The third place

3 years ago by The Picard Maneuver to c/microblogmemes

Godnroc 450 points 3 years ago

If libraries were open late they would be filled with homeless people looking for a safe, warm place.

What I'm saying is we need safe warm places for the homeless AND libraries to be open late.

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spudwart 126 points 3 years ago

Truthfully, putting the homeless in a safe warm place that enables them to have access to a library at night sounds like a smart combo.

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ThatWeirdGuy1001 90 points 3 years ago

My local library has security guards because people keep shooting up heroin in the bathrooms.

This would exacerbate that

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oatscoop 56 points 3 years ago

We should absolutely have safe housing for homeless people with UBI and transitional programs. We should also offer mental health and substance abuse treatment -- and in extreme cases humane involuntary treatment for people that are a danger to themselves and others.

And none of this should take place in shared, public spaces for the safety and dignity of everyone involved. This is a failure of society and needs to be treated as such. Placing the burden on individuals isn't the solution. Expecting public spaces designed for other uses to pick the slack of a broken societal safety net is insane.

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Emerald 2 points 3 years ago

humane involuntary treatment

You can't have humane involuntary treatment. In cases where somebody is threatening someone else, I would say involuntary treatment is called for. But we shouldn't decide when its okay to imprison people for exercising their bodily autonomy.

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Flax_vert 1 point 3 years ago

Or fix the housing crisis lmao

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MonkCanatella 24 points 3 years ago

that's a good point, we should also end the drug war

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BURN 8 points 3 years ago

Almost nowhere in Seattle offers public bathrooms anymore because of this. It’s a massive problem that still doesn’t have a solution

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Uranium3006 2 points 3 years ago

we know the solution. it's building a shit ton of cheap housing and handing it out to people and charging them 30% of the income, not counting the first $20k. it's just rich psychopaths who run the country would rather profit off of prison and let them die instead.

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ClarkDoom 6 points 3 years ago

Same. The homeless population has unfortunately made libraries where I live pretty dangerous places and I can only imagine how much worse that would be if they were open all night. My city doesn’t seem to care at all about people shooting up and ruining public spaces.

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Steeve 3 points 3 years ago

Sounds like my kind of party!

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Piecemakers3Dprints 2 points 3 years ago

And also, the heroin.

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oce 16 points 3 years ago

Homeless people usually don't have the peace of mind required for reading books, they are kinda busy surviving.

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FederatedSaint 12 points 3 years ago

Yeah, nothing against that idea in theory, but in practice, places like that end up full of urine-soaked drug addicts that are high on meth, making it an extremely unattractive place to hang out and socialize.

Denver's Union station downtown is a perfect example. It's a "public private" space that tries to stay open late on weekends to cater to the crowd but ends up being a hellhole.

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Smoogs 7 points 3 years ago

places like that end up full of urine-soaked drug addicts that are high on meth,

You’re putting all homeless into a box. Not all are homeless because they are addicts. Some are legitimately forgotten by the system and for different reasons lost job/domestic abuse/no fam/disability/health issue/financial issues. And even at that : addiction is also a symptom of a shit society. Not the same issue as what causes other homeless people but there can be more than one problem in a poorly designed system that comes up with the same result of being homeless.

Society built on capitalistic ideals for more than just survival as a goal has an extremely narrow scope for who it is interested in serving.

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FederatedSaint 5 points 3 years ago

You’re putting all homeless into a box.

With the exception of your first sentence (me putting homeless people in a box, which I'm not sure if you're making a pun or not), all of other the things you said are correct and I agree with. The things you said and the things I said are not mutually exclusive.

In other words, not all homeless are the same, not all are drug addicts, and society should do better at preventing homelessness, and you might still have a late-night library filled with urine-soaked drug addicts.

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cricket97 2 points 3 years ago

You’re putting all homeless into a box. Not all are homeless because they are addicts.

Are we not allowed to make generalizations at all? I promise you if you open a homeless center in any major city you will find out very quick that psycho behavior comes with homeless people at scale. It's a guarantee that you will have meth addicts ruin whatever infrastructure you provide them. It doesn't matter that there are some good homeless people when you are almost guaranteed to face the bad ones.

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Uranium3006 1 point 3 years ago

also more homeless drug addicts started after they became homeless, not before. being on the street like that deteriorates your mental health. the longer we let this go unaddressed the worse it gets.

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beefcat 5 points 3 years ago

except I'm not likely to spend much time in my local library if it is constantly filled with homeless people.

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oldGregg 3 points 3 years ago
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Rosco 45 points 3 years ago

Crazy idea : let's use churches to accommodate homeless people since you can find them fucking everywhere, surely they're not used after 8pm, and that's basically the point of them in the first place, no?

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afraid_of_zombies 21 points 3 years ago

As much as I despise organized religion they aren't fully to blame for the situation. Some of them have really made an effort.

