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2 years ago by WatTyler to c/adhd

Maybe this doesn't need to be said but this is a different question to which video game genres do you enjoy. For example, I enjoy playing Dota 2. Every few months or so, I'll play it for a couple of weeks and put it back down. I'll never play more than two or three matches and I feel 'present' for the duration.

Paradox grand strategy games (especially EUIV), however, I can start playing at 7am and in a blink of an eye it can be 11pm and I won't have eaten or used the toilet or anything. I can do this for multiple days in a row. Furthermore, I don't often feel like I'm 'enjoying' it. I'm just consumed by it.

I'm intrigued to hear whether or not anyone recognises this difference in themselves. If you have any insight as to why you're consumed by some games and not others, I'd be very interested.

usrtrv 39 points 2 years ago

Any Paradox game. Oxygen Not Included. Factorio. Civilization. Rimworld. Dwarf Fortress. The list goes on.

For me I think it's about having non-stop and parallel mini problems/puzzles/goals. By the time one task is finished. There's two more to take its place.

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MagosInformaticus 7 points 2 years ago

This is definitely important in making the very most engaging base-builders - a pleasing mixture of longer term goals (manufacture this piece that I can eventually put in a future science pack or whatnot) and under-performing pieces of your older infrastructure that you have to scale up or re-plan is just so helpful for getting you into that flow state.

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WatTyler 2 points 2 years ago
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xmunk 2 points 2 years ago

Dwarf Fortress is, imo, much less crack-y than something like Factorio. It takes much less constant attention by how slow the game moves and how long your plans take to work out. I find my time in DF to be meditative and relaxing because I'm working towards a clear goal but can relax a lot of my reactions... Factorio is a game where you can do as fast as you can think (outside the early game) - even if you're waiting on something there is always something else to obsess over.

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Unforeseen 2 points 2 years ago
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xmunk 1 point 2 years ago

I absolutely adored seablock... and I wouldn't recommend it to anyone who has any social obligations in the next half a year.

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Novi 19 points 2 years ago

Factory games. Resource management... I get all caught up rebalancing inputs and outputs... This building needs an expansion to fit the new gears project... Over here we need more room for screws... Plates!?!? Why are all the plates gone!!!!! 🤬

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WatTyler 3 points 2 years ago
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marker2002 8 points 2 years ago

Satisfactory for me. I also bought Dyson Sphere on sale, but also haven't tried it yet.

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morbidcactus 3 points 2 years ago

1.0 drops right when I actually have time to take vacation, scratches the same itch as some of the old Minecraft mod packs (so does factorio, I just really like building factories lol) I just really love watching things whip around.

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marker2002 4 points 2 years ago

Cheers

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trainden 4 points 2 years ago

Shapez 2 recently released in early access (still has release sale). While I love Factorio, Shapez has no enemies and infinite resources. Might make it more boring, but sometimes I find it really nice to just build some belts and not to worry about some sub-base being run over.

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WatTyler 2 points 2 years ago
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Addv4 3 points 2 years ago

And next thing you know it's the next morning. Which is why I don't play factorio too often.

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WatTyler 1 point 2 years ago
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DScratch 1 point 2 years ago

Logistics Gang Rise Up!

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PM_Your_Nudes_Please 17 points 2 years ago

Factorio. At one point I binged so much that I started seeing conveyor belts in my sleep.

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kerrigan778 4 points 2 years ago

Ah, the Tetris effect

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traches 11 points 2 years ago

factorio has stolen months from me

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WatTyler 11 points 2 years ago
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slazer2au 4 points 2 years ago

I only have 1000 hours in Factorio, what are you up to?

This also my be a bad ideal telling you, but there is a DLC coming out for Factorio and boy does it look good.

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WatTyler 3 points 2 years ago
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slazer2au 4 points 2 years ago

Soon the factory will grow to other planets.

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Evil_Shrubbery 9 points 2 years ago

No one for rougelikes?

I dont even like them that much is just the only things I can play sometimes.

