Jepp, die Fahrlässigkeit von modern Solutions müsste als DSGVO Verstoß geahndet werden.

Die ursprüngliche Abweisung der Anklage war eine super kompetente Entscheidung die Hoffnung macht.

Diese nun doch zuzulassen ist sinnbildlich wie eine Anklage wegen Körperverletzung bei 1. Hilfe-Maßnahmen.

Was die Staatsanwaltschaft da verzapft ist wirklich bitter. Und die Fa. treibt sich mit dem betreiben der Strafanzeige hoffentlich PR-technisch wohlverdient in den Ruin.

But what about the droid attack on the Wookiees?

Looks comfy 🥰

Thank you for sharing your current struggles! I feel what you describe by a lot. I actively pushed back against my inner coming out for 2-3 years cause I was so afraid. And now somedays I’m really ok and other days, especially when there are social situations where I’m forced into my old shell, I feel horrible and like nothing will ever get better for me.

So, yeah I think that’s totally normal, also your fears of coming out are super understandable. I’m also afraid of a big coming out, so instead I go slow tiny steps. Wear slight makeup or very casual nail polish when I meet people who I slowly want to unlearn that I’m not the cis person they think I am (and I worked so hard to pretend to myself and everyone else I was).

Also concerning drastic changes, of course this feels like a lot, but we have always been who we are, so maybe these changes are just something to work through at whatever pace is possible right now.

To give you my timeline, I figured out I’m not cis in 2018. I actively ignored that cause it felt threatening to my live’s situs until 2021. I panicked so hard cause I did not understand gender as a spectrum and was also very convinced that medical changes are a must have. Mid 2022 I realised I’m nonbinary and somewhat genderfluid and since then I’m working on accepting myself. And only recently I felt maybe it’s not that big of a deal, cause I’m just me and it’s all gonna be ok.

I think you are on a great path to exploring yourself and I wish you all the best for it!! 💜

Feel free to ask me more questions and sorry for the wall of text.

Wow, Buschmann und das Justizministerium können sich nun also Queer- und Frauenfeindlichkeit durch aktives Vorschieben fandenscheiniger Bedenken auf die Fahne schreiben.

I don’t know the context of your post, but in the fediverse it is part of the netiquette not to judge other people, especially on such oversimplified terms.

Being obese is often not a great experience. I think being told „you can choose not to be a fat bastard“ is already insulting and also insinuating that this aspect of physical and or mental health is a simple matter of choice, which I find to be quite unbearable and very hurtful.

Please take your anger elsewhere. I don’t know what you might be going through right now, but you must find healthier ways to vent this aggression.

Instead of punishing others for their struggles, we can find healthy ways to support one another here.

It’s interesting how gun handling accidents are so symbolic for all self harming political action of conservatives.

WLAN verbunden und Kadsen und Sonne sind die Phasen, die am meisten mit der Realität zu tun haben.

I suppose the best way for queer dating is joining queer (friendly) spaces. And get to know people. Also you could go on fedi (mastodon, misskey) etc and get to know people. And maybe at some point you’ll grow close enough for irl dating with someone. 😊

Always be watchful for scammers, chasers etc.

Mir ging es um die Debatte über das Selbstbestimmungsgesetz.

Hierbei hat Buschmann mehrfach das absurde und transfeindliche Narrativ angeführt, dass Betreiberinnen von Frauensaunas zum Schutz ihrer Kundinnen die Entscheidungshoheit behalten müssten, wer aus ihrer Sicht Frauen sind. Zudem sieht der aktuelle Entwurf vor, dass bei einer Namensänderung alle Strafverfolgungsbehörden darüber informiert werden und diese die Personen überprüfen sollen. Das ist aus meiner Sicht völlig übergriffig und stigmatisierend.

Das Sauna Beispiel ist sehr weit hergeholt. Und Strafverfolgungsbehörden können eine Identifizierung auch über Nachnamen, Geburtsdatum, Wohnort und Ausweisdokumentennummern durchführen.

Die Benachrichtigung der Strafverfolgungsbehörden hat auch historisch einige Brisanz und erinnert an die rosa Listen.

That is quite a lot, and I really feel how all that can drag you down further.

I think a big chunk of the generation of our parents, who always demands that people should have some respect and be decent, have rapidly taken a more than conservative standpoint, indoctrinated by right wing news.

I am nb (but not very visibly) and I’m neither out to my parents nor my parents in law, cause I’m sure they’ll handle it just like your dad.

