MadMadBunny 104 points a year ago

Oh dammit.

Is there anything, like, ANYTHING AT ALL that is just my personality and not ADHD?!?!?

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janus2 36 points a year ago

raises hand please tell me liking star trek isn't an ADHD symptom

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Reverendender 32 points a year ago

Ahem. I too, like Star Trek.

What are your feelings on charcuterie and mechanical keyboards?

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osaerisxero 42 points a year ago

Listen here you little shit

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SlurpingPus 6 points a year ago

If you look into ergonomic keyboards, vast majority of mechanical keyboards look like trash afterwards.

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janus2 4 points a year ago

charcuterie: love it but it's a lot more difficult now that both meat and milk hurt tummy :(

mechanical keyboards: now this one I don't get, personally. i need my peripherals to be as quiet and compact as possible for sensory filtering and portability

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Reverendender 5 points a year ago

You can do quiet and compact, mechanical, believe it or not! In that case, in my opinion, it would be all about the tactile sensations.

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kamenlady 11 points a year ago

It depends...

How many rewatches?

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panda_abyss 11 points a year ago

… is there a wrong number? We can forgive people for discovering it late in life and not watching it enough I think.

I haven’t watched since it went to paramount+.

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Zidane 4 points a year ago

Looking to watch Star Trek for the first time ever... Where do I start? Should I avoid anything?

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jaybone 23 points a year ago

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elucubra 11 points a year ago

I'm actually writing a book on this. Take RSD, the new darling of ADHD "influencers", for example: the concept that fear of rejection is an ADHD trait, and that non ADHD people ignore rejection is so preposterous it makes me mad.

Think of the whole sociodynamics of teen and young adulthood, for example, or the billion dollar industries based on catering to people's fear of rejection. Most people crave acceptance, praise, being valued, etc. We are social animals.

Lots more in the book.

I'm wring the book in spurts of hyper focus, with days or weeks between these, of course. We do have major, objective challenges.

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Waraugh 8 points a year ago

I'm wring the book in spurts of hyper focus, with days or weeks between these, of course.

That’s so ADHD of you

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XiELEd 7 points a year ago

A lot of the "traits" I had that I connected to my ADHD was ironically not from the internet but from this book by Michele Novotni, PhD "What Does Everybody Else Know That I Don't". When I did, I functioned way better. If I learned earlier I wouldn't have suffered and lost lifelong opportunities.

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clay_pidgin 19 points a year ago

That's my experience in this /c/community too.

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yermaw 24 points a year ago

Cleaning your cup in an already immaculate kitchen is like a vacation activity. I enjoyed pottery painting too but im not going to start doing it at home.

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Signtist 7 points a year ago

My wife doesn't understand why I always clean every dish/pot/utensil as soon as it's done being used, even before I sit down to eat. If I leave even just a stray fork to be cleaned later, I'll just keep stacking dirty things to be cleaned with it later until I run out of dishes, run out of room, or both.

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Solely_a_Catt 23 points a year ago

Solution that somehow worked out for me: Moving together with friends :P

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janus2 43 points a year ago

i just moved in with a roommate who's barely ever home and I've done more cleaning in the last 2 months than I have in 5 years lol

she's not even a neat freak but my brain is like "we have to keep the apartment tidy because another human lives here." my mean fuckin brain... I'm a human too why didn't I deserve a clean apartment when I lived alone ;_;

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Reverendender 14 points a year ago

You know what you did!

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Acamon 7 points a year ago

When I lived alone I ended up airbnbing my spare room. It was sometimes stressful, but it meant my house was constantly tidy. As soon it was just me the entire house would sink in to madness.

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vaionko 3 points a year ago

I lived with a friend for a month while he didn't have a place, my apartment has never before or after been so clean. I guess it's because I don't want other people see how messy I am, so I end up being not messy.

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PunnyName 1 point a year ago

After 5 weeks: "this place is also a mess, WTF"

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kamenlady 16 points a year ago

Even the expression. That resting bitch face, that says "I'm so good with the dishes, i even enjoy doing it"

At home i stare at the dishes far too long and it's painful doing them.

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smh 13 points a year ago

It's novel on someone else's home.

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Reverendender 7 points a year ago

Is anyone else concerned by that faucet? I have never seen a faucet like that in my life.

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oftenawake 5 points a year ago

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ThunderLegend 2 points a year ago

This faucet is not electrified but we do have heated water by electricity in Brazil.. Yeah its kinda dangerous but we have more important things to worry about

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oftenawake 2 points a year ago

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GerardsGuitar 3 points a year ago

Ikr!

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ThunderLegend 2 points a year ago

This is a very common faucet in Brazil.

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Rooster326 3 points a year ago

They drink water?

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PineRune 6 points a year ago

He's obviously cleaning the water in this picture.

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Rooster326 3 points a year ago

Oh I missed the sponge.

I thought this was one of "only poor people drink from the tap" memes.

Rich people drink fridge, or bottled water.

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renzhexiangjiao 5 points a year ago

it tends to be the opposite, doesn't it though? poor people are more likely to live in places where tap water isn't good for drinking so they buy bottled

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MonkderVierte 2 points a year ago

What, washing a glass by hand?

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GerardsGuitar 1 point a year ago

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rainbowbunny 1 point a year ago

I know right, who would use a plastic disposable sponge instead of a reusable kitchen towel in their own home?

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