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slym 8 points 2 years ago

I’m surprised that no one have mention Tetris.

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RandomlyRight 6 points 2 years ago

For me it’s ARPGs, but specifically its Path of Exile. The visual stimulation combined with the dopamine hit when something good drops, plus a long term goal to make your character better. They release a new league every 3-4 months and I always pray it doesn’t consume my life for more than 2 weeks

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MagosInformaticus 1 point 2 years ago

It's also my favourite place to kill monsters, take their stuff and use it to get better at killing monsters and taking their stuff. I do feel like it has so much build space to explore I find building without some reference to a guide frustrating, but it manages that progression well and the atlas passive trees are a neat way to let you customize what content you want to engage with.

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Bakkoda 1 point 2 years ago

Yup. When your starter hits right and you get some decent currency early on, it's a blackhole of time. I was just about to stop and a map runner gifted me a HH and now I'm sucked back in.

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Rhynoplaz 6 points 2 years ago

For me, it's Fallout, Elder Scrolls, World of Warcraft, Final Fantasy, Hearthstone and Stardew Valley.

But pretty much anything like those will do it if I'm enjoying myself.

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WatTyler 1 point 2 years ago
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Rhynoplaz 3 points 2 years ago

In WoW, I was a solo player that wanted to do everything. So, I'd go to a town, grab all the quests, and start crossing them off until it was time to go to the next one. And in between, I just spend hours wandering around looking for flowers to pick or ore to mine.

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Vibi 6 points 2 years ago

Honestly, it's depressing, but nothing solo anymore. Games were such a big part of my life, but now I can only focus and enjoy them with a friend. It can be the most basic game, but as long as I have a friend I'm locked in. Anytime I try playing a game just for me, it's like the dopamine just isn't generated 😭

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WatTyler 5 points 2 years ago
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Rhynoplaz 4 points 2 years ago

I couldn't ever imagine getting hyper-focused on them but I know that a lot of people are, which intrigues me.

"Just one more..."

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WatTyler 2 points 2 years ago
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Rhynoplaz 1 point 2 years ago

Actually, now that we're analyzing it, Hearthstone has been my go to boredom game for the past ten years, and a good part of that is probably because of the defined start and finish.

I play it every day on my lunch break, because I know I can get 1-3 matches in before it's time to go back to work. I could pay Stardew Valley on my phone, which I also love, but I probably wouldn't feel "satisfied" when I inevitably realize that lunch has been over for five minutes and I'm in the middle of a game task.

However, when I pay Hearthstone on a day where I have nowhere to be, just one more match... Just one more...

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jpreston2005 1 point 2 years ago

I used to love playing DOTA 2, and with the new Ringmaster drop I played a few matches, but I'm being driven away by toxic teammates. Despite playing Unranked Turbo matches exclusively, I'll still get people flaming my hero pick, or play style, or pausing for mean spirited reasons. It's seemingly every match now. How has your experience been?

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WatTyler 2 points 2 years ago
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WatTyler 1 point 2 years ago
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superkret 5 points 2 years ago

Euro Truck Simulator
Kerbal Space Program

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traches 2 points 2 years ago

KSP pulls me in for awhile until some bullshit bug ruins a mission I spent hours on

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ByteOnBikes 4 points 2 years ago

Vampire Survivor.

It's very much like a Dragon Ball super fusion. For the next 20-30 minutes... I am fused with the game.

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WatTyler 1 point 2 years ago
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B0NK3RS 4 points 2 years ago

Management games where I can play really slowly and focus on small details, normally on very hard mode too so a lot of the easy ones don't make the cut.

Football Manager and Software Inc are probably the ones I go back to most often.

Also 99% of the games I play I never complete...

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DumbAceDragon 4 points 2 years ago

Quick and twitchy FPS games. Reason I was so upset when roblox ditched wine support is because it deprived me of my daily dose of randomizer and bad business.

