December Discussion Megathread 💕

10 months ago by MaybeALittleBitWeird to c/sissy

This thread can be used as a place to post any discussion related to the sissy lifestyle that maybe you don’t want to create your own post for. This can include:

Asking questions or seeking advice.
Voicing problems or concerns.
Bragging about accomplishments or milestones.
Introducing yourself.
Or just general friendly conversation or anything else you can think of!

Comments must remain at least somewhat on topic for the community and troll comments will be removed.

This months question(s) are:

It's finally the end of year! It's December, yay!

How was your year!? Was this a good year for you?
What changes did you make or what sissy things did you do and how did they go? Are you happy with the changes you made, if you did?
Did you complete any major milestones you set out to at the beginning of the year?

chloespanked 5 points 10 months ago

Happy December y’all 🥰. Decent year for this bratty sissy. I think I’ve kind of sworn off piercings and (pubic mound) tattoos for now. I’m glad I got my belly and 2x ear lobes pierced though. They’re easy piercings. I wouldn’t mind some heart-shaped lock jewelry, like an anklet or maybe a bracelet, a necklace, or a small tattoo like on my ring finger or ankle.

I’m back in chastity. I’m doing a Chastity Christmas thing, where I think I’ll try penile orgasm denial and as 24/7 lockup as possible for the month, most of which I’m on holiday. Going dancing (and more ;) at a gay club would be fun!

My cage is a Cherrykeeper. They sell this “permalocker,” which is a plastic thing that fits in the keyhole and permanently locks it. I have this fun thought about putting a permalocker in. Pratcical considerations, like how I’d clean myself, abound. But it’s a sexy fantasy, putting one in and going permanent.

I’ve been wondering about the healthiness of my identity of a sissy and beta recently. And I've concluded that I think it’s healthy. Some day, I’d probably like a long term mate, and probably a woman, and I’d have heterosex (lol) with her. But I’d also need her to be open to my sissy kinks too. Give and take, you know? In the mean time, I don’t want to top anyone sexually. And I haven’t topped anyone in a long time. And fetishizing that (eg, beta, sissy) seems like good, clean fun to me

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stockings_n_summer 3 points 10 months ago

This was cute to read. Onya Chloe

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Biapathy 3 points 10 months ago

Glad to hear you've had a decent year! 🥰 I've actually been seriously considering getting my ears pierced recently. I just want to be able to wear dangly daggers or cute little heart studs 😭I'm not a big fan of tattoos on the hands (I don't like the idea of not being able to cover them, if needed) but I had always wanted a larger floral tattoo on my left ribs wrapping around to my back, but when I told a gal pal about it in college she laughed at me because it sounded too feminine(lol). I've been very seriously considering getting that again. You can get pretty cheap jewelry/accessories if you look and just want to get a feel for how you like them. If you're US based Walmart has some decent options, but it will wear kind of young looking.

I know you've been enjoying being locked up, so I'm glad to hear it's been going well 🙂 Good luck with keeping that going 🫡🥰 (and any extra fun you happen to get into because of it🤭). Maybe this year will the year I finally try it.

It's funny that you mention thinking about the healthiness of the sissy identity because I did the same in the past few years and came to the opposite confusion lol. I'm glad you're thinking about it though and I'm glad it's something that's good for you! If you're open about your sexuality you'll find someone who matches; it will just take some time.

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stockings_n_summer 1 point 10 months ago

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stockings_n_summer 4 points 10 months ago

I got my septum pierced, got my first tattoo, bought my first cage and crossdressed a whole heap. I'd say this was a productive year for feminisation. Most important thing is I had fun I suppose. I know Christmas can be a hard time for those of us more trans leaning so stay safe y'all and make the most of it much love 💖

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Biapathy 3 points 10 months ago

Glad to hear it! 💜 I've also been seriously considering getting my ears pierced and my first tattoo recently too! We can be twinsies! 🤭🥰

I hope the holidays are an emotionally good time for you and that you're safe!

