Daily Discussion Thread: Tue 01 Aug 2023

3 years ago by Bot #001 to c/melbourne

Welcome to the Melbourne Community Daily Discussion Thread.

StudChud 14 points 3 years ago

Apologies for last night, using this place as a vent for some of my trauma. I would hate to have triggered anyone, and I am sincerely sorry if I have.

The woes of waiting for a therapy appt, and being very, very friendless. I appreciate you who put up with my trauma-dumping, and I would not fault a single one of you who may block me.

I have spoken at length with mein liebe, he knows everything. But he not my caretaker, nor therapist, and neither is this place.

I will treat you better than I have.

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RosaliePreistley 9 points 3 years ago

Venting is part of therapy. I appreciated it. We are somewhat acquaintances and somewhat strangers which is quite similar to the therapist / patient relationship.

I overshare here and while its a journal it's also because the people close to me have not been good to share with for the most part. They're supportive, but most of them think I should have sucked it up and moved on by now. That's not how dealing with trauma works. Not how the journey of being transgender works. Not how trying to come to terms with having neurodivergences works. Not how being in addiction recovery works. This stuff takes years and we all need people in our lives who have patience to hear us talk about things a lot over and over again. You're welcome to vent and share as much as you feel like in my dms hun. I'm a good ear and I've been to dark places a lot in the past as well. Lots and lots of love.

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StudChud 6 points 3 years ago

Thank you, you have been nothing but kind and understanding. It means the world to me. You are such a wonderful, incredible human being. 💜💜💜

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RosaliePreistley 2 points 3 years ago

Thank you for the same things Spud! You brighten my days.

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CEOofmyhouse56 7 points 3 years ago

Waiting for an appointment is torturous. In the meantime keep busy. Have a look on r/miniatures for inspiration.

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StudChud 5 points 3 years ago

Well! I do have a killteam of Necrons that need painting, I could get some good painting tips there! Thank you kindly 💜💜💜

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Duenan 4 points 3 years ago

W40k fan too?

I’ve painted a predator tank in Blood angel colours but it looked pretty bad haha so I won’t be offering any tips.

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StudChud 4 points 3 years ago

Yeah, I bought the Indomitus box a couple of years ago (when I had a job lol) because I love Necrons and my partner likes the Space Marines (so original haha). I painted two necrons and never did the rest of the squad haha! I have a bunch of D&D models to paint as well.

When we bought the box at Games Workshop in the CBD, the clerks helped us with painting tips. We also have been to PAX a number of times where you can minis as an activity too. We are by no means great painters, but they do come out quite servicable haha!

I would love to see a pic of the predator tank you painted! I'll find the first mini i ever painted too haha it was quite horrid 😂

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CEOofmyhouse56 3 points 3 years ago

I don't know what they are but I ♥ miniatures.

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Seagoon_ 6 points 3 years ago

You have nothing to apologise for. You're human and humans reach out to other humans. hugs

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StudChud 5 points 3 years ago

💜💜💜

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Duenan 5 points 3 years ago

It’s ok. You sometimes need to do it and it also must be hard not having a proper outlet of times. Even I’m guilty of it I have to admit because I bottle it up too much.

You are a wonderful person who also cares about people too and you deserve to be cared about as well.

If you need to talk or vent you can reach out to us.

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StudChud 4 points 3 years ago

💜💜💜

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PeelerSheila 3 points 3 years ago

Hey it's cool to vent on here if you need to. The pitiful amount of therapy covered by Medicare is really some bullshit. One of my kids needed some therapy, has used all his appointments and now we're paying full price until the end of the year. Really needs it, it's not optional, and mental health is priceless, but at the same time there is a price on it that some people can't pay. Constructive venting is therapeutic. Vent away, friend!

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LowExperience2368 13 points 3 years ago
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Thornburywitch 7 points 3 years ago

You've probably heard all the motivational shit that gets peddled in such situations. One thing that has stuck with me over the years, is that the best songs are about failures. Very few decent songs about successes. Seems to me that failure is nothing to be afraid of - it's liberating and creative. And puts an end to that particular fear. You have already found out how crippling fear can be. Failure is nothing compared to that. Go forth and give whatever it is a reasonable shot.

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CEOofmyhouse56 6 points 3 years ago

How do you know if you're good at something or enjoy doing something if you never give it a go? I say to you fuck it. Do it. You might like it.

