I was in my house when it was hit straight on by the F4 tornado in Enid last week. AMA

6 months ago by theyoyomaster to c/askmeanything

No one that was with me was hurt. Miraculously, all of my neighbors survived too.

theyoyomaster 84 points 6 months ago

Yes, the warnings were accurate and gave plenty of time. They had a very specific area designated and I was in the exact middle of it, the meteorologists were spot on. I was in a purpose built storm shelter built into the floor of my garage. My two friends, their dog and I all got in with about 10 min to spare.

path: 0 23432404, hotness: undefined, score: 84, children: 0
OR3X 45 points 6 months ago

What was the noise like? I've heard people say it's like standing next to a loaded freight train at full speed.

path: 0 23432243, hotness: undefined, score: 45, children: 5
theyoyomaster 66 points 6 months ago

That’s definitely accurate but it was a gradient up to that point. At first it was just hard rain and small hail that had already been falling. Then it got louder and we heard larger hail hitting my friend’s car that was just outside the garage. Then louder and louder, I was just feeling bad for her because of her car at that point. Then it was just banging and crashing sounds and I was just hoping that through sheer wishing and force of will that it was just my garage door that broke and all I was hearing was stuff blowing into my garage. Then it got louder and louder with a fairly distinct single crash.

It did not ramp down the way it ramped up, or the adrenaline masked it but I feel like after the last hit it was back to quiet pretty quickly. Ears popped once during the ramp up and like crazy during the eye, which went directly over my house.

The shelter is a steel box with a sliding and locking roof/lid. It is fully enclosed on all sides but there are air vents that lead to chambers to keep ventilation, but all with hollow spaces around it and nothing that allows any direct intrusion. The moment the house fell a cloud of dirt dust and just generic debris particles blew straight in all around us.

path: 0 23432243 23432481, hotness: undefined, score: 66, children: 4
notabot 36 points 6 months ago

Do you register your storm shelter with the rescue services ahead of time? It sound like, if a house falls on it, you could be stuck in there without external assistance.

path: 0 23432243 23432481 23433330, hotness: undefined, score: 36, children: 1
theyoyomaster 35 points 6 months ago

Yes, county emergency management makes it very easy to register what type of shelter, where it is in your house and how many occupants live there. Not everyone does it but my wife did it the first week we lived there. I was able to dig my way out but I had neighbors that were trapped.

path: 0 23432243 23432481 23433330 23436639, hotness: undefined, score: 35, children: 0
sem 16 points 6 months ago

Is it underground?

path: 0 23432243 23432481 23433650, hotness: undefined, score: 16, children: 1
theyoyomaster 35 points 6 months ago

Yup

path: 0 23432243 23432481 23433650 23436730, hotness: undefined, score: 35, children: 0
lime 30 points 6 months ago

did you died

path: 0 23432307, hotness: undefined, score: 30, children: 3
theyoyomaster 38 points 6 months ago

Nope

path: 0 23432307 23432486, hotness: undefined, score: 38, children: 2
lime 35 points 6 months ago

good job

path: 0 23432307 23432486 23432516, hotness: undefined, score: 35, children: 0
DarrinBrunner 13 points 6 months ago

path: 0 23432307 23432486 23433185, hotness: undefined, score: 13, children: 0
ArgentRaven 27 points 6 months ago

Where were you in the house when it hit? Was it the best spot, in retrospect?

How bad was the damage to your house?

Did your tornado sirens work?

path: 0 23432310, hotness: undefined, score: 27, children: 3
theyoyomaster 57 points 6 months ago

I was in a purpose built shelter. I do not believe I would be alive if I was anywhere else.

Catastrophic, but the weird quirk of where stuff landed for me is that nothing that was in the actual house left the property. I got absolutely everything that I wouldn’t be able to replace and lost zero sentimental items.

