‘I feel invisible’: over-50s reveal harsh realities of trying to get a job

25 days ago by return2ozma to c/workreform

Candidates describe feelings of rejection after submitting hundreds of applications but getting a handful of interviews
DeepRoots 100 points 25 days ago

This just sounds like everyone? I am sure some ageism happens but the only "scientific" part of this is a quick single source comparison of total number of job hunters.

Its awful out there.

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atomicbocks 31 points 25 days ago

Yeah, I’m nowhere near 50 and I’m coming up on two years of Unemployment.

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BlaestEgnen 1 point 16 days ago

It sounds better than for us youngins, they're all getting interview's from job applications.

We're only getting interviews through network

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Tikiporch 64 points 25 days ago

Never put dates on the education part of your resume.

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ramble81 43 points 25 days ago

You can hide it on the resume, but a lot of sites that make you fill in all of the info on their applications make the date a mandatory field.

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Tikiporch 26 points 25 days ago

For what it's worth these days in the USA, this specifically is illegal in Colorado, Delaware, Oregon and NYC. That's in addition to protections provided by the ADEA.

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gastroglizzy 15 points 25 days ago

Easy fix. Just do like everyone else and lie. The truth doesn't matter anymore.

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SwingingTheLamp 13 points 24 days ago

If they call you on it, just say you're ambitious and may run for President one day.

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atomicbocks 5 points 25 days ago

Date? Half the jobs I apply for require a transcript!

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stoly 8 points 25 days ago

Or--and stay with me here--get some graduate certificate and make that the only thing that appears on your education.

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blackberry28 -3 points 24 days ago

Yeah no. Graduates have it the hardest with regards to applying to a job. Every employer wants experience, even for entry level jobs lol. Larping as a graduate will result in even fewer interviews lol.

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stoly 5 points 24 days ago

A degree is a reset button on your career and shows growth. It sets you apart from all the other 50 year olds.

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CompactFlax 40 points 25 days ago

Sounds like the job market as a whole.

There’s no job loyalty but the employers expect it for some reason and decide that someone with 5 years experience will stay around longer than 25 years - though the reality isn’t that at all.

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NotSteve_ 29 points 25 days ago

The job loyalty thing pisses me off so bad. I enjoy staying at a single company and was at my former one for nearly 5 years. That whole time though was spent fighting tooth and nail for a promotion to a position I was already acting as and then shortly after getting it, I got laid off without any remorse. I built half of their system and knew it inside and out but apparently that meant nothing

I'm at a better company now doing much cooler stuff but I still think back to that and get angry again

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W98BSoD 7 points 25 days ago

Let the lesson to the younger generation be that if you have to fight for a promotion, go elsewhere and get it.

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NotSteve_ 10 points 25 days ago

Yeah... I graduated roughly ten years ago and can absolutely confirm. The cognitive dissonance corporations have is astonishing as they refuse promotions and do frequent layoffs while at the same time complaining that workers aren't loyal any more. Motherfucker I'd love to be loyal. Give me good pay, good benefits, and job security and I'll stick around until retirement*, fuck.

*And MAYBE actually offer a retirement plan. Canada (and the US surely) need a huge union comeback

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Zahille7 3 points 24 days ago

I've been working for Costco for the past couple months and honestly I'm incredibly grateful to be working for them.

Even though not every location is affiliated with a union, the entire company is run as if it were a union anyway. Sundays are automatic time and a half, and after 1,000 or so hours worked you get a raise (Sundays also count towards 1.5× hours worked as well). Plus my coworkers are all extremely nice and polite; like moreso than literally anywhere I've worked before. Plus we get benefits (health, vision, hearing, etc.) even as a part-time employee.

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bowsertattoo 27 points 25 days ago

in my 30s, having the same experience. completely invisible.

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Son_of_Macha -36 points 25 days ago

Take a whole 2 seconds to consider how much worse it would be if you were over 50, before crying about it.

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impairedimperator 20 points 25 days ago

Yeah, and you should take two whole second to realize how much worse it would be in you were over 50 and in Gaza. Checkmate.

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bowsertattoo 17 points 25 days ago

so assuming i'm 80% transparent, a 50 year old might be 95% transparent? very low opacity

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boonhet 3 points 24 days ago

At 50 you're bound to have more connections than 30 though. That's way more people to ask for a job.

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Sharkticon 2 points 24 days ago

Wildly optimistic

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lightnsfw -7 points 24 days ago

I'm in my 30s and already have a network of ex-coworkers in a number of companies who could get me in the door where they're at currently if I needed. If a 50 year old hasn't maintained contacts for this it's kind of on them.

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Lushed_Lungfish 24 points 25 days ago

Have you tried getting into US politics?

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JustPlainDave 14 points 25 days ago

Not old enough.

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SCmSTR 2 points 24 days ago

Have you tried burning everything to the ground, starting with the people and things most responsible for society's problems and most benefiting?

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scytale 22 points 25 days ago

Most of the people around that age at my work who were laid off were basically forced to retire.

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heartSagan5 20 points 24 days ago

A handful of interviews? Man, they're getting better responses than me, and I've been looking for over 6 years because I wanted to leave my last job.

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HubertManne 12 points 25 days ago

Same in the us but really I don't think jobs are falling into younger folks laps.

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myyass 10 points 24 days ago

Having to do online cr'application's and taking modified MMPI tests doesn't help.

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HobbitFoot 10 points 25 days ago

I'm not surprised. I've seen it, even in industries which value experience.