Religion even at its very very best can't do that job. That is why we need the government.

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Smoogs 6 points 3 years ago

As much as I despise organized religion they aren’t fully to blame for the situation.

They are if they don’t pay the taxes that would have been used to help with situations such as this.

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afraid_of_zombies 1 point 3 years ago

Most churches can't keep the lights on. For every LDS or RCC there are a thousand places on the verge of bankruptcy. Every atheist I know makes a big deal about the big players but not one has shown me the raw the numbers that proves that if they paid corporate tax rates it would be mean more than a few more cruise missiles used to blow up weddings in Pakistan.

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Zealousideal_Fox900 6 points 3 years ago

Yeah agreed. There are some small churches with actually kind people who help the homeless and do good stuff.

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Franzia 1 point 3 years ago

We need the government: to stop blocking housing development

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afraid_of_zombies 2 points 3 years ago

I agree but on no other neoliberal positions. Even a stopped clock is right twice a day.

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intensely_human 1 point 3 years ago

Government can’t do that job either. We already have homeless shelters. I don’t know why people talk like this is a new idea. We have homeless shelters in our society. They’re government funded in some cases, or church-funded in other cases.

We still have homeless people. We do provide free shelter and food to people. And we still have people sleeping on the street.

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BURN 4 points 3 years ago

The governments barely do anything, in general not putting more than a token effort into helping.

There’s never enough support for the increasing number of homeless people.

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cricket97 3 points 3 years ago

You aren't allowed to do drugs in homeless shelters which is why a lot of homeless people don't use them.

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kSPvhmTOlwvMd7Y7E 9 points 3 years ago

I think monks aren't excited about washing off piss in the morning

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Rosco 18 points 3 years ago

Then they should provide access to toilets. Where are they going when they want to take a piss? Also isn't helping the poor in anyway they can a charitable act revered by their religion?

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Meowoem 5 points 3 years ago

I get the idea and I think it's wonderful but have you ever been to a homeless shelter? They need staff to break up fights, protect women, clean up the mess made by drug users and alcoholics, and all sorts of other difficult things your average old lady pew duster isn't capable of dealing with.

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ivanafterall 3 points 3 years ago

Maybe for the Sikhs?

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cricket97 -4 points 3 years ago

You are making the mistake of assuming homeless people's actions are rational.

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cricket97 0 points 3 years ago

Are you aware that churches do some of the most public outreach for homeless people in the united states?

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Uranium3006 1 point 3 years ago

some of the most?

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nottheengineer 22 points 3 years ago

That and stressed-out students pulling all-nighters.

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Oisteink 14 points 3 years ago

We’ve been doing extended openings 0700-2200 for several years in Oslo. As do libraries all over Norway. You need to use your library-card or app to open the door, so there’s some control (data lives for 7 days). We have very little problems - maybe there’s some homeless there but they are as welcome as anyone else. We do have security guard, or one that strays between branches. And yes we do have homeless people in Oslo.

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xspurnx 2 points 3 years ago

Go Norway! I whish we had a library law here in Germany like you do - our places are underfunded and understaffed... a lot of my colleagues are very passionate about their jobs, we could do so much more with our local libraries.

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Oisteink 3 points 3 years ago

A lot of Norwegian libraries are underfunded as well.

In Oslo public library (Deichman) we’ve been given more money the last 10 years than previously. And we have shown what that money can do.

During Covid shutdown the Library was what kept open except for two weeks - that really showed what kind of back-bone we were for Oslo.

It was very tough on our frontline workers as we were swamped with students ignoring any precautions. Working in libraries are still low paying compared to the education

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GrammatonCleric 7 points 3 years ago

They're already full of homeless people 😐

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Uranium3006 1 point 3 years ago

the housing crisis and resulting homelessness have dramatic downstream effects on everything

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bazingabot 110 points 3 years ago
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bazingabot 75 points 3 years ago
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Infynis 34 points 3 years ago

Once again, Scandinavia is making me so so jealous

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Marcumas 19 points 3 years ago

I live in the US, and my local library has a cafe, 3d printers, and you can even borrow tools.

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Tb0n3 10 points 3 years ago

It's there to make sure they don't kill themselves in the winter.

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dojan 13 points 3 years ago

Winter is hitting my little town in Sweden and I have to say that your suggestion is looking increasingly appealing. It’s not the cold. It’s not the rain we get now in place of snow thanks to global warming. It’s not even the darkness. It’s the gloomy all-encompassing grey.

It’s like all life and joy leaves the world until spring hits in May.

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Resonosity 0 points 3 years ago

Isn't Norway separate from Scandinavia?

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archon 2 points 3 years ago

No.

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DepressedCoconut 1 point 3 years ago

Where do you have this from?

