People who have tried out nudism or knows individuals whonare nudists, What were some of the pros and cons?

a month ago by SwissArmyKazoo to c/asklemmy

myster0n 75 points a month ago

One of the cons must be lack of pockets

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irate944 10 points a month ago

There’s one natural pocket, if you get my meaning

If CJ from San Andreas could store there RPGs, you can store anything if you put your mind to it

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MajorMajormajormajor 6 points a month ago

Yeah, but why didn't CJ follow that damn train?

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baggachipz 4 points a month ago

That’s ALL he had to do!

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aeronmelon 5 points a month ago

Fanny packs.

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Peppycito 12 points a month ago

Still a con.

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meco03211 5 points a month ago

The British prison pocket for women?

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AngryCommieKender 2 points a month ago

I believe they are called "Bum Bags" on that side of the pond

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HeyJoe 0 points a month ago

Women got fun bags that kind of work as a storage location as well.

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remon 40 points a month ago

Went to the water park with some friends for my 15th birthday but didn't realise it was nudists night. We decided to stay anyway and I only went back on nudist nights after that. It's great.

Pro:

  • Most people will leave, so no lines on the slides/rides and you can use all the floaty toys.
  • No need to pull down pants to go faster on the slides

Cons:

  • Some slight awkwardness (optional)
  • Naked old people
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AA5B 6 points a month ago

No need to pull down pants to go faster on the slides

Wait, is this really a thing? I’d never do it for fear of injury, and didn’t believe there was a “pro”

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remon 3 points a month ago

lol, how is that not a thing with kids everywhere? And the slides are usually designed with that in mind and if no one get's stuck and with proper timing, it's not really dangerous.

But there is like a science to it. With big trunks you have to pull them down, almost to your knees, otherwise they will still catch water and slow you down. Something like Speedos you can just tuck in between your ass cheeks, but they might still slow you down if you shift balance towards your back, so for max speed you still need to pull them down.

Being naked solves all of that :D

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HeyJoe 4 points a month ago

Do the staff have to participate as well?

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remon 2 points a month ago

No.

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lukstru 39 points a month ago

I don't understand why some comments here are putting old naked people in the cons. Those are people too, and you can always look somewhere else... Or just don't expect old people to look young. Its part of life y'all

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DarkFuture 6 points a month ago

I don’t understand why some comments here are putting old naked people in the cons.

Every time there's a discussion online about nudism you'll see the immature comments about having to see old/fat people naked. It's cringey. They're comments from people that either haven't tried nudism and are forming opinions about something they know nothing about, or people that tried it and didn't learn from the experience.

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remon 4 points a month ago

Guilty. It's definitely not a hard con and I just put it there because you'll basically only see old people (60+), at least in my experience. They make up like 80% of nudists, which kind of stands out. But it's great at the water park because they'll all be sticking to the saunas and mineral baths and usually don't bother with slides or the wave pool.

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snoons 34 points a month ago

Pros: Can run faster and farther without the baggage of puritan society

Cons: So much sunscreen...

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DosDude 31 points a month ago

Going to the spa it's very frugal on bathing suit day. And it's very awkward. On normal days it's only awkward the first time you walk in. But once you're used to it, and you will get used to it very quickly, it's very liberating.

I don't identify as nudist, and my comfy clothes/status always involve underpants jeans and a t-shirt.

Pros:

  • free ballin'
  • liberating
  • cooling down after a sauna is great
  • lots of naked people
  • everyone is naked, so no-one cares about how you look (if they don't like the way you look, they look at somewhere else. Like you do too.)

Cons:

  • many naked old people
  • awkward for the first 30 minutes
  • can be cold
  • the day has to end sometime.
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DarkFuture 30 points a month ago

Been a nudist for 5 years now. I'm lucky enough to live near a major nudist resort and various nude beaches. I love it and consider it part of my lifestyle now. I'm American, btw, just to let people know there are nudists options even in prudish America.

Pros:

  • Freedom. A specific brand of freedom you only get being naked outside or around others in a social environment. Not even sure how to describe it beyond that. It's just a new freedom you didn't know you had before.

  • Social interactions. I'm an introvert by nature. When you're naked with others you skip past a lot of the ceremonial social bullshit/awkwardness. You just start out on a more friendly foundation right from the get-go because you're literally not hiding anything from anyone, if you catch my drift. It's much easier for me to start up a conversation with a stranger when we're both naked. Everyone is just really nice.

  • Body positivity. Everyone can see everything. Got love handles? See it. Got a mole on your ass? See it. Big dick? Small dick? Weird vagina? See it. When everyone can see everything (and everyone has flaws) then it just kind of stops mattering and you'll feel more comfortable with your body than you ever have.

  • No more wet swimsuits. Not only does it feel fantastic swimming naked, but it's so nice not sitting around in a wet swimsuit for half an hour waiting for it to dry. Plus, it doesn't make sense to put clothing on to get into the water. That's nonsense. That's like putting clothes on to take a shower.

  • Full body tan. No more tan lines. Don't burn your dick/nips though.