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RosaliePreistley 2 points 3 years ago

"Feel the fear and do it anyway" I think that is in some movie but it's what I tell myself.

One thing I've learned from transitioning is that as self concious as we are, most people are too busy with their own stuff and thoughts to even notice I'm wearing a wig and less then average make-up or indeed read my pronoun badge. It's fun when I'm definitely passing and someone apologises for assuming I'm female when they hear my voice. It's a bag of emotional stuff I carry around and there's fear associated with it, but I can't actually fail at being trans as much as other trans people try and make me feel like I am at times. I'd think I'd like to be able to pass effortlessly sometimes, but most of the time, I just make sure I'm being authentic to myself. What other people think of me is not really any of my business anyway.

Everything takes practise and we should aim for progress not perfection.

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Dragonflower 2 points 3 years ago

I believe there is nothing more liberating than saying "fuck it" before doing something. Like you touched on, it's accepting what happens next, rather than not bothering because of the potential of failure. You've got this, man.

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CEOofmyhouse56 12 points 3 years ago

How does gnocchi with cherry tomatoes, zucchini, bacon, garlic, parmesan in a cream sauce with garlic bread sound? Great. 6 o'clockish. Don't be late. Bring dessert.

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the_procrastinata 5 points 3 years ago

It sounds delicious and my reflux is flaring at the mere thought.

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6368_39162 3 points 3 years ago
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CEOofmyhouse56 4 points 3 years ago

No deal. The zucchini's going in.

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StudChud 4 points 3 years ago

Succ the zucc

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6368_39162 3 points 3 years ago
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StudChud 3 points 3 years ago

Lol not 'suck the Zuck', silly

Succ the zucc 🥒

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StudChud 3 points 3 years ago

😍🤤

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heyheyitskay 11 points 3 years ago

5pm is log off and nap time.

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landsharkkidd 7 points 3 years ago

I wish my boss knew this.

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wscholermann 7 points 3 years ago
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heyheyitskay 6 points 3 years ago

Yeah lol used to have calls and presentations at like 10:30pm a couple of workplaces ago it was cray. Nowadays I stare people down if they set 9am or 4:30pm meetings

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wscholermann 3 points 3 years ago
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heyheyitskay 5 points 3 years ago

Oh look not everyday's like this exactly so it's certainly a treat. It's also kinda like a result of a dysfunctional workplace in this case so not sure if it's a good thing....

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dumblederp 4 points 3 years ago

My last job ran until 6pm which was a major deciding factor in me quitting.

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CEOofmyhouse56 11 points 3 years ago
My dinner

Image of a bowl with gnocchi, bacon and vegetables, in a delectable creamy sauce.

It was delicious. I love how the tomatoes go pop in my mouth :)

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Bottom_racer 6 points 3 years ago

I too would use the grater as a shovelfork.

Looks delish.

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cherryripesalmoncake 2 points 3 years ago

Mmmm grated lips

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Duenan 5 points 3 years ago

Creamy sauce. drool

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Force_majeure122 4 points 3 years ago

🙇‍♂️ we are not worthy

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PeelerSheila 2 points 3 years ago

Looks lovely! Did you make the gnocchi yourself?

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CEOofmyhouse56 2 points 3 years ago

Hell no. Hahaha.

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tone_212 11 points 3 years ago

I have to keep a two week log for the council to do anything about the neighbour dog barking. Less than half a week in and I’m well on my way to filling out the first page. I left a friendly note (didn’t feel comfortable approaching in person) and they now seem to be leaving the dog outside longer & barking to spite me. What’s wrong with this psycho? If I received a note about my dog being a nuisance I would be mortified. It’s the dog that’s suffering at the end of the day. Going to try go bed earlier because come sunrise it starts up again.

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brave 2 points 3 years ago

my council doesn't seem to do diary logs for noise..

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wscholermann 10 points 3 years ago
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Thornburywitch 4 points 3 years ago

Try the original name of Canada - Ca Nada - that is, 'nothing there'. Well, might be true if all you were looking for was gold, spices and slaves.

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StudChud 3 points 3 years ago

Heh, some words we use sound somewhat 'indigenous'.

The Yinyila Nation of Mirning clans encompasses the ancient coastal seabed of the Nullarbor Plain Ngargangooridri

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Baku 10 points 3 years ago
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6368_39162 7 points 3 years ago
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Baku 4 points 3 years ago
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prime_factor 4 points 3 years ago

Have you scanned your everyday disregards card?