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Kusimulkku 4 points 3 years ago

Fairly normal where I live

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FrostKing 1 point 3 years ago

Not sure where you live, but I have actually been to a fair few libraries like this in the US. Usually if you want a really cool library, you'll have to go to the main one in the state. If not that, the highest reviewed one. Of course, it all depends where you are, as different regions seem to care about having nice libraries at different amounts.

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Oisteink 1 point 3 years ago

And the most popular one: the podcast studio. I’d like to point out that the other 20-ish libraries we have besides of Bjørvika are amazing too! You should see the one we open in Holmlia dec 1st. It’s even got a separate youth-library next to the normal one.

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Decoy321 100 points 3 years ago path: 0 4964361, hotness: undefined, score: 100, children: 12
Kusimulkku 42 points 3 years ago

Examples of third places include churches, cafes, bars, clubs, community centres, public libraries, gyms, bookstores, makerspaces, stoops, and parks.

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Player2 51 points 3 years ago

Gyms, stores, cafes, etc. aren't good third places because you're expected to pay money to be there

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deweydecibel 18 points 3 years ago

Well, first off, "free" is not a requirement for a 3rd place, but even if we accept that the best third places are free, that doesn't make ones where money is involved bad by default.

The difference is between paying admission or membership dues like gyms usually require vs a public space where there's an expectation you will buy something but it's not a requirement for entry, and it's not the only thing to do there.

Stores don't work because the purpose of being there is to buy things, so there's nothing else to do, and no other acceptable behavior beyond maybe some chit chat.

But at a cafe, the seating area is designed for you to just chill and do other things besides ponder what you're going to buy next. The seating areas are open and there's an expectation a purchase is made, but you can order nothing while a person with you orders something, or you can order something small and cheap, and get the same level of access as anyone. That's a very low barrier of entry for a place that is purpose made for social activity.

Same is true of bars. You need to buy something, sure, but the place is designed for social activity, not just reading the menu.

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Uranium3006 1 point 3 years ago

Well, first off, “free” is not a requirement for a 3rd place

in order to be effective it has to be. there's plenty of places where you can go out if you can regularly spend $10^2 or $10^3 on a weekly basis, but not that many people can, hence the problem. we need to set out with free as an explicit requirement or we will fail.

back when I went to college I tried handing out in bars, but it was too loud in all the ones in town but one that was too far from home to hear yourself think let along have a casual conversation, and the drinks were too expensive to make it affordable. eventually I decided drinking at home was cheaper and stopped bothering. lots of fast food places are starting to explicitly post time limits and even in places where they don't I feel pressured to constantly consume or leave. I've never timed how long you can sit there before being formally asked to leave for loitering but a business wants to free up space for paying customers so the pressure exists which makes any private for profit business a poor choice

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Kusimulkku 2 points 3 years ago

I'm just saying there's plenty of third places apparently

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Jtskywalker 4 points 3 years ago

I feel like this video (link below) does a good job of explaining why a lot of current third places aren't quite meeting the need, or just don't really fit the definition of third places.

https://piped.video/watch?v=MD_CMrCpBMc

I can think of a few places that meet most of the criteria near me, but there's very few. The closest ones are probably the gaming shops, where you can show up and just hang out playing games with friends for free - but those are kind of geared towards specific activities, so you can't always show up and just hang out with others whenever, as there are usually only regulars on certain days of the week, and often they are involved only in playing a game, not casual conversation.

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echodot 22 points 3 years ago

Gyms are absolutely not social places. The where you go if you want to be pissed off by everyone around you because they're hogging the equipment.

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Default_Defect 8 points 3 years ago

STOOP KID LEFT HIS STOOP

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ShaggySnacks 4 points 3 years ago

A truly tremendous day in the neighbourhood.

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ivanafterall 5 points 3 years ago

Why does nobody ever accept my invitations to hang out on my stoop?

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GBU_28 1 point 3 years ago

It didn't go anywhere

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qwool 1 point 3 years ago

have you heard of a street

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Fades 62 points 3 years ago

the death of 'third place' locations has had a brutal impact on society

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oatscoop 32 points 3 years ago

There are still a ton of "third places" -- restaurants, bars, and coffee shops are everywhere. They just cost too much money for a lot of people.

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LifeInMultipleChoice 8 points 3 years ago

Restaurants, bars are part of number first one. Coffee shops to me close early. Never seen one open at 10pm+

The library having games and such would be nice. They likely would run into the issue that thoae unfortunate would turn up and try to stay all night every time to get out of the cold/rain/heat.

Bars usually manage to bounce them without issue due to them not being paying customers. Getting bounced by a librarian does sound kind of cool though.

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Chocrates 2 points 3 years ago

Homelessness is a problem everywhere. Libraries already struggle with it being a public place, so it would just extend into the night.

Would love something like this!

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FrankTheHealer 1 point 3 years ago

Cafes near me don't open late a lot of the time. They close at about 5pm. So if you want some place to hang out after work? You have no choice other than a bar.

I hate it.

