Which is worse: Friends or Seinfeld?

3 days ago by Hal-5700X to c/asklemmy

Alexstarfire 38 points 3 days ago

Lemmy sure is a tough crowd.

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postmateDumbass 4 points 3 days ago

If only... imagine a Lemmy with Colin Quinn, Patrice ONeal and Greg Giraldo.

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rockandsock 2 points 2 days ago

RIP Patrice and Greg

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mushroommunk 35 points 3 days ago

Friends.

In Seinfeld the characters are supposed to be miserable and you aren't supposed to identify with them. People don't go around trying to put on a Seinfeld persona (at least in my neck of the woods. If your area is different please don't make me more depressed than I am).

The number of people I've met purposely styling themselves after Joey or Phoebe is depressing and it's more accepted because they're "normal every day likable people".

Gag me with a spoon

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MintyFresh 3 points 2 days ago

Lol I forgot about "gag me with a spoon"

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mushroommunk 1 point 2 days ago

I felt discussing old TV shows called for a classic expression, it was either that or "grody to the max"

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postmateDumbass 1 point 3 days ago

Now think about the mapping between Friends and Jersey Shore...

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mushroommunk 3 points 3 days ago

Honestly? Most of the jersey shore fans I've known have just liked to drink and dance, relatively low drama and relatively self aware. Not the most amazing people but I'll still take them over the Friends fans I've known.

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postmateDumbass 1 point 2 days ago

There is an old adage about freedom that goes 'you have the right to extend your arm until your fist hits my face'.

The Jersey Shore people will be the type to often go too far and make contact with the face.

The Friends people will lobby to make sure arms may only be extended in pre approved motions with proper regulation and paid royalties on the patented movements, which they strive to own dividend stock in.

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originalucifer 32 points 3 days ago

eh, they are different vehicles. friends sucks cuz its trite, common bullshit. seinfeld was actually interesting because for once the cast was supposed to be unlikable... they were all terrible people destined to be tortured by their own narcissism.

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redsand 0 points a day ago

Yeah but I don't have to listen to Jerry's jokes or voice on Friends

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Dr_Fetus_Jackson 27 points 3 days ago

As one that remembers watching NBC "Must See TV" Thursday nights in the 90's, back then, Friends was more approachable as a twenty-something that identified somewhat with the idea that it's ok to be quirky, laughable, and fun.

Now, I prefer Seinfeld. Say what you will about the cast, the show's darker take wears better on the post 9/11 world.

It's easy to pick on one or the other now, but having lived the era, and the era of TV that led to it, both shows made more sense back then.

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statler_waldorf 6 points 2 days ago

As a teenager at the same time, Seinfeld fit better with my absurdist sense of humor.

But I totally agree that they were products of their time.

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LuckyDevil 18 points 3 days ago

I enjoyed both when they were still airing, but I can completely understand why people watching them today for the first time wouldn't. It's one of those, "you had to be there" kinda things. Just like I probably wouldn't enjoy watching The Beverly Hillbillies or I Love Lucy if I tried watching them today.

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proudblond 10 points 3 days ago

Can’t speak for the hillbillies but Lucy stands up, for the most part. She was a real one. It is funny seeing hers and Ricky’s separated twin beds for filming, though.

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pinball_wizard 3 points 2 days ago

The Bevery Hillbillies is still pretty side-splittingly funny. Standard product-of-its-time disclaimer applies.

Edit: Honestly, watching their asshole bank manager neighbor get shit on in every which way is all the funnier, today.

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Whats_your_reasoning 2 points 2 days ago

I haven't watched The Beverly Hillbillies lately, but the nursing home I worked at had DVDs of I Love Lucy. It still holds up, in my opinion.

As to classic, old shows that feel out of place today, I'd have to go with Looney Tunes and similar early cartoons. Even watching them as a kid, the violence and sexism felt really weird to me. A lot of the "humor" came from physical violence or cross-dressing honey pots, which felt tired, repetitive, and not funny to child-me.

