yuriRO 90 points 6 months ago

Damn that's troublesome, terrible, unbelievable, where can i avoid this, an address would help

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FilthyShrooms 81 points 6 months ago

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lowspeedchase 49 points 6 months ago

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redsand 1 point 6 months ago

Tatoo parlor

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ickplant 69 points 6 months ago

The only negative I see on here is “history of cheating.”

I could also see how “Girl Boss” can be negative, but not in a way he means it. He just means women who believe in working outside the home.

Edit: ok, smoking too - if we are talking cigarettes or meth. Smoke all the weed you want.

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Tolookah 35 points 6 months ago

Depending on how "refuses to cook" comes across, that's a negative in my book. I won't want to cook every meal, I'd burn out. It's a requirement that they are at least willing to do it sometimes. (I like cooking, but some days are just overly draining and I need help)

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crunchy 28 points 6 months ago

Cooking because it's your "traditional role as a woman:" no

Cooking because it's fun and the Food Network made you overconfident: yes

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Inkstainthebat 4 points 6 months ago

"women belong in the kitchen"? WRONG

We're cooking 5kg of Lasagna for tonight's gathering and we need all hands on deck

I love being Italian sometimes

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Clent 1 point 6 months ago

That's just a normal pan size amount of lasagna? 30x20 or 13x9 in freeedom units. Are people wasting time making small pan sizes? Lasagna is amazing leftovers.

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captainlezbian 3 points 6 months ago

Ouch, Friday I am going to try something because seriouseats made it seem reasonable, and I'm feeling called out

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axexrx 15 points 6 months ago

I dated a rich girl for a while who didnt cook, none of her family could. They had a part time maid who would cook for them a bit but mostly ate out and brought home extra meals. Like literally, every time they went out they'd order a couple extra meals to go.

At one point the mom was sad she couldnt get shrimp scampi anywhere in town. So I cooked dinner for them, because NBD. They thought it was magic, doubly so because im a guy. I litterally had to remove the plastic wrapping off the inside of the oven door to make garlic bread, and all the pots and pans still had stickers in the bottom.

At one pojnt I also had to teach my 38 year old GF how to operate a washer and dryer.

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sparkles 14 points 6 months ago

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Gladaed 15 points 6 months ago

No female friends isn't really negative but is never positive, to be fair.

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infinitesunrise 10 points 6 months ago

"History of leaving me for a safer and more loving relationship."

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fartographer 3 points 6 months ago

"History of cheating" doesn't necessarily mean "cheater." To those on a trajectory to make a mistake, far better lessons come from those who made mistakes and can explain how to avoid them than those who can only say, "don't make mistakes." I'm sure there's a better way to say this than the clumsy words I've chosen.

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Catoblepas 60 points 6 months ago

Viewing “uses family court” as a negative is such a self report for that guy lol. ‘I can’t believe my ex is making legally binding agreements that I can’t unilaterally change!’ energy

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Remember_the_tooth 27 points 6 months ago

Yeah, he told on himself. I'm surprised he didn't include "calls 911 to report domestic violence."

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Assassassin 57 points 6 months ago

5 is a high body count??? What a bunch of enormous fucking losers lmao

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HikingVet 38 points 6 months ago

I'm Asexual and mine is higher than 5.

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daannii 5 points 6 months ago

Dude. Me too. Not saying some of those were from feeling pressured when I was younger , but a handful was from genuine (tho fleeting) interest.

My logic is, I rarely (very rarely) feel that way so when I do and there isn't any obvious reason why I shouldn't (i.e they are in a relationship, or they are a co worker ) I go for it.

My perspective: . Life is only once. Enjoy yourself (or someone else) when you can.

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unphazed 2 points 6 months ago

Serious question out of curiosity, is it like a mental arousal only thing, or occasional sexual arousal thing? If I'm out of bounds I'm sorry. If you prefer not to answer or if this makes you uncomfortable, please don't bother answering.

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daannii 9 points 6 months ago

Sexuality is a complex thing for anyone. Regardless of whatever identity they use for themselves.

I have actually a lot of friends who are asexual-ish. Once you are out with yours, you find that other people are more open with you about this.

For some people they still want a romantic partner but have little to no interest in sexual acts with others.

For others , like myself, I have no interest in romantic partners. And very little to no interest in sexual acts with others.

Some asexuals have normal or even high libido but don't feel that emotion directed towards others. I would describe this as like wanting a snack but you open the fridge and there isn't anything in there you want.

Some have very low to no libido.

Some people who are very picky about partners and take a long time to feel comfortable, to be sexual, also sometimes call themselves asexuals.

I'm not here to gatekeep but that really does sound like average sexual identity for most people. But if someone wants to use it for that, it's their choice.

There are like 10 sub terms for asexuals but I personally find that superfluous. Everyone is different. I don't need a special label. If I want to explain myself, I will.

Labels are limiting. And they sometimes make someone else think they get your whole deal when they don't.

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duncan_bayne 8 points 6 months ago

I would describe this as like wanting a snack but you open the fridge and there isn’t anything in there you want.

