It doesn't get any better at 40

a year ago by Track_Shovel to c/comicstrips

colourlesspony 94 points a year ago

I'm personally convinced that the cause of back problems is sitting way to much.

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Plebcouncilman 69 points a year ago

That’s one aspect of it but the main cause is weakness of the lower back muscles. This is in the case of office workers, if you have a manual job the causes could be many. But all of the causes can be addressed to a certain degree with deadlifts to strengthen to lower back muscles. But people don’t want to lift weights so 🤷🏽‍♂️

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logicbomb 62 points a year ago

There are plenty of body weight exercises like squats and lunges that can strengthen the back. I think more than weights, people simply don't like to do targeted exercises.

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Reverendender 15 points a year ago

I very much want to

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abbadon420 9 points a year ago

Running also strengthens the back

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prettybunnys 9 points a year ago

Truth.

I do what I call the morning dump before runs now, squats + good mornings and then a 5k, my sore back is because I made it sore and it’s a good sore.

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iAmTheTot 3 points a year ago

Big if true, I just started running again this year. Ran a fair bit almost a decade ago, still have back pain though.

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vikingtons 10 points a year ago

squat and deadlift are key to success. Really, anything that develops your posterior chain is a healthy bet

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prettybunnys 4 points a year ago

Squats, deadlifts and good mornings are the key to a back you made sore and strong instead of a hurt back,

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MotoAsh 3 points a year ago
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MotoAsh 2 points a year ago
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vikingtons 2 points a year ago

Sorry I meant in context to keeping a strong trunk and a happy lower back. Of course you'd want a good balance of exercises to support even muscle development

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oce 4 points a year ago

Can't it be addressed with any regular, properly practiced sport, which many people don't do over 30? Lifting seems like effort without the fun of a game.

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Plebcouncilman 5 points a year ago

It is certainly 1000 times better than doing nothing, but even athletes lift weights to complement their training because there’s nothing quite like targeting the muscles directly. But like others have commented running is also good for strengthening the back, so any sports where there’s a lot of running like soccer, football or basketball will help.

Weightlifting can be a game itself though, at least for me it is. The game is attempting to best my previous numbers every session. Very much a single player game but a game nonetheless.

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prettybunnys 3 points a year ago

Lifting is an RPG

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Trainguyrom 2 points a year ago

Lifting seems like effort without the fun of a game.

The fun is in learning your muscles, feeling them shift and move as you put new strain on them and ultimately improving. Any metric you can track for improvement gives you a big source of pride when you hit a new milestone. Maybe it's more reps. Maybe it's a bigger weight with the same number of reps. Maybe it's a new more difficult exercise you can do. Maybe you're aiming to join a local competition. There's always a goal to work towards and you can watch your body get better as you work on it. There's incredible magic in knowing the control you have over your body's shape, and suddenly being able to join in races or competitions that you might have used to be annoyed by how they get in your way.

I've gone big into biking. I started out struggling to make it around the block (which includes a big hill because where I live there really isn't any flat surfaces to bike on) and last week I hit 12 miles in one go, and that's including quite a few hills, some I powered up standing on the pedals, and some I powered through going as slowly as I needed and just continuing to pedal and push through. Every week or two I can achieve a new best for the season or even a new personal best, and that's just tracking distance. I could instead focus on increasing my average speed. Or I could download an app where I race other people on the same route in virtual time trials.

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MotoAsh 1 point a year ago
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ShaggySnacks 3 points a year ago

It’s not just load back. People have to strengthen their core, chest, and upper back.

All those muscles work together to help with good posture.

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Track_Shovel 10 points a year ago

In my case, it's the combo of way, way to much walking in work boots and then later doing a lot of sitting. gotta shorten up those hip flexor, bae

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HubertManne 8 points a year ago

My dad and brother had back problems and they were brick layers and then janitors. Only sat at breaktime.

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MotoAsh 4 points a year ago
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HubertManne 2 points a year ago

yeah. I brought it up mostly to contrast the its from sitting thing. Lots of folks in physical trades had back problems. It was a trope really. Working class dads with back going out and corpo dads with heart attacks.

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Lost_My_Mind 8 points a year ago

This is why I never sit down. Not even to poop. I just stand above the toilet, and hope it goes in.

Sometimes it does!

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Szyler 2 points a year ago

Do you have a poop fork next to the poop knife to help pick them up?

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THB 1 point a year ago

Made me lol at the last sentence.