Then a lot of those old shows had stories that involved two male characters fighting over a female character. I remember thinking, "What is this? If two guys started a fist fight over me, I wouldn't swoon over the winner, I'd walk away from both of them for being violent at the drop of a hat."

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HeyThisIsntTheYMCA 1 point 9 hours ago

i did appreciate the old Looney Tunes for exposing us to amazing music though. that's the one thing they did. I remember the music, not the cartoons. that might just be because i'm a musician tho

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Fizz 18 points 3 days ago

Friends is worse.

Friends feels extremely bland and the characters just react to the misfortune events and the episodes are low stakes drama. Friends cant make the characters pieces of shit because the audience is suppose to like them. Seinfield seems like the characters are intentionally bad people and cause their problems and the show is intentional about the conflict being pointless drama. They are fine with people hating the characters.

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VindictiveJudge 12 points 3 days ago

I mean, to be clear, Always Sunny is essentially a remake of Seinfeld. They modernized the setting and took advantage of modern broadcasting standards, but the show really is just Seinfeld 2: Philadelphia Boogaloo.

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starlinguk -2 points 3 days ago

But Ross is an abusive piece of shit.

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Fizz 6 points 3 days ago

I must have missed the abuse episode because from what ive watched of Friends it was a pretty mundane show.

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dual_sport_dork 18 points 2 days ago

I'm going to give a non-answer here, but spend some words pointing out that there is an entire TV Trope explicitly named after the phenomenon contributing to much of the current-day Seinfeld hate, namely that it feels trite and predictable only when viewed through the lens of modernity. Seinfeld is unfunny as we decry that it's all been done before, forgetting that it's only been done before because Seinfeld did it first and lots of others imitated in the wake of its popularity. In its era it was actually truly groundbreaking, in a way that Friends definitely was not.

Seinfeld (along with Married... With Children) was the original raunchy sitcom that broke the genre free from bland family friendly predictability and opened up the possibility of one being entertainment aimed squarely and indeed only at adults. The core cast of Seinfeld are all terrible people, in retrospect probably because Jerry Seinfeld himself was writing from what he knew, where nobody learns the important lesson at the end of the episode on purpose. Sex, relationships, and even failed relationships were openly discussed. There is no central family unit, and every family we are shown in any detail (mainly Jerry's and especially George's) are highly dysfunctional. Before it, the concept of an episode having A and B plotlines that intersect and eventually entangle with each other hadn't been done, even though this is such a staple that it's outright expected of any show today. It had a deliberately misanthropic sense of humor that was the perfect fit for the cynical point in history in which it occupied.

In a way Friends is aspirational, an idealized imagining of a hypothetical urban lifestyle that the viewer may hope to achieve even if they don't personally identify with it. Seinfeld, conversely, is an outright freakshow. You are on the outside looking in at these vain and deceitful people much like a jar full of scorpions someone's just shaken so they'll fight. And you're glad to be on the outside of it, because you really don't want to be them. But there is a certain bile attraction to it nevertheless, a sort of twisted catharsis in that despite how horrible and selfish as the core cast may be they are also somehow able to live without remorse, speak without filters, and act out without consequences in ways that we only wish we could get away with. (The fact that they spout so many zingers and precipitate so many quotable moments probably also helps.)

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tyo_ukko 9 points 2 days ago

I would like to point out that Seinfeld was also possibly the first major network show to take steps to normalizing being gay. They had a whole episode where someone was gay, and every time they mentioned it, they added "not that there's anything wrong with it!" It was kind of a punch line, but in a positive way never seen before.

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rob_t_firefly 18 points 3 days ago

Friends is worse for people who prefer Seinfeld, while Seinfeld is worse for people who prefer Friends.

Mystery solved. No need to thank me, everyone, it's all in a day's work.

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Adderbox76 14 points 3 days ago

Friends.

While Seinfeld is certainly overrated and hasn't aged well, at least it had its memorable moments that still get talked about today (Mostly Kramer Hijinx, to be fair...)

  • Kramer vs Kenny Rogers Roasters
  • Kramer and the Rickshaw
  • Soup Nazi
  • 'They're real...and they're spectacilar"
  • Mulva
  • George saves the whale.

