Putting the poor pupper to rest

a year ago by PugJesus to c/dogs

PugJesus 90 points a year ago

Explanation: This is an actual Roman epitaph for a pet dog. Ancient peoples loved their pets just as we do. RIP, sweet pupper

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ZombiFrancis 8 points a year ago

Argos made it into Homer's Odyssey for this same sentiment.

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SassyRamen 5 points a year ago

Pearl was his wife if that tells you anything. /s

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PiJiNWiNg 54 points a year ago
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HootinNHollerin 29 points a year ago

I went through that last week with my cat. It was so heartbreaking and traumatic

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sarcasticsunrise 18 points a year ago

When we had to put our sweet little girl cat Scout to sleep a couple years ago, she came back for a split second trying to fight and attack the pentobarbital as it was flowing into her leg. I can never unsee that moment, and it broke me on a level I will never fully recover from

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PiJiNWiNg 12 points a year ago
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isolatedscotch 4 points a year ago

unrelated, but the USA uses the same drug on human beings for lethal executions

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Mouselemming 13 points a year ago

But your vet is more invested in making sure your pet doesn't suffer in the process.

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ReverendIrreverence 4 points a year ago

We also use high-speed lead injections in some states now too

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PiJiNWiNg 13 points a year ago
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rekabis 3 points a year ago

I have power of attorney over my parents, and have strict instructions to pull the plug if there isn’t a significant chance of a full or near-full recovery. They’re in their 80s now, both with DNR instructions, so any chance of a significant recovery (if they have an incident) is becoming ever more remote. Plus, they’re in the channel for MAID - Medical Assistance In Death.

So yeah. I’m their personal Grim Reaper. And they’re counting on me to be exactly that.

But they brought me into this world, and I will do my duty of care to walk them out of it with as much grace and dignity as possible.

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hDGGgrLpg8nEucjxWnJz 1 point a year ago

Wow that's a lot of responsibility and emotional weight to carry around. I hope you're OK and have the support you need too.

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pezhore 15 points a year ago

I was there when my 12 year old Boston mix was put to sleep and I was utterly shocked at how fast the transition went. I literally turned to the vet and said, "my god, is it over already?". To think that someone you spend nearly every day with for over a decade can be gone in seconds... it's humbling and awful.

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assassinatedbyCIA 10 points a year ago

It’s a raw feeling. I wish I could forget it. But I can’t.

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100_kg_90_de_belin 10 points a year ago

I had to do it more than twenty years ago and I fear that I will have to do it again soonish. It leaves a mark on your heart.

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DeviantOvary 9 points a year ago

My first dog died at a little over 5.5 years old in my bedroom. It was so traumatic, the stress triggered an autoimmune illness and I haven't been the same since (it's been 3 years and 3 months).

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Jessica 7 points a year ago

My 16-year-old cat just needed an ultrasound a few days ago, and they gave her some sedative that made her go completely limp in my arms within like 30 seconds. I was not even remotely prepared for that, and it felt like she died in my arms. Needless to say, I cried a bunch and I think I also got a taste of some shit I was not ready for that day.

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PugJesus 7 points a year ago

Yeah. My old manimal was put down a decade ago, and I still think about him nearly every day. It was crushing, watching it happen.

He didn't give a damn, though. Cheerful as ever 'til the last breath. Suppose that's the best any of us can ask to go out like.

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bcgm3 6 points a year ago

One could not hope for a more pure visualization of "letting go." We extoll its virtue, but it can be so hard to do. No matter what, there will always be something that we hold on to, until our final breath.

You gave your friend a great gift that day. I know it was hard, but you should be proud of the compassionate person that you are.

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2ugly2live 47 points a year ago

Pet deaths are always so hard. They're usually so perfect and sweet, and then they just go, and it's always too soon. And you want to properly express to them, somehow, that they were perfect, they were beautiful, and they were loved.