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localhost443 21 points 3 years ago

In the UK they defunded youth centres. Whatever shady shit we used to get up to at those, it was in a safe-ish place which at least one responsible person not far away in the worst case. Our behaviour/activities outside of those places once they were gone, as bored youths in a town of middle age to old people, was much worse.

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chimpo_the_chimp 12 points 3 years ago

A lot of us don't even have a second location anymore.

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TryingToEscapeTarkov 3 points 3 years ago

I have a second location. Workplace and my car. Welcome to hell.

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Uranium3006 2 points 3 years ago

discord is the de facto their place for people my age these days. sad there isn't a better alternative

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dQw4w9WgXcQ 57 points 3 years ago

After a short while, the library owners would realize that they could make a lot more money if they served alcohol in the evenings.

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kakes 54 points 3 years ago

I can't express enough how badly I want this.

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The_Picard_Maneuver 44 points 3 years ago

It's really disappointing how much of our space is privatized.

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kakes 15 points 3 years ago

I'm hoping to eventually open something like a board game cafe to help address this for my hometown. Far from a perfect solution, but I would like to get as close to a "third place" community-oriented vibe as possible without going totally broke, at least.

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ivanafterall 2 points 3 years ago

Apparently we're even supposed to give individuals private space now!?

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jballs 6 points 3 years ago

It's actually pretty easy to book libraries for after hours events. There's a small cost associated because it requires staff to work outside normal hours.

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kakes 3 points 3 years ago

I can't even afford to rent a room during normal working hours though. Plus, I'm pretty sure my local library doesn't offer evening bookings.

Asterisk: I can technically afford it, but I'm not paying like $160/mo to host a weekly club at the library. That defeats the whole point of a third space.

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alignedchaos 3 points 3 years ago

Paying for something doesn’t defeat the point of a third place. Enterprising and profit do. People covering just the cost of materials required for their activity is not that bad a thing.

I would rather more basic activities be covered by taxes too though.

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kakes 3 points 3 years ago

I agree with you, but I do wish our society/culture allowed us to exist without requiring constant payment. Just exhausting after a while.

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afraid_of_zombies 52 points 3 years ago

Just throwing it out there: most libraries do have one late night day a week, there are probably a million people on earth right at this moment that would love to play a tabletop game with you or take a zoom class, every single area has clubs/associations/charities that would love some new faces.

Don't expect the universe to give you companionship. You need to do it yourself

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Colorcodedresistor 22 points 3 years ago

You reap what you sow. you sow nothing you reap nothing.

well said.

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Jerkules_Jerkules 40 points 3 years ago

I read something about the Carnegie libraries in Pittsburgh basically doing this way back when. Apparently it was popular for people to get off work, go home, clean up, eat, then head out to the library. There was stuff there for kids like story tellers, tutors, art workshops, and more. For adults, quiet places for people who just wanted to read, places for study, areas for people to discuss various subjects, classes on various skills (painting, pottery, carpentry, etc) and the ground floor main area had a general social space. They served coffee, food trucks set up outside, and some inside. It was a popular place for people who didn't want to go to the bar.

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CynicRaven 8 points 3 years ago

That sounds fantastic. Experiment run its course, get derailed, something else?

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Jerkules_Jerkules 19 points 3 years ago

A combination of factors. Lower funding, suburbanization, growing means for home entertainment, growing wages sending people to more expensive options, etc.

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alignedchaos 7 points 3 years ago

One thing that happened is society forgot they can go do these things at libraries today.

Everything he listed is on the calendar of a great number of city libraries, if you check their websites! (Source: I built and maintained the websites for several libraries)

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DunkelLicht 39 points 3 years ago

That's called a community centre and used to be pretty common. Growing up we had multiple that were run by the local Catholic organizations, and I think there were also some that were run by the youth branch of the various political parties.

But a key component of such a place being success is having a certain kind of open culture. There's countries where if you throw 10 strangers in a room and return an hour later, you'll find 10 strangers on their phone, having not uttered a single word to each other.

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ParsnipWitch 9 points 3 years ago

People also have a tendency to divide into subgroups and isolate from each other. It's a step in the right direction and better than no community at all. But it can breed resentment and even violence. That's a common problem of community centres here.

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intensely_human 8 points 3 years ago

If we constantly tell people that their primary defining characteristic is their race, or their sexuality, or their nationality, and we tell them that those people are the only ones who can truly get them, then it’s no surprise this results in a culture of isolating into little demographic groups.

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Flax_vert 1 point 3 years ago

Heck, or political beliefs. People should agree to disagree more nowadays.

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MargotRobbie 38 points 3 years ago

You shouldn't talk and socialize inside a public library though.

Maybe a community center for activities would be better. Lemmy is basically a bunch of virtual community centers anyways.

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Rivalarrival 37 points 3 years ago

During the day, sure.