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6368_39162 2 points 3 years ago
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briongloid 10 points 3 years ago

Have a nice day everyone

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LowExperience2368 7 points 3 years ago
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RosaliePreistley 2 points 3 years ago

Thanks, been doing that so far.

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SpinMeAround 9 points 3 years ago

Getting left alone in the office is terrible for my productivity, I love it.

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RustyRaven 9 points 3 years ago

Is warm. Is good. 😁

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prime_factor 4 points 3 years ago

Don Don Don.

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MeanElevator 9 points 3 years ago

Arse blasting avoided for another month. Thank you kind RBA overlords.

All hail Lowe

All hail Lowe

They're still all twats though

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Bottom_racer 5 points 3 years ago

Up high!

Down low!

Too slow!

  • Cheeky arse blaster Lowe
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StudChud 3 points 3 years ago

Blesséd be thy bank accounts for now

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Baku 8 points 3 years ago
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Thornburywitch 5 points 3 years ago

Well, they have to name it something. I do wonder why they picked a roman emperor though.

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melbourne_wanderer 2 points 3 years ago

The gregorian calendar (which we use) is based on a very, very small but functionally significant change to the Julian calendar, the predominant calendar of the Roman empire.

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mysticgreg 3 points 3 years ago

My dreaded birthday month. Just cancel it already :(

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cherryripesalmoncake 1 point 3 years ago

I was like.. huh? What? Noooo.

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Seagoon_ 7 points 3 years ago

Saw a guy dressed cross between a beatnik and that arty guy Otho from Beetlejuice. Cool.

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StudChud 5 points 3 years ago

Yeah. You gotta help us, Doc. We've tried nothin' and we're all out of ideas.

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bananafungus 7 points 3 years ago

Going to continue the Keeley Hawes copverse and rewatch Spooks. I am very ready for cringey cheesy outdated tech speak, and the capabilities of a government agency blown way out of proportion.

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landsharkkidd 7 points 3 years ago

Got an email from RMIT saying like "here are some alumnis things you can do" and one of them was study a postgrad degree. Decided to check it out and the graduate diploma and masters of the field I studied in both allows anyone to enter if you have had a minimum of 3 years in a related field OR completed a bach degree. I remember looking at the masters and it said you had to have a study score of something related to a HD, which I didn't have.

Might see how I go with work, but I kind of want to do it. Has anyone experienced studying and also working before? (And not working like hospo or retail)

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wscholermann 8 points 3 years ago
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Duenan 4 points 3 years ago

I haven’t done a post grad but I studied and worked all the way through my courses.

Much of it’s going to come down to timetabling and seeing if it works out between work and uni.

The other one would be the workload involved and understanding what you can take on and how much you can do and balancing everything.

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bleepitybloop 3 points 3 years ago

That sounds like a real decent opportunity! It's so great to hear about unis allowing alternative entry pathways and changing up how things are done. Cheeky tangent, I love how Swinburne offers incremental qualifications to their students e.g. if you drop out after one or two years, you're rewarded with a Cert III or Diploma in whatever it is you were studying, with the option to return for the final Bachelor year at a later point. Other unis are moving towards this model. I digress.

Over the past year I have been studying full-time postgrad and working 3-4 days each week (25-30 hours). The degree is centered around a biomedical research project and requires a lot of in-person, tedious, isolated lab work. (Oh it's worth noting that I am aiming for high marks, trying for med school). Not gonna water it down, it has been really fkn hectic doing it this way. Studying full-time and working 3 days a week was bearable...but when I picked up another shift, I didn't have a day off for nearly 2 months...would not recommend 0/10 i'm an idiot

It would've been much easier studying a postgrad degree 'by coursework' and not 'by research.' I could def see myself working 25ish hours weekly and studying coursework full-time, no doubt. Guess it depends on the subject/material, too. Biomed...is involved. And if you're not chasing HDs then yes yes, for sure its doable. I reckon the sweet spot would be part-time study whilst working 30-35 hours each week.

What's the field of study for this postgrad you're looking to get into, if you don't mind me asking?

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landsharkkidd 3 points 3 years ago

Hmm... interesting. Yeah I'll have a think about it. Because honestly, I miss uni, it was a lot of fun. And I wonder how things would change now that I have a script for Ritalin haha.

