What's something every couple should try at least once?

9 months ago by SmuttyLad to c/asklemmynsfw

Mycatiskai 30 points 9 months ago

Side by side masturbation, sometimes there's no time for full on sex. Instead of not doing anything because it's midweek, touch yourself and eachother but don't have intercourse.

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FoolsQuartz 7 points 9 months ago

I think simple things like this add to the longevity of a couples' sex life.

The people who get bored of sex are the ones who try for pornstar sex every time, in my opinion.

They need to have an appreciation of sex for all the different things it can be and all the ways they can have it.

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pinkpint 1 point 9 months ago

This! Even when you have plenty of time, mutual masturbation can be good to take it slow and make it last longer. Especially if you're not touching each other, you're both in control and get to watch each other enjoying yourselves.

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Taiatari 27 points 9 months ago

Talking about current fantasies and kinks, ideally more than once because they change. Sex gets better when you talk about the wants and needs.

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ivanafterall 21 points 9 months ago

Butt stuff.

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Mickey7 6 points 9 months ago

Agreed. GF and I tried it several times. Sort of a bucket list thing

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playfulkittykat 6 points 9 months ago

From both sides.

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ivanafterall 8 points 9 months ago

Yep, but you'll need someone pretty well-endowed to try butt stuff from the other side.

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prac 17 points 9 months ago

Just laydown and look into the sky for half an hour and talk

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daggermoon 4 points 9 months ago

This works better at night. Bonus points if you can point out stars by name. No further rizz will be required.

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prac 1 point 9 months ago

Exactly my point😅

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SmuttyLad 3 points 9 months ago

Sounds just splendid :)

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TigerAce 17 points 9 months ago

Figure out how to pay the bills.

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jerkface 11 points 9 months ago

MDMA

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FoolsQuartz 9 points 9 months ago

Nudist beach or naked days at home together. Understand this isn't sexual, but about intimacy nonetheless.

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stockings_n_summer 6 points 9 months ago

Feltching

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Siriousproblums 6 points 9 months ago

Meet up as if you don’t know each other. Show up to a bar/event separate. Flirt all night and hook up. If you’re down for a little risk, the hook up can be semi public. Then you head home separately

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DavidDoesLemmy 2 points 9 months ago

Strawberries

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ekuzo -5 points 9 months ago
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kiza -6 points 9 months ago
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