After dark, board games, LAN parties, Cards Against Humanity,

The library makes it appealing to me. Most of the time, I would rather just read in the corner, social-adjacent rather than socialization.

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MargotRobbie 12 points 3 years ago

You should check out some board game/card game shops around where you live.

Also, Cards Against Humanity is funny if you play it with your friends once every couple of months, I wouldn't want to play it regularly, it gets old really fast.

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Fogle 8 points 3 years ago

It gets old immediately. I hate playing any game whose only entertainment comes from shock value

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captain_aggravated 7 points 3 years ago

There's a lot of board/card games on the market like that, where once you've been through the deck once it's kind of done.

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Ser_Salty 1 point 3 years ago

So many people don't even care if the cards fit together, so playing "the biggest, blackest dick" will always win even if it doesn't make sense.

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kofe 30 points 3 years ago

Public libraries hold community events all the time, though..? At least the ones near me have conference rooms and such that can be booked. One reason why drag time story hour has been under attack lately. One of the many avenues to further ostracize us

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troyunrau 37 points 3 years ago

I host late night D&D. Or play team sports. Life is what you make it folks.

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skqweezy 10 points 3 years ago

Yup, even though I'm pretty new to D&D I'm hosting a game with a few people from the us (I'm from Europe), nearly every weekend I'm chuckling because of the things they come up with, some of the best fun from the entire week, even though it's literally 1 am for me at that time

Yes I get a little bit sleep deprived, but I fix it by oversleeping till 10 AM

Life sucks but this is some of the few things keeping me here

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troyunrau 8 points 3 years ago

I refuse to play D&D online. It is my "real people time", an irony considering we're all playing imaginary characters.

About five years ago I started hosting D&D 9pm (21:00) Friday evenings. There was a restaurant in town that was open late, largely serving takeout orders. So we requested a regular table in the back corner and they offered us a free plate of nachos every Friday. We usually played for three or four hours, and a few people ordered drinks or finger food -- enough for the restaurant to break even on the nachos at a minimum. It was our "bar replacement" activity. I immediately had buy in from the players, and had to turn people away.

I moved a few years later, and my new house had a large-group friendly basement suitable for D&D. In my new city, I posted looking for players for the same time slot: 9pm Fridays. I was oversubscribed within a few hours. We had a few pauses during COVID, but are still playing at the same timeslot.

I still use the "in person only" rule at my table. During COVID, a bunch we're proposing we play online. I don't want to play online. I can do that with innumerable games that already fill that niche. I want pencil and paper and friends.

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skqweezy 3 points 3 years ago

Yeah, I mentioned us playing online since I can't exactly fly every weekend to the US just to play dnd

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deaf_fish 5 points 3 years ago

D&D at the latest night libraries!

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jordanlund 36 points 3 years ago

But libraries demand silence... You need loud libraries late at night... with live music, and maybe alcohol... wait...

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Donkter 43 points 3 years ago

We need BYOB open indoor spaces that don't demand anything of anyone.

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Ignisnex 28 points 3 years ago

In my town, such a space would be destroyed within days, become an impromptu homeless shelter, or both. Likely both.

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uis 13 points 3 years ago

Some sort of house of culture. Wait a second. This is COMMUNISM!

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Obonga 11 points 3 years ago

Ohh yes please. Honestly i love the idea of having spaces in libraries where you could socialise.

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intensely_human 2 points 3 years ago

Isn’t that what the conference rooms are?

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son_named_bort 32 points 3 years ago

It would also be useful for people that don't like church, which is the main third place in much of rural America.

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cosmicrookie 30 points 3 years ago

Many libraries in Denmark do stay open to 9pm. They even have tables and invite people to hang out there. Although I må not sure if you're allowed to drink or eat there they do want you to just hang out. They have boardgames that you can borrow or play there and they even have boardgames nights where you can play against other guests. Some libraries even have gaming computers and playstation 5 with sofas and all. It's pretty cool! Some of them also let you borrow things like baking forms, instruments, and tools!

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Iron_Lynx 9 points 3 years ago

NL here. One of the libraries in my city has a café on the ground floor, as well as space for more noisy activity or higher traffic volume, like music practices or a polling station. While for calm you do need to go up the stairs, the function of the third place does exist in there.

Such a construction, as far as I can tell, is pretty uncommon among libraries in the country though, the cultural sector has been criminally underfunded and disrespected for quite a while. This was a happenstance thing where several local cultural organisations teamed up to make this happen.

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kennismigrant 1 point 3 years ago

NL here. Which city and which library are you talking about?

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Iron_Lynx 2 points 3 years ago

One in Zwolle, near the Sassenpoort

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bufordt 4 points 3 years ago

Yeah, the libraries in Minnesota typically stay open until 9pm too.

They also would have rooms where you would be welcome to have dnd type things.