We heard them but to be honest, they go off from time to time and we rarely go to the shelter. I know the official position is to run for shelter the second you hear them but most people treat them as an alert to check the detailed warnings, look at the radar and go look outside. I did all of the above and the combination made me decide to go into the shelter for the first time in like 3 years. We were down in plenty of time.

path: 0 23432310 23432531, hotness: undefined, score: 57, children: 2
atomicbocks 14 points 6 months ago

That’s because they do the sirens at the county level. For some reason when there’s a tornado in the county or even rotation in the county the sirens in the whole county will go off. Some of the counties in Oklahoma have a weird shape and so you end up with some tiny jutting out part of the county being where the storm is and then the sirens going off miles and miles away.

path: 0 23432310 23432531 23436898, hotness: undefined, score: 14, children: 1
theyoyomaster 7 points 6 months ago

Ours are definitely localized around town, they just go off at the drop of a hat. People treat it more as “this is your sign to see if you need to take shelter” instead of “take shelter.”

path: 0 23432310 23432531 23436898 23439310, hotness: undefined, score: 7, children: 0
Marthirial 26 points 6 months ago

Do you live in Enid OK on purpose?

path: 0 23436394, hotness: undefined, score: 26, children: 1
theyoyomaster 28 points 6 months ago

Air Force, I didn’t pick it.

path: 0 23436394 23436813, hotness: undefined, score: 28, children: 0
original_reader 24 points 6 months ago

In hindsight, is there anything you would do differently next time? Do you have any advice for those of us who might find ourselves in a similar situation?

path: 0 23433371, hotness: undefined, score: 24, children: 4
theyoyomaster 31 points 6 months ago

I would have had better stuff in my shelter. I would have taken reference photos of my entire house and all my possessions regularly. I would have had a collectibles policy for my legos, and I would have taken real shoes and my wallet with me. Also my dogs ashes and a few more things on the way. Definitely game plan it and have the important stuff accessible and know the fastest route to grab it all on the way.

I didn’t think it was going to touch down on us and left the TV paused and dinner half made on the counter. We had plenty of time and I walked miles barefoot through the debris because my flip flops tore. I had the clothes in my back and my phone and nothing else.

path: 0 23433371 23436684, hotness: undefined, score: 31, children: 3
drosophila 11 points 6 months ago

Sounds like it might be worth keeping a change of clothes and shoes down there. Imagine if you ended up down there in your pajamas.

(Not trying to lecture you, this is something I hadn't really considered before either.)

path: 0 23433371 23436684 23438349, hotness: undefined, score: 11, children: 1
theyoyomaster 12 points 6 months ago

Yeah, been typing a lot of overlapping stuff. I’m in the military so it’s mainly my coworkers asking me what to set theirs up with and my answer is “mine was lightly stocked based on SERE training; you need a deployment 72 hour bag, not survival gear.”

And no offense taken, I work in flight safety so reviewing and improving on near misses is part of the game and how you save others.

path: 0 23433371 23436684 23438349 23439395, hotness: undefined, score: 12, children: 0
original_reader 4 points 6 months ago

Thanks for your honesty. So sorry for the horror you're going through.

Thank you for the tips.

path: 0 23433371 23436684 23446963, hotness: undefined, score: 4, children: 0
instantnudel 22 points 6 months ago

How many Cows were flying in that tornado

path: 0 23432207, hotness: undefined, score: 22, children: 7
theyoyomaster 19 points 6 months ago

I don’t think too many. There wasn’t much livestock farming on its path.

path: 0 23432207 23432411, hotness: undefined, score: 19, children: 6
vrek 11 points 6 months ago

I think this was supposed to be a reference to the movie Twister. There famously was a cow flying around in the tornado.

path: 0 23432207 23432411 23433921, hotness: undefined, score: 11, children: 3
theyoyomaster 12 points 6 months ago

I am well aware. I fly over the pylons of the bridge they destroyed in the movie regularly.

path: 0 23432207 23432411 23433921 23436768, hotness: undefined, score: 12, children: 0
instantnudel 2 points 6 months ago

Correct :)

path: 0 23432207 23432411 23433921 23434413, hotness: undefined, score: 2, children: 1
vrek 4 points 6 months ago

It was trying to tell people to moooooooove :)

path: 0 23432207 23432411 23433921 23434413 23434940, hotness: undefined, score: 4, children: 0
toynbee 5 points 6 months ago

Was there a bestial roar? That documentary Twister promised a bestial roar.

path: 0 23432207 23432411 23434503, hotness: undefined, score: 5, children: 1
theyoyomaster 12 points 6 months ago

Freight train is accurate but it’s a constant ramp up to that and then abrupt cutoff. I didn’t perceive the freight train sound until after because it started as normal rain and hail and kept building gradually.

path: 0 23432207 23432411 23434503 23436800, hotness: undefined, score: 12, children: 0
TheOakTree 20 points 6 months ago

As a former Midwesterner, I'm just glad you're safe. I was fortunate enough to never be hit but others in town were not as lucky.

