Now, I'm not too caught up on the rhetoric, so maybe I'm incorrect here, but I never really saw "Femboy" as a transgender thing, and more of a kink thing like someone who identifies as male dressing up as a woman, or wanting to be talked to like a woman, while still being male, and under that parameter, it doesn't shock me that its the more popular search, at least it seems like it is from the graphs.

That said, I am surprised that on the list of metro areas, Minneapolis and Sioux Falls are so closely matched.

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thethunderwolf 2 points 14 days ago

as a transfem (nonbinary not girl tho) i hate how porn calls trans women "femboys" despite femboys being a completely different thing

when used to refer to trans women, femboy is a slur

an actual "femboy" is (very literally) a "feminine boy"; a male-identifying and at-least-somewhat-feminine-presenting person, often adhering to the typical style of femboy culture (thigh high socks, crop top, skirt or short shorts, fluffy hair that doesnt go past the chin), or often other queer styles

being a femboy is one of the ways a cishet person can be queer (other notable ways are being aromantic or intersex)

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bitchkat 2 points 14 days ago

When I was young they called them shemales

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Manalith 2 points 14 days ago

Thank you, glad I'm not crazy, seems the study should just broaden the label its using from trans porn to something else.

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Gladaed -19 points 14 days ago

Conservative men gay/grinder outage is a homophobic and non factual rumor. You should stop the spread.

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Captainvaqina 18 points 14 days ago

Except it's documented with outage data. You should stop making excuses for the professional hypocrites.

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ayyy 1 point 14 days ago

There is no “outage data” there is only downdetector.com which is “user reports” stuffed by trolls.

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Captainvaqina 3 points 14 days ago

The CEO himself said there's a spike in usage.

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Gladaed -10 points 14 days ago

That's user reported outage data. Not official outage data. People remembering the cliche may cause the outage report to happen.

Those metrics are flimsy at best. And grinder itself reported no outages while common search sites did.

So I call homophobia on that.

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Captainvaqina 17 points 14 days ago

"Grindr’s CEO has acknowledged that the app had a “significant spike in usage” during last year’s Republican National Convention in Milwaukee."

Ok I will concede that they dont necessarily have official outages and that anyone can report to down detector.

But, there is an undeniable and officially confirmed spike in usage in the areas around the nazi rallies.

I don't think its homophobic at all to acknowledge that reality. I'm not sure why you're trying to throw that word around like a cudgel.

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AmyAye 7 points 14 days ago

Plus, because it's a meme, how much extra traffic does it get by people logging in to a) check if there is an outage and b) see if there are any politicians on there to swipe (or however it works, I don't use these apps)

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scrodumb 9 points 14 days ago

You must be too young to know about the log cabin.

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III 5 points 14 days ago

How is that homophobic?

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Gladaed -12 points 14 days ago

Viewing the homophobes as a bunch of closeted fags who just need to choke on some cock is homophobic.

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kryptonianCodeMonkey 20 points 14 days ago

Jesus fuck. Calling out hypocritical hate and laughing at the absurdity is not the same as whatever the fuck you just said there. You have some deep seated issues, dude. Maybe projecting some shame or trauma? Seek help.

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AFaithfulNihilist 15 points 14 days ago

Acknowledging that many zealots are projecting insecurities in a performative display of gender expression is essential to understanding how toxic masculinity and patriarchy keep men (and everyone else too) from living authentic, fulfilling lives.

There is absolutely a correlation between conventions and increases in dating apps in an area. I doubt that conservative groups, no matter how closeted, can put up the numbers that the out and proud can put on the board, but there is undeniably a bump in traffc.

I think this "homophobes crash grinder" bit is more of an exaggeration than an urban legend though.

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socsa 2 points 14 days ago

No, you see I want them to choke on cocks. I'm not afraid of it.

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EisFrei 3 points 14 days ago

Are you sure you replied to the correct comment?

There was no mention of Grindr or outages.

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Viking_Hippie 50 points 14 days ago

I was really annoyed to find out that Sophie Cunningham is an anti-trans bigot. Her pointing meme was on point (pun not intended but welcomed) and the full video and her own description of it from her podcast made her seem fun. 😮‍💨

Oh well, she can go fuck herself with a rusty rail spike like all of her fellow bigots 🤷🏻

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im_fine_sandy 12 points 14 days ago

Yeah I didnt know anything about her other than the pointing thing. That was funny.

I guess I / we took that a bit out of context.

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Viking_Hippie 7 points 14 days ago

Nah, I'm pretty sure the pointing was just her taunting an opponent (and former teammate afair) who had been excessively fouling Cunningham and/or her teammate Caitlin Clark and made the mistake of revealing that she REALLY hated being pointed at 😄

Still, knowing that the one doing that excellent trolling is herself a bigot kinda pisses in the fun-broth 😮‍💨

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3daybanwithdrawl 35 points 14 days ago

Except it's literally the opposite, which is why there is a so called, 'male loneliness epidemic". If the conservative Christians were so hot, why aren't they getting with them? Wouldn't the girls want a conservative Christian man?

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captainlezbian 9 points 14 days ago

From what I hear conservative Christian women are outnumbered by the men and want nothing to do with many of them

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DarkFuture 34 points 14 days ago

Even if they were prettier (they're not), they're morons who vote against their own rights.

