The Bones make the Rules

4 months ago by its_kim_love to c/onehundredninetysix

galoisghost 28 points 4 months ago

Become Goth, spooky is everyday. I don’t know why people resist.

Edit: I will say I’m not Goth. I like certain sports which just rules me out, however I appreciate Goths and will champion their cause and enjoy their art.

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its_kim_love 7 points 4 months ago path: 0 24034010 24034049, hotness: undefined, score: 7, children: 0
Eldritch 5 points 4 months ago

You can listen to show tunes and still be goth. Repo the genetic opera exists. Not saying its peak. But Paris Hilton loses her face at least. Sports isn't a deal breaker either. Just remember your SPF or you might end up looking like Beelzebob. It's all on the back of your goth card. Just check. And don't forget to renew it every once in a while.

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its_kim_love 2 points 4 months ago

Repo would be a lot better if it weren't written by who it was written by, but I guess it probably wouldn't exist if that were the case.

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Eldritch 2 points 4 months ago

100%. Outside of Zydrate all the other "songs" are just badly written sing talking. The story over all is just barely even mid. But a fine enough watch through once. Still, slip zydrate into a DJ set and there will be a gaggle of goths singing along.

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SharkWeek 2 points 4 months ago
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Eldritch 2 points 4 months ago

Sure. Though like Cats or Rent if you like. It doesn't have to fit an aesthetic. There are popular aesthetics in the scenes. But remember the aesthetic doesn't define the scene. We absolutely adore gothic and horror aesthetic. But about the least punk/goth thing you can do is tell someone that liking X means they can't be punk/goth.

You like Joni Mitchel? Fawkin rawk right? You wanna pogo or slam dance in a black toga? Sure why not. You love goth, and Korn, Slipknot, and My Chemical Romance are your favorite "goth" bands? I'ma stop you right there and say. Here try all these other groups more goth associated. You might like them too. I ain't gonna gate keep or discourage someone that's open and interested in learning. Even if I don't care for those bands or think they fit. Cyber goth, pastel goth, glitter goth, Summer goth, baby bat......whatever Let your freak flag fly. It's about self expression and rebellion. Even if it's against a suffocating aesthetic regime in your local scene. =P

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SharkWeek 2 points 4 months ago
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teslekova 5 points 4 months ago

Hmmm. Beach volleyball? (too perky.) Equestrian? (Horses don't like the paint smell.) Rugby? (Getting paint all over the other players.) Cycling? (Boots don't fit in the pedal stirrups.)

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yetAnotherUser 7 points 4 months ago

Cycling? (Boots don't fit in the pedal stirrups.)

Someone please fix this quick. Bikes are way too convenient for goths to be missing out on them.

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its_kim_love 11 points 4 months ago

I rode this monster in my goth-boots this morning.

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Eldritch 3 points 4 months ago

Noice

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yetAnotherUser 2 points 4 months ago

Woah, good job

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Zagorath 3 points 4 months ago

I'm just trying to figure out what it means. Pedal stirrups? Huh?

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SharkWeek 4 points 4 months ago
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Homo_Erectus 26 points 4 months ago

GET SPOOKY I SAID!!!

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swab148 14 points 4 months ago

YOU KNOW THEM BONERS LIKE TO CRANK HOGS!!!!

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supersquirrel 21 points 4 months ago

Summer is the flesh that hides the bones of October and we choose to cast our superfluous flesh away now.

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its_kim_love 17 points 4 months ago

Halloween is fighting the war on Christmas by circling around and hitting them from January.

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orenj 12 points 4 months ago

Every month of the year belongs to halloween

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dejected_warp_core 6 points 4 months ago path: 0 24035290 24035318, hotness: undefined, score: 6, children: 0
its_kim_love 3 points 4 months ago

Yeah it's just this meme that appears every June.

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Grandwolf319 9 points 4 months ago

Looks like someone doesn’t know about summerween

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wal_kr 6 points 4 months ago

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AllNewTypeFace 7 points 4 months ago

The G in LGBT stands for Goth

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Eldritch 4 points 4 months ago

Litch Goth Bat Tomb?

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BoosBeau 5 points 4 months ago

get. spooky.

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umbraroze 3 points 4 months ago

If you're a goth, it's Halloween all the time.

If you're drinking, you can probably get weird brainfarts and utter things like "well it's gotta be Halloween-o'clock somewhere, am I right?"

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