That’s how you now it’s not fake.
Nurse_Robot 52 points a year ago
It still could be gay
sugar_in_your_tea 3 points a year ago
He and his friend could be sleeping together, but otherwise in an open relationship.
mnemonicmonkeys 8 points a year ago
The friend is just jealous the girl is getting more attention from OP and going full yandere
SharkEatingBreakfast 65 points a year ago
I've legit had this happen to me in high school. I stopped being friends with guys after it became.... "aggressive".
Monument 32 points a year ago
I had this happen to me in my 30’s. (Sorta.)
Polyamory - a woman who hadn’t been taking on new partners started dating me. My other girlfriend’s husband began awkwardly pursuing her with no grace or finesse. It got awkward. An acquaintance learned that I was dating the second woman (who had also only recently gotten back into the scene), and began pursuing her.
It’s like some guys think that because a woman is available to one (well, two or three), she’s available to all. It felt very much like blood in the water to a shark.
Contemporarium 2 points a year ago
Ha..hahaha..ha..HAHAHAHAHAHA
RowRowRowYourBot 57 points a year ago path: 0 15874899, hotness: undefined, score: 57, children: 37
Randomgal 40 points a year ago
I agree, but there's is also the reallity that if you have no hobbies and no passions other than gooning you're going to come off as pretty uninteresting and boring to most people. Some would call that being low-value
Wanpieserino -17 points a year ago
Nah low value isn't about hobbies and stuff. That's teenager stuff.
It's quite easy.. be dependable, be able to communicate, be good looking, charisma, ...
Girls don't give a shit about your hobbies unless they also have those exact same hobbies.
Randomgal 22 points a year ago
I mean sure buddy, but are you gonna open up the bar with "Let me tell you how dependable and good I am at communicating." or are you gonna show her that by telling her about your hobbies and how you stick to them despite hardship. If you can't talk about what you like, how are you gonna talk about the difficult stuff down the line?
I'd say well groomed is more important than "good looking". If you look clean, your clothes are well fitted, hair and nails well trimmed and show some basic hair and skin care you look good regardless of what your face actually looks like.
Thinking that hobbies have no value, that's teenager stuff. So is thinking that what applies to one woman applies to all.
Wanpieserino -9 points a year ago
Well groomed.. really wasn't necessary. I just wore a t-shirt and whenever I was interested in someone I would take off that t-shirt.
I was age 21-24 though, so teenager stuff might still have applied.
Met my wife when I was 24, now 6 years together.
So yeah, my experience with women basically is from age 17 to 24. As teenager, it was all about hobbies etc.
Now as a married man.. my wife doesn't give a fuck bout my hobbies, she's pregnant so she wants someone dependable. Long term relationship so we need to be communicative.
Hobbies.. we do things together. Outings, watching series. She suffers through my blabbering bout economic stuff that she really doesn't care about. She watches me workout for the so maniest time.
When you're looking for a relationship, all you need to do is have fun. Be charming. Your hobby can be whatever. They want you, not your hobby, not your grooming. If you're fit and you can make her laugh, that's all you need.
Ashenlux 4 points a year ago
It's not so much about the hobby itself. It's the having interests part. Having some things you like to do or are passionate about. Sure, some hobbies will attract more interest from women then others, but plenty of women are into video games, working out, or any other "unattractive" hobbies, you just got to find the right match.
Trainguyrom 29 points a year ago
I've learned from my female friends that the bar for men is so fucking low. Basically shower regularly, listen to what other people say, know how to keep your home relatively clean and don't be a creep and you're immediately in the top 30%
SoftestSapphic -2 points a year ago
6 figures, 6 feet, 6 inches is on a lot of people's profiles.
If you were rich it would probably more than double the number of people who are interested in you.
Part of why there are so many idiots self assigning as incels is because we refuse to agree with them when it's fair.
This shit culture perpetuates itself all over the gender spectrum.
shalafi 9 points a year ago
I've had sex with 50+ women in life, many way above my "value", and most from when I was broke as fuck. Anyone that thinks it takes money to get laid is making excuses for something. And BTW, I'm 5'8" and 140lbs., a "manlet" I think I'm called?
As it turns out, I'm horny and a genuine human being. Women respond to that. (I also give good head. Write that down.)
Buddahriffic 5 points a year ago
They choose to be low value when they get bitter about their assumption they are low value.
I'm glad I had someone I wasn't attracted to pursuing me early on because it led to the realization that giving in to that bitterness would just seal my fate when I was feeling down about rejection. Part of the bitterness was wanting someone to say, "hey, no, that's not the case" and date me to make me feel better, but from experiencing the other side of it, I knew there wasn't anything she could have done to make me into anything other then friendship and the more she pushed, the less I'd be sympathetic, not the other way around.
Things didn't turn around right away when I realized that, but it was an important part of the "don't be unattractive" rule. There's more to it, of course, but being whiney and bitter is pretty unattractive to most people, I'd guess.
SoftestSapphic 10 points a year ago
It's the attempt to understand dating through tech bro economics.
The look at supply/demand (swipes), and decide their value based on the demand of the "market" is.
It's deranged
green_copper 7 points a year ago
No one else can decide your value.
Others can decide over your value inside their own socials context, which lead to the value-judging person and their peers to act accordingly towards you.
If you apply this value to yourself or reject it and if other contexts and groups adopt the value is an other story.
INHALE_VEGETABLES 1 point a year ago
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Reddfugee42 6 points a year ago
They confided in each other that they both have low self esteem
Brutticus 3 points a year ago
lol so basically the premise of incelibacy is that there is a hierarchy of men (hence all the "alpha" or "beta" shit".) What you are was given out at birth (so yay, biological essentialism). they believe some traits highly valued by women (height, beauty, etc) and these were handed out at birth. If you are short, or slight, or bulky, they believe that no one can find you attractive (the black pill), no matter what other traits you cultivate. They are convinced no one might have any other taste, they have to look like Chris Hemsworth. So imagine a scale with Chris Hemsworth at the top, and everyone who doesn't look like that having "low value."
yunxiaoli 2 points a year ago
Imagine the world is a video game. Higher value characters of the race man would have things like a high earning job (a good class), a decent amount of wealth, high physical stats, high charisma. Low value characters would have a terrible class (smelly gamer), stats they believe are skewed towards intelligence, and no money.
If your world view is like this except you also believe there are hidden stats you can't ever change(like looks), and you're in a capitalist nightmarescape where even changing your class and amount of wealth is typically impossible, then you've accidently an entire incel.
Ilovethebomb 44 points a year ago
One of them is lower value than the other, it would seem.
Pregnenolone 13 points a year ago
Teenager moment
Reddfugee42 2 points a year ago
Men in Tights!
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