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grysbok 4 points 3 years ago

I've worked in a public library and we were fine with food as long the patrons cleaned up after themselves and it wasn't something like a full pizza. We got salty when folks just left trash on the tables.

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CassowaryTom 27 points 3 years ago

As former and probably future homeless person this is a bad idea.

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cRazi_man 48 points 3 years ago

Or we could implement this AND provide decent accomodation for unsheltered people.

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ShaggySnacks 12 points 3 years ago

Providing houses for the homeless? This smells like socialism and this America! The only people who get socialism are the rich and corporations. Everyone else can get fucked. /s

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LifeOfChance 26 points 3 years ago

Our library hosts lounge night and a game night. Lounge night is lofi music and people enjoying themselves with games, movies, books, larping, and writers sharing. Poetry night and writers block aren't personally my favorite but there's those as well.

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Emerald 1 point 3 years ago

Oh wow a poetry night sounds fun. I could share my mediocre poetry.

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DrMango 26 points 3 years ago

No no no. People don't spend money at a public library. You haven't thought of the profits!

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PreviouslyAmused 9 points 3 years ago

Has no one been thinking of the shareholders?!?

What’s going to happen to them if people just start hanging out in a free space? How do the shareholders make money off of that?

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doingthestuff 3 points 3 years ago

They could sell cocktails and cannabis edibles after 9pm.

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Colorcodedresistor 6 points 3 years ago
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LillyPip 25 points 3 years ago

That’s how you get eaten by t-Rex skeletons and spanked by monkeys.

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WhiteRabbit_33 17 points 3 years ago

Sounds like a good time to me.

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thantik 23 points 3 years ago

I joined a hackerspace/makerspace. Similar in concept, but instead of books; tools and nerds.

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isolatedscotch 1 point 3 years ago

i would love to do the same but the nearest one is more then 100km away, sometimes it really sucks to be in a remote town

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Kolanaki 22 points 3 years ago

methhead at 3am with a stack of chemistry books

I FUCKING LOVE READING

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apprehensively_human 20 points 3 years ago

Jesse. We need to read.

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wagesj45 12 points 3 years ago

Good for him.

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XTL 20 points 3 years ago

Here in Finland a lot of libraries are open pretty late (scan card and PIN to access, free of charge). Some close because of vandals, but it mostly works.

Not much socializing, though. Mostly people choose the drinking in domestic isolation.

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lieuwestra 11 points 3 years ago

That is why our local libraries started hosting board game nights. Mixed bag because there are already a bunch of successful board game clubs attracting the more experienced crowd.

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wreckedcarzz 18 points 3 years ago

Option 3: disregard laws, fuck in the streets

It's a group activity that everyone can enjoy! Get to really know your mail carrier, and learn how to get that 60% discount at the pizza parlor, all in an exciting and lively atmosphere!

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can 8 points 3 years ago path: 0 4966988 4967014, hotness: undefined, score: 8, children: 0
idunnololz 4 points 3 years ago

idk. Seems kinda uncomfortable on pavement. But maybe on that soft flooring they use on the kid playgrounds?

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White_Flight 1 point 3 years ago

sounds like San Francisco

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ilinamorato 18 points 3 years ago

Post on a local Facebook page that you'll DM a game of D&D for anyone who's interested. Bam, instant friends.

I might consider learning how to do it first, but yeah. Players are always looking for DMs, and nerds are fun to be around.

Ooh, you could play at the libr-- ohhhh.

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postmateDumbass 10 points 3 years ago

My friend's uncle was arrested for playing at the library. He was by himself in a corner of the compurer lab.

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StopSpazzing 6 points 3 years ago

Playing... With what?

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postmateDumbass 3 points 3 years ago

The Loch Ness Monster

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thorbot 13 points 3 years ago

I just have people come to my house and we stay up late and play board games

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kennismigrant 9 points 3 years ago

I just have people come to my house

This step is pretty difficult. (1) You know people, (2) they would agree to come to your house, and (3) you have enough room to have guests.

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Kase 5 points 3 years ago

Still working on Step 1 over here :/

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kennismigrant 4 points 3 years ago

I myself am failing all 3 atm. To add on top of that, I prefer to sleep a lot and I do not own any board games.

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Kase 2 points 3 years ago

Solution: sleepover with lots of cuddles. Solves the space issue lol

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mountainCalledMonkey 12 points 3 years ago

when i was a kid i would go to the library all the time until 10, which was late for me at that age. i wasn't a big reader, but it was a perfect excuse to escape family.

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m3t00 12 points 3 years ago

sell coffee etc. to pay the bills. all the cool kids are doing it. Libraries are looking for more visitors. Install a Starbucks with tables near the gaming PCs. books and chairs in the corner. Checkout counter is already done, Re: bars, Why do they all have parking lots? AA without the chanting.

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Cold_Brew_Enema 11 points 3 years ago

They should serve alcohol at libraries. That would be ideal.