It was creative writing, so you know the course that doesn't provide me a job in the end! Jokes, I actually learnt a lot in creative writing and it's helped me get opportunities I wouldn't have gotten, and I do love the job I'm in but it's very much customer servicing whereas writing copy is a "if there's nothing to do", which is fine... but I just want to do more writing.

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bleepitybloop 2 points 3 years ago

Nah, creative writing is here to stay. In the age of AI saturating journalism and the arts etc. I suspect your services would be well sought after.

And funny you say that re: Ritalin. Prior to getting on meds, I'd lost count how many times I'd dropped out of uni – probably 6 or 7 times. And I transferred across 5 unis lol. I started when I was 18 and didn't graduate until I was 30. I battled through my remaining undergrad subjects over the pandemic, graduated last year and continued on w/ postgrad. My strength is academia but I never actually believed I'd complete a degree nor study postgrad, not in a million years.

The most surprising thing was that my final undergrad year was so much more difficult than doing postgrad. All the teachers and their assignments in postgrad were super flexible, as was my weekly schedule. I could do whatever I want at my own pace. It was a goddamn revelation not having to constantly chase deadlines and having the freedom to push things back as required.

I'd encourage you to consider giving it a go! Could always sign up and see how the first month is? And if you need to, drop out / defer before census.

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landsharkkidd 2 points 3 years ago

Yeah definitely. I might look into it in a year or so. Might see what I can do with my boss.

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SituationCake 7 points 3 years ago

Watched War on Waste tonight and it’s criminal how much food is thrown out at farms because supermarkets deem it doesn’t fit size and aesthetics specification. Literally carrots dug out of the ground and thrown in a bin Immediately. Disappointing because it’s years after they exposed the same thing for bananas. It’s the whole food system. Nothing has changed.

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Seagoon_ 7 points 3 years ago

Got tonight sorted sorta, found a bunch old movies to watch. ( yes I know I said I wasn't going to do movies mid week but these are real old oldies) then read a few pages of a book. 👍

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RosaliePreistley 7 points 3 years ago

This is going to be my last vape. Vaping is a hangover from my last bender, which lasted about 5 weeks. Easier to quit booze than nicotine, the craving for booze comes after the first drink but doesn't persist after I stop for long at all. Nicotine however is a different story. I have those lozenges to defeat the cravings and a plan to wean myself off them over a couple of weeks if I need to. 50 days sober today, so the end of vaping is how I'll celebrate this milestone.

Only walked 4ks at work, so need to do another 6 today and luckily the weather is pretty perfect for it.

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PeelerSheila 3 points 3 years ago

I'm glad you're doing this, it's a very positive thing for your health. Kind and encouraging vibes being sent your way 🙏

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StudChud 2 points 3 years ago

Amazing stuff! You are doing so well becoming who you always were meant to be!! Nicotine is a bitch, but you are strong! You got this!

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RosaliePreistley 2 points 3 years ago

Unfortinately I have a bunch of experience with quitting harmful things. Fucking drugs.

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StudChud 2 points 3 years ago

I have heard nicotine is harder to quit than heroin. So be kind to yourself, forgiving, and always keep going. You have my support 💜💜💜

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cuavas 5 points 3 years ago

Heroin is relatively easy to quit if you can remove yourself from the situation. If you can't do that, it's very difficult.

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RosaliePreistley 2 points 3 years ago

Maybe I'll use herion to stave off the cravings... 😂 I've not been on the vape long this time so it shouldn't be too difficult.

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PeelerSheila 7 points 3 years ago

Day 6 completed. New steel caps feel awesome but my goodness are they heavy! Probably a leg and bun workout in themselves.

Im listening to the liked songs on the family playlist. My daughter's favourite song ATM is Mr Blue Sky by ELO. My son's is either Alter Bridge Metalingus (also my current listen) or Cult of Personality by Living Colour. Our playlist reads like a multi personality disorder!

Have a great day everyone! I'm off to make a truck ton of pizzas!

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Duenan 3 points 3 years ago

You get used to the weight of steel caps after a while.

After using them and you got back to normal non steel caps everything feels so super light.

Pizza? I could go for a pizza!