What does your shelter kit consist of? I still have a decades old hand cranked radio/flashlight that's been through 4 tornado scares. I should definitely go replace the batteries though.

path: 0 23434953, hotness: undefined, score: 20, children: 2
theyoyomaster 23 points 6 months ago

It was woefully inadequate. It was always just an after thought that was a bonus that was already installed and not something I was really concerned about when house hunting. I liked having it as a small peace of mind but like most people assumed I would never actually need it.

I had a flashlight. Case of water. Bucket with dogfood, some snacks and a desalination survival pump that I already owned in there. In my mind I thought of it like a SERE kit for survival. What it should have been was a go bag. Change of clothes, phone chargers and copy of drivers license.

I wore flip flops down because I genuinely didn’t think it was touching down anywhere near my house. They ripped climbing over the rubble and I walked miles barefoot to get around the downed power lines to where the roadblock was set up.

Also, whenever you get your house set up the way you like it, new furniture, rearrange your gaming desk, clean for company etc, take reference photos. Have current-ish photos of every room at all times. I have most of my stuff documented in one way or another, but usually because my dog did something cute and it doesn’t quite show the full picture of the room.

path: 0 23434953 23435968, hotness: undefined, score: 23, children: 1
TheOakTree 9 points 6 months ago

I feel that. You never need it, until you do. You just reminded me that I have some really old emergency food that should probably be replaced.

Climbing through the rubble barefoot does not sound fun.

path: 0 23434953 23435968 23437162, hotness: undefined, score: 9, children: 0
Alcoholicorn 17 points 6 months ago

It took me 10 minutes before I realized you weren't talking about the F4 Phantom or the european Tornado.

path: 0 23433090, hotness: undefined, score: 17, children: 2
theyoyomaster 29 points 6 months ago

Coincidentally enough I am a pilot…

path: 0 23433090 23433210, hotness: undefined, score: 29, children: 0
Rothe 7 points 6 months ago

Yeah, I was also wondered whether the house had been hit by a plance crash or something, since I have no idea what a F4 tornado is in this context. But scary stuff either way.

path: 0 23433090 23433776, hotness: undefined, score: 7, children: 0
StarvingMartist 17 points 6 months ago

What were the damages?

path: 0 23432829, hotness: undefined, score: 17, children: 10
theyoyomaster 44 points 6 months ago

This is my living room and kitchen, taken standing on top of my bedroom wall which was laying on my bed.

path: 0 23432829 23433198, hotness: undefined, score: 44, children: 9
PancakesCantKillMe 21 points 6 months ago

Wow. Crazy. I think I see your bar-b-que in there! Glad you’re okay, OP!

path: 0 23432829 23433198 23433307, hotness: undefined, score: 21, children: 3
theyoyomaster 22 points 6 months ago

Yeah, the egg cracked so I’m going to have to replace it.

path: 0 23432829 23433198 23433307 23433317, hotness: undefined, score: 22, children: 0
NannerBanner 11 points 6 months ago

The grill, the fridge, the microwave, that one island countertop... I'm floored by how well some things seem to be while the absolute destruction rages around them.

path: 0 23432829 23433198 23433307 23433666, hotness: undefined, score: 11, children: 1
StarvingMartist 7 points 6 months ago

Yeah now I kinda wanna know, how was the food in the fridge?

path: 0 23432829 23433198 23433307 23433666 23435819, hotness: undefined, score: 7, children: 0
PyroNeurosis 14 points 6 months ago

Being from a not-tornado-prone par of the country, how do storm shelters avoid having debris obstruct the entrance/exit doors?

path: 0 23432829 23433198 23434552, hotness: undefined, score: 14, children: 2
theyoyomaster 19 points 6 months ago

You register with county emergency management so they know where to look for you. My neighbor across the street was trapped with their deep freezer on top of the hatch. They were digging him out when I left.