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folkrav 3 points 2 years ago

As a general rule, I tend to focus on a title or a series of {books,tv,movies,games,musician,etc}, consume it to death over the course of a handful of weeks/months, then lose interest and never touch it ever again.

I had a big Soulslike phase in the middle of the pandemic. Before that it was Rocket League. I’ve gamed very little these last months in between a million consecutive life events, but the little time I had to play was almost exclusively on Monster Hunter (I just reached Iceborne in MHW).

The one game I had a legitimately problematic relationship with was Counter Strike, as a teen and young adult. Nowadays, I still have the general game sense but the reflexes and skills are long gone, and I don’t have the time to dedicate to getting to a level I’d feel good at.

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fuckwit_mcbumcrumble 3 points 2 years ago

Power wash sim has stolen 100 hours from me in about a month of ownership.

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felykiosa 3 points 2 years ago

Satisfactory minecraft and monster hunter

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earlgrey0 3 points 2 years ago

I am not sure what to call the genera but there is something so very consuming and soothing about Papers Please. It’s hard to describe how that game pokes just the right parts of my brain meat but it does. A major part of the game is learning patterns and picking out the pieces that are out of place and my goodness does my brain get a kick out of finding typos, inconsistent city locations, and mis-matching information between documents. I need to process an avalanche of information quickly but it doesn’t feel overwhelming, instead it is oddly soothing. The game is also short enough that I can binge and get to the end without ruining my life unlike something more open ended like Oxygen not Included.

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Coelacanth 3 points 2 years ago

Yeah, anything competitive is too stressful for me to be able to just play for hours on end. I'm playing Deadlock at the moment and I'm typically taking a break after every one or two games just to control my mood.

Football Manager was the worst for me I'd say. Consumed months at a time. Civilization can eat a day easily if you're not careful. Really, anything I can control the pace of that I get interested in and that doesn't have a story. I enjoy narrative games, but they require a different type of focus and concentration that takes a lot more energy. I can't play those for days on end, even hours on end. I can get obsessed by them, and I can play tons of hours over the course of a week, but I don't hyperfocus on them the same way.

Anything management or strategy however, where you're working for incremental progress and "just one more turn"? That's dangerous. Last little obsession I had was Esports Godfather, a MOBA themed deckbuilder/autobattler/management game that has probably been my surprise hit of the year and which was gloriously addicting.

Furthermore, I don't often feel like I'm 'enjoying' it. I'm just consumed by it.

Recognise this feeling very well, from a lot of things when I hyperfocus on it. It's almost a sensation like nausea, that palpable feeling of not being in control, for me at least. Especially bad when I briefly snap into self-awareness - but not enough to break out of the hyperfocus.

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WatTyler 1 point 2 years ago
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ProgrammingSocks 2 points 2 years ago

Rhythm games. Diablo clones. ATS, ETS, and BeamNG.drive.

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WatTyler 1 point 2 years ago
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ProgrammingSocks 1 point 2 years ago

Last Epoch. It's new and very fun.

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subignition 2 points 2 years ago

I can barely put down Ace Attorney style games. I love experiences where I get to unravel a mystery.

It's also really easy to spend a long time grinding in old school Maple. Just monotonous enough to be soothing, just active enough to keep my attention on it.

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Nemo 2 points 2 years ago

Basebuilders, 4Xs, Incrementals, and Survival Crafters

Once I burn out I try to stay away as long as possible for the sake of getting other things done and having a sane sleep schedule.

Compare with RPGs, farm sims, platformers, action adventure games, and roguelikes, which I can pick up and put down much more easily without disrupting other aspects of my life.

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WatTyler 3 points 2 years ago
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MagosInformaticus 2 points 2 years ago

Incremental games are a bit of an "I know it when I see it" grouping, but two typical characteristics are progression systems nested within each other and game loops that start simple but "flower" into a number of more detailed and mutually interacting ones over the course of play.
Universal Paperclips is a nice example, casting you as a newly built AI with the goal of making as many paperclips as you can. You start out able to make paperclips and sell them to humans for funds you can then use to invest in more capabilities. You work on building trust with the humans so they'll let you do more things, and on making more clips faster, and there is a lot of escalation from these humble beginnings. Some other good ones are Cookie Clicker and, if you're into programming puzzles, Bitburner.