You can only be around someone pretty but stupid for so long before the stupid outweighs the pretty.

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Demdaru 12 points 14 days ago

One starts to wonder why "wife bad" jokes float on the right so much, eh? xD

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UnderpantsWeevil 4 points 14 days ago

Even if they were prettier (they’re not)

People tend to find a certain sexual attraction in being politically dissident together. So I've got no doubt that a couple of edgy conservatives are hot for each other in a way they wouldn't be for vanilla liberals.

You can only be around someone pretty but stupid for so long

No shortage of smart conservatives. The problem isn't intelligence or looks. It's how long you can fuck the leopard until it eats your face.

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DrPop 21 points 14 days ago

Why make that post and show some of the most mediocre women?

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neo2478 10 points 14 days ago

Aren't they just AI generated?

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heartSagan5 8 points 14 days ago

We used to just call them "plastic," like Barbies.

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wh90b 19 points 14 days ago

I do not care if you think I'm attractive or not.

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brucethemoose 15 points 14 days ago

I don’t know who these people are, other than Sydney?

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Manalith 5 points 14 days ago

Based on a comment a little lower, I think the one on the left is WNBA player Sophie Cunningham. Unclear on the middle

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heartSagan5 8 points 14 days ago

"Legacy" or pedophilia/CSAM so 🤷‍♂️

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Gladaed 8 points 14 days ago

Rare funny and inoffensive joke for this sub. Much better than chronically unfunny and dehumanizing ones I have seen on here.

Edit: some are just sexist/bommery without being funny. The cardinal sin of jokes.

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GreenKnight23 7 points 14 days ago

I think what they meant was conservative women are the sluttiest. now, I'm not slut shaming just pointing out an observation.

it's amazing what a person will do with a complete lack of self-respect. the acts of depravity are endless when their entire worth hinges upon the value the opposite sex places upon them for gratification.

ironically, the group that claims purity is likely one of the most fucked up groups.

this is why I believe that the MAGA cult is a sexploitation cult. it always comes back to sex with those people.

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Gammelfisch 4 points 14 days ago

The response is spot on!

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Thebeardedsinglemalt 2 points 14 days ago

Why are conservative women sometimes better looking?

Because they're the one who tend to coast through life and get handed opportunities than less attractive women are. Some of the better looking women at my old job were rather right leaning...and every single one of them either banged their way into a position they weren't qualified for, would go and cry in the boss's office anytime they encountered a mild inconvenience or if someone wasn't nice to them, and always complained everyone else was lazy...despite them being the ones who showed up whenever they pleased and always had some BS excuse to leave whenever they wanted, or got a couple office simps to do half their work for them.

1 in particular would do nothing but whine about how trashy it was that someone in the office was sleeping with a married coworker... despite the fact she was also sleeping with a married coworker 🤷🏻‍♂️

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CrimeIsLegalNow -2 points 14 days ago

Your rhetoric is flawed. Never accept a false claim in the first place, much less proceed to argue from weakness.

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Mulligrubs -13 points 15 days ago

The Epstein files will be a big shock for her if they're ever made public. Epstein's circle was not a "conservative" one by any means.

He worked at Harvard, let's not be silly.

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baines 40 points 14 days ago

wait you think harvard is not conservative?

at best it’s rich fucks larping, with a sprinkling of corpo bootlickers hoping to smooze into a high paid job

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Mulligrubs -7 points 14 days ago

It's not a "thought".

The staff at Harvard are overwhelmingly Democrat. Look it up.

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baines 3 points 14 days ago

who said anything about democrat?

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ooli3 21 points 14 days ago

indeed, we all want the files public, so we can arrest the "not conservative" pedophiles.... so why are they not public?

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Mulligrubs 2 points 14 days ago

There are conservative pedophiles, and non-conservative pedophiles.

That's why Biden didn't release the files, and why Trump didn't release the files. Exact same reason.

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Duamerthrax 16 points 14 days ago

Harvard is old money. It's super conservative. Look at their influential alumni. They're all evil.

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Mulligrubs -6 points 14 days ago

They're 99% Democrat. Absurd and ridiculous claim on your part.

(not making up 99%. We know who works at Harvard, and we know what they're registered as. It's 99% Democrat).

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Duamerthrax 8 points 14 days ago

I called them conservatives. I didn't say they weren't Democrats. I'm also talking about the alumni, not the facility.

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terranoid 8 points 15 days ago

Epstein loved toys up his ass apparently

Trump used to be called "pretty butt" or something by his mentor, Roy Cohn, who was a gay man who died of aids...

And let's look up a pretty little picture of them two... Won't attach but it's the one where it looks like Trump is in drag or something.

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eestileib 7 points 15 days ago

If you have a prostate, you should try a toy.

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StillAlive 2 points 14 days ago

Hot wheels or lego?

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OrteilGenou 2 points 14 days ago

Whiffle?

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lath 4 points 14 days ago

If everyone is guilty, the victims are blamed.

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athatet 4 points 14 days ago

Call them the trump files.

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Mulligrubs -6 points 14 days ago

Sure. Or the Clinton files, Clinton enjoyed Epstein's company.

Clinton-Trump files seems more appropriate.

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