As an American, I don't know what that first image is supposed to be, but it sure looks expensive.
As an American, I don't know what that first image is supposed to be, but it sure looks expensive.
"Hmmm, should I undergo a lifetime of debt or just die now?"
Canada and the UK, too, if the politicians ever get their way. They've been moving in that direction slowly for a long time now.
And forget the hospital itself, just the ambulance ride there can cost $600+.
That made me think of a joke thats funny to me....but I've learned that most OTHER people find some of my humor far too upsetting to be funny.
So instead, just think about that clip of donald duck getting a handjob from daisy duck where he cums all over the place, and then says "oh boy! You are a mess! I'll go get you a towel!"
Thats ALWAYS funny!
Farming downvotes? Most don't want to hear about your personal hentai collection of their favorite childhood cartoons.
Is it you, SatansMaggotyCumFart?
"What the fuck bro?"
I do agree with the message about invisible disabilities and mental ableism, but I'm gonna push back on some of this greener grass thinking. For a lot of physical health struggles like chronic fatigue, diabetes, juvenile arthritis, etc... they don't get this kind of support. Being trans is also often a physical health struggle as much as mental. I like reminding people that gender dysphoria is a genetic disorder.
If you are rich they both can look like the top one.
Then again, if you eat the most nutritious food and live without ANY stress your entire life; you probably wouldn't get mental or physical problems either.
live without ANY stress your entire life
Tell me your secrets, o wise one
if you are rich
They did. At the beginning.
The secret: Be so lobotomized, that you don't think or worry about anything. Because a sane person will have phases in their lives, where they will want to achieve certain things.
I like reminding people that gender dysphoria is a genetic disorder.
Have never heard about that before. You got a source for that?
His source is he made it up and "just trust me".
While I might agree with that take I would not call this a genetic disorder per se. Simply the existence of people who are not (or just partly) on any binary side of gender, but experience Dysphoria show why this is simply a huge oversimplification.
I'm intersex and nonbinary. One might make a fair argument that I'm cisgender, though I would personally disagree, as I identify not as neuter or bigender or agender, but as goddessgender. And I think I should have goddess genes, whatever those would look like. My genes gave Me this annoying human body that I have to use magic to escape. I wish they were different.
Yes! A reason to post this!

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If it is chronic those flowers and cards dry up quick. Also the medical care and attention beyond hucking out pills. Which brings us to panel 2...
I understand the sentiment, but I literally lost all my friends when I had cancer in high school due to a combination of people not knowing what to say or how to act and an abusive boyfriend telling lies to the few that stuck around. The youth pastor at the church I went to wasn't even comfortable coming into my hospital room
When the treatment is clear and the recovery virtually guaranteed, the support is freely given.
When the problems aren't visible, the treatment plan is more improvisation than schedule, and recovery is hard to quantify. Support is harder to give and rarer to receive.
Mental problems are more likely to fall into the later bucket, but there are a swath of physical ailments from the metabolic and hormonal to the structural that also get lumped in.
When the treatment is clear and the recovery virtually guaranteed, the support is freely given.
The rising price of insulin and other common pharmaceuticals would suggest it is not freely given.
You don't recover from diabetes by receiving insulin, so it doesn't fit into the "recovery virtually guaranteed" part of that category.
But, yes, there are a number of chronic diseases with no cures but excellent treatments, and those treatments should be available free to the patient but are often targets for Capital to rent-seek from patients as much as "the market will bear". And, when market failure means a painful death, the market will bear quite a bit.
Her hair looks fucking amazing for whatever physical issues she's got going on. Slay queen.
Spoiler alert.....the spoiler makes all the difference in this case!
Works on my machine
Sad part is that after years off information and fundings for mental health ( for children ) it is still not seen by some as a problem. And than you get 18+ ( not child ) and somehow now you have to 'man up' 'be harder' or 'yust laugh a bit more'.
And don't forget the partner/familie. A depression also is a weight on their life.
If you live in Sweden, the doctors will tell you to drink more water, eat healthy and go for more walks.
Which, to be fair, is good advice in general and good especially for depression.
But, yeah I get what you mean. Here in NL it's not much better unless you bully your doctors.
35/180 is not low.
Mental healthcare here is beyond a joke.
I get stress induced hives, and my old doctor's advice was, "just don't be stressed".
Thanks for not helping, I guess.
Somewhat, though I most definitely did get a new doctor. Thank you for the concern.
I managed to get appointments with the psychiatry teams, however essentially it boiled down to it being difficult to help with CPTSD as a whole, individual aspects must be considered when each trauma differs greatly in subject matter.
So one therapy at a time. For a long time. It's not what I wanted to hear, yet it is what I needed. I've been taking steps to improve my mental health in great ways, and my current doctor's practice has been rather supportive.