We are incredibly fortunate that my neighborhood was more recent and upscale. The houses were generally stronger than most developments and only a few didn’t have shelters while in the rest of the town only a few do. Everyone survived and this tornado was absolutely a brutal killer. It was not the kind of storm that just beats you up a bit.

path: 0 23432829 23433198 23434552 23436096, hotness: undefined, score: 19, children: 0
StarvingMartist 9 points 6 months ago

Not much you can do if it gets obstructed you might have to wait for rescue, the important part is to keep people from harm

path: 0 23432829 23433198 23434552 23435896, hotness: undefined, score: 9, children: 0
BananaIsABerry 12 points 6 months ago

That's insane... Do you have a picture of the shelter?

path: 0 23432829 23433198 23433493, hotness: undefined, score: 12, children: 1
theyoyomaster 23 points 6 months ago

Yup

path: 0 23432829 23433198 23433493 23436694, hotness: undefined, score: 23, children: 0
sem 15 points 6 months ago

What did the sky/outdoors look like before you went down, and after you got out?

path: 0 23433681, hotness: undefined, score: 15, children: 3
theyoyomaster 21 points 6 months ago

path: 0 23433681 23436708, hotness: undefined, score: 21, children: 2
0ops 5 points 6 months ago

Terrifyingly beautiful

path: 0 23433681 23436708 23438011, hotness: undefined, score: 5, children: 1
theyoyomaster 7 points 6 months ago

I had always low key wanted to see a funnel at some point. I was the right age when Twister came out to go through a huge “tornado phase” as a kid. I just didn’t want to see it like that.

path: 0 23433681 23436708 23438011 23439374, hotness: undefined, score: 7, children: 0
nodoze313 15 points 6 months ago

What was it like in the shelter when it hit? Did you ever wonder if the shelter would hold? What will you do while your house is rebuilt? Does your insurance cover the damages and temporary housing? Assuming you do have to pay for there current property while rebuilding.

path: 0 23433125, hotness: undefined, score: 15, children: 3
theyoyomaster 26 points 6 months ago

It got loud and a cloud of dirt and dust flew through the air when the house fell. I never had any doubts that it would hold, but I also never thought I was actually going to be hit.

I was scheduled to move later this summer anyway. I’ll be in an Airbnb until then. I have insurance coverage for the structure, my stuff and alternate lodging. Very likely will not cover everything completely but will be in the ballpark. I’m pretty sure mortgage payments get suspended but I haven’t gotten to call my bank yet so I’m not sure.

path: 0 23433125 23433312, hotness: undefined, score: 26, children: 2
albbi 11 points 6 months ago

Was there any chance that something would get stuck on top of the shelter and prevent you from leaving? That would probably be my biggest worry, after surviving I guess.

Uh, off topic but your city reminded me of a Barenaked Ladies song. https://youtu.be/28oxinZmrW0

path: 0 23433125 23433312 23433755, hotness: undefined, score: 11, children: 1
theyoyomaster 13 points 6 months ago

Absolutely but we were safe in the shelter and would have been fine for a day or so. The shelter was registered with county emergency management so they would have known where to find us. We had neighbors that were genuinely trapped but were quickly located and rescued.

path: 0 23433125 23433312 23433755 23436760, hotness: undefined, score: 13, children: 0
Shimitar 13 points 6 months ago

Are you safe and ok?

path: 0 23432200, hotness: undefined, score: 13, children: 1
theyoyomaster 15 points 6 months ago

Yeah, made it through just fine in the shelter.

path: 0 23432200 23432738, hotness: undefined, score: 15, children: 0
sp3ctr4l 11 points 6 months ago

Fucking hell, glad you and yours are alive.

Sorry you lost everything outside of the shelter, but also, very good that you had the shelter.

Take a breather when you can, all thats gotta be at least a bit traumatizing.

path: 0 23436909, hotness: undefined, score: 11, children: 4
theyoyomaster 12 points 6 months ago

No time to take a breather. Too much to do. It’s been rough but we’re holding in there. Yesterday was the day that it really hit me and I was struggling but I got through it and I’m feeling way more normal now. Wife is holding up too, I’m not sure what she was like the night of, I can’t imagine the fear she felt being so far away and alone in her parents’ house for the night.

path: 0 23436909 23439332, hotness: undefined, score: 12, children: 3
sp3ctr4l 2 points 6 months ago

Got some kind of motel/hotel accomodations in the works?

