DesolateMood 162 points 2 years ago

Girlies I must confess I'm not a real femcel

I'm a man

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BananaOnionJuice 96 points 2 years ago

Okay confession time.

I'm three racoons in a trenchcoat

🎩
🦝
🦝💐
🦝
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Zorsith 19 points 2 years ago

Oh yeah? Well im a crow piloting a meatsuit! CAW, MOTHERFUCKERS!

🐦‍⬛

🤖CAW!

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DarkDiamondK 39 points 2 years ago

I must also confess I'm a man, I just like these memes

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introvertcatto 36 points 2 years ago

So you are government robot?

I was joking here, but as long as you are not one of those incels who just straight up hate on all women and men and call them stupid names, and just enjoy shitposting and memes you are good.

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Asafum 18 points 2 years ago

I like to think I'm the inverse of the typical incel, I shit on myself not women! Lol

...not literally, but I won't kink shame. :P

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erotador 16 points 2 years ago

okay but what if somebody wanted to pour compliments down your throat? would that be acceptable?

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Asafum 18 points 2 years ago

I can't take compliments, indigestion and all that. Lol

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introvertcatto 11 points 2 years ago

Yeah kinda same. I think by surface definition I am incel, but instead of hating women or any other gender I send them my love and hugs. Wholesomeness > negativity

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Canonical_Warlock 6 points 2 years ago

Same like I'm arguably an incel but women aren't the problem, I'm the problem. I'm also ace though so 🤷‍♂️.

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socsa 26 points 2 years ago

I just think FEMCEL MEMES are pretty neat

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Randelung 16 points 2 years ago

Move to the US, problem solved.

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burgersc12 7 points 2 years ago

So just an involuntary celibate then? Same bro

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TheBat 6 points 2 years ago
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dandelion 6 points 2 years ago
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erotador 86 points 2 years ago

banned

no but really, its more of a vibe here than a rule, were all horny depressed girlies with a passion for sharing dumb memes and making each other smile, and i wouldnt want it any other way :3

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0x2640 15 points 2 years ago

banned

ur one to talk :3

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erotador 15 points 2 years ago

who me? :3c

i dunno what ur talking bout

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gandalf_der_12te 8 points 2 years ago

uuh i love your profile picture, long live ranma, i'm just watching the remade series now :3

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0x2640 5 points 2 years ago

ssuuuurrrreeee

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felykiosa 5 points 2 years ago

I love the horniness on this sub , and also I have to confess I m an incel(involuntary celibate) not a femcel 😭.sorry I lied to all of you

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TotallynotJessica 67 points 2 years ago

I usually put on a brave face here, but I must admit that I'm still a lil sad that I've never experienced a relationship; less for the sex and more for the connection. I don't truly know if anyone I've met in person has ever been into me (except for the person who gave me unwanted massages, but that isn't the same) >_<

Heavier stuff

I've never liked the idea of meeting people or doing things just for relationships. I'm not proactive in any way, as almost all of it feels desperate and scary. I don't like interacting with ulterior motives, and I get so uncomfortable when it comes time to flirt. On top of that socializing is so tiring, and I'm just not motivated enough to do more than the minimum. It's hard work, so it doesn't get done because I suck at doing things that I'm not motivated to do.

Being wanted online is something, but I still yearn more substantial experience. While I have learned to handle the shame, I can't help my feelings of loneliness. I can't fully fill that hole with family, friends, or online community. I'd probably want it again just as much if I did have it in the past, but at least I wouldn't be as scared. At least I'd understand more than unrequited feelings

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Hoimo 20 points 2 years ago

Oof, that hit me harder than I expected. I imagine love is one of those things that get easier once you've done it once and know how to recognize it, but right now I wouldn't know what it's like at all. I've never in my life been in a situation where I thought I could make a move. I must have missed at least one opportunity, I refuse to believe I've never even stood a chance.

Have you tried group travel? It allows you to interact with new people without any expectations. It's also very low stakes because you don't have to see any of those people again after the trip.