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Nomecks 6 points a year ago

Adults don't know how to bend and squat properly. Watch people and you'll see that practically everybody bends at their back anytime they're reaching down.

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MotoAsh 1 point a year ago
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Nomecks 1 point a year ago

If you're someone who knows how to lift at the waist you're probably still keeping your back straight, like you would in a Romanian deadlift.

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MotoAsh 1 point a year ago
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ChickenLadyLovesLife 4 points a year ago

Weighing way too goddam much is also a cause of back (and knee) problems.

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Tollana1234567 3 points a year ago

Also bending your back for a job hours on end does more damage

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diptchip 2 points a year ago

The human body wasn't designed to sit all day. We're walkers. Best to appreciate a job that keeps you moving. Haven't had back problems since I started doing manual labor. Before that, there were days I couldn't tie my shoes.

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GissaMittJobb 64 points a year ago

Strength training helps, a lot.

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MotoAsh 15 points a year ago
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DragonTypeWyvern 5 points a year ago

I wouldn't say there aren't people who are naturally more flexible than average but all the people who are VERY flexible worked for it. The processes that improve your ligaments and muscles in that way require repetition and dedication like any other self improvement.

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SaharaMaleikuhm 2 points a year ago

Still waiting for the day I twist my ankle for the first time. I'm still way too flexible for it to hurt at all when I step off the pavement weirdly.

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MotoAsh 2 points a year ago
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prettybunnys 4 points a year ago

100%

The reason that bowflex dude was 42 and in the best shape of his life was because at 42 it was the first time he needed to be.

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ChickenLadyLovesLife 4 points a year ago

Shit, Anthony Bourdain had six-pack abs at age 61. You're never too old to stop whining about life and start moving some weights around and stop eating so much shitty food.

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ansiz 45 points a year ago

100% encourage anyone past 30 to start working on your core strength, a sore back can frequently be caused by a weak core. I only take started focusing on that when I turned 40 and it's made a huge difference! Just a few minutes a day or every couple of days is all it takes. Get a kettlebell, do 30 swings, then a 1-2 minute plank, then 30 more swings and you're done. It will really help with the back pain, believe me!

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BlackPenguins 11 points a year ago

What exactly is a swing? Cause I just imagine spinning in circles letting it go and destroying my TV. I assume back and forth? Or in front of me? Over my head? 90 degrees?

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meliaesc 15 points a year ago path: 0 18077441 18078049 18078088, hotness: undefined, score: 15, children: 2
BlackPenguins 2 points a year ago

No joke I might actually go out and buy one today if it's this easy to do in my apartment.

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limelight79 2 points a year ago

So I bought a kettle bell yesterday. I can definitely feel it, we'll see if it helps!

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Regdok 1 point a year ago

Between the legs

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Valmond 9 points a year ago

I do like 10 kettlebell swings, no plank (because I hate it) and my back has magically just become young again. It feels a little bit cool to swing that bad boy too.

I do sincerely recommend.

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Justas 1 point a year ago

If you hate plank and don't have a kettlebell yet, start with some dead bugs.

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SupraMario 42 points a year ago

I mean this in all positivity. Move around and lose weight if you're sporting it. I'm over 40 and I'm in better shape than I was in my 20s because I move around a lot (owning a farm helps) but it's no excuse to not move if you don't. Stop being sedentary. Move and eat less. You will be surprised how little it takes to feel good again.

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turtlesareneat 13 points a year ago

Also quit smoking, vaping, anything with nicotine, which causes your discs to degrade faster.

I have degenerative disc disease at 42, I'm looking at multiple fusions.

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Unbecredible 10 points a year ago

OK well my counter story is that I move a lot for work too and I'm only slightly overweight but my upper back feels like it's going to break in half when I wake up in the mornings, and my lower back tingles like a 9 volt battery to the tongue just always. 32 yo.

I guess just do whatever and maybe your back will feel fine and maybe it won't. Just like all health advice.

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altasshet 11 points a year ago

You might need a better mattress if that's how you wake up like that. Especially if it gets better during the day.

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Simulation6 1 point a year ago

My cousin did construction work for a number of years and it wore this body out. He had to retire in his 40s.

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theangryseal 1 point a year ago

I eat twice a day, I never stop moving.

I would say I’m doing better than most people at 40 if I hadn’t smoked since I was 10.

I have something wrong with some nerves in my back though. Shit tingles to an annoying level if I carry my kids around.