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unphazed 2 points 6 months ago

I appreciate the response. Ty.

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OwOarchist 11 points 6 months ago

I know, right? That's only barely cracking into serial killer territory. How am I supposed to respect a woman if she's not an accomplished and highly experienced assassin?

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Assassassin 2 points 6 months ago

Right? Fuckin amateur hour over here

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aceshigh 11 points 6 months ago

5 is a high body count only if you’re a woman. If you’re a man it’s basically nothing and you should aim for at least 100 body count.

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xxce2AAb 35 points 6 months ago

"Sir, I'm going to need you to introduce me to some of those women you claim to know. Get your keys, we're leaving right now."

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NOT_RICK 26 points 6 months ago

Yeah the only women this guy knows live in his head

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xxce2AAb 14 points 6 months ago

I know you're right, but must you crush my hopes and dreams like that?

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HikingVet 3 points 6 months ago

You aren't Adam Savage. You do not have the ability to substitute your own reality.

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xxce2AAb 3 points 6 months ago

Thank you for the encouragement! Ah, it's been a long time since anybody gave me a compliment like that.

Wait. You said "aren't" and "do not".

Oh. What a terrible day to possess reading comprehension :(

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mastod0n 32 points 6 months ago

OK, "uses family court" killed me.

These fucking wannabe dictators..

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pivot_root 31 points 6 months ago

"Toxic relationship with father" and "dislikes God / Jesus".

Gee, I wonder why this combination would appear anywhere.

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MrJameGumb 31 points 6 months ago

All of this translates down to "she doesn't act like a combination mother/servant/virgin/nymphomaniac specifically for me and only me without ever complaining or asking for anything"

What a godamned cry baby

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unphazed 18 points 6 months ago

I got, "I am insecure in my masculinity and I need a subservient creature that I will not respect to feel powerful"

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IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds 27 points 6 months ago

red flags, liberal, girlboss.

not a red flag but, how does she has multiple baby daddies+family court while also not being a mother?

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TipRing 12 points 6 months ago

That line continues 'Not Mother / Wife Material' which means he thinks women should care for him as though he were a child.

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SpacePanda 4 points 6 months ago

To be fair though he is a child, I just think he should be put out to pasture or something. Don't worry little Timmy, hes playing on the farm with old yeller.

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Holytimes -3 points 6 months ago

That's the thing, half of these are red flag that the poster is a sexist dude bro who needs to stfu.

But when combined with the other half it's describing a very specific type of woman who her self is a massive red flag and a shitty person.

The sorta dude bro who dates these women are shitty people, but so are the women. It's why they get together in the first place. Both people involved here are shitty people.

But here on lemmy pointing out a women can be a bad person is as taboo as pointing out a man is a bad person on reddit. Lemmy is just the other end of the extreme echo chamber.

But I've know a lot of women though my life that you could describe like this. They all in first meeting then would come across as rather self empowered and cool people.

When in reality they are just the non religious half of the Midwestern trailer trash.

Really it's a huge red flag that the people in this thread seem to be a only able to see the "positive" traits here and claim the poster is a shit person and not the type of women he's describing.

If your willing to be blind to the negative character traits then your just living a lie. The poster AND the women he's describing are shit people.

He's also likely a victim of baby entrapment. Considering the family court line here. It's a rather real problem in a lot of poorer communities. Family court is wielded just as much as a weapon as it is a shield.

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Redacted 25 points 6 months ago

lol of course this is the kind of misogynistic dork that hides behind a picture of Ryan Gosling online.

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Treczoks 19 points 6 months ago

This guy dreams of the times where.women were barefoot and pregnant, basically trained to be slaves to men.

Obviously, this loser sees his only chance of female companionship in someone submissive, as he seems incapable of a real partnership.

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TribblesBestFriend 19 points 6 months ago

High bodies count : 5 ? What the fuck 🤣

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TehWorld 16 points 6 months ago

If she’s murdered 5 people, I’ll honestly probably want to stay away.

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AbsolutelyNotAVelociraptor 17 points 6 months ago

Tbf, smoking is a no-go for me. And depending on the amount, drinking might be too. For the rest? I'm pretty sure if I found a woman like that, I'd find her extremely hot.

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RememberTheApollo_ 4 points 6 months ago

Same, except multiple baby daddies seems like really shit planning and poor responsibility to me. Yeah, it takes two, and you can’t help divorce sometimes, but multiple kids from different fathers on the surface seems irresponsible AF. If the kids make her happy then NBD and I can just sit down and shut up.

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U7826391786239 16 points 6 months ago

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Redacted 15 points 6 months ago

Whats her @ tho...

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lightnsfw 14 points 6 months ago

Lol, high body count is 5? I'm a social awkward manlet and mines higher than that.

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Thunderbird4 14 points 6 months ago

It’s just this cartoon a century later:

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jeanofthedead 13 points 6 months ago

How does one dislike something they don’t believe exists?