Nearby family/friends with a spare bedroom?

But also, do give wifey a hug at some point.

path: 0 23436909 23439332 23439455, hotness: undefined, score: 2, children: 2
theyoyomaster 6 points 6 months ago

We’re hooked up in an Airbnb through our planned move. A friend picked me up, took me to Walmart to buy shoes and a toothbrush then I slept in his guest room the first night. I’m actually going back to work tonight and he volunteered to ride along with me.

Been doing that a bunch.

path: 0 23436909 23439332 23439455 23444260, hotness: undefined, score: 6, children: 1
sp3ctr4l 2 points 6 months ago

Sounds like a solid plan, take care of yourself.

path: 0 23436909 23439332 23439455 23444260 23449516, hotness: undefined, score: 2, children: 0
vrek 10 points 6 months ago

I would say that sucks but it looks like it actually blew.

path: 0 23433967, hotness: undefined, score: 10, children: 1
theyoyomaster 7 points 6 months ago

Little bit of both.

path: 0 23433967 23436770, hotness: undefined, score: 7, children: 0
NatakuNox 10 points 6 months ago

Ya but how are you holding up. Hoping for best outcomes with the US FEMA being a shell of itself and insurance provider doing everything and anything not to pay. Thoughts are with you and your community.

path: 0 23437474, hotness: undefined, score: 10, children: 1
theyoyomaster 10 points 6 months ago

The support and resources on hand have been outstanding. We’ve had everything we asked for show up, more able bodies than we can utilize and are saving way more than I ever imagined. Insurance is gonna be a bitch but we’re meticulously documenting everything and devising a spreadsheet product to counter their low offer right off the bat.

path: 0 23437474 23439361, hotness: undefined, score: 10, children: 0
Smaile 8 points 6 months ago

you ok, Cleveland?

path: 0 23438795, hotness: undefined, score: 8, children: 1
SethTaylor 7 points 6 months ago

No no no no nooooooooo

path: 0 23438795 23439739, hotness: undefined, score: 7, children: 0
khannie 8 points 6 months ago

Definitely the coolest AMA on here yet. Glad you and yours are ok!

path: 0 23439649, hotness: undefined, score: 8, children: 1
theyoyomaster 7 points 6 months ago

Thanks. I really wanted to make lemmy work when I first tried to rage quit Reddit but the amount of content and the… echo chamber makes it hard to stick around. I’ve mostly ended back on Reddit and only pop into lemmy on occasion anymore. I still haven’t made a post on Reddit since the mass exodus #FuckYouSpez but I’ve been commenting. This was the first post that made me want to break my boycott so I came here instead.

path: 0 23439649 23444289, hotness: undefined, score: 7, children: 0
solidheron 7 points 6 months ago

Was the picture taken from inside the tornado?

path: 0 23443077, hotness: undefined, score: 7, children: 1
theyoyomaster 8 points 6 months ago

No, I tripped on rubble as I took it. I was in flip flops that were not up to the task.

path: 0 23443077 23444238, hotness: undefined, score: 8, children: 0
RockBottom 6 points 6 months ago

Re tornadoes frequent in your area? Are houses there made from wood?

path: 0 23434523, hotness: undefined, score: 6, children: 3
theyoyomaster 12 points 6 months ago

It is smack dab in tornado alley, both Twisters movies were filmed around here. The town itself rarely gets hit. There’s some geographical features to our west that generally split the storms around us, we even joke that there’s the old “Enid forcefield” keeping us safe. My neighborhood was on the outskirts town to the south and the storm hit us while just barely skipping below the town proper.

