Like, some people are only naked with their partners, some people are naked around friends, some people are fine being naked around their immediate family.
Where do you, personally, draw the line?
Who are you comfortable being naked around?
9 months ago by FoolsQuartz to c/asklemmynsfw
NihilsineNefas 14 points 9 months ago
Whichever alphabet agent is watching me through my phone and the signals from my wifi, I guess.
FoolsQuartz 7 points 9 months ago
Totally. If they've already seen it all, i say fuck it.
DarkFuture 9 points 9 months ago
As a nudist I'm comfortable being naked around pretty much everyone.
Even if they aren't naked. A number of nude beaches I go to have a lot of sissies that are too scared to get naked, or creeps that are just there to look, and I don't give a shit. I'll be naked. They can be clothed. Their loss. I'll tell you what, swimming and tanning naked feels a whole hell of a lot nicer than doing either with articles of clothing on.
If you haven't tried it, I highly recommend.
FoolsQuartz 7 points 9 months ago
I'm not a nudist but I'm fine being naked around immediate family, and cousins when going swimming. A lot of people seem surprised by this if it comes up in conversation. The bottom line is that nudity doesn't have to be a sexual thing, and with family it never is.
playfulkittykat 7 points 9 months ago
Comfortable completely naked? Probably no one besides myself.
In some nice underwear? The more the merrier! consensually of course
TheRedSpade 7 points 9 months ago
Why would I subject anyone to that?
Mickey7 6 points 9 months ago
There are times when my GF has one of her friends over. Lots of booze and laughs. I always thought about getting naked by accident to see if it would develop into a threesome. But the issue is a stiff and growing cock. Women can pull it off and not indicate any sexual desire just looking at their nude body.
SarahFromOz 2 points 9 months ago
I mean the cock shows that you are serious at least.
TabbsTheBat 5 points 9 months ago
I'd go as far as my partner, and my friends, but probably not beyond that excluding some potential edge cases
justAFriend 5 points 9 months ago
I don't mind beeing naked at places like a sauna, where everyone is naked and nobody makes a fus about it.
SarahFromOz 4 points 9 months ago
I am only comfortable showing my naked body to a doctor.
Keepthoseeyeslockedonmine 3 points 9 months ago
I wonder what kind of examination they'd have to perform to diagnose your condition?
RepressedLemmier 2 points 9 months ago
I never get the part about being comfortable naked around family.
Mickey7 4 points 9 months ago
I'm totally comfortable around my GF but sometimes she isn't with me. I have to be honest if I catch an innocent view of rear pussy I start to sweat, my cock begins to stiffen, and I want to grab her hips. So there are times when she purposely will at least wear panties.
playfulkittykat 4 points 9 months ago
It's the opposite for me, panties drive me crazy!
RBWellsV23 4 points 9 months ago
My husband made a comment once that I look the same dressed and undressed, nothing hiding, good or bad. I guess anyone who sees me in clothes would not be surprised by how I look, and I did grow up around swimmers, dancers, did some modeling, you get used to it. I am pretty comfortable naked.
My kids come in when I am getting ready for work (I don't put on clothes until my hair and skincare, sunscreen, etc. are done) and they don't care if I don't have clothes on. My mom and dad were the same way. It doesn't work in the other direction - I didn't like being not dressed around my mom and my kids do not, it's a one way comfortable and I guess they will be the same with their kids.
I don't have friends I, like, hang out naked with but would not be bothered changing in front of them.
Online I don't want any images of me, dressed or not, though it's unavoidable at this point, I do try. Not out of modesty though.
RepressedLemmier 3 points 9 months ago
Normally, there's no one I feel ok being naked around. But for some reason, one day I decided I want to livestream myself naked.
So, more-less all of you apparently.
EDIT: "Comfortable" is a stretch, and not equaly comfortable with everyone, but literaly anyone can see my cock right now.
FoolsQuartz 2 points 9 months ago
those are not the kind of beaches you see on porn videos. Not full of hot women and men fucking around.
Yeah i always say the first thing people need to know about nudism is that the #1 practitioners of it are wrinkly old people 🤣. If you can look past that, then you're an actual nudist and not just an exhibitionist.
if I barely know them I feel some shame. I know it’s stupid but that’s how I feel. I can’t explain it
Not stupid at all - it's a question of safety/feeling safe, both for you and for the other person. You never know how they'll react.
Once my GF in high school had a classmate tag along when we were out in the woods together, and I think seeing me strip down for skinny dipping unprompted made her uncomfortable - probably the last time I will ever be so careless in who I'm nude around.
RepressedLemmier 2 points 9 months ago
My palm could not be punishing my face more right now.
FoolsQuartz 1 point 8 months ago
Bingo. That's a good answer
TotesMcScrotes 2 points 9 months ago
My wife. But honestly I'm mostly limited by who's comfortable with me being naked around them. I've been naked around a couple friends no problem. But it's not a frequent/recurring thing. I'd like to be naked more often.
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On paper anyone, I'm a nudist so I don't particularly care. In practice it only happens around friends for safety reasons
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