Just of the top of my head.

Friends, while popular, is ultimately forgettable generic sitcom crap. I struggle to think of any actual memorable moments other than "Pivot"

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statler_waldorf 9 points 2 days ago

The sea was angry that day, my friends - like an old man trying to send back soup at a deli.

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Michal 8 points 3 days ago

"we were on a break!"

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Whats_your_reasoning 7 points 2 days ago

There's also The Contest, where the core group tried to see who could go the longest without masturbating.

It sounds like a crass reference, but I remember it blowing my mind that they included Elaine in it. It was the first time I recall female masturbation being acknowledged on TV, let alone being acknowledged as equally compelling as male masturbation.

Seinfeld - paving the way for female gooners everywhere.

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stringere 1 point a day ago

Overall, yes, but this exchange still makes me laugh:

Joey: But come on. And what is with the really hot stick in the bathroom?
Janine: It's a curling iron.
Joey: Well, that's okay then. Oh, okay, my towels, for instance. I come into the bathroom, here, and my towel is not on the floor, where I keep it. It's up here on some hook. And it smells different.
Janine: It's clean.
Joey: Yeah, well, it feels different.
Janine: It's dry.
Joey: All right, I can make my peace with the clean, dry towels. Hey, okay, also what is with these chips you bought?
Janine: No, no, no. It's potpourri. You're supposed to smell it.
Joey: Well, that's like summer in a bowl.

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neidu3 12 points 3 days ago

Seinfeld has worse jokes, while Friends has worse characters. But Seinfeld has by far the worst personnel involved in the production.

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Steve 11 points 3 days ago

I'd say Friends is worse. But it's a thin margin.
Neither are good by any means. But my sister loves Friends, and she has terrible taste in television, so I'll accept her judgement.

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1984 10 points 3 days ago

Friends. Seinfeld is actually funny, friends is just good looking people.

But friends is more popular. I used to work for a streaming service and friends was constantly running. I think its a emotional support thing. People like to have it on in the background because they feel good from it.

But it really isnt funny. Its more like cozy. Like a soap opera but better than that.

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FinjaminPoach 9 points 3 days ago

I think seinfeld is worse. I tried to like it.

  • Friends is pretty easy to understand, seinfeld feels like it's somehow appealing to a smaller audience.
  • Friends has a bigger cast and bigger sets - Seinfeld uses a tiny, though realistic, apartment, and the diner they go to feels more closed in. I don't watch sitcoms for the realism so i think friends wins here because it's better thought out.
  • Seinfeld struggles to control his smile and laughing, and it makes it seem like he's a comedian constantly aware that he's just playing a character or acting out skits he wrote. I think Friends has the benefit of the actors not, usually, writing their stuff. Also in Friends they eventually developed brilliant talent at riffing/ad-libbing, something which Matt Perry demonstrated from the get go and helped carry the show with.
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jeena 9 points 3 days ago

According to me friends, according to my wife Seinfeld.
I feel it depends when in your life you discover it and how good your English is at that time. Friends is very beginner friendly and straight forward.

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TribblesBestFriend 3 points 3 days ago

This answer. Friends, Seinfeld, The Office. They all have great episodes but that’s not the norm since most of them are Ok at best.

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gigastasio 8 points 3 days ago

Two Broke Girls: “Hold my beer…”

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i_stole_ur_taco 8 points 3 days ago

The one with laugh tracks.

Oh.

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usrtrv 17 points 3 days ago

Neither? They both used studio audiences.

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remon 8 points 3 days ago

Seinfeld. One of the cringiest and unfunniest shows I've ever watched.

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cuboc 8 points 3 days ago

I am pretty neutral on Seinfeld being cringy, but Larry David later made 'Curb your Enthusiasm'. That was cringy up to the point of being unwatchable.

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kubok 8 points 3 days ago

Friends was a gratingly unfunny ode to shallowness and self-centeredness. The same would apply to Seinfeld, only less grating.

