I wonder what is causing this, major depression

3 years ago by diskmaster23 to c/aboringdystopia

guyman 39 points 3 years ago

Rich people are doing fine.

path: 0 637613, hotness: undefined, score: 39, children: 9
PabloPicasshole 17 points 3 years ago

Clickbait Title: These people don’t get depressed even when things are bad. Learn their secret to staying healthy

path: 0 637613 638508, hotness: undefined, score: 17, children: 1
TheRealLinga 2 points 3 years ago

Find out how to be happy like a rich person with this one genius trick!

path: 0 637613 638508 649683, hotness: undefined, score: 2, children: 0
saddestpanda 14 points 3 years ago

Honestly, your average rich person would probably be happier if the world didn't suck so much. They're just too greedy/dumb to know it.

path: 0 637613 642421, hotness: undefined, score: 14, children: 1
killernova 5 points 3 years ago

Such is the human condition and one reason why we will never come together as a species. It's not in our genes to cooperate on a global scale. Unfortunately, we simply can't wrap our heads around taking care of billions of people in any meaningful way. So, here we are.

path: 0 637613 642421 662960, hotness: undefined, score: 5, children: 0
Uriel238 11 points 3 years ago

Have you seen rich people? We'd think they'd be doing fine but the consistently find other reasons to be miserable.

Too much transactionalism, maybe?

path: 0 637613 641270, hotness: undefined, score: 11, children: 4
WhiskyTangoFoxtrot 3 points 3 years ago

Rich people aren't happy. From the day they're born till' the day they die, they think they're happy but trust me, they ain't.

path: 0 637613 641270 660533, hotness: undefined, score: 3, children: 3
T0rrent01 2 points 3 years ago

Please don't take my word for this since I can't seem to dig up the study itself, but do you believe in that one study that says happiness plateaus at $80k annual income?

path: 0 637613 641270 660533 676266, hotness: undefined, score: 2, children: 0
TheKingBee 2 points 3 years ago

That is some high grade copium right there.

People with money can afford cost in both time and money for therapy...

path: 0 637613 641270 660533 665794, hotness: undefined, score: 2, children: 0
xptiger 0 points 3 years ago

I hate to hear again saying "rich/famous/successful/powerful (in financial alleviation or in job positions or achievements) people aren't still happy too." as if being rich or those such else won't still make happiness despite they can have already an easy access and freedom to do anything they want and will ever enjoy, unlike those people who keep working hoping for blessing or get through hardships, irrational maltreats, injustice, sacrifices and degradation just to reach that world.

So this gives me a different insight that:

Whether a man does or will ever reach wealth, everything or achievements (such as job, reputation, awards, credentials, "friends or company", admiration etc...), he might not yet consider those the happiness he always dream and aspire. Then what would he (human) be supposed to do to become happy if those weren't.

1) Does he like every decision he made? 2) Is he grieving/regretting? 3) Is he lonely all by himself? 4) Does he ever admire himself or his personality? 5) Does he ever like his story overall? 6) Does he ever enjoy this world he's currently living, 7) and so on I'm thinking reasons of his scenario.

So this is no longer about money/achievement, something beyond that I can't well describe.

path: 0 637613 641270 660533 676174, hotness: undefined, score: 0, children: 0
FollyDolly 31 points 3 years ago

I can't go outside rn without a KN95 because Canada is on fire and the smoke is blanketing everything. That definitely doesn't fill me with joy.

path: 0 639507, hotness: undefined, score: 31, children: 9
Uriel238 16 points 3 years ago

We, here in California, totally feel you, bro.

path: 0 639507 641240, hotness: undefined, score: 16, children: 5
nsmnc 6 points 3 years ago
path: 0 639507 641240 641490, hotness: undefined, score: 6, children: 4
grue 2 points 3 years ago

I love the Oxford comma too, but that's not an example of one. The Oxford comma is about using one along with the conjunction at the end of a list instead of using the conjunction alone, e.g. "a, b, and c" instead of "a, b and c."

path: 0 639507 641240 641490 669845, hotness: undefined, score: 2, children: 3
nsmnc 1 point 3 years ago
path: 0 639507 641240 641490 669845 673742, hotness: undefined, score: 1, children: 2
BaconIsAVeg 13 points 3 years ago

I nearly had a aneurysm when I hit up drive-thru for lunch today and they had a sign that starting July 1st the city of Edmonton will require a $0.15 surcharge for take-out bags.

Never mind the fact that the fucking price of a burger has almost doubled over the past 3 years, better make sure we punish people for switching from plastic to paper.

Single-use plastic shopping bags (including compostable or biodegradable plastic shopping bags) can no longer be distributed, and businesses must charge at least 15 cents for a paper shopping bag and at least $1 for a new reusable shopping bag.

path: 0 639507 648338, hotness: undefined, score: 13, children: 1
spankinspinach 4 points 3 years ago

Edmonton buddy!!!

path: 0 639507 648338 662504, hotness: undefined, score: 4, children: 0
T0rrent01 3 points 3 years ago

If the situation worsens (which it will), I seriously hope governments can consider putting mask mandates back on the table.