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stoly 8 points 25 days ago

I don't doubt that there are people who see old person and move on to the next candidate. I also believe that many people do not redefine themselves in their careers and have not grown since they were in their late 20s. You have to grow and adapt or get left behind.

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SCmSTR 5 points 24 days ago

If only anybody could identify what the problem was..

I guess it'll remain a forever mystery.

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Phantom_Feline17 5 points 24 days ago

I've tried editing my CV according to ATS but still havent had luck.

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pyr0ball 5 points 23 days ago path: 0 25915967 25917358, hotness: undefined, score: 5, children: 2
Phantom_Feline17 1 point 23 days ago

Thanks. Will check jt out

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pyr0ball 1 point 23 days ago
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MonkRome -13 points 25 days ago

Every year I've been alive my resume grows and getting a job becomes easier and more lucrative. While im not yet 50, I find it hard to believe that experience is just going to disappear the second I'm over 50. This article is nonsense. People under 40 have been absolutely devastated in the job market over the last 20 years and we're complaining about the most privileged generations (the current over 50's) in world history not getting 100% of the jobs they don't know how to do anyway.

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natecox 6 points 24 days ago
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Fishnoodle -35 points 25 days ago

At 50 you should be retiring to make way for new workers. That's how you keep a healthy job market

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nexguy 40 points 25 days ago

Nono one retires at 50

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_haha_oh_wow_ 33 points 25 days ago

The system is fucked, almost nobody can retire that young. I wish I could retire at 50. I'll be lucky to retire before I'm well into my 70s. They decoupled pay from productivity decades ago and we've been getting turbofucked by greedy assholes ever since.

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BluescreenOfDeath 28 points 25 days ago

Wages haven't kept up with expenses, and less people are able to retire early because of it.

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FistingEnthusiast 25 points 25 days ago

At fifty?

How the fuck are people going to retire at fifty?

I'm in a fairly good position, but I would have no chance of any sort of life if I had to live for thirty years without working

Are you trolling, or are you stupid?

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ramble81 19 points 25 days ago

They’re young most likely and think that 40yos are “old timers”

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BeardededSquidward 3 points 25 days ago

When you're in your 50s unless you suffering a neurological disorder, you're still sharp and aware. Just the body is starting to wear down more so they need accommodations at times. Why hire them when they can just not hire anyone and force the rest of us to worker harder for longer?

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Tollana1234567 2 points 24 days ago

possible if you are a doctor, a tech worker that has worked 10+years, a NURSE who did travelling. they have enough income and other investments to do that. but its usually 55.

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Fishnoodle -1 points 24 days ago

Being able to retire at 50 means that you've contributed at least 25 years of labor. In my case about 35 years.

People get shorter prison sentences for committing murder.

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schipelblorp 25 points 25 days ago

Let's start negotiating for this then: mandatory retirement at 50, paid for by social security taxes on remaining workers. Deal?

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Tolookah 24 points 25 days ago

Paid for by social security taxes on millionaires and up.

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Mouselemming 14 points 25 days ago

We should remove the cap on social security taxes to keep the SSA solvent, and also to be fair rather than regressive, but that's still not gonna cover retirements at 50.

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Tolookah 4 points 25 days ago

I agree, it's not the full answer, but It's a good start.

Maybe instead of forced retirement, forced fewer hours? Heck, maybe a debt bailout for primary residence, student loans and any other life needing debt at 50, lower the age of Medicare to... 0, and I could start living off of very little dollars.

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boonhet 0 points 24 days ago

Okay so the thing is if you take the worst example of income inequality in the west, the US, Boomers as a class own 8x more than billionaires as a class.

The people you'd be taxing are exactly the people who would be receiving social security.

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Bustedknuckles 19 points 25 days ago

A lot of people are having kids later in life. It's tough to feel secure enough to retire at 50 when you have 2 preteens and a mortgage.

Even without kids, the math is tough - work 30 years (20-50) and then retire ~30 (50-80?). We'd need massive safety nets in place to make retiring at 50 tenable. I'm going to hit the labor market next year and am terrified by what I'm seeing out there

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boonhet 3 points 24 days ago

Yeah, retiring at 50 works if everyone under 50 is a slave.

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Steve 17 points 25 days ago

Yah!
It's not like the penalties on withdrawing from your retirement accounts early actually matters?
Who isn't a billionaire at 50? You aren't? You need to get a better job looser!

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jade52 11 points 25 days ago

What world do you live in where the average person can retire at 50!?!

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Fishnoodle 2 points 24 days ago

I'm saying, that SHOULD be the standard, not that it is

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jade52 1 point 24 days ago

Ok agreed. It should be the standard for sure.

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Taleya 10 points 25 days ago

You gonna support me? Pay my mortgage? Damned fool

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Fishnoodle 1 point 22 days ago

That's what we need a public pension system and robust public safety nets, ubi, etc

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Tollana1234567 5 points 24 days ago

50yo dont retire in any country lol. 55 is the earliest people consider retiring, and its mostly people who earn 200k+year with investments.

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RBWells 2 points 24 days ago

Right, because people not working for 35-40 years is good for the economy somehow? Work for 30 years then retire for more than that? This makes no sense, it's not a zero sum thing but you can't have the population idle for more years than they work.

I have a 401k - told the "planner" app to assume I will work to 70 & I might live to 90 and it says my plan has "longevity risk" . Basically that any woman who gets to my age may well get older than that.

I know that people don't like retirement age going up and up, and it would be lovely to not have to work, but on the other hand all my kids are finally adults, so these are my available prime earning years.

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boonhet 1 point 24 days ago

Yes because the workers aren't paying enough tax to support the owner class (people over 50)

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