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echodot 7 points 3 years ago

This seems like a great compromise.

But like brandy so it's classy.

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spankinspinach 3 points 3 years ago

Hear me out: speakeasy in the libraries, in a separate section (don't want to ruin those books)

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kautau 6 points 3 years ago

But you have to know the special book to pull on a certain shelf to open the cool secret door

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ivanafterall 3 points 3 years ago

Yes! But not a door. When you pull the book, the entire shelf/floor spins around to take you to the hidden speakeasy. Ideally with a jazz piano player named Sam who greets you by name.

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ShaggySnacks 2 points 3 years ago

Need to have cigars to amp the classiness even more.

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ivanafterall 2 points 3 years ago

Preferably a candle- or torch-lit affair... Can't have too many open flames.

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ShaggySnacks 1 point 3 years ago

More the merrier! Open flames for all!

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zalgotext 1 point 3 years ago

And you can get fucked up way faster on brandy

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eezeebee 10 points 3 years ago

Isolation still wins every time

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setsneedtofeed 10 points 3 years ago

I’ve got a lively tabletop store that has a ton of tables. It’s got stuff that interests me on multiple nights a week, and a chill regular crowd.

Then I’ve got an evening running group. Admittedly they are about to close down until next year soon.

I do admit I’m less of a night owl nowadays, and more about spending my daytime hours doing active activities. Those hours are so slambooked I am putting things in a calender organizer so I don’t doublebook my time. The nights where I’m alone I usually feel pretty beat from the daytime, and ready to just relax at home contently.

I suppose what I’m saying is that part of the blame lies on society, but some of it is learned helplessness. Making a witty Twitter post might help vent but it won’t make new social hubs fall out of the sky for you. If you’re itching to do things then go do things. Everything I’m currently into, I started out by just showing up on my own and making friends there. If you’ve got friends who only socialize by drinking at bars, don’t be shocked when the only activities seem to be bar oriented.

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wagesj45 10 points 3 years ago

I agree with the gist of your post. I would add, though, that your tabletop store is a store. There is an expectation that you spend money, whether its explicit or just implied by the fact that its their space and you're taking it up. I think we need spaces where people can exist without the expectation of commerce.

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setsneedtofeed 2 points 3 years ago

People bemoan being isolated. I mentioned one of many activities as an example of how to solve being isolated.

An indoors social space to just exist would be great. Complaining about it on the internet doesn’t solve anybody’s loneliness. We can still do that of course, complaining on the internet is tradition, but we can also posit solutions that actually make people less lonely.

In my experience, people socialize more quickly with strangers when there is a shared thread in a group, rather than just an open space. Hence suggesting going and doing something rather than just going to a place. Go run, go hike, go play frisbee, find whatever meetup online thing your area has. Some of it is free, some of it you have to put some money into. But life isn’t a choice between barhopping and crippling loneliness.

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BURN 3 points 3 years ago

The whole problem is that people don’t have the money to engage in spaces that require purchases. That’s the entire reason 3rd spaces have died. When people no longer have any disposable income they can’t go out any longer.

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Uranium3006 1 point 3 years ago

indeed. we need places where it costs $0 to go and socialize or organize small get togethers. anything less that free is going to make it impossible to work

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some_guy 2 points 3 years ago

You aren’t offering a solution if your solution is the problem. Incredibly condescending point of view you have there.

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Uranium3006 1 point 3 years ago

this is especially important nowadays, where people are poorer than they used to be, and for teens who hardly ever have any money to begin with. if you have to spend money, a lot of people couldn't afford it or will be pressured to cut back or stop going altogether when money gets tight.

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lorez 8 points 3 years ago

And domestic violence, that's how I read it the first time. Dark humor?

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Risus_Nex 8 points 3 years ago

The library of our university is open 24/7 while exam season, which is nice

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Throwaway4669332255 8 points 3 years ago

My library does sell food but only 11am -4pm, Monday - Thursday.....

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5in1k 7 points 3 years ago

Gaming stores for some board games and DnD.

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candle_lighter 1 point 3 years ago

My local one smells like body odor unfortunately

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KoalaUnknown 7 points 3 years ago

My college library is open 24/7 for students.

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ada 6 points 3 years ago

That's how the big city library in my city used to work before covid hit.

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Seraph 5 points 3 years ago

Finally, the library bathroom will get used for sex.

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magmaus3 1 point 3 years ago

no

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ivanafterall 2 points 3 years ago

Too late.

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Shardikprime 5 points 3 years ago

Most drunkards won't be even able to read the library rules, even less the address to it

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HerrBeter 1 point 3 years ago

That is why librarians need to concealed carry. One musket per person! Nothing says go away like a .58 minie ball

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kamen 5 points 3 years ago

Won't work very well if there's someone constantly shushing.

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guyrocket 5 points 3 years ago

Great idea. I think I will suggest it to my library!