Ah, who am I kidding, though? The whole "freedumb" mentality seems to have invaded even the bluest of locales.

path: 0 639507 676113, hotness: undefined, score: 3, children: 0
HikuNoir 27 points 3 years ago
path: 0 648088, hotness: undefined, score: 27, children: 5
WolfhoundRO 4 points 3 years ago

I don't want to know things anymore, I want to think things

path: 0 648088 665432, hotness: undefined, score: 4, children: 0
MusketeerX 2 points 3 years ago

So true, we have access to do much info now.

path: 0 648088 665850, hotness: undefined, score: 2, children: 0
WolfhoundRO 1 point 3 years ago
path: 0 648088 665429, hotness: undefined, score: 1, children: 0
mayo 1 point 3 years ago

What do you mean by this? Like the internet and social media, or just the pace of daily life, or? Is wisdom something that we should be taught but arent?

path: 0 648088 670604, hotness: undefined, score: 1, children: 0
WolfhoundRO 1 point 3 years ago
path: 0 648088 665436, hotness: undefined, score: 1, children: 0
MusketeerX 21 points 3 years ago

Two things I can see.

  1. Life in the developed world getting tougher and the middle class is shrinking

  2. Social media seems to make people unhappier and angrier

path: 0 665907, hotness: undefined, score: 21, children: 4
grue 9 points 3 years ago
  1. Social media seems to make people unhappier and angrier

Is it something inherent to social media that's doing that, or is it the toxic algorithms designed to drive "engagement" and ad impressions that used by commercial social media that's doing that?

path: 0 665907 669616, hotness: undefined, score: 9, children: 1
uriel238 3 points 3 years ago

The algos, ads and click-bait engagement economy exacerbate the problem, what is a consequence of the profit driven nature of current platforms.

A big factor is the replacement of actual social contact with social media. We need to get actually interpersonal once a week or so. Some of us need hugs or dancing or meals together, and the current overworked society doesn't really allow for this kind of engagement in its time constraints.

It's like living on fast food, rather than home-cooked meals.

path: 0 665907 669616 1752771, hotness: undefined, score: 3, children: 0
return2ozma 5 points 3 years ago

What middle class? A lot of people think they're middle class and they're actually not.

path: 0 665907 674068, hotness: undefined, score: 5, children: 0
uriel238 3 points 3 years ago

Major Depression was epidemic in the US back in the 90s, which prompted the SSRI boom. The problem was that few were ready to acknowledge the toxicity of normal post-industrial life, especially as the Soviet Union was collapsing and Reagan and George H. W. Bush were deregulating the work environment bact to Upton Sinclair's The Jungle

So yes, the dissolution of the middle class and rise of wealth desparity were already concerns, but social media wasn't yet a factor. This isn't to say it's not a factor today, especially when we use social media as an alternative to actual social contact.

The psychiatric sector is now recognizing we can't treat people using the standard medical model, assuming people can be treated while still in a toxic home and work environment. It would be like treating a kid for asthma while he was living in the Los Angeles smog crisis; there's a limit to how much treatment can help in those circumstances.

path: 0 665907 1752569, hotness: undefined, score: 3, children: 0
Hikermick 19 points 3 years ago

Our sphere of awareness has grown to encompass the entire world. We are aware of everything nearly immediately. Our sphere of influence remains small for the vast majority of us. In my opinion this explains a lot.

path: 0 675341, hotness: undefined, score: 19, children: 1
neutronicturtle 9 points 3 years ago

Indeed. Nicely worded.

And couple this with the fact that we are actively being conditioned that it is up to us to change things: "it's your personal footprint that matters", "vote with your wallet"... It's not even that I disagree that personal action is important. It's mostly that these narratives are a way for the corporations and governments to shift the blame from systemic to personal. And then we end up with feelings of paralysis because you can only do so much and guilt about not doing enough.

path: 0 675341 686673, hotness: undefined, score: 9, children: 0
neutronicturtle 19 points 3 years ago

For me it comes down to basically having more and more things to feel worried/anxious about and fewer and fewer things to feel excited about every year. Partially I guess it is normal part of aging (but I'm supposed to be in my prime year for fucks sake) but there are also objectively shitty things that make it difficult to be hopeful that my mood/feelings about the world will improve. The acceleration in enshittification of the internet doesn't help. At least Lemmy is a breath of fresh air in this regard.

path: 0 668886, hotness: undefined, score: 19, children: 1
danhasnolife 4 points 3 years ago

This is a great comment. Worry is everywhere.

path: 0 668886 675039, hotness: undefined, score: 4, children: 0
teuast 16 points 3 years ago

cost of housing is slowly bleeding my bank account dry and i literally wouldn't be able to survive here if i wasn't a strong enough cyclist to not need a car, but sure, everything's fine

path: 0 644414, hotness: undefined, score: 16, children: 4
Maggoty 16 points 3 years ago

Homeless survey just came out for San Diego. Not only are most homeless not transplants from other states (as the popular myth goes), they grew up in San Diego. And they didn't suffer one big financial problem. They slowly fell through the rental system until there was nothing left they could afford.