Cons:

  • Social stigma. This isn't a big con. I've had people just not "get" it, which is kind of frustrating, but doesn't actually affect me. I generally know from internet comments that there are people out there that are vehemently against it, which I think is childish and closed-minded. People that think it's child abuse, which I can confirm is absolute bullshit. People that are concerned they'll have to look at old and unattractive naked people. These are people making immature comments about something they know literally nothing about. But again, I've never been in an actual real life negative social interaction involving nudism. I know that the resort I go to doesn't publicly advertise because they don't want to draw attention from groups, mostly religious, that would target them and try to get them shut down. So it's a word of mouth thing or you gotta get curious and look online.

  • Weather. You can only really enjoy the nudist lifestyle during the warmer months. I almost don't even want to call this a con because it's just the changing of the seasons, but I do get bummed out all winter when I have to wear stupid clothes all the time and miss that feeling of swimming naked.

Honestly, if you're curious about it, I can't recommend it enough. It's a positive experience in many ways. The worst that could happen is you find out it just doesn't appeal to you that much and you don't do it again. I've never spoken to anyone that's done it and regretted it. For most people it'll turn into something you look forward to for the rest of your life.

The biggest hurdle is taking your clothes off the first time. We've been raised in a social environment that leads us to believe that public nudity is wrong in some way, and if there are any kids around, we're going to prison. I am here to confirm that is strictly false and it's something that close-minded people want to make others believe because it's what they, in their limited experience, believe. Everyone is naked, but it's still a social environment moderated by the presence of others. There are rules. There are expectations. Clothes coming off doesn't mean you've entered some lawless zone. You will be handled by others if you're inappropriate.

The way I've described the first time to friends is remembering what it was like the first time you rode a rollercoaster. You're nervous in line. You're nervous getting strapped in. You're nervous as it goes up the first incline and you hear that click click click. Then you go over the top (take your clothes off) and it's immediately fun and when it's over you can't wait to go again. My first time I had to hang out in my underwear for a while cuz I was nervous as hell. Eventually told myself you only live once, so screw it. The moment my underwear came off 80% of my anxiety just disappeared. The rest disappeared as the day went on. Honestly, if you do it enough, you end up forgetting that you're naked. I know that sounds kind of strange, but you really just stop thinking about it. If you have a resort near you, I would recommend that cuz literally everyone will be naked, which actually makes being naked a little easier if it's your first time. If you go to a beach it could be a mix of naked and not naked people and that can be a little nerve racking. But at this point I don't even think twice. I get to my destination and my clothes come off, no hesitation.

Bottom line is don't let other people's hangups cause you not to try things you want to try. Just do it and let the people too scared to try it experience less in their lives. And remember, despite social stigma, nudity really isn't that big of a deal.

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Cricket 2 points a month ago

Thanks for your detailed reply!

Weather. You can only really enjoy the nudist lifestyle during the warmer months. I almost don’t even want to call this a con because it’s just the changing of the seasons, but I do get bummed out all winter when I have to wear stupid clothes all the time and miss that feeling of swimming naked.

I hadn't thought about this one before. It seems like this could possibly make SAD (Seasonal Affective Disorder - i.e., seasonal depression) even more severe for people who are prone to it.

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abbadon420 23 points a month ago

Pros: freedom.
Cons: surprise visits by your inlaws

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MajorMajormajormajor 4 points a month ago

A bit cold out, Mr.Father-in-law?

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solrize 18 points a month ago

I don't see many pros. I had a housemate (male) who was a self proclaimed nudist. He'd walk around the house naked and it wasn't offensive or anything like that. It was just kind of annoying, passive-aggressive behaviour it seemed to me. He was a good guy in general, just a little too invested in non-conformity.

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bdonvr 14 points a month ago

annoying, passive-aggressive behaviour

What, just the act of being nude? Or was there more to it?

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beejboytyson -3 points a month ago

In Canada that's sexual assualt

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Tonuka 7 points a month ago

how on earth

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beejboytyson 3 points a month ago

In Canada it's illegal to be naked in your house in front of your window with no blinds. If someone sees you, you sexually assaulted them. Likewise, if you open the door in your boxers, again sexual assualt.

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Tonuka 2 points a month ago

hell world

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SpruceBringsteen 13 points a month ago

Cons: splinters

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fleebleneeble 11 points a month ago

I don't think there are set in stone pros or cons, it's just what you make of it yourself. Personally it's all pros to me. I like not having to wear things that make me feel constricted and having the freedom to do as I please without having to wear clothes. I also like that it naturalises non-sexual nudity. Which the world could use more of. We all got bits, not like you haven't seen them before either on yourself or someone else.

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Goldholz 7 points a month ago

Pros: not very good in winter Cons: no pockets and cant do it everywhere

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titanicx 2 points a month ago

Can't? No, but shouldn't....

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snoons 3 points a month ago

Grafting pockets into your thighs isn't something I've ever thought of till now.

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Goldholz -1 points a month ago

And why should i not be nude in designated nudist zones? Or at home?

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titanicx 4 points a month ago

Whoosh

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Goldholz 0 points a month ago

Aha...where was there a joke?

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quediuspayu 6 points a month ago

Pros: swimming is nice, less tan lines.

Cons: everything else.

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