Four times a day. Got it.
Four times a day. Got it.

I had a cervix surgery, and the doctor said no sex and no orgasms for six weeks. I think I made it about ten days before the sex dreams started, my body did not agree with the no O thing. I did heal ok though.
After childbirth is the longest for sure, nursing absolutely tanked my libido down past zero. It was a negative sex drive - like to even get to a normal "I might be able to if you want to" took a lot of work - I didn't want it and was touched out - and so unsettling after the high of pregnancy. So under more extreme circumstances, 1.5 years, four times. And about 7 or 8 years before I started in the first place, I guess.
Years.
Back when the disability stick hit me, I couldn't. Too much pain to even think about it, much less attempt it. I think it was three years or so. Could have been chooser closer to four, I didn't exactly do it intentionally and didn't really think about it when I finally did, so I have to go by the memory of the reason I did it and that's not something I made note of lol.
Since then, I've still gone months without, but I'm married now and our libidos match damn near perfectly. Masturbation has turned into something I only do specifically as self care rather than as sexual release. It's about the journey rather than the destination, so to speak.
When it comes right down to it (pun intended), even if we can't have sex for a while, I'd rather just wait until we can, unless I'm in the frame of mind to do it "right" by my standards, which isn't just jerking off to bust a nut. It's about being feeling good and giving myself a form of mindfulness in that pleasure. Don't necessarily even need to orgasm or ejaculate (and the two aren't always the same thing) for it to achieve that sense of connection via pleasure.
Hell, sometimes ejaculation can break that feeling.
Mind you, after about a week without ejaculation and/or orgasm, the "pressure" builds up enough to turn my dreams into free porn lol.
Only maybe about three weeks for me. I don't care about any of the weird challenges teenagers do, but it was mostly for mental health reasons and to aid in achieving some other personal goals. Despite the constant commenting, I usually only masturbate about once per week on average though.
Mine was about a month. I jerk off more than I'd like to admit.
An AMA could be fun. Could ask questions about your preferences and what not.
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As an older guy: It is very unhealthy and can even become dangerous to not "relieve your prostate" as my doc words it. Prostate can make you very ill if you don't care for it, especially if you're older than 40. So please do it, guys.
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