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lilith267 15 points 2 years ago

After being a semi-whore in high school and having a long term ex: the only thing that's changed for me is I no longer want people who are into me because they're also lonely. It never lasts, or ends well, or goes well once they stop feeling lonely. I've never had someone tell me I'm a bad person or I could do something better, I just wasn't what they actually want. And I have not leanred how love works in the slightest either lol

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TotallynotJessica 5 points 2 years ago

That's the strange part. I probably understand more about building a healthy relationship at an intellectual level. I know that you need to genuinely be good friends with someone for a relationship to last. I've seen such relationships, as well as those that didn't have it, so I'm not clueless. The hard part is reaching out

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moonlight 13 points 2 years ago

:( I really feel this. I'm so horribly lonely and touch starved, but it's so scary and uncomfortable to try to "put myself out there" and it feels so awkward and wrong to actively flirt with / pursue someone.

I don't know how old you are, but I've been out of school for a few years and it feels like I've missed my opportunity of finding a relationship when I was surrounded by people. Now I can barely leave the house, and even if I did actually meet someone I don't see how people my age who have been in 5+ relationships would even be interested.

Also I've at least been in a "relationship" when I was a kid, and just having a fuzzy memory of what it's like to cuddle and kiss someone makes it feel worse to be alone. So I don't think having something in the past always helps.

Anyway I hope you find love some day.

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TotallynotJessica 5 points 2 years ago

I hope you do too ❤

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pixeltree 12 points 2 years ago

Preach sister

It's one thing to have someone online say they care about you and intellectually accept it and another to have someone casually hold on and make you feel ok

I hate balancing the mental equation of "how much do I hurt now vs how much could I hurt really trying to find someone and failing" and wondering if I'm even really capable of accepting affection

Being torn by desperately not wanting to hurt people and being terrified they'll like me more than I like them while simultaneously being way too attached to anyone who shows me affection

Knowing odds are very good the more someone gets to know me the less they'll like me

Knowing that if I miraculously find someone I'm compatible with I just don't have the energy to put into a relationship to make it work

Personally, I'm done trying. I know you'll get there though, you have an incrediblely tenacious spirit, of my chats with you are anything to go by

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TotallynotJessica 2 points 2 years ago

I do have tenacity, but I wasn't born with it. My spirit was next to nonexistent for most of my life, ravaged by dysphoria and self hatred. Getting a hold on my dysphoria might've been essential to building myself, but it wasn't the only part. To truly want to fight for myself, I needed to love myself.

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Aurora_TheFirstLight 11 points 2 years ago

Too real for my horny depressed lemmy

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HeckGazer 8 points 2 years ago

<3

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hildegarde 5 points 2 years ago

This whole time I just assumed you were lonely depression posting ironically. Your brave face is effective.

<3 take care I wish you the best <3

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TotallynotJessica 4 points 2 years ago

It mostly is ironic. I'm in a good place overall, but I still have these moments. The "brave face" is more about me being bold and not a shy lil bean >~<

plus...

this is probably related to hormone cycles. Thanks e!

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socsa 1 point 2 years ago
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Iheartcheese 47 points 2 years ago

If your banned I'm definitely banned. I'm a dude I just like the memes

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dandelion 12 points 2 years ago
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Iheartcheese 3 points 2 years ago

ok :(

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dandelion 3 points 2 years ago

you just need a Lemmy version of /r/LetBoysBeManipulated :-)

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rockerface 11 points 2 years ago

Same here

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Soulg 8 points 2 years ago

Same bro some good shit here

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gnomesaiyan 47 points 2 years ago

Well, shit. Transfem here and my wife just pegged me last night. Do I have to unsub?

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pixeltree 35 points 2 years ago

Nah, as long as you appreciate the lonely+horny+sad vibe

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Randelung 34 points 2 years ago

That's not even fem specific! Anyone can be a femcel!

Especially now that everyone in the US is a woman by definition.

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Cracks_InTheWalls 1 point 2 years ago
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lurch 0 points 2 years ago
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Droggelbecher 32 points 2 years ago

Girlies confession time. I'm not a real femcel. Turns out I'm non binary. So sorry.

