Yeah this is between them. Leave them alone or offer support. Negativity won't help anything
thermal_shock 19 points 2 years ago
don't put it on Twitter if you don't want people seeing it and possibly talking shit. it's not between them anymore. social media has fucked people's brains, main character syndrome.
thermal_shock 7 points 2 years ago
well they posted it somewhere didn't they
Nuke_the_whales 4 points 2 years ago
If it was between them they wouldn't be posting it on social media
Almrond 21 points 2 years ago
I would like to point out that actors are usually contractually obligated to maintain a specific appearance. Stamos may literally have not been able to shave his head in solidarity, so while seemingly noncommittal I think there could be more to the gesture. As you say, Dave is the only authority on the matter either way.
Pacmanlives 2 points 2 years ago
If I was in that kind of spot I would full support a friend of mine making fun of it. Humor is the best medicine as they say
nothingcorporate 126 points 2 years ago
Being mad about this instead of Dave Coulier "dating" Alanis Morisette when he was in his 30s and she was 17 is like being mad at Obama about wearing a tan suit and not all the drone bombings or mass-deportations.
We're bad at picking what to be pissed about.
kameecoding 49 points 2 years ago
Well you say that, but this Stamos guy is a fucking asshole, why didn't he simply go rogue and shave his head and shutdown whatever production he is working on while his hair grows back, like those people working on it with him can take a few months without pay
TheMinions 27 points 2 years ago
This was my first thought. I bet his hair has itβs own contract and he couldnβt break it.
kameecoding 2 points 2 years ago
I thought we all learned from Cavills cgi upper lips in the whedon JL cut that actors don't own their likeness during filming
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FlyingSquid 23 points 2 years ago
You oughta know.
OutlierBlue 9 points 2 years ago
Ironic.
FlyingSquid 7 points 2 years ago
It really did rain on my wedding day and I did not see the irony of the situation. We were inside so it really wasn't a problem.
Dozzi92 3 points 2 years ago
It was forecasted to rain on my wedding day and my wife nearly died, so I bought seven purple umbrellas and one big white umbrella so they could take pictures in the rain. It didn't rain until after pictures. Is that irony?
buddascrayon 0 points 2 years ago
Except that she was 18 not 17. And though that age gap is still quite something it's not a "Matt Gaetz scandal" level something. And if you'd actually ever listen to the song you'd know she was pissed about him leaving her for an older woman.
Outhouse_dayz -5 points 2 years ago
Came here to say , who cares if the pedo has cancer ffs.
Nuke_the_whales -17 points 2 years ago
Playing Devil's advocate, is he autistic? A lot of autistic guys tend to date younger and find them easier to relate with. She was 17 and he was like 30? guess it depends on the law. Kinda silly that only a few months or weeks later and he's not "a creep".
Has he done anything else after that?
edit: funny how Lemmy down votes me for this, yet cheers and jerks off to Johnny Depp and similar men, who are 60 and grooming teens and banging girls in their 20s.
Nuke_the_whales 1 point 2 years ago
Hypocrites gonna hypocrite
starman2112 1 point 2 years ago
devil's advocate
Opinion disregarded. That's why you were downvoted, btw. If you have a point worth making, don't couch it in "devil's advocate" bullshit
Nuke_the_whales 0 points 2 years ago
What an angry little person
dragonfucker 1 point 2 years ago
You're right, the difference being a few weeks is silly. There should be a tier system instead. Like 15-, 16-17, 18-20, 21-24. If you're an old fart, you can only date over 25. If you're within one of the tiers, you can date within the same tier and maintain any relationship that was started when you were previously in the same tier. Something like that, but with a little more polish.
nonfuinoncuro 8 points 2 years ago
1/2+7 works pretty well
LustyArgonianMana 1 point 2 years ago
I left Bluesky to read men's takes on Lemmy: "child rape is equivalent to a brown suit, despite the child herself writing and speaking about the pain and agony of that relationship," and "autism is the same as pedophilia." Amazing takes, Lemmy. This is why no one likes your app - the users are actual human garbage.
LustyArgonianMana 0 points 2 years ago
Nope, people are writing me back now and defending it. Because Lemmy is literally full of misogynists amd the mods refuse to do anything about it, because they are misogynists too.
And you all wonder why women despise you. Lol.
starman2112 2 points 2 years ago
"child rape is equivalent to a brown suit, despite the child herself writing and speaking about the pain and agony of that relationship," and "autism is the same as pedophilia."
