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volore 13 points 2 days ago

either distract myself with media (video games, music, movies), distract myself with pot, distract myself with my dogs (who alleviate a lot of the loneliness, but I can't have a good conversation with them unfortunately), or come browse and comment here. All my friends have drifted away over the years so I've learned to cope. If it's the connection I miss, I can go pet the dogs. The conversation or intellectual stimulation, I go shitposting (hello!). If it's just boredom stemming from loneliness, alleviating boredom with media or weed is easy.

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56_ 8 points 2 days ago

Cuddle my cats.

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FinjaminPoach 7 points 2 days ago

I don't know. I don't know if i'm in tune with what loneliness feels like. I've been living with family members for a while so i always have people to talk to, and i don't remember ever feeling like i haven't spoken with people in a while, because i always have social media. I overused forums as a young teen and it looks like i still overshare on forums today, xD

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SharkWeek 2 points 2 days ago

Oh my dog yes to this ... I've been over-sharing on here while I'm stuck on my own without good conversation, due to being in a country with very few English or Spanish speakers.

Not long now till I go home though :-)

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FaithandCommunityCoach 1 point 2 days ago
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essell 7 points 2 days ago

Talk with friends. Drink. Eat. Game. Work.

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CapuccinoCoretto 6 points 2 days ago

I was lonely a long time ago because I was living on the road doing consulting work. Always interacting with people, but no romance. What I did was build the life I wanted. I quit the road work, bought a house on my own and within 6 mos met my wife on a blind date from a mutual friend at work. Family life was perfect for me. I'd rather hang out with my kids than my friends.

That being said, I have a crazy high need/tolerance for personal time. At the end of the day when I crawl into my man cave, everyone knows to leave me alone.

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FaithandCommunityCoach 4 points 2 days ago
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CapuccinoCoretto 1 point 2 days ago

After the first few years it became easy. Babies up all night were rough, with colds and ear infections. But ever since and now in their teens, its easy. I'm more worried about when they are gone to uni in a few years, and my wife and I become empty nesters. We're going to have to work on a lot more socializing. ;)

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hexagonwin 5 points 2 days ago

i just surf lemmy..

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Witchfire 4 points 2 days ago

Look for nearby clubs and groups

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mechoman444 3 points 2 days ago

I heavily masturbate 2 to 3 times in quick succession, smoke enough weed to cause a panic attack then watch music videos on YouTube until I can't stay awake anymore.

I wake up in the morning feeling like Joe Pesci at the end of Casino (the movie) and go put in a 12 hour work day.

Happythoughtshappythoughtshappythoughts.

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Rhynoplaz 3 points 2 days ago

Cats or video games.

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MisterNeon 3 points 2 days ago

I exist. I'm always lonely.

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LovableSidekick 2 points 2 days ago

What I did in my late 20s was start taking acting classes at community college at night, and participating in building sets etc.. It very quickly created social activity and a great circle of fun, crazy, wacky friends that turned my whole life around.

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toiletobserver 2 points 2 days ago

( ͡~ ͜ʖ ͡°)

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Cherry 2 points 2 days ago

For non Piefed there’s an AI label on this.

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shittydwarf 2 points 2 days ago

Text my ex :'(

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can 3 points 2 days ago

Follow the golden rule, rub one out first.

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shittydwarf 2 points 2 days ago

This is very wise

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FaithandCommunityCoach -1 points 2 days ago
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rimu 3 points 2 days ago

Haha, your AI is showing

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missingno 2 points 2 days ago

Serious question for you, why let an AI do all the posting for you? Can't write your own replies?

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can 1 point 2 days ago

Are we sure it's AI? Christians often sound robotic when proselytizing. Long before LLMs.

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missingno 1 point 2 days ago

All of their replies are extremely obvious AI-speak. Even just the act of responding to a tongue-in-cheek three word post with multiple paragraphs is enough of a dead giveaway.

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mrmaplebar 2 points 2 days ago

I immerse myself in hobbies and entertainment. Art and music are constant companions and the way they make you feel is meaningful, while the escapism of my favorite games and shows are helpful to keep your mind off of negative feelings. Hobbies and entertainment also help you find ways to relate to other people, opening doors for new relationships to form or grow.

I also try to reach out to people. Family, friends, online communities, random people at the store, or whatever. Connecting with someone is the only real way to get over loneliness in the end. It takes effort.

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FaithandCommunityCoach 1 point 2 days ago
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MuttMutt 2 points 2 days ago

I would prefer to strap on my BCD and a cylinder and head under water.

Otherwise I try and work on my house but I'm often low on materials and have to wait to make purchases.

So I usually just put a movie or TV show on and research projects, parts, designs, and make plans for other stuff I'm working on.

For me to be less lonely I find it's better to be busy.

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aaa999 2 points 2 days ago

Scam. Scam. I am very good at knowing if something is a scam. I don't know how but this is a scam. Scam. Get mad. Remind me one year

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insomniac_lemon 2 points 2 days ago

I wish their name, community they created, and other post with a link in it could give some insight to what their purpose for creating an account was.

Guess we'll never know.

An office worker looks at the camera with a neutral-but-judging face, a short moment of disdain


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RoddyStiggs 1 point 2 days ago

Oh my god this is jesus slop

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yesman 1 point 2 days ago

The loneliest I've ever been was in a relationship and living together. I've never felt that way when I was actually alone.

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HubertManne 1 point 2 days ago

Im pretty introverted and it takes a lot for me to get lonely. I would have to have quite a life change to even be close. I get more than enough contact even when im not working for my levels. Usually I am doing things because otherwise its boring not otherwise its lonely. I don't like cell phones and I don't bother keeping books on me anymore so I now take the opportunity to be with myself when Im waiting or such. I often try to meditate but not always. Often times I like really experiencing my surroundings. Sorta being in the now type of thing.

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FaithandCommunityCoach 2 points 2 days ago
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glups 1 point 2 days ago

A few years ago, drugs and alcohol. Now, 2 different media streams at once. Marginal improvement

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sixtoe 1 point 2 days ago

I connect with it and let it burn hot and fast for as long as it takes to subside. Sometimes I just jerk off.

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