We obviously disagree on many topics though, so since I got my independence, I reduced contact to them when they constantly overstepped. This worked wonders, since they suddenly realised it’s more important for them to meet up with me/ us than blabbering anti-woke garbage.

Also, venting here and reaching out for support networks is always great when you are down (though all the harder to do, I know).

The political situation in your state is horrible, but we will prevail and things will turn for the better eventually. 💜

And concerning the weight part, I personally love to do martial arts, it’s an easy way to lose weight and gives you a sense of knowing how to defend yourself. I could imagine more queer people need dojos right now, so maybe there is a group to be found or founded already.

Who watches those that watch us?

Ich denke das deutsche StGB ist da mit den Amtsdelikten deutlich besser aufgestellt.

Und auch das Disziplinarrecht ist ein gutes Werkzeug, um nicht strafbaren Sachverhalten dennoch auf den Grund zu gehen.

Letzteres könnte aus meiner Sicht auch auf Aussagen darüber greifen, Straftaten durch die eigene Berufsgruppe nicht verfolgt sehen zu wollen.

did you mean: Tinnitus Prime

Yeah, it’s an unexpectedly cute little detail in such a grim dark universe. 🥺

Hi Nen! Thanks for sharing this! Weren’t I so scared of any sort of meds, I’d be on estrogen since 2 years as well. I think being genderfluid is one the labels that are a bit harder to apply to oneself. It’s a label that gets a very stereotypical wrap in pop-culture though in fact in undermines all stereotypes and gives us room to be the best version of ourselves every other day (and also room to be annoyed about pronouns xD) I also rock cute nailpolish, slight makeup with my curly bob and a beard. Took me long enough, but I love it.💜

Don’t know if that is still holding up, but the German ministry of defence put terrorist attacks on the same list as natural disasters in their „Weißbuch“ around 2016. So theoretically we could have, what for historical reason we should never see again: The military enforcing inland. And while in Bavaria climate crisis protesters are held in detention under anti terror law, the picture discussed here could become reality in Germany faster than we might think.

I liked the Ciaphas Cane books. They are sort of comedic which fits the very ironic world of 40k nicely from my pov. It’s mostly about the imperial guard, but you learn about ca. 2 other Xeno factions in every book.

Gaunts Ghosts is also nice, but very centred at the Imperial Guard, military and (fictional) tactics and good leadership.

The first three books (and also others) of the Horus Heresy are amazing at showing more irony of 40k and very captivating. Though they are mostly about space marines and their chapters.

Hey hey! Sorry for getting back to you only after so long. And also sorry for the way too long text I wrote now. 😓 (I don’t feel bad, cause I learned that’s not so healthy, but I still wanted to say I’m sorry)

My partner was shocked but is also my biggest ally and we have slowly worked through this. Me finally coming out was quite overwhelming for both of us and made for some artificial rift. In hindsight, I think going with a coming out would have also been possible. Just slowly starting my transition in style and behaviour. Why I think this felt like an artificial rift is, because I have always been me. And my partner always new that side of me. That I can now own this and put away the masking is not that big of a change after all.

On bodily transitioning, I feel very similar. I’m anxious of my health and libido.

What I have noticed though is, that while accepting myself as is, I grew a lot better at self care. Before my inner coming out I was always masking a look and behaviour like an armour. After my inner coming out dysphoria was often overwhelming and I gave up hope for myself and didn’t take more that absolutely necessary to be ok looking for work.

It took me 5 years to figure out I can be trans and choose only the transition steps that fit me. Though I strongly felt the need to fit in as what was my understanding of being trans for the longest time.

Now I am surely still not always super happy with my body, but accepting I’m trans helped me a great deal to take good care of myself. And now my slightly more carefully picked look, cuter (but very casual) outfits, and wearing nail polish , give my euphoria from time to time.

I don’t wanna bother you too much, cause whatever transition steps you do, will be your journey. I personally just felt very hollow on many parts of this journey cause I attacked myself for not being “trans enough” which mostly annoys me in hindsight. And now on days or weeks we’re I just can’t really be me (yet) I still know who I am and don’t feel disappointed by myself. 😊

I can highly recommend looking (via queermed) for queer group therapy or similar. This helped me a great deal. 💜

You can happily add me on blahaj.zone Calckey if you feel like staying in touch. 😊

I think of the original quote in many situations in my life, cause one can paste many things in there. It perfectly fits for transitioning. 💜