, was thinking first I should practice all the art skills. Now I'm thinking I should just do it and practice each page as I go.
And perfection is not a requirement. ๐
Alright, bunnings still had TONS of veggies left so I've loaded up and ordered some veggie mix soil to fill up my raised planters. How do I decide what goes where? i've got 4 raised planters and 2 stand alone smaller pot things. Gotta plan 2 strawberries, 2 Tomatoes, 4 beetroot, 1 capsicum, punnet of carrot, zucchini, punnet of cos lettuce and punnet of green beans. Dunno where to put stuff.
Idk but maybe look at companion planting guides, or what type of sacrificial plants to lure pests off more valuable veg
Might give some ideas
Edit: I know tomatoes are heavy feeders and beans have that nitrogen fixing thing that enriches the soil, maybe thatโs a good combo and they both climb so could share the stakes/lattice. Maybe even plant the beans tomatoes and zucchini interspersed.
Just throwing out ideas. Someone experienced weigh in
Edit: Also I saw something once about people planting things with deep roots and shallow roots in together so they made the most of the shared small space but I havenโt tried it.
If I tried it it would be baby spinach and carrots because those are what Iโm familiar with. But strawberries spread over the surface of the soil with runners so maybe they have relatively shallow roots and can bunk in with the carrots?
Idk though. It also depends on their sun water and drainage needs, and if they inexplicably donโt work out together for some other reason. Youโd have to check proper sources whether they combine well
If you're in your 20's, hostel.
If older, hotel.
That's how I'd do it
Guaranteed I'll be louder
Really? I had no clue on both fronts.
Got a chance to drive a hybrid today for lessons. The regenerative braking is surprisingly subtle.
Also, is it a long weekend this weekend? Talked to some people who said that it was, but I've got no holidays marked out on the calendar. Or is it a school thing?
EDIT: Turns out to be the Melbourne cup. It just didn't show up for some reason.
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Well DT, I got the place... and at the original rent no less (thanks, sloppy REAs!). Payment has gone through so it's official.
I'm relieved but also... now that it's real my heart is also filled with incredible, crushing sadness. I know it's going to be good for me to downsize and cull and open up my life to new options but I am so, so, sad to have to let go of my comforts here under such ugly circumstances. I can't even bear to look at my plants, it breaks my heart. Such is life though, isn't it. Change does not always happen the way we want it to. (and this isn't by far the worst experience I've had having to leave a house)
My plan for tonight is to just make a meta-list of tasks so that I don't feel too overwhelmed, but after that I'm going to just let the emotions flow through and watch an episode of Shrinking and take it easy. No stiffer up lip tonight. The work will start tomorrow. I know I'll get through this, there is joy on the other side. โค๏ธโ๐ฉน
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