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technomad 21 points a year ago

Yoga helps 👍

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MotoAsh 3 points a year ago
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technomad 3 points a year ago

Agreed, I just wanted to mention the yoga 😁

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MotoAsh 3 points a year ago
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bricklove 17 points a year ago

Other comments mentioned squats and deadlifts but the upper back is important too. Pullups and especially dead hangs are great for countering the effects of sitting at a desk.

Once you get your grip strength up you can hang and just let your spine decompress. It feels great. You can also do the opposite and keep your core engaged (AKA hollow hold) to build strength.

I played sports growing up but never had a strong core until I did this in my 30s. It was kind of shocking because I could suddenly do things like V ups with ease which used to make me shake uncontrollably.

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thermal_shock 6 points a year ago

I like the shaking aspect, usually a sign you pushed far beyond your limits and your body is going "wtf".

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RBWells 17 points a year ago

Yoga & lifting but mostly yoga. I got in a pretty bad car accident 10 years ago and did not get hurt, I mean got banged up but my back did not get hurt at all. Everyone told me "just wait" but that shoe never dropped, and I'm sure it's the yoga. Fell on my ass the other day (enthusiastic dog knocked my feet out from under me on a slippery surface) and didn't get hurt, and I'm old enough one of the questions the doctor asks is "any falls lately"

Move it in every direction, strengthen all those little muscles and yes, core but not just abs, every side of your core. Bodies are use it or lose it systems.

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Zink 7 points a year ago

I feel you there. I’m in my 40s and have never been super healthy, but I have at least tried to take care of my joints.

Now, this year, my hobbies have had me doing manual labor like construction and landscaping in my yard. This is the strongest I’ve felt in a long time, and when slipping in a muddy yard or tripping over a toy or dog I seem to have the reflexes and supporting muscles to always catch myself without getting hurt. It’s been excellent for my mental health too.

In my 20s and 30s I mostly just wanted to be my recluse nerd gamer self (with my partner who I met at 19 by sheer dumb luck) but now after actively working for years to figure out wtf is wrong with me and how to get better results out of this body and brain I’ve been given… yeah it’s no surprise but things like fresh air and other people and petting an animal are all good shit!

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bent 17 points a year ago

I started doing pilates a few tears ago. I hate it, but really, 15 minutes a week make a huge difference for my back. All it takes is a yoga mat and some pilates instructor lady on YouTube. Curtains is recommended since even if you get good at it you're gonna look ridiculous.

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moriquende 5 points a year ago

I hope the tears stop eventually ✊

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pastermil 14 points a year ago

I used to think this, until I started going to the gym.

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wavebeam 14 points a year ago
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confusedbytheBasics 3 points a year ago

I got sciatica at 37. I exercised regularly, running, yoga, lifting... What fixed it? Regular walking. Yep. Just an hour of walking around fixed the issue yoga and weight lifting couldn't.

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Damage 2 points a year ago

Got sciatica a few years ago, it was sudden and excruciating. Luckily it went away by itself, and so far it hasn't come back.

I couldn't even lift my foot 10cm

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Tollana1234567 1 point a year ago

Pinched nerve?

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Damage 1 point a year ago

I guess

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ShaggySnacks 1 point a year ago

Are you doing deloaded weeks to help with recovery?

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wavebeam 1 point a year ago
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Hackworth 13 points a year ago
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mad_lentil 6 points a year ago

Not medical advice, but I got used to wearing shoes indoors after years of office work, but taking off my shoes when indoors and actually using all my muscles to hold myself upright, has lead to a real reduction in discomfort.

If you're used to shoes all the time, it HURTS at first to go without and you have to take frequent sit/stand breaks. This is GOOD and you should listen to your body and continue moving in ways that make you feel better.

Your point just reminded me that if you're capable, that one of the simplest mediations you can do is work with your muscles to keep yourself straight.

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itsgroundhogdayagain 10 points a year ago

If I sit on the couch playing vidya games for 2 hours, my back hurts for 2 days.

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naticus 6 points a year ago

The gamer in me says to set a timer and stop playing at 1:59.

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Kolanaki 4 points a year ago

Am or Pm?

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naticus 2 points a year ago

Hopefully PM because also gamer me has no gd idea how to stop gaming at 1:59 am even if I have work in the morning.

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moriquende 4 points a year ago

Stop at 1:59 and let stamina quickly recover before continuing. OP obviously not a real gamer.

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mad_lentil 3 points a year ago

Better ergs? More pillows? Shorter sessions?