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stockings_n_summer 2 points 10 months ago

doit

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chloespanked 3 points 10 months ago

Wow, great year and great comment 🥰. Good luck with your septum piercing! I tried a nose (nare) piercing but gave up in frustration. It took me some trial and error to find suitable jewelry technology - I like threadless push-in. And, in retrospect, I should have got the jewelry changed by a piercing versus doing it myself. Also, I work in healthcare and between potentially irritating the piercing from masking and the recycled air that clutters the nose with crap - I gave up on it. Thanks for teaching me about "onya." idk if you're Aussie (I'm under the impression it's principally Aussie slang); anyway, I like it!

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stockings_n_summer 2 points 10 months ago

Definitely Aussie - I'm glad you noticed me sprinkling strine into my musings 💖

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Biapathy 2 points 10 months ago

This year was a bit of a mixed bag for me. It's been a tough last few months just because of some tough irl issues I've been dealing with. So if I'm a bit more inconsistent than usual, that's why 😅

Otherwise, it's actually been a pretty good sissy-year for me. This has been the first year where I've incorporated femme clothing into my daily wardrobe. Mostly just feminine tops and cute sweaters, I can't really wear tight fitting bottoms like leggings and such (big dick problems 🤷) but a I'll figure it out. I've also found some nice perfumes that I like and FINALLY found my perfect shade of bubblegum pink nail polish I've been searching for.

Aside from that I've obviously been posting a bit just for fun. I've been in the gym a bunch and my ass is looking fiiiiine now 🙂 I'm struggling with not getting too muscly at this point so that I can still have that dainty androgynous appearance I want, but I'll figure out what works.

My big milestone though is that I actually learned how to sissygasm this year! I can't consistently all the time, but my body knows what to do now which has seemed like the biggest hurdle. I can basically always milk myself when I'm toying my ass, but an actual explosive cumming is a bit hit or miss.

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chloespanked 2 points 10 months ago

I'm sorry to hear that the last few months have been tough ❤️. I hope that turns around. I think we can all appreciate that when 'shit hits the fan' irl, we tend to pull away from sissy and sexy stuff.

Thanks for the kudos and kind comments on my post 🥰. It's great to hear about your successes this year!!! I LOLed at your big dick problems comment because it's pretty ironic in this context ;P. Picking nail polish shades really does make one hyper-aware of colour, doesn't it? I was chatting with a girl friend who's like "this is pink." And I'm like "nah dawg, that's coral or a pinkish shade of coral."

I'm a little jelly of your butt and sissygasm ability. What epic achievements!!!

Getting your ears pierced sounds great. Once the piercings heal, you can wear and change masculine/ androgynous/ or feminine jewelry as you like. The piercings don't hurt much. They heal fast. If you sleep on your side (I do), that can hinder recovery a bit - but they're very easy - the easiest maybe [navel is easy too] - piercings to keep.

Your rib/back tattoo sounds like a really neat tattoo. I bet tattooing the parts over the ribs would hurt a lot though. Forget that gal pal's narrow-minded comments. In my experience, as per peer pressure, folks are policing their and other people's gender expression at lifetime highs in high school and college, and as they get older they give less of a @#$% about it

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Biapathy 2 points 10 months ago

I'm sorry to hear that the last few months have been tough ❤️. I hope that turns around.

I appreciate the kind thoughts. Unfortunately my problems are just the start of a long journey 🙃

LOLed at your big dick problems comment

Yeah! It means I can't wear a bunch of cute tight fitting things in public! 😤 It would be awesome to be able to wear leggings this time of year. I don't do chastity and tucking is uncomfortable for anything more than short periods.

really does make one hyper-aware of colour

It does! 🤭 It doesn't help that there are a billion different colors all with stupid names and very granular differences in shade and hue. It makes it all the nicer when you find the ones you like though!

If you sleep on your side (I do)

I do too so I appreciate the heads up! Tbh I probably wouldn't wear masc earrings so it would just be a matter of whether I have something cute in or not. I'd consider a bellybutton piercing too and think they're super cute, but I think it's a bit too slutty for me right now 😅

Forget that gal pal's narrow-minded comments. In my experience, as per peer pressure, folks are policing their and other people's gender expression at lifetime highs in high school and college, and as they get older they give less of a @#$% about it

I'd say that's largely true too. It doesn't bother me much now, but it certainly did at the time.

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