Gays, how do you feel about straight girls in gay bars when it's a live DJ night?

gray 25 points a day ago

I am for it. Side note, some straight people are questioning their sexuality and should be allowed access to spaces where they can learn and explore in a safe way.

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Ptsf 22 points a day ago

More the merrier, just don't be a dick.

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prex 5 points a day ago

There's a pun in there somewhere.

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Diddlydee 14 points a day ago

I'm not gay nor have I been to a live DJ night at a gay bar nor am I a straight girl, but I would wager that anyone coming in a gay bar isn't a problem as long as they're not being a dick, just like with any other bar.

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victorz 7 points a day ago

I imagine one reason for coming to a gay bar as a gay person is to feel more confident in who you can "approach".

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Pomal 7 points a day ago

People are still going to say no? It just increases the density of options.

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victorz 4 points a day ago

Yeah, that was my only point, that it reduces the risk of hitting on someone who doesn't share your preference.

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Pomal 0 points a day ago

You’ll run up into that barrier everywhere. It’s called discrimination for a reason.

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communism 8 points a day ago

I'm a gay woman and I'm cool with it. More women the better.

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