We need housing reform. We needed it a decade ago.

path: 0 644414 665578, hotness: undefined, score: 16, children: 3
T0rrent01 7 points 3 years ago

"B-b-b-but... muh backyard! I don't want to have to share it with, uhhhhh... 'criminals'! Building anything other than massively unaffordable single family homes and car dependent neighborhoods is going to ruin the character of the town!"

path: 0 644414 665578 676051, hotness: undefined, score: 7, children: 1
teuast 5 points 3 years ago

"Building bike lanes would ruin the quiet, village-like atmosphere of this town."

"What? Sorry, I can't hear you over the roar of traffic!"

path: 0 644414 665578 676051 714494, hotness: undefined, score: 5, children: 0
teuast 3 points 3 years ago

Gavin's housing bill was a step in the right direction, and I'm glad they did it, but I wish it'd gone a lot farther, into housing-guarantee territory. That would have been the real game changer.

path: 0 644414 665578 665806, hotness: undefined, score: 3, children: 0
chaos_rat 14 points 3 years ago

Well, it's becoming a civilisation-wide problem. Yeah.

But hey. Do not give up just yet. Okay?

path: 0 638820, hotness: undefined, score: 14, children: 0
TwoGems 12 points 3 years ago
path: 0 675160, hotness: undefined, score: 12, children: 0
T0rrent01 9 points 3 years ago

Climate change. (Often in the manifestation of wildfire smoke.)

Not only the destruction of the environment per se, but the fact that science has shown us how to solve it, yet the populace is unwilling to make personal sacrifices or otherwise change their lives up a little for the greater good.

path: 0 675983, hotness: undefined, score: 9, children: 1
gamer99 6 points 3 years ago

Capitalism is destroying the world, not the populace

path: 0 675983 682347, hotness: undefined, score: 6, children: 0
deanne 8 points 3 years ago

well it is easy to be depressed (at least in turkey) inflation is 110% (keeps rising) you can't buy shit or do shit, fun activities to do outside are getting lesser and lesser, nothing feels the same anymore, and reddit closing down and the web getting shittier isn't helping. but life goes on

path: 0 675298, hotness: undefined, score: 8, children: 2
GeoGio7 4 points 3 years ago

Hey man Greek person here I hope in the future our countries can be friendly and we can all have peace of mind. I have hope that my and future generations will leave the past behind.

path: 0 675298 687683, hotness: undefined, score: 4, children: 1
deanne 3 points 3 years ago

i don't have any issues with y'all, it's the politicians that are causing the anger and i don't care an inch about them. i think the future generations will fix this issue

path: 0 675298 687683 688550, hotness: undefined, score: 3, children: 0
small44 6 points 3 years ago

Weather in my case

path: 0 637761, hotness: undefined, score: 6, children: 0
AllonzeeLV 6 points 3 years ago

Probably because our society has chosen to live in service to our rigged economy, instead of having our economy as a tool to distribute goods and services for the benefit of society as it's supposed to be.

I wake up every day for work knowing most of my labor will be used to enrich some assholes on Wall Street who consider peasants like me to be subhuman. I wake up every day for work for nothing more than survival so I don't end up on a street corner, but beyond that, my work saps me of purpose.

That is why I imagine this as it is. Most of us are part of a vast underclass that exists solely to enrich the already rich that underpays us so we cannot even fund the hobbies we could derive any meaning from.

https://www.cnbc.com/...

Gee, I wonder why so many struggle to find anything but sadness subsisting as exploited capital batteries for wealthy sociopaths.

path: 0 868346, hotness: undefined, score: 6, children: 0
CaCtUs2003 5 points 3 years ago

No healthcare, unaffordable housing, billionaires blaming poor people for everything, corrupt politicians blaming poor people for everything, women losing body autonomy, somehow Nazis have returned...

Feel free to keep adding to this list

path: 0 816489, hotness: undefined, score: 5, children: 0
cantstopthesignal 3 points 3 years ago

What's the latest existential crises that's completely humanity's fault this month? There's forest fires twice the size of Connecticut and the entire south is so hot people shouldn't be outside? I liked the one last month where we were worried about nuclear Armageddon.

path: 0 665874, hotness: undefined, score: 3, children: 0
tallwookie 2 points 3 years ago

everyone? I'm not depressed. not elated but not depressed.

path: 0 637776, hotness: undefined, score: 2, children: 0
aboringdystopia
aboringdystopia

@lemmy.world

login for more options
17978
2447
4356

Pictures, Videos, Articles showing just how boring it is to live in a dystopic society, or with signs of a dystopic society.

Rules (Subject to Change)

--Be a Decent Human Being

--Posting news articles: include the source name and exact title from article in your post title

--If a picture is just a screenshot of an article, link the article

--If a video's content isn't clear from title, write a short summary so people know what it's about.

--Posts must have something to do with the topic

--Zero tolerance for Racism/Sexism/Ableism/etc.

--No NSFW content

--Abide by the rules of lemmy.world

go to feed...