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UnderpantsWeevil 149 points a year ago

Parents: "You should be punished for having romantic feelings and a sense of independence"

Me: "I reflexively and ritualistically punish myself whenever I'm feeling romantic or pursuing independence"

Nah. Nothing here that I can see.

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ShinkanTrain 46 points a year ago

I'm not saying everyone raised catholic wants a partner who dresses like a nun and makes you call them Mother Superior, but I am saying those are the ones I hang out with

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lessthanluigi 37 points a year ago

How to manufacture sexual submissives 🤔

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djsoren19 19 points a year ago

I don't really think we need to manufacture any more. The way I see it, there's already a natural surplus of bottoms.

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lessthanluigi 7 points a year ago

natural surplus

Don't you mean national surplus, or global surplus? Or maybe bottoms are just more naturally created?

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UltraGiGaGigantic 2 points a year ago

It truly is a tops world. I can be verse but I prefer to top because I get way to much anxiety when people are down there. The gay hookup apps are a insatiable black hole of thirst in my area.

Intercourse isn't even required for me. I'd rather do mutual oral, make out and give forehead kisses. But I am a people pleaser.

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Imadethis 5 points a year ago

Fuck my christian upbringing, but would you mind fucking me at the same time?

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glitchdx 91 points a year ago

No anon, you became who you were meant to be in spite of your parents. You just be careful about it, ok?

Is what I would say if op was anon, but op isn't anon so obviously the whole thing is fake and gay (which I'd like to remind everyone is not a bad thing).

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semperverus 9 points a year ago

Why does it feel like youre saying "fake and gay" like you're trying to blend in, like some weird 4chan skinwalker?

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svcg 19 points a year ago

Because this is the greentext sub and that is what people do here.

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Comment105 11 points a year ago

Yeah, we're literally not on 4chan. For good reason.

It's like a plantation. You enjoy the fruits of their labor, but hanging out there is not for most.

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Gradually_Adjusting 6 points a year ago

The mountainous burden of irony is truly something to behold. It's like watching that strong dude from Baron Von Munchausen

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slingstone 11 points a year ago

Dear Lord, it's the fake gaywalker!

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glitchdx 5 points a year ago

(oh shit, they're on to me)

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UltraGiGaGigantic 1 point a year ago

Possible and bisexual

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ShinkanTrain 82 points a year ago

It's the rosaries, they look too much like anal beads

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Death_Equity 26 points a year ago

First you are at a rosary necklace level, next thing you know you are akuma necklace level and are getting pull started like an 80's weed wacker by a bear dressed like Winnie the Pooh. Many such cases.

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SpaceNoodle 19 points a year ago

That's not what they're for?

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ChicoSuave 29 points a year ago

Either way they elicit an "oh my god"

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Whats_a_lemmy 9 points a year ago

Coward /s

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SpaceNoodle 7 points a year ago

I'm not afraid of God for the same reason I'm not afraid of the Easter Bunny

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GeeDubHayduke 5 points a year ago

Because they're both chill af, and forgave you for that thing you did that time, right?

Right..?

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match 7 points a year ago

They make those

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rekabis 61 points a year ago

Not hopeless, just overcompensating from the freedom.

OP needs to strongly consider whether he:

  1. actually likes doing those things, or
  2. is just entranced/aroused by being able to do things that would be otherwise forbidden by his family and culture.

Either is OK, but when being the source of that behaviour, the former is a lot more healthy than the latter.

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drmoose 5 points a year ago

But point #1 and #2 are the same.

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TimewornTraveler 10 points a year ago

they can be

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rekabis 5 points a year ago

Yes, but in many to most cases, no.

People from suppressed cultures/families who suddenly experience freedom have a tendency to go after anything that spits in the face of their former repression, purely for that freedom. As in, they are motivated by the freedom to choose, and not by whether or not they actually like the act in question.

Which is why the former is much more psychologically healthier. It rarely generates regret, whereas the latter has the potential to generate regret once they “get [it] worked out of their system” and realize that they don’t like the act itself - and may actually hate it or how it’s changed them - and have only been attracted to their ability to choose it or its ability to be offensive in the context of their prior repression.

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ininewcrow 60 points a year ago

The dilemma of the chicken or the egg problem

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Skullgrid 63 points a year ago

how? did them being horny make their parents catholic?

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ArbitraryValue 29 points a year ago

OP's parents saw that he would need divine intervention.