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Peppycito 5 points 3 years ago

My wife was a bartender and then got a job as a librarian. I don't think she'd like that much.

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ivanafterall 3 points 3 years ago

Sorry guys, plan's off, this guy's wife said no.

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Peppycito 2 points 3 years ago

Soooooorrrryyyyyyyy

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pomodoro_longbreak 3 points 3 years ago

There are usually late / all night coffee shops. Lots of good memories and conversations had there, and considerably cheaper (though not free).

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spittingimage 10 points 3 years ago

That's the thing, though - if you're not spending money, you're not welcome. It's not your space, in any sense.

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pomodoro_longbreak 5 points 3 years ago

Don't got to tell me, I've held my coffee cup aloft like some kind of warding torch - proof that I'd paid a couple dollars to be here - back when I was hard up.

But if you've got money, it is a lot cheaper than a bar or a resto

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danielton 6 points 3 years ago

Since covid, most coffee shops, restaurants, and other hangouts open at 6 AM and close by 3 PM in my area. My only options are bars.

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jeena 3 points 3 years ago

Would drinking be allowed?

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ivanafterall 2 points 3 years ago

If I ran the library, it would be mandatory.

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Historical_General 2 points 3 years ago

I fucking wish!

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FartsWithAnAccent 2 points 3 years ago

That would be pretty dope

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OpenStars 1 point 3 years ago

Shhhh...

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anarchotaoist -1 points 3 years ago

Every social and business interaction is engagement in public life!

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anarchotaoist -3 points 3 years ago

No. Public Houses are called Public Houses for a reason.

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obinice -3 points 3 years ago

They'd be full of children after school, loud, sticky, annoying children.

It's still a good idea, but libraries should be a quiet calm place, and I came feckin stick them when they've got kids running around and stuff. Ugh.

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Historical_General -1 points 3 years ago

Are you British by the way?

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cricket97 -8 points 3 years ago

Because homeless people flood public libraries and ruin the concept of a free public good by abusing the privilege.

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garyyo 10 points 3 years ago

The fuck? Abusing? They are homeless and just trying to survive and doing the best they can. They are making good use of their resources to embetter their own lives and the system allows for it. If homeless people go to the library perhaps the problem is not the homeless people but that THERE IS NO BETTER OPTION FOR THEM.

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cricket97 -3 points 3 years ago

It is abuse in that it's misusing the resources for purposes not intended. Public libraries are not meant to be hotels for the homeless, and it ruins the experience for everyone else. Hate me all you want for saying it but its the truth.

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kmaismith 6 points 3 years ago

How are homeless folk supposed to get on their feet when they are viewed with such contempt by fellow humans?

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Uranium3006 1 point 3 years ago

a lot of people want homeless people to be killed, others won't admit outright but secretly think the same way.

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cricket97 -4 points 3 years ago

by actually taking up the offers of drug treatment they are given. I used to work in a homeless shelter and you'd be blown away at how little they care about anything but getting high. They have resources tossed their way for free and they refuse them because they only care about continuing their life of debauchery and drugs.

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ntzm 4 points 3 years ago

Fuck you

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cricket97 -7 points 3 years ago

pronouns in bio -> opinion discarded

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alignedchaos 1 point 3 years ago

Oh look, garbage

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Phegan 1 point 3 years ago
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cricket97 -4 points 3 years ago

A majority of the homeless people in my local library are drug addicts. They are not people simply down on their luck. And they will continue to be homeless until they stop taking drugs. As long as they are on drugs/drinking there is no way out. And they refuse treatment most of the time.

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Phegan 3 points 3 years ago
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cricket97 -3 points 3 years ago

It absolutely is a failing of the individual. It can still be a "disease" at the same time.

A few of them may be addicts and we extrapolate it to the whole group.

Oh please, most of them are. Drug addiction is the leading cause of prolonged homelessness, followed by mental illness.

Often times the unhoused become addicts after they experience homelessness,

And often times their addiction caused them to be homeless. I'm not sure what value there is in trying to prove exceptions when the general trends are clear as day.

Society has failed them.

I used to work at a homeless shelter when I was doing some community service work and I can tell you first hand most of them don't want help. They don't care. They just want drugs. They get offered treatment opportunities all the time but they refuse because they can't get loaded.

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A place to share screenshots of Microblog posts, whether from Mastodon, tumblr, Twitter X, KBin, Threads or elsewhere.

Created as an evolution of White People Twitter and other tweet-capture subreddits.

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  1. Your post must be a screen capture of a microblog-type post that includes the UI of the site it came from, preferably also including the avatar and username of the original poster. Including relevant comments made to the original post is encouraged.
  2. Your post, included comments, or your title/comment should include some kind of commentary or remark on the subject of the screen capture. Your title must include at least one word relevant to your post.
  3. You are encouraged to provide a link back to the source of your screen capture in the body of your post.
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