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HeyThisIsntTheYMCA 2 points a year ago

need a cat with a nervous bladder you have to take to the litter box to interrupt your sitting sessions

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mad_lentil 2 points a year ago

Awwdly specific

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Strider 10 points a year ago

Lol, at 46 my heart said 'nah man, let's just stop'. 🤷

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Kolanaki 9 points a year ago

If I ever actually have a heart attack, I'm not sure if I would think it's a heart attack or a panic attack simply because the first time I ever had a debilitating panic attack, it felt like the way everyone I've known to have a heart attack described them (hard to breath, intense chest pains, left srm went numb, etc) and called an ambulance just to find out it was anxiety.

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chiliedogg 11 points a year ago

Same thing happened to me recently. Super fun loop.

  1. Have panic attack
  2. Symptoms mimic heart attack
  3. Panic more
  4. Mimics heart attack harder
  5. Repeat steps 3 and 4 until EKG, X-ray, and blood test come back clear, and doc gives benzos.

At least now I know it's a panic attack so it doesn't feed itself as aggressively.

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Strider 2 points a year ago

It's easy to miss but I didn't say heart attack. My heart stopped beating and I stopped breathing. Never experienced any of the typical symptoms, non smoker and drinker. I literally dropped dead and was lucky that everything afterwards went well (aside from the trauma inducing situation of course).

The cause is unknown to this day.

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deathgrindfreak 9 points a year ago

I'm basically 40 and deadlift in the 700s pretty frequently. You can bulletproof your back if you have the will

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Track_Shovel 2 points a year ago

I'm working on it, but a lot of my issues stem from repetitive motion injuries.

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veni_vedi_veni 1 point a year ago

I don't know how some people do it. The max I can do without being incapacitated in bed is like 185 lbs, which is a farcry from what I heard you should be able to deadlift twice your weight.

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Jiggle_Physics 7 points a year ago

I was born with my spine on the outside. I have felt this way my whole life!

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HeyThisIsntTheYMCA 2 points a year ago

i am jealous envious of your fancy exoskeleton

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Jiggle_Physics 2 points a year ago

They put it back in when I was born. These days they do the corrective surgery in utero. Then there is the whole hydrocephalus thing

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Stalinwolf 2 points a year ago

That's fucking bad ass!

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Jiggle_Physics 7 points a year ago

yes, my ass is also bad, thanks to the spine, it has a way of ruining everything

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mad_lentil 6 points a year ago

I'm literally scrolling my phone while side stretching because my back hurts just from a4 hour sitting shift rooofl 💀

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exasperation 5 points a year ago

As this thread shows, back pain isn't caused by just one thing, so each specific person's back pain won't be cured by the same one size fits all approach.

If your back pain is caused by poor posture exacerbated by a weak posterior chain, lifting weights at the gym or doing other strengthening exercises/physical therapy can be helpful. As plenty in this thread can attest, gym time to offset laptop time can go a long way.

If your back pain is caused by repetitive stress from physical labor, adhering to proper form/technique and rest/recovery cycles to the best of your ability can help.

If your back pain is exacerbated by the weight you carry, losing weight (or in certain circumstances, breast reduction surgery) can help.

We're all just trying to get through life. Sometimes other people's tips can help, so it's worth sharing, but we also shouldn't get too tied to a particular solution that worked for us, as a the solution for everyone else.

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gandalf_der_12te 5 points a year ago

It's not so much that your spine is old at 30. it's more that our body is not really adjusted to our fucking modern lifestyle. and also it seems to me, a lot of backpain is psychological. i.e., anxiety and stuff leads to lower back pain and such.

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CorruptCheesecake 4 points a year ago
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HoopyFrood 7 points a year ago

I have stuff, a job, kids, a wife, and all that and i’m still a miserable loser. Enjoying life is a thing you have to chose to do in spite of your circumstances, rather than because of them.

For further reference, see Elon Musk: the dude literally has it all and i catch myself genuinely feeling sorry for how pathetic he is from time to time, that man couldn’t enjoy life even if he had literally everything

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ChickenLadyLovesLife 3 points a year ago

Dude has an unlimited supply of ketamine. He probably is actually enjoying life most of the time, unfortunately.

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mad_lentil 1 point a year ago

You'll always feel old, and you'll always look back at yourself a decade prior and marvel at what a fool you were for feeling old back then when you were really so, so young. This is a universal experience.

I didn't really get going on anything until my mid 30s. I just cleaned floors and answered phones. Ended up meeting another late bloomer. We both graduated from mid college programs at the end of our 30s, and now we're both limping through our "careers" in our 40s.