Nobody said or implied either of those. For one thing, the bald cap was compared to the tan suit, and the child predation was compared to the carpet bombing. It takes an incredibly bad misreading to think they said that tan suits = child rape.
For another, an analogy doesn't equate two concepts, it merely compares them. Hating this guy for the bald cap instead of the child predation is like hating Obama for the tan suit instead of the drone strikes, in that there are legitimate reasons to be upset with these people, and the reason provided isn't one. That isn't to say that anything that person A did is in any way equivalent to anything that person B did, only that situation A and situation B share a similarity in C.
And the person you replied to didn't say that autism is the same as pedophilia, they said that people with autism often date younger than them. That isn't making any statement about autism as a trait. Not that I agree with them, but you're disagreeing with something they didn't even say
This is why no one likes your app
How young are you? This is a network of websites, not an app
LustyArgonianMana 1 point 2 years ago
Sure, Jan. You didn't need to write so much, you could've just admitted you're a pedo too.
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brightandshinyobject 41 points 2 years ago
I wonder if they can cut it out.
papalonian 13 points 2 years ago
John checking his xitter replies like "oh mylanta π©"
john117 44 points 2 years ago
rather than an empty, performative stunt.
looks to me both parties are enjoying themselves in the photo, doesn't look empty or performative at all. if Dave Coulier was cool with it, thats all that matters imo
Dragonstaff 29 points 2 years ago
Isn't shaving one's head an "empty performative stunt"? It doesn't provide any benefit to the cancer patient.
Dragonstaff 3 points 2 years ago
Not that anyone should feel obligated to shave their head, but one major thing is that his hair is literally his livelihood. He may be under contract not to change his appearance, and shaving one's head (especially at that age) might do permanent damage.
I doubt that Dave would want John to shave his head. But they're good friends, and our opinion from the sidelines doesn't really matter that much.
Lemminary 1 point 2 years ago
Good points, and yeah, our opinions are irrelevant. And to be honest, I'm not interested in their lives and I don't even know who either of them are. lol
Although I looked up shaving causing permanent hair damage and found nothing, I think it's a myth since shaving is done above the hair follicles. If it's not, then it'd be damn interesting to know why!
Shir0a 11 points 2 years ago
I think what people see as wrong with it is these sorts of gestures are usually actually shaving your hair off in support. As a way of saying you're in this together and there to support the individual. This method comes off as disingenuous because you can just take the cap off and go back to your normal life, the other person can't.
Ultimately it's between them, but if you're going to publicize it. It comes off as shallow and an attempt at making yourself a part of someone else's illness
theangryseal 3 points 2 years ago
Hehe, βcut it outβ. Hehe.
billwashere 3 points 2 years ago
Well if it grew back like hairβ¦.
tatterdemalion 14 points 2 years ago
Coulier looks good bald. Stamos, not so much.
buddascrayon 1 point 2 years ago
That's because an unnatural portion of his personality is his hair.
LePoisson 11 points 2 years ago
I think when you're probably shooting (as in filming) stuff you can't just shave your head in the middle of an ongoing project.
Otherwise I'd agree with the sentiment he should actually shave his hair but in this specific circumstance it doesn't feel disingenuous.
thisbenzingring 8 points 2 years ago
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Cataphract 2 points 2 years ago
sounds like the wife successfully threw you off the scent lol. Interesting that she went with the word "nutter" to describe him ;)
clay_pidgin 7 points 2 years ago
I wish I looked as good bald as they do. I have a head as lumpy as an overripe orange.
clay_pidgin 6 points 2 years ago
Very true! I look like an overripe fruit and I smell as though that fruit were a durian.
blackluster117 5 points 2 years ago
Which is considered a delicacy in some places. All about knowing your people.
ilovededyoupiggy 7 points 2 years ago
Maybe he expected the fans to have mercy on him.
Remotedeck 5 points 2 years ago
This reminds me of that reddit story about a mom who was pissed and went off on a hair stylist who wouldn't shave his head for her daughter who had cancer
itsgroundhogdayagain 1 point 2 years ago
You can support someone without shaving your head. Using a bald cap is just disingenuous.
Stalinwolf 1 point 2 years ago
At least Dave got rid of that reverse Flock of Seagulls piece of shit.
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