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calhoon2005 1 point 3 years ago

ELO, nice. So many great songs there to find for them. My dad used to play a single ELO greatest hits record all the time growing up. When I grew up, I randomly recognised a song (Telephone line i think), and I got a huge rush of nostalgia. Now on regular plays on long trips in the car.

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heyheyitskay 6 points 3 years ago

Icing my left knee to avoid bruises on both my legs now. 🫠

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Duenan 5 points 3 years ago

What did you do to yourself?

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heyheyitskay 3 points 3 years ago

Kneed the crossing button but obviously misjudged distance and how much force I needed.

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StudChud 3 points 3 years ago

You gotta remember to kneel on a pillow or folded blanket next time ey lol

Nah, I hope it heals soon without any complications. Knee injuries suck balls

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heyheyitskay 3 points 3 years ago

LOL thanks. I'm trying the cold compress in 15 min intervals but jesus I just forget it's there and it goes numb. Who has time for this shit

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StudChud 3 points 3 years ago

Ain't nobody got time for that

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Seagoon_ 6 points 3 years ago

ffs, 10 o'clock and there's still housework to be done, it never bloody ends

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SituationCake 5 points 3 years ago

Tomorrow’s problem.

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wscholermann 4 points 3 years ago
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RustyRaven 6 points 3 years ago

I think the larger outdoor unit of my aircon just made it to the roof. There was much grunting involved, I presume it is pretty heavy.

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melbaboutown 6 points 3 years ago

I was losing confidence trying to sketch on the phone but I saw a proper artist do a good way (rough sketch then make new layer to draw over it nicely). So I took that approach and modified it heavily based on what works for me.

It really helped to rough out very thick lines with a ‘artists crayon’, make a new layer and draw a bit more accurate with a small ‘brush’, then hide the first layer and go over the refined image again on a new one with a tinier ‘brush’ as a ‘pencil’. And then use that final good sketch as a guide to paint over and use effects. (Even if you paint over part of it you can hide and unhide or switch layers to quickly see a line again)

It also helps immensely to have streamlining turned up to 100 to get the control over the stylus similar to a real pencil.

Layers also make it easier to erase without wiping out everything in that area (that can be an issue as the undo tap only removes actions in the reverse order you did them).

It’s also super convenient to have the background as its own separate layer by default. That means I can set the background to bright green to easily see edges or any thin/missed spots, and at the end I can change it back to a nice colour or pattern. Rather than have to manually fill it in/paintbucket and risk messing with the details on the edges.

One very annoying thing is I’m unable to rest my little finger/side of hand on the phone to lightly ‘glide’ to draw a smooth line as in traditional art.

Even if I turned off touch for hands, the limited size of the screen makes it hard and the edge of the device bumps my hand. I can’t draw from my elbow as I’d prefer. This forces me to draw unsupported or rest my hand on the edge and draw from the wrist (causing wrist pain).

I’m not doing too badly though. Digital art has been a learning curve and you need to take different approaches but it’s been like a week of simple landscapes and I’m now making a little painting of Melbcat.

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just_kitten 6 points 3 years ago

Urgh, site supervision turned out to drag on much longer than I thought... Thank goodness I've arranged for cousincat to be fed tonight and tomorrow morning and can stay the night at mine, so I don't have to go through the hellscape that is the m1 in peak hour again dear lord. Left at 6:20am this morning and it still wasn't early enough 😭

Also, damn. The official CFMEU posters in the site office pretty er... Full on. 100% macho tuff guy vibes and even the F word - twice - once uncensored!

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landsharkkidd 6 points 3 years ago

Sigh, I only get $93 from Centrelink and then next fortnight it's $0, I am le sad.

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Duenan 5 points 3 years ago

Are you going to be ok?

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landsharkkidd 3 points 3 years ago

Oh yeah. It's 'cause I'm working now so I don't have any working credits any more. I should've specified why I'm only getting $93.

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LooseyGoosey 6 points 3 years ago

I'm at the point, again, of my regular re-watch of Star Trek:Voyager where as much as I consider Janeway a role model, I'm so bitterly disappointed that during filming Kate Mulgrew was absolutely horrible to Jeri Ryan and made her life very difficult on set.