It's funny, my new doctors is only about 10 minutes further than my old one. Has been worth the change.
Donโt forget with mental health struggles, people will tell you to just get over it and that marriage and kids may save you (which yikes, those poor kids), turn to god, or that the actual problem is that youโre not being productive so simply take a shower, start a hobby, develop your career. Your worth is based on productivity and youโre struggling because youโre not making someone else wealthy.
"You're not depressed, you're just lazy and need a job" ๐ซ
One of life's universal truths: "Just push through it" is rarely a good plan and never good advice.
I can't tell if you're being ironic or not. But if you are, you should post on !chadmctruthstruth@lemmy.world
For Americans: top picture needs to show big medical bills. You'll get treatment for physical health problems, but at a heavy price.
In America the bottom picture follows the top one.
Iโd love to see a mental health facility designed for people who simply need a bit of a break and need to get a little TLC. Like, come on in, drink some of this, itโll put color in your cheeks.
I was thinking a bit more medical but yes, along those lines.
Once AI renders us redundant, which will happen, whether you like it or not...
...it will be possible, but they will instead, leave us to die, without even a humane way to euthanize ourselves.
They will take everything from us, and watch us squirm in our own trash and waste. Watch us struggle.
"AI" doesn't exist. These kind of imaginary fantasies just promote the grift and distract from the actual problems with technology under capitalism.
Unless AI is going to watch all the ads we will not become redundant.
That won't happen today or tomorrow and also not within the next decade. But we can improve the world within the next decade. This is anything but inevitable.
Thatโs a survival tactic learned from having talked to people about their mental health issues.
Probably been burnt from talking about it and then being dumped for being such a downer.
It's completely bizarre how people who are victimized by society are expected to heal through immersion in that same society.
"Society"
What is the point you're trying to make? Society is comprised of people, so if the world makes you depressed you should avoid all people?
Artist has never had a physical health struggle before. It's far more often the bottom picture
Yes, particularly people with chronic physical health issues are significantly overrepresented in both depression and suicide.
Chronically ill people seeing this meme: 'Am I a joke to you?'
c/im14andthisisdeep
Visit People in Mental health hospital and see no one has cards or flowers beside there bed.
Gotta show the cops restraining the persona and hauling them off for involuntary sedation... ETC.
Even worse, give a hint that you have mental health struggles, even if you don't actually do anything bad.
People instantly see you as lesser.
I learned the hard way to never vent to friends. Just give them a few bones, and pretend to be the perfect, ideal version of yourself that you can be. Tell them enough shows you like, and they will find one they are strongly opposed to. Complain about issues enough, and you become an energy draining vampire. Etc, etc.
It's better to expect nothing from everyone, recognize that anything you gain from humans has a cost, and to remove yourself from human influences as fast as possible.
I'm guessing you're also an American. I feel you, friend. The US has a cultural toxic positivity problem, amongst other issues. Got a problem? STFU and turn that frown upside down! They're not problems but opportunities! It could be worse! It is... what it is. ๐ซ
So people bottle up their negative emotions and don't learn how to deal with them. They don't know how to seek OR give support. Some feel threatened when presented with someone else's negative emotions, and it doesn't help that the other usually doesn't know how to present them, so they try to make it go away.
I have no idea how to fix it on a societal level beyond learning to do better ourselves and setting a good example for others.
Well, thank you for the understanding, but I actually live somewhere known as Serbia.
Here, if Rakija doesn't solve it, you are just a pussy ๐ญ
I know Serbia and rakija! It reminds me of grappa. Sorry you're also stuck in a toxic society and have the curse of knowing it could be better.
It is really silly that it's not taught.
Physical Education? Check.
Academics? Check.
Emotional Intelligence? Whoa whoa whoa there, slow down now, that's not for public education. That's done in the home, with Jesus!
That's the way it is with any disease. If you hobble into a party with a compound fracture and turn all the conversations to that, it's going to make people uncomfortable. They're not doctors. They don't know how to deal with it. It's not that they think you're lesser. I have a dozen physical ailments plus bipolar disorder. The best thing to do is not to focus on it. If you can't do that, you need meds. And they work. Trust me. Go to the doctor and get treated.
Tried, got Bipodis, lost my job, became suicidal, barely recovered.
I should have been a neurologist.
They're bringing flowers because they had to amputate her legs for easily preventable diabetes complications.
Top or bottom panel?
That's so completely untrue, most of the time you have to proove you have a physical problem otherwise you are just dismissed and even yet, really, I would have liked the world to take well care of people with "physical" problems, that's just not the reality at all
While true in some backwater countries (like the US), that also illustrate the problems with metal health: you mostly cannot measure it.
A broken bone can be easily seen, a cancer too (in most cases). But how can we measure that your brain fucks up at a fundamental level? Sure we can see some anomalies (hormonal unbalances, parts that are less active than usual, but other thant that...).