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thoughtfuldragon 19 points 2 years ago

Femcel is gender neutral

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Droggelbecher 16 points 2 years ago

Thank u 👉👈

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introvertcatto 15 points 2 years ago

You are welcome just don't be like those reddit incels who hate others mainly women. I'm also non-binary femcel. 💜🫂

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Asafum 30 points 2 years ago

I'll confess too, I don't belong here I just like to make people laugh and comment pretty much everywhere :P

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pixeltree 27 points 2 years ago

Tbh having sex or not doesn't really matter to our vibe of femcel, that's more of a /r/femaledatingstrategy thing which is definitely for the best

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GluWu 23 points 2 years ago

Pics or it didn't happen

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arin 1 point 2 years ago

How big was his stick !?

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lseif 22 points 2 years ago

i have to confess... i am a boy.

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Agent641 11 points 2 years ago

I have to confess, I thought this com was about nanobiotech

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SharkEatingBreakfast 21 points 2 years ago

Wait..... is this not a trans community?? 🙃❓️

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TotallynotJessica 8 points 2 years ago

it's fairly trans, but not totally. Cisfem perspectives are welcome, as are those of feminine boys

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Soulg 3 points 2 years ago

I know there's a lot of trans who frequent here but the femcel concept has nothing to do with trans I thought?

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TotallynotJessica 2 points 2 years ago

I'd prefer if you didn't refer to us as "trans." We're people :)

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RVGamer06 19 points 2 years ago

I must confess

I'm a m*le

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PieMePlenty 16 points 2 years ago

No shame there. Mules are hard working.

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trashgirlfriend 11 points 2 years ago

It's ok you can change that

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HeckGazer 15 points 2 years ago

Alright brag much, sheesh

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kittykittycatboys 13 points 2 years ago

:O

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Rozauhtuno 13 points 2 years ago

le gasp

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introvertcatto 12 points 2 years ago

How it feels? Wish it was me!

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gandalf_der_12te 9 points 2 years ago

this meme will live in my heart forever now :3

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kittenzrulz123 9 points 2 years ago

I must confess, im not actually a femcel im just a depressed AroAce Transfem :3

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TotallynotJessica 5 points 2 years ago

:3

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SquishedFly 8 points 2 years ago

I must confess, I'm.... Well I'm in some sort of Ace and kinda Aro relationship so I still yearn for someone to kiss me (lucky me that it's an open relationship but I'm not gonna find anyone who wants to kiss me)

!my gf does sometimes play with my tits tho and it's the fucking best feeling ever!<

Edit: spelling

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TheCoolerMia 7 points 2 years ago

what is Aero here? :o or is it just Aro? >v<

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SquishedFly 7 points 2 years ago

Ah shit I should really learn how to spell (or disable autocorrect)...

Yeah I meant Aromantic

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Kiry 3 points 2 years ago

i have only esex, does that count or am i still cel

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TheCoolerMia 4 points 2 years ago

well if its enough for u thats what matters :3

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random 3 points 2 years ago

I've had real sex, but as a man, because I'll never br a real woman ;(

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TheCoolerMia 6 points 2 years ago

"I'll never be a real woman"

- real woman :3

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Ziglin 4 points 2 years ago

You can be if it's what you want!

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Welcome to femcel memes. A place where anybody can post memes that fit the vibe.

Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

A note about 'Egging': Our community is mostly made up of transfem individuals, and as such most memes posted will be posted with the intention of having a transfem perspective. However, regardless of gender identity, all feminine presenting individuals are welcome here. Whether that means you're NB, GNC, transmasc, or any other identity, you are welcome here. It is not our intention or goal to invalidate these identities. If something makes you uncomfortable, please feel free to report the post and I will address your concerns on an individual level. For more information regarding the problems with 'Egg-culture', please see Here.

Avoid posting AI slop and point it out when you see it, but also be chill and civil about it and don't go on witch hunts or moral crusades about it. Rather than trying to "hold people to account," try to help people avoid it. Turning it into a shame game does not fit the vibe.

Love Y'all and thank you for following this community

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