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Nemo 1 point 2 years ago

"Numbers get bigger, spend number1 to make number2 get bigger faster, spend number2 to make number3 get bigger faster..."

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The_Picard_Maneuver 2 points 2 years ago

Anything that has set turns or levels with natural points to pause. The short time commitment make it easier to "one more turn" my way into playing for hours.

XCOM 2 is phenomenal for this.

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WatTyler 2 points 2 years ago
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Kolanaki 2 points 2 years ago

Anything that gives me an adrenaline rush. Which usually only happens against real human players, but the first time through a good difficult game like a souls like works too.

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BackOnMyBS 2 points 2 years ago

Games where the purpose is to optimize productivity, efficiency, and achieving accomplishments improve effectiveness. Or complex/realistic simulation games. So games like SimCity, Tropico, Kerbal Space Program, and MS Flight Simulator 2020.

It's just too rewardingggg 🫨

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Tippon 2 points 2 years ago

Minecraft, if I've got a project to do.

I run a local server so that I can play with my kid, but I'm the one who has to actually get things done. Simple things like looking for diamonds is enough to keep me playing for hours. I'll find a vein, and I think that's not enough, I need to find more, so I'll find half a dozen more veins, but then my brain switches to the 'I may as well carry on' mindset.

I mined a mountain down to ground level recently because the top was spoiling the view from our village, and once I started, it was quite soothing.

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BugleFingers 2 points 2 years ago

I got absolutely consumed by Dead cells. I put more hours into it in a few months than I did a game I've been playing with a friend for 5 years at the time. There's another game in the same Genre that I can't rember the name of, but the high skill, PVE games like those if they catch my eye, oof, I go HARD.

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Nosavingthrow 2 points 2 years ago

High speed first person shooters like Titanfall 2 or the finals; the complete opposite, meticulous, and slow shooters like Rainbow 6: Siege

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jetsetdorito 2 points 2 years ago

Transport Fever 2

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faercol 2 points 2 years ago

Oh my god, same. Tycoons, City Builders like Transport Fever or Cities Skyline. I don't play them for months or years, then I spend like a week playing for hours and forgetting time, then I stop again for months

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Micromot 2 points 2 years ago

Factorio does this for me, you just forget time and suddenly it's 3 am and you are about to finish yellow science but you could still optimize a lot.

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runner_g 1 point 2 years ago

City builders and colony builders are major time sinks. Anything with micro-tasks. I just need to finish this one building, I just need to finish this prisoner recruit, I just need to ... And then it's 3 am and you have to wake up at 6 for work. Civilization games do this to me too.

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jaschen 2 points 2 years ago

League of Legends. It's a cancer game. Don't play it.

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therealjcdenton 1 point 2 years ago

Menu Simulators like Warframe and Path of Exile

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BodePlotHole 1 point 2 years ago

Samurai Gunn

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Eiri 1 point 2 years ago

Rogue-likes, especially if each run is long. Man, the number of times I booted up One Way Heroics for "just a quick run" and realize hours later that I should've gone to bed long ago.

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bionicjoey 1 point 2 years ago

Really big and complex games like Rimworld and the Paradox or Hooded Horse games can really suck me in.

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tiefling 1 point 2 years ago

Splatoon

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fernlike3923 1 point 2 years ago
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superduperpirate 1 point 2 years ago

4X games, specifically any of the Civilization games I’ve played (everything but SMAC & Civ: Beyond Earth).

MMORPG, specifically Elder Scrolls Online.

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WatTyler 3 points 2 years ago
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superduperpirate 1 point 2 years ago

I have not tried any of their games, actually.

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InquisitiveApathy 1 point 2 years ago
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