Yeah it might have been better if we started earlier but we didn't. And I sure as fuck look back at myself at 30 thinking how even with 000 to show for it I was still young and full of future, even if I felt like an ancient loser.

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MonkderVierte 4 points a year ago
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SolidShake 2 points a year ago

this is only true if you dont do anything with your life but just sit down in one spot all day and all night. im 38 and i feel find inside and out.

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bennypr0fane 2 points a year ago

Muscle strength-focused workout. This is the way. Sitting all day is the death of your spine. Work out with weights, stronger muscles will save you

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someguy3 2 points a year ago

Air squats. Do them.

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GreenKnight23 3 points a year ago

I can't because I'm past 40

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slackassassin 3 points a year ago

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MotoAsh 2 points a year ago
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HubertManne 1 point a year ago

Can check this out at the olympics. Sports that require flexibility like gymnastics and you have essentially kids. Sports around muscle like weight lifting and you get much older and ones that revolve around target shooting and you can get much older folk winning.

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Sam_Bass 1 point a year ago

I was there at 16

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Beebabe 1 point a year ago

Not quite there yet. I’m thin and pretty active. But I take a lot of beatings and my bones just…fucking ache.

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mad_lentil 1 point a year ago

me

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Addv4 1 point a year ago

Yoga and strength training help quite a bit, but I always found the biggest help was to sleep well. I found sleeping in a hammock basically got rid of any lower back pain, but I'm sure a good bed will help as well.

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thatradomguy 1 point a year ago

Wait, I am 30...

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Comic Strips is a community for those who love comic stories.

Rules
  1. *� Be Nice!

    • Treat others with respect and dignity. Friendly banter is okay, as long as it is mutual; keyword: friendly.
  2. *�️ Community Standards

    • Comics should be a full story, from start to finish, in one post.
    • Posts should be safe and enjoyable by the majority of community members, both here on lemmy.world and other instances.
    • Any comic that would qualify as raunchy, lewd, or otherwise draw unwanted attention by nosy coworkers, spouses, or family members should be tagged as NSFW.
    • Moderators have final say on what and what does not qualify as appropriate. Use common sense, and if need be, err on the side of caution.
  3. *� Keep it Real

    • Comics should be made and posted by real human beans, not by automated means like bots or AI. This is not the community for that sort of thing.
  4. *�️ Credit Where Credit is Due

    • Comics should include the original attribution to the artist(s) involved, and be unmodified. Bonus points if you include a link back to their website. When in doubt, use a reverse image search to try to find the original version. Repeat offenders will have their posts removed, be temporarily banned from posting, or if all else fails, be permanently banned from posting.
    • Attributions include, but are not limited to, watermarks, links, or other text or imagery that artists add to their comics to use for identification purposes. If you find a comic without any such markings, it would be a good idea to see if you can find an original version. If one cannot be found, say so and ask the community for help!
  5. *� Post Formatting

    • Post an image, gallery, or link to a specific comic hosted on another site; e.g., the author's website.
    • Meta posts about the community should be tagged with [Meta] either at the beginning or the end of the post title.
    • When linking to a comic hosted on another site, ensure the link is to the comic itself and not just to the website; e.g.,
      ✅ Correct: https://xkcd.com/386/
      ❌ Incorrect: https://xkcd.com/
  6. *� Post Frequency/SPAM

    • Each user (regardless of instance) may post up to five (5 🖐) comics a day. This can be any combination of personal comics you have written yourself, or other author's comics. Any comics exceeding five (5 🖐) will be removed.
  7. *�‍☠️ Internationalization (i18n)

    • Non-English posts are welcome. Please tag the post title with the original language, and include an English translation in the body of the post; e.g.,
      Sí, por favor [Spanish/Español]
  8. *� Moderation

    • We are human, just like most everybody else on Lemmy. If you feel a moderation decision was made in error, you are welcome to reach out to anybody on the moderation team for clarification. Keep in mind that moderation decisions may be final.
    • When reporting posts and/or comments, quote which rule is being broken, and why you feel it broke the rules.
Banned Artists

The following artists are banned from the community.

  1. Jago
  2. Stonetoss
  3. GPrime85

It should be noted that when you make reports, it is your responsibility to provide rational reasoning why something should be removed. Saying it simply breaks community rules is not always good enough.

Web Accessibility

Note: This is not a rule, but a helpful suggestion.

When posting images, you should strive to add alt-text for screen readers to use to describe the image you're posting:

Another helpful thing to do is to provide a transcription of the text in your images, as well as brief descriptions of what's going on. (example)

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