Wooden frame, brick exterior. As the other guy said that’s standard although the brick is an extra. Full masonry is stronger but depending on the stresses from the storm, having a bit of flex in the wood can actually help slightly more than being fully solid with no give. My neighborhood was generally nicer houses, the damage looked like standard F3 level except the structures were all extremely tough and made it through a high level F4 without being leveled. If it had hit any other neighborhood there would have been mass fatalities.

path: 0 23434523 23436189, hotness: undefined, score: 12, children: 0
clay_pidgin 8 points 6 months ago

effectively all houses and most apartment buildings in the US are framed in pine wood covered in plywood. Some have a decorative layer of bricks outside the plywood.

path: 0 23434523 23435129, hotness: undefined, score: 8, children: 1
AngryCommieKender 1 point 6 months ago

Fucking portland concrete lobby.

path: 0 23434523 23435129 23437260, hotness: undefined, score: 1, children: 0
RaoulDook 5 points 6 months ago

Glad that y'all are unhurt, sounds like a bigass hassle to deal with. Hope your new place has a storm shelter too! I have no regrets about getting one here even though it was expensive.

path: 0 23434493, hotness: undefined, score: 5, children: 1
theyoyomaster 6 points 6 months ago

My new place is going to be on the east coast. I already had a move planned this summer.

path: 0 23434493 23436779, hotness: undefined, score: 6, children: 0
askmeanything
askmeanything

@lemmy.ca

login for more options
3169
120
87

Ask Me Anything (AMA) Community Rules and Guidelines

This is the lemmy.ca AmA.

Welcome to the Ask Me Anything (AMA) community! This is a space where individuals from various backgrounds come together to engage in open and informative discussions. To ensure a respectful, enjoyable, and inclusive experience for everyone involved, we have established the following rules and guidelines:

  1. Be Civil and Respectful:

    • Treat all participants with respect, regardless of their background, expertise, or opinions. Personal attacks, insults, or derogatory language will not be tolerated.
    • Engage in constructive conversations, even if you disagree with the person answering the questions. Focus on addressing their responses or providing alternative viewpoints without resorting to hostility.
    • Remember that the participants are sharing their knowledge and experiences voluntarily. Appreciate their time and effort.
  2. Practice Politeness and Courtesy:

    • Use polite and considerate language when asking questions or engaging in discussions.
    • Be patient and understanding if the person answering takes time to respond. They may receive a high volume of questions.
    • Avoid spamming or repeating the same question multiple times. Give others a chance to ask their questions as well.

-Use NSFW and trigger warning TW in brackets if you talk about sensitive subject.

  1. Respect Boundaries and Privacy:

    • Do not ask personal or invasive questions unless the participant explicitly invites such queries.
    • If a participant declines to answer a question or requests to move on from a topic, respect their boundaries without pressuring them for a response.
    • Avoid sharing personal information or disclosing sensitive details about yourself or others.
  2. Be Inclusive and Stand Against Discrimination:

    • Respect diverse perspectives and backgrounds. Discrimination, including racism, homophobia, and transphobia, will not be tolerated.
    • Foster an environment that welcomes individuals of all races, genders, sexual orientations, religions, and identities.
    • Be mindful of your language and the potential impact it may have on others. Avoid offensive slurs or derogatory terms.
  3. Avoid Spam and Irrelevant Questions:

    • Ensure your questions are relevant to the participant's expertise or field of knowledge.
    • Avoid posting low-quality or repetitive questions that add little value to the discussion.
    • Respect the purpose of the AMA and avoid using it solely for self-promotion or advertising.
  4. Engage in Meaningful Discussions:

    • Prioritize thought-provoking and insightful questions that foster engaging conversations.
    • Be open to different perspectives and use the AMA as an opportunity to learn and broaden your understanding.
    • Jokes are allowed as long as they are respectful, appropriate, and do not target or marginalize specific individuals or groups. -If you are sarcastic, we recommend to use /s to be sure there is no confusion about your intention. Fake sarcasm will be found.

Remember, these rules and guidelines are in place to ensure a positive and informative environment for all participants. Failure to comply may result in 3 strikes warnings, temporary restrictions, or permanent bans at the discretion of the moderators.

in the future, a mod check and balance system might be implemented . Subject to change : [You might appeal your ban by contacting a special appointed moderator to judge if the ban was abusive.

Special appointed mod can create jury like conversation with randomly chosen users with jury votes to decide if bans are legit or not.]

Thank you for being a part of the Ask Me Anything (AMA) community. Let's engage in enlightening discussions, share knowledge, and create an inclusive space that values respect and diversity!

Friendly communities :

go to feed...