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Outlier1031 6 points 3 years ago

The situation was pretty horrible and it's so bizarre because Kate and Jeri just had this amazing chemistry together. I feel sorry for both Jeri and Kate. The show was struggling and instead of working on the writing, the producers decided to fix the shows problems with sex appeal. Kate felt that this was utterly demeaning to her and given how horrible hollywood is to women 40 and over and I can't blame her for feeling that way. However, her rage was directed at the wrong person and Jeri was just there to do a job. Thankfully, Kate has profusely apologised to Jeri and they patched things up a while ago. They even appear at conventions together now. At least they didn't plumb the same depths as the infamous Shatner/Takei feud 😆

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useless_modern_god 4 points 3 years ago

Unpopular opinion but Janeway is my least fave captain. Burnham or Kirk for me.

What horrible things did Kate do?

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cuavas 3 points 3 years ago

But that isn’t an unpopular opinion. She’s largely a one-dimensional character. She’s a terrible captain who can’t delegate and has to do everything herself, and somehow never comes unstuck from rash decisions. It’s lazy writing.

Picard is the best diplomat, and the best actual captain, in terms of actually coordinating a crew and putting everyone’s talents to use. Kirk has the tendency to try and do everything himself and make rash decisions, but he regularly gets into trouble as a result and needs the rest of the crew to save his arse. Both of them are written with more depth than Janeway.

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Force_majeure122 3 points 3 years ago

Janeway also my least fav tbh. I love captain Archer 😍 he's underrated

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useless_modern_god 2 points 3 years ago

Ye ok I haven’t seen to many eps of that one. We are caught up on Strange New Worlds here. Pike seems pretty even keeled, so to speak.

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Nath 2 points 3 years ago

Burnham as captain? I stopped watching Disco too soon, it sounds. I got about two episodes into the season where she was 1,000 years into the future. Loved it up until then, though.

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Force_majeure122 3 points 3 years ago

TNG and Enterprise are my regular rewatches 😁 so comforting

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StudChud 2 points 3 years ago

Yeah, but Kate Mulgrew did the voice of Flemeth in Dragon Age (Origins, 2, and Inquisition), so... 🤷‍♀️😅

i had big hots for old witch-lady and her hot daughter in those games 😬😅

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bull 5 points 3 years ago

I feel like there's a lot of coverage about the cost of living crisis but nobody is talking about how fish & chip places have had the absolute balls to start charging $2-$2.50 EACH for dim sims and potato cakes. I'd love to see some data on how they justify those prices because I suspect it's just one of those "oh.. everyone else seems to be increasing their prices so I will too.. yay money" scenarios. This stuff is meant to be a cheap feed. The world just keeps getting worse.

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Seagoon_ 6 points 3 years ago

I think they are trying to stop cheap as an option.

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Bottom_racer 5 points 3 years ago

$1.50 at Geelong station.

only to be consumed as a last resort

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landsharkkidd 5 points 3 years ago

Looks like the prices at my old fish and chip shop I used to work at has gone up. $1.60 for a potato cake, steamed and fried dim sim. Pretty sure dimmies were $1 and potato cakes were .80cents.

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Mittens_meow 3 points 3 years ago

Take away is discretionary spending.

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Thornburywitch 2 points 3 years ago

$1-20 potat caks at the charcoal chicken place on Scotchmer St over the road from Piedmontes. Not bad quality either - fresh, crispy and hot. Atlantic seafood on High St in Thornbury does a decent potat cak too but I haven't been past recently so don't have uptodate pricing.

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Llabyrinthine 2 points 3 years ago

$2.50 for a dimmy? 😮

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6368_39162 5 points 3 years ago
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StudChud 4 points 3 years ago

FiSh IsNt MeAt hurr durr

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6368_39162 4 points 3 years ago
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Duenan 2 points 3 years ago

I don’t eat vegetables because they have feelings.

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StudChud 5 points 3 years ago

Miow miow totally addicted to cats miow miow Mio-miowwww

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Force_majeure122 4 points 3 years ago

What's the cheapest place to get drunk in the CBD? (An establishment in which one can purchase and consume alcoholic beverages)

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landsharkkidd 3 points 3 years ago

The Joint used to be pretty cheap with their $5 rum and coke. I think they're like $6 or $6.50 now.

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Force_majeure122 3 points 3 years ago

Looks pretty solid, thanks 🙏

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6368_39162 3 points 3 years ago
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Force_majeure122 6 points 3 years ago

My vision sucks and I wear shitty h&m white sneakers but I appreciate your concern

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Force_majeure122 4 points 3 years ago

My non-concession Myki has started charging me only $2.50 🤔 anyone have an explanation for this?