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match 8 points a year ago

Took one look at OP and all three of them went straight to baptism

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breakingcups 32 points a year ago

One might say, the chick and the cracked egg.

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EldenLord 2 points a year ago
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kittenzrulz123 59 points a year ago

Real and gay

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pixeltree 16 points a year ago

Could be transfem, might be straight, which might be even gayer tbh

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yeather 9 points a year ago

Nah would have been mentioned if he was anything other than gay.

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Frozengyro 11 points a year ago

Fake, claims he isn't a neet. Gay, fantasizes about this green text daily.

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phoenixz 31 points a year ago

Probably a bit of both, anon

But in reality it's not fucked up, it's just who you are and what you like, though again your tight ass upbringing may have given you some ideas

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Imadethis 3 points a year ago

The tight ass upbringing is probably half the equation for his white 'friend.'

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sharkfucker420 31 points a year ago

Is the reputation of catholics for sexual repression actually true or just a meme

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Panamalt 24 points a year ago

I think, as with most things, it's a continuum. On one end, they are pretty chill and at the other end are the extremists that are convinced exposed shoulders will instantly corrupt anyone with a penis.

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drmoose 11 points a year ago

Its definitely true and there's a lot of correlation between sexual assault/misconduct and repression though doing science here is obviously really hard so all I can share is some personal anecdotes.

I see a lot of sex tourists here in Thailand (and Vietnam where I lived previously) from repressed countries like middle east region and India and its scary how badly these people are behaving to the point where they are banned from many sex avenues. I had a fried who basically was a Islam virgin and a complete sexual retard and obviously very promiscuous when detached from that until he managed to grow up in a year or two.

Religious sexual repression is scary. My pet theory is that middle east problems would be solved if every dude was just handed a pocket pussy when they turn 16 lol

I know my comment isn't directly about catholicism but its the same thing no matter which religion is enforcing the repression.

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PanArab 4 points a year ago

Religious sexual repression is scary. My pet theory is that middle east problems would be solved if every dude was just handed a pocket pussy when they turn 16 lol

How will that solve being invaded and meddled with for oil and trade routes?

Or 2000 years ago, being invaded and meddled with for frankincense and trade routes?

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barsoap 2 points a year ago

2000 years ago would've been the Romans, Christianity much less Catholicism simply didn't exist at that time. And I think Morocco conquered Andalusia before the crusades. By like 400 years.

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drmoose 1 point a year ago

Because it takes a special psychological state for people to contribute to these actions. Sexual repression highly contributes to creating such mental states.

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PanArab 3 points a year ago

I don't think the Greek and Roman pagans were known for sexual repression and yet they engaged in wars and conquests, including of the Middle East and Arabia. Neither were the Arab pagans they conquered and invaded. It has always been about resources and access to them.

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ZeffSyde 4 points a year ago

My Catholic friend had most pleasure removed from sex. He doesn't see it as filthy or sinful, but is very nervous by the prospect of disease and pregnancy. He still enjoys having sex because his partners have loved it, and he likes making them happy.

It's more of a game of how quickly/often he can make them climax. For him it is just kind of boring and getting in the way of sleeping/cuddling which he finds much more pleasant.

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Mallspice 29 points a year ago
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OmegaLemmy 16 points a year ago

You were fucked from the beginning, repression maybe made him bounce back even harder though

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maxxadrenaline 15 points a year ago

Sounds about right. In my later days I tried explaining my unique tastes to my religrous parents only because they eventually came over every day and my lifestlye was all over the house. They couldnt handle it and kept digging and finding reasons to shun me. They always did thtt, looking for things they cant handle. Then they start trying to convert me to a lame christian lifestyle again in my adulthood. Like they want a conservatorship when they invaded a life perfectly fine without them knowing.

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prole 7 points a year ago

Then they start trying to convert me to a lame christian lifestyle again in my adulthood.

My parents gave that up decades ago when every single time they brought up religion, I would tire them out with questions they could never answer. I think they realized that they were accomplishing nothing, and maybe even hurting their own faith in the process lol

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harmsy 9 points a year ago

The pic is from Bofuri.

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lowered_lifted 7 points a year ago

except for the racism play part this kinda describes my latina GF so yeah accurate and heterosexual most likely

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AnUnusualRelic 4 points a year ago

At least it wasn't sergeant major discipline. Imagine the horror

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snoons 2 points a year ago

yes

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