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njm1314 7 points 2 days ago

I thought both were okay. Not great but not awful. Both aged rather poorly though. But that's not unusual for sitcoms. Most of them do.

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ArgumentativeMonotheist 4 points 3 days ago

Trigger warning: criticism of popular media

Friends is an extremely boring and formulaic show, it just has handsome people in it and sometimes the ladies don't wear bras. I much prefer Seinfeld, which was in a way revolutionary for sitcoms, and it can still be enjoyed today (the laugh track is unfortunate though). It definitely inspired It's Always Sunny, another great show, whilst Friends inspired How I Met Your Mother... and you can draw your own conclusions from that. 😅

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mrmaplebar 4 points 3 days ago

Seinfeld is great.

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finallymadeanaccount 4 points 3 days ago

Well, ol' Jerry's a zionist, so ...

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Saarth 3 points 2 days ago

I watched Seinfeld and Frasier when I was in university and I absolutely loved both of those shows, despite how the leading actors have turned out to be.

Sometimes it's okay to live with a bit of cognitive dissonance.

Edit: Friends on the other hand was trite and full of stolen jokes, and mostly liberal nonsense.

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FordBeeblebrox 3 points 2 days ago

Friends is horrible, watch Happy Endings if you want the same premise with funny jokes.

Seinfeld was also not good but did introduce a lot of tv tropes, so Larry David and Curb are where the funny is made there without the laugh track.

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fodor 3 points 2 days ago

I enjoyed Friends for a while, never enjoyed Seinfeld. But other people said the opposite. Most of us wouldn't rewatch either one.

So, what are you asking? I'm unclear on that.

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rossman 2 points 2 days ago

havent watched the shows but i heard their openings a lot. friends has that iconic opening song that reminds me of the good days.
seinfeld has that funk and feels like a proper laugh track kinda vibe.

ima say friends is worse cause of the fandom.

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Kolanaki 1 point a day ago

I like both, but Seinfeld is a funnier show 100% because of Jason Alexander.

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collapse_already 1 point 2 days ago

I am the age of the target audience for both of these programs when they came out. I found Seinfeld completely unwatchable contemporaneously. It has perhaps the worst laugh track in the history of TV programming. Same obviously fake laughing for stupid stuff that is not even worth a snicker as for the rare thing that was actually funny. I didn't care for it at all and never understood why it was so popular.

Friends annoyed me for different reasons, mostly because the characters lived so far beyond their means that it was immersion breaking.

They both suck, but Seinfeld sucks more.

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andrewrgross 1 point 3 days ago

Friends is pretty good. I haven't seen Seinfeld in a while and don't know how it holds up, but I remember liking it when I watched it.

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AverageEarthling 1 point 11 hours ago

Friends is a lot better if you fast forward any time Ross and Rachel are on screen together. The rest of the show is pretty funny and each episode is like 10min long.

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droopy4096 0 points 2 days ago

both

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RememberTheApollo_ 1 point 2 days ago

Yes

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pH3ra 0 points 2 days ago

Neither, laugh-track shows are irritating.
It's like if I'm not laughing the blame is on me, instead of the joke not being funny.

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RodgeGrabTheCat 0 points 3 days ago

The one with a laugh track.

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GreenKnight23 0 points a day ago

friends.

Seinfeld knew what they were, a show about nothing.

friends masqueraded as something it was not, a comedy.

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Fishnoodle -1 points 3 days ago

Hmm, friends is hard to watch it's so bad. Seinfeld is slightly better, but it stars an Israeli pedophile.

I'd say Frasier

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kylie_kraft 9 points 3 days ago

Kelsey Grammer is a MAGAt

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ramenshaman 2 points 3 days ago

Oh that's unfortunate. Well I don't feel bad about torrenting Frasier then.

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Fishnoodle 1 point 3 days ago

Ick. Glad I dont still watch the show, or anything with him, except the occasional Simpsons rerun with sideshow bob. But I'm torrenting that. No residuals for him

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ramenshaman 3 points 3 days ago

I really like Friends but not as much as I like Frasier. I haven't watched Seinfeld for quite some time but I don't remember disliking it.

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