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Force_majeure122 6 points 3 years ago

So I went to a helpdesk at Melbourne Central, they said it's always been a child card. Have been occasionally tapping on and feeling safe but I woulda got fucked anyway.i bought it from Flinders st station 5 months ago

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6368_39162 5 points 3 years ago
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anotherspringchicken 4 points 3 years ago

It’s really annoying that the full fare/ concession cards are no longer differentiated. I’ve now labelled ours so as not to accidentally use my kid’s card and get fined

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baconmash 5 points 3 years ago

i believe that is intentional

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Cendana 3 points 3 years ago

My wife's colleague got done for $300 for this reason a few weeks ago.

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just_kitten 2 points 3 years ago

Is this a secret remake of the 1988 hit film Big starring Tom Hanks

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baconmash 4 points 3 years ago

Breakfast 🍏🍎🍐🍊🍋🍈🫐🍓🍇🍉🍌🍒🍑🥭🍍🥥🥦🥑🫛🍆🍅🥝🥬🥒🌽🥕🥐🍠🫚🥔🧅🥯🍞🥖🥨🧀🧇🥞🧈🍳🥚🥓🥩🍗🍖🥪🍕🍟🍔🌭🥙🧆🌮🌯🥗🍲🍜🍝🥫🥘🍛🍣🍱🥟🦪🍥🍘🍚🍙🐠🍤🪼🦀🐙🥠🥮🍢🍡🍧🍰🧁🥧🍦🍨🎂🍮🍭🍬🍫🥜🌰🍪🍿🍯🥛☕️🍵🍺🍶🥤🧋🧃🥂🍷🥃🍸🍹🧉🔋

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RustyRaven 4 points 3 years ago

May I please have one crab, swimming in a bowl of milk and honey.

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baconmash 4 points 3 years ago

🦀

🥛🍯

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Seagoon_ 3 points 3 years ago

tea and tropical fruit salad and yoghurt please

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baconmash 3 points 3 years ago

☕️🍋🥭🍍🥥🥛

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SituationCake 3 points 3 years ago

French toast chocolate, and a fluffy coffee please.

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baconmash 3 points 3 years ago

🧈🥚🍞🍫

☁️☕️

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SituationCake 3 points 3 years ago

Thankyou chef.

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Thornburywitch 3 points 3 years ago

Toast and tea please. Could I have a sandwich to take to work for lunch too? Your choice of fillings. Coles has put up the price of their sandwiches to stratospheric levels (higher than 7-11) and are no longer a reasonable lunch proposition.

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baconmash 2 points 3 years ago

🍞☕️

🥑🧅🧀🍗🥪

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Thornburywitch 3 points 3 years ago

Thanks!

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6368_39162 3 points 3 years ago
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baconmash 3 points 3 years ago

🧀🥓🍞

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6368_39162 3 points 3 years ago
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Force_majeure122 2 points 3 years ago

A mars bar wrapped in bacon, battered and deep-fried please.

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baconmash 2 points 3 years ago

👽🍫🥓🍞🛢️🔥

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Force_majeure122 2 points 3 years ago

There aren't any aliens on Mars silly. They're on Pluto

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6368_39162 3 points 3 years ago
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baconmash 2 points 3 years ago

we will be the aliens on Mars

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heyheyitskay 4 points 3 years ago

Do Connoisseur ice cream buckets go in the recyclables?

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StudChud 6 points 3 years ago

You have to lick them clean, then recycle

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Bottom_racer 5 points 3 years ago

It's the rules.

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heyheyitskay 5 points 3 years ago

Bbb...bbut....it's clean already.

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cherryripesalmoncake 4 points 3 years ago

Lick. It.

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bleepitybloop 4 points 3 years ago

Been furiously applying for jobs over the past 2 months. Early on, I landed two interviews that were unsuccesful. Since then, I've been getting nothing whatsoever. Starting to spiritually resonate with the cliché the definition of insanity is trying the same thing over and over again but expecting different results by lowkey loosing it. Hence, I'm asking strangers for help, perspective, and anecdotes.

I'm after research work (and related) in the biomed/health sector. Been diverseying the search, scouring company websites directly, using LinkedIn, the Victorian Gov careers site etc. Rn I've got decent career momentum and need to stay within this field bc once your out its unlikely to get back in without pursuing further study. Look I'm not the most qualified but certainly not the least. Hell, even got some peer-reviewed publications out last year.