So the standard response in many case is that it is your problem to take care, often with tons of unwelcome "help" ("can you try to be happy", "try X I saw on tiktok", or similar "advice")... If you are lucky.
I saw a friend loose about all her "friend" once she became depressed. She's almost homeless these day, living with her family in a motel she barely can afford despite working full time. I help her the best I can (paid for groceries, phone bill, some of the motel nights when she couldn't), but because of everyone turning on her she blame herself for not being good enough. Which in turn make her depression worse.
Capitalism made empathy a sin. Anyone not helping paythe shareholder their next yatch is seen as a deadweight only deserving to be left to rot.
Let me introduce you to the concept of chronic illness and pain.
Chronically ill people are in the same boat. Doctors won't believe them because their symptoms cannot be measured. Friends alienate them because they don't have the spoons to live up to expectations. Family keeps telling them to just think positive thoughts. Everyone tells them they are sick because they aren't exercising and dieting enough.
All while you are in perpetual pain, nausea, fatigue, and overstimulation from so many new ways you learn your body can suffer.
I do know that situation very well since I'm one of those.
Scoliosis (so constant back pain), and a suspected immunity problem (need more pyl.. blood works to be pinpointed) that make me basically sick most of the year (as an example, I'm already at my sixth flu since last September... Fun times ๐ ).
I feel seen
One is in the hospital, one is not. That is a key difference in the comparison attempting to be made.
Most of the time, sure, but doesn't that just make this an even worse analogy?
people with mental health issues end up at home alone.
That's not a fair representation of our society; a lot of them end up in the street or incarcerated as well.
It is even worse than I want to consider.
I have people I care about who are at home in their bed a lot because of medical issues, no one is bringing them flowers. I get what the comic is trying to do, truly. But analogies of things that are different are not good analogies.
not saying I'll people aren't left alone, just that for mental health issues, being alone tends to be the norm.
during my long depression, I genuinely wished I had a terminal disease, so I get to die and family/people would have to at least pretend to be nice to me, plus with opioids, I might actually feel some good emotion before I die. that isn't a rare though for people with severe long term depression.
and many other mental health issues end up with depression due to isolation, stigma, and the nature of depression.
Are you sure? I thought they were both hospitalized and that was the point. The second pic doesn't look like someone's bedroom.
Wooosh... The second person is in a "mental hospital". You can tell by the bars on the window.
That makes the comic even worse IMO. Now the comparison is different illnesses result in different treatments? That's like a diabetic getting angry at the song "Spoonful of Sugar".
More like centuries, looms are the OG job takers
But the socks' design does look OK. A few colors and made out of "pixels" of the grid-like textile pattern.
I was being a bit cunty and insensitive, in retrospect, so I deleted the post as it was knee-jerk comment that was shitty and unnecessary.
It's just that some of what passes for Mental Health issues in people I personally know can actually be attributed to natural (and indeed healthy) negative reactions to their environment (a job they hate, a society that doesn't seem to care, a breakdown of personal relationships etc).
That shit is in no way easy to resolve. I'd argue that, for those people, there is nothing actually wrong with them, more it's the situation they're in and in some cases a personal resilience deficit caused my various factors, some debatable some very real. I don't think you can think yourself happy and I don't think it's a case of simply toughening up. However, to some extent, personally responsibility (avoiding the caffeine and all night gaming for one particular colleague) does play a part, which this particular person at work isn't doing.
Meanwhile another guy at work is seriously ill and he's coming in. That's why I found the comic initially jarring, due to a specific situation i'm dealing with. But, as I say, my comment was unnecessary and short-sighted.
This is the ableist attitude that the comic is trying to point out.
Everyone has physical health struggles more or less but when they get bad enough that you have to go to a hospital you get treated well and people donโt blame you and you arenโt expected to blame yourself.
Everyone also has mental health struggles more or less but when they get bad enough that you have to go to a hospital you get treated poorly and judged, people blame you and society pressures you to blame yourself.
But not everyone is hospitalized? I think it applies to hospitalization.
I'm 14 and this is deep
I struggle with mental illness myself, as do family members of mine, and several close friends. PDD, GAD, and other diagnoses. I'm pointing out that this is a surface level representation of "not all disabilities are visible" meant to attract likes, but doesn't actually add to the conversation or convey anything substantial. In 2026 we all know what depression is and looks like, which makes this artwork low hanging fruit. It doesn't help that the subject is a white woman, for what it's worth.
Why?
So in other words: the artwork is bad, and the artist should feel bad for making it. Got it
I want to help my friends, and it seems like you just want to make enemies. We have the same ideals, why do you want to be my enemy?
thanks for using Leebra!
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It's the same person before and after seeing the medical bill
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