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starchylemming 9 points 6 months ago

i can dislike fictional characters and their fanbase just fine

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OwOarchist 7 points 6 months ago

Looking at you, Rick & Morty

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starchylemming 2 points 6 months ago

oh come on. there is worse fandoms

have you seen [insert any football club fandom]?

they do compete in the smells bad department tho. one because they drank so much they shat themselves, the other just never washes themselves

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Azrael 13 points 6 months ago

To be fair, a history of cheating in inexcusable.

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curiousaur -11 points 6 months ago

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boonhet 15 points 6 months ago

No, having a literal history of cheating is just inexcusable, regardless of gender. Break up if it's a shitty relationship, or just don't get in a monogamous relationship in the first place. It's 2026, open relationships are a thing, or you can be single and fuck as many people as you want, etc. It's the lying and doing it behind your trusting partner's back that's the problem, not the polygamy.

And if you want an open relationship and your potential future partner doesn't... Well maybe find someone who shares your views instead of cheating on someone who doesn't?

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curiousaur -8 points 6 months ago

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HikingVet 11 points 6 months ago

Sounds like what someone who doesn't respect the boundaries of a relationship would say.

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stiffyGlitch -2 points 6 months ago

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curiousaur -4 points 6 months ago

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stiffyGlitch -1 points 6 months ago

Honestly. Can't get it up.

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billwashere 12 points 6 months ago

I have no issue with any of this except history of cheating. That just screams terrible person, male or female.

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lastlybutfirstly 0 points 6 months ago

For me it's the tattoos. I like sluts. I'm not that jealous.

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Lushed_Lungfish 12 points 6 months ago

She didn't text back, eh?

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Rozauhtuno 10 points 6 months ago

You may not like it, but this is what peak performance looks like.

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daannii 10 points 6 months ago

Two of these are stereotype lies. The "no female friends" and "daddy issues".

Most women I know have lots of female friends. And have decent relationships with their dads. If they don't then the dad was a loser or toxic.

The rest aren't really insults, so. 🤷

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trashboat 8 points 6 months ago

The OP is totally baiting… right?

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Gerblat 7 points 6 months ago

Oh he’s batin’ alright

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HikingVet 1 point 6 months ago

Go 'way I'm 'baiting...

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Ribbons 8 points 6 months ago

Where the fuck is this guy where "the majority of [women] are like this" and how do I get there? 🥺 - Phoebe (it/its)

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ronl2k 6 points 6 months ago

Women have been liberal far longer than they've been conservative. I'm not getting the point.

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JonsJava 5 points 6 months ago

Wow, the comments went off the rails here.

I don't usually do this, but I'm locking this post. Too much fighting.

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Eternal192 4 points 6 months ago

Isn't that Ruby from the game Wet?

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SCmSTR 2 points 6 months ago

Feels like when you remember there are somehow still basically pre humans that exist in very very small numbers in extremely isolated geographic pockets on earth.

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starchylemming 4 points 6 months ago

these places have weird names like miss piss ippi or something like that

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mmcintyre 2 points 6 months ago

M, I, crooked letter, crooked letter, I, crooked letter, crooked letter, I, humpback, humpback, I!

(My parents were stationed at a base there while I was in 3rd and 4th grade, I didn't learn much that I recall from those years, but I will never forget how to spell the damn thing.)

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Chonk 1 point 6 months ago

Too many chaotic traits lmao

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stiffyGlitch 1 point 6 months ago

Me in a nutshell

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super_user_do 1 point 6 months ago

Literally chose the worst arguments he could find

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OwOarchist 1 point 6 months ago

Perhaps on purpose?

Maybe this is satire and/or a troll.

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super_user_do 2 points 6 months ago

100%

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ArgumentativeMonotheist -11 points 6 months ago

At least half of the things in the pic are things I would definitely avoid in a partner ("baby daddies", revealing clothes, not mom/wife material, girlboss, dislikes God [big show of ungratefulness], has a male bff but no female friends, etc), and I'm pretty sure the vast majority of men would also (barring parts of the West but one city in India is as populated as half of the Western world so 🤷). I still wouldn't complain about it or take the time to draw and do all of this, it's not like they're gonna randomly change their lives after seeing that pic, I'd rather just continue avoiding these women like I always have the same way women do with undesirable men.

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PhoenixDog 1 point 6 months ago

Yikes...

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ArgumentativeMonotheist 0 points 6 months ago

Why? 🤔

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PhoenixDog 1 point 6 months ago

At least half of the things in the pic are things I would definitely avoid in a partner ("baby daddies", revealing clothes, not mom/wife material, girlboss, dislikes God [big show of ungratefulness], has a male bff but no female friends, etc)

Some of those things are just women being women. They come with kids from previous relationships sometimes. Sometimes they wear revealing clothing because it's hot out. Disliking god is a show of ungratefulness? Seriously? Has male friends?

You're really showing your character that you're an insecure man who needs someone they can control. They can't dress how they want to, be friends with who they want to, or believe in who they want to. They must fit your narrow worldview or else they aren't worthy for your praise.

It's pretty gross.

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