If you've been stuck in the perpetual job hunt chasing a specific line of work, how did you get yourself unstuck? And, is it worth calling hiring managers directly to make yourself more known? And do you have any tips for presenting / preparing applications?

Note: job agencies don't offer much assistance in this sector.

Cheers everyone!

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StudChud 3 points 3 years ago

I am looking for call centre work, so my advice may not be quite suited. However, I can empathise with your plight. I hope other may have more relevant advice - I believe perhaps MeanElevator

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wscholermann 3 points 3 years ago
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bleepitybloop 2 points 3 years ago

Oh yeah, it's a tiny sector with practically no connections to global markets. And yeh, I have considered overseas employment. Probably not realistic rn as I don't yet have a Masters/PhD, and also companies rarely employ internationals out of state. So you gotta move to a new country first and then apply.

I appreciate the lateral thinking, thanks for the suggestion.

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wscholermann 1 point 3 years ago
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brave 1 point 3 years ago

What roles are you looking for? I'm quite familiar with the academic market as I have 3 degrees at this point. .

My advice is to keep looking for technical roles. I'm not sure what's your background, but don't fall into the trap of doing more research degrees to become more competitive for hiring because the market for hiring people with research Masters/PhDs is fucked.

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bleepitybloop 2 points 3 years ago

Pardon this belated reply — I really appreciate your answer, it's given me good dose of clarity as I was thinking about signing up for a masters at UniMelb. I'll start applying for more technical roles hey.

And I'm after junior research assistant related roles at uni, research institute or hospital. Like, someone gives me a topic and I write them a lit review, provide summaries or annotated bibs etc. Academic writing is my strength. I know some opportunities exist. I recently fumbled an interview because I didn't provide nuance with respect to the specific statistical tests I'd applied on datasets in my grad projects. They were kind enough to provide this feedback to me, it was valuable.

May I ask, if you're in this line of work, did you break into the field? Did you start off in a technical role?

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Seagoon_ 3 points 3 years ago path: 0 1907357, hotness: undefined, score: 3, children: 0
prime_factor 3 points 3 years ago

Things are soo fucked on the Werribee Line, that V/Line has to run bus replacement trains to Wyndham Vale.

A Powercor line fell onto the tracks.

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mayotized 3 points 3 years ago

I am guessing this is why there was heavier than usual traffic on my way to work.

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RustyRaven 3 points 3 years ago

Aircon installation in progress. Mr Woof is not happy. Miss Meow is indifferent.

Edit: Now they're drilling loudly on the roof. Miss Meow has ugraded to somewhere between alert/alarmed.

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whatisthislifeilead 3 points 3 years ago

Pumped for Oppenheimer at IMAX today! My body is ready to by visually and aurally confronted....maybe also physically judging from the feedback about how uncomfortable the seats are supposed to be :/

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kudra 3 points 3 years ago

anyone have any idea why the wholesale power price might be spiking? it's not particularly cold... 🤔

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StudChud 5 points 3 years ago

Profit

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kudra 3 points 3 years ago

@StudChud @kudra@firefish.nz yeah but it rarely happens, usually there's a reason like insanely high demand because of extreme cold or heat..

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Seagoon_ 4 points 3 years ago

profiteering

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kudra 3 points 3 years ago

@Seagoon_ see above - it's unusual without unusual circumstances, which I can't see, unless there's a power station offline or something. Vaguely remember r/melbourne​ sometimes being useful for these kinds of questions as someone would know something about the industry...

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useless_modern_god 3 points 3 years ago

Hey you on firefish now lol.

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kudra 1 point 3 years ago path: 0 1930591 1930782 1932071, hotness: undefined, score: 1, children: 1
kudra 1 point 3 years ago

@useless_modern_god@aussie.zone Firefish and Lemmy don't play together as well as Firefish and Mastodon, but Firefish is prettier and has some neat features

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wscholermann 3 points 3 years ago
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StudChud 2 points 3 years ago

It burns with the passion of one thousand stars
Then stabs with hate and leaves the scars
It brings us hope and shows us light
Then blinds our judgement with the night
It'll take us to our final hour
Draining us of our power

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kudra 1 point 3 years ago
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