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Maroon 26 points a year ago
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Gerudo 6 points a year ago

Oh, this one got me too while at work. Had to grab a tissue.

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PiJiNWiNg 17 points a year ago
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lars 2 points a year ago

WHOA THIS IS SO AWESOME

Never occurred to me that it was possible and happens

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GroundedGator 16 points a year ago

This hits. Said goodbye at the end of February. Would have been 15 in March.

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JackLSauce 11 points a year ago

This is why spoiling your dog(s) is an obligation rather than an indulgence

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lars 1 point a year ago

Not a bad idea to finally find out if your dog loves chocolate in the moments before

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NightShot 10 points a year ago

Made me cry, miss my old boy so much. Almost been a year....

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KnightontheSun 9 points a year ago path: 0 16420514, hotness: undefined, score: 9, children: 1
Pandantic 9 points a year ago

TIL in Zoroastrianism, otters > dogs:

In the Vendidad, it is stated that the spirits of a thousand deceased dogs are reincarnated in a single otter (“water dog”)

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gargolito 8 points a year ago

I'm giving palliative care to my 14 year old hound. His appetite is still good and he's mobile, but this is one of the hardest times in my adult life, even though I've been preparing myself, knowing that his breed's life expectancy is around twelve years. Last time I had to put a pet down was a car cat I kept for 15 years and that sucked too, but it's been a long time since then.

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rekabis 3 points a year ago

Last time I had to put a pet down was a car I kept for 15 years

Cars are considered pets, now? (J/K)

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gargolito 3 points a year ago

It was not a Jaguar. 😸

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some_designer_dude 2 points a year ago

He’s lucky to have you. Good human.

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CheeryLBottom 6 points a year ago

Ok, this hurts. I have a 16 year old Shih Tzu that, at his yearly a month ago, the vet find a mass in the back of his mouth. Because of his age, I opted to not explore further in case it weakened him.

On the Plus side, nobody told him something may or may not be wrong so he continues to speed down the hallway and spins out at the kitchen and on his walks, he drags me around at his speedy pace

Considering his brother went into congestive heart failure on Mother's Day right after lockdown, I'll take this with grace :) (sort of)

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JustAnotherKay 4 points a year ago

I just had to let go of my 15 year old best friend last week, thank you for this.

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Alpha71 3 points a year ago

Just on a curious side note, what do people who don't have anyplace to bury their pets, (ie; apartment dwellers etc.) do with the remains of their pets once passed?

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duhbasser 10 points a year ago

I had my dog cremated and the vet had an option to pay $100 more, and someone from the local wood working high school team designed and builds the cremation box. I did that and now she’s in a beautiful cremation box that’s well made and local. I think it’s a good way to honor my dog, I miss her everyday

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Gerudo 3 points a year ago

I've had one cremated and I've been meaning to take some of the ashes and make a glass sculpture for something permanent, and then go release her ashes out somewhere. Others have had backyard.

There are several companies that will take ashes and make jewelry, paper weights, ornaments, sun catchers, etc.

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ArmoredThirteen 3 points a year ago

You can get them cremated but I've always gone for the "ask someone with a car to drive me out into nowhere and pick any ol spot that isn't too close to water". Depending on timing this sometimes requires me to wrap them up and pop them in the freezer for a couple days which isn't stellar feeling but gets the job done

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crusa187 1 point a year ago

For a fee you can work with your vet, or sometimes even county/city programs, to cremate your pet after they die.

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billwashere 2 points a year ago

I just had to put my dog to rest a few weeks ago. This post brought me to tears once again. It was one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do. We knew she wasn’t feeling well but we thought it was probably just worms or something simple. It wasn’t. We scheduled for it to happen at home because she was scared to death of the vet. From the time we scheduled it to the time it happened was the longest 3 days of my life. I miss you terribly little girl. 😢

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carinnakop -1 points a year ago

Will $35,000 be enough to take care of your financial aid?

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