Do women fetishize gay men like straight men fetishize lesbians?

3 years ago by Sandbag to c/asklemmynsfw

metaconnoisseur 19 points 3 years ago
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Sandbag 9 points 3 years ago

What do you mean by different reasons?

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metaconnoisseur 13 points 3 years ago
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captainlezbian 7 points 3 years ago

Yeah in my experience men like to fetishize lesbians for the idea of multiple women and for the idea of “switching our sides”. From what I hear straight women like gay men more for the idea that they’re more comfortable with femininity and vulnerability as well as mutual attraction to men. Ironically I hear bi men have a wildly different experience and are prone to being rejected over it.

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dazedandconfused 4 points 3 years ago

Yeah story of my life 😔

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AnAccount 16 points 3 years ago

I’ve heard from several women that they really like gay porn.

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Dagnet 9 points 3 years ago

My female friends that read manga often like reading yaoi so I assume yes

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Beastie 7 points 3 years ago

Hell yes they do. Speaking for my wife and many of her friends.

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captainlezbian 6 points 3 years ago

According to my gay guy friends: yes.

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Maddie 4 points 3 years ago

Some do, it's never done anything for me tho

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Kolanaki 1 point 3 years ago

My first GF was into watching gay porn and talked about gay dudes the way straight dudes talk about lesbians.

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RBWellsV23 1 point 3 years ago

I think when you ask "does anybody" anything the answer is yes.

I don't find gay sex arousing, no. But don't mind if a guy is bi, it's not a turnoff either.

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Letdown3473 -4 points 3 years ago

Only for shopping purposes...

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rufus -6 points 3 years ago

Not sure if women fetishize as much as men do.

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