The only stranger on the Internet, my dear stranger, is YOU! You've been played! She was ALWAYS MINE!
The only stranger on the Internet, my dear stranger, is YOU! You've been played! She was ALWAYS MINE!
I finally got a message from them 3 min ago. I was worried I wasn’t cool enough 🥲
Funnily enough, I had never gotten one on my old account which was >4 years old on .ml - but after I made this one on my own instance, in less than a day, I finally got one.
Serious question: are there reports of the Fediverse Chick on the Tankie Triad instances? Maybe you didn't get one because she just avoids them entirely?
She likes money so she typically goes for the capitalist instances.
I dunno, China and Russia seem pretty capitalist to me. Seems like she may be centrist or actual left-wing.
Hey guy named morrowind who never played it (or so you say)
No con. That’s my girlfriend.
No, that's my girlfriend
Our girlfriend.
The peoples girlfriend
Honestly, no idea. Maybe it could be a test for future scams, maybe it could be a social experiment, or maybe its just a troll.
It's kinda like the "You Are An Idiot" virus.
Worried how unusable this place will be if real spammers find their way here
I expect the software to improve. The "fediverse chick" spam is the perfect opportunity to test countermeasures.
Botted comments and admins not in the helm.
I'll admit, the thing that made me go from Kbin to Lemmy was seeing tons of spam on unmoderated places. (Not blaming the admin for not being able to manage the site in that particular case, they had more pressing issues.)
this is why I'm ok staying small and never going mainstream, honestly I had hoped that for reddit pre 2010 but by mid 2010s it was already too far gone
That won't stop anyone. Just spin up 50 instances and let them sit for a while until they're not so new anymore.
Then when you need one, grab one off the shelf that's been riping for a while.
It's only a bump when they get started.
Got my first Nicole today. Made me kinda happy ngl lmao
I've been here since the reddit blackout and Nicole just ignored me until now lmao
Same! I feel like I’m part of the harem club now!
Hell yeah!
Wait…you mean we aren’t soulmates? 😭
You may still be soulmates, but you're certainly not the one dating her.
The person and the background look too similar between photos for this to be AI. The person behind the scam probably searched the web, and stole this poor person's photos. Judging from the poor quality, I'd date it around ~2008
Well, when was your laptop manufactured?
Have you tried using a time machine
Wait I'm now realizing, is that a bong?
Well, that actually explains the sagging eyes and the melancholy face. Also might be a likely explanation of why these photos were taken: people just like documenting themselves trying out stuff.
no, it's definitely a Florence flask, trust trust

For some reason I was thinking it was a test tube, but a bong seems more likely.
Also just saw that now!
Nicole seems to be experimenting.
Stay in school Nicole!(George Brown College specifically)
Looks like a bong to me
I may not be the Fediverse Chick, but if it helps, I can DM you.
also just got a message with her new outfit
looking good, nicole :)
Do we love our girlfriend or what?
It's a social experiment, and this thread is part of the plan.
Hands off, buddy. She's mine!
I got my first one an hour ago, truly an honor.
Same. I vaguely remember a post from a few days ago mentioning a fediverse chick and now I finally know what it was talking about
I keep blocking it, but...
This is the first time I've heard of this.
Anyone know why this message doesn't lose the "unread" tag. I'm using Boost
Switched to Voyager very recently and it's pretty sleek so far. Easy to navigate and sort.
There's one feature Boost has that I really miss when I try to switch, which is that it will save your position in the comments of a post. So like if you scroll down halfway and then leave the comments and come back, you are still in the same spot. Every other client I've tried doesn't have that feature and it's kinda a deal breaker for me
Anyone know why this message doesn't lose the "unread" tag. I'm using Boost.
Must be a Boost problem. File a bug report.
Had to do the same thing on connect with all her messages. Wouldn't let me delete them either. Very strange that it's a bug that affects multiple clients.
I had to close the app and reopen it
I finally got it too. It feels like a rite of passage. You're not a full citizen until you got the DM.
And what if treat my inbox like every other inbox? Does it count if I get one and never know it's there?
Why would you say this 😂
Unfortunately, these images are almost certainly stolen. I don't imagine many people would consent to their photos being used in a spam attack.
That said, in the image you can see a bong, and from her face you can tell that she's high. So these are probably images/frames from a video that was deliberately taken to commemorate this person trying weed.
She's already a meme. Maybe in 20 years when the fediverse is popular, this will be a thing only us "old timers" know.
I sound like a grandpa now...
Yeah, where are they?
Every few months, "Nicole" mass spams a bunch of PMs inviting people to click on various suspicious links
She gives out massages? Damn, I'm missing out.
Damn, I feel bad for you. Now this doesn't mean that I'll allow you to make moves on my girlfriend, but I'm there for you.
With a happy ending?
Same hete, and I am fine with that.
Whoever hacked this poor fellow's webcam seems to have captured a much better photo to use in their scams.
I tried, but failed as the server didn't seem to exist.
Many of our hard-working instance admins are on top of blocking her whenever she pops up again.
How dare they ban my girlfriend 🤬🤬🤬
How dare you say that my soulmate is "your girlfriend".
It is showing that there's a lot of work to be done to deal with the spam issue. It's basically relying on every individual instance admin to moderate their stuff and defederate from other instances that drop the ball. If Lemmy gets big enough for spammers to really try to attack it, the admins will quickly get overwhelmed.
This is from a Kbin/Mbin viewpoint, but from the very start a year or so ago spam was incredibly bad, usually porn. It was common to daily add more to the filter to see other postings. Then one day it got a lot better, either through a version update or better moderation control. I was even able to clear the old filters and not be flooded anymore. These pfishing attempts from Nicole and a few other names before her are the first ones I've seen in a long time. I just wish I could delete them from my PMs, for some reason that option isn't present at all.
Just tried. It will only presumably stop new messages, but I can refresh and the old sent one is still there as well as the user name that shows it's blocked. Plus that wouldn't be a great workaround for normal messages of people you want to talk to and just are cleaning house. I don't know why the option isn't there. I put something about it on the main Mbin page a while back. Maybe not many people actually use messages?
Don't encourage it, we don't want it to lay eggs.
I got the first one yesterday and was mildly annoyed that you can not block the sender of a PM directly from your inbox - as you can with authors of post responses. Had to actually click that stupid profile (after reporting it) and block it from the profile page.
Yup. 3, all different accounts and instances
That may be but my annoyance was with the lemmy UI not allowing direct blocking of a user from an inbox message - when it is possible by going to the user profile.
Beh it's the NSA fishing for incels
They must have more incels then they know what to do with at this point. Must be the FBI.
The FBI is literally run by incels.
Must be the CIA.
Wait, so this is spam? And y'all knew about this? She sent me a DM, too. Guys am I compromised?
she sends us all DM's, thats the joke
from all different instances. its becoming a good meme. I suspect parsing the mod log for her name is a hoot
I wonder if the actual woman in the picture is aware of all this. Be kind of wack if it was just a hijacked webcam.
I doubt it, very little people would use their own image in a spam attack.
You can be aware of it without being responsible
well as her best friend you should know that she's my girlfriend.
Has anyone gone to her other links? Matrix, discord, etc?
I tried the Matrix, it didn't seem to exist :/ Then I tried Frendica, and found out that my ISP blocked the main Frendica instance. I'm too lazy to use Tor and wait for the slower bandwith to load Frendica, or to find out other Frendica instances and search from there.
Your ISP is blocking Fendica? You should call them and tell them off
Sorry, who is she? I keep seeing her face in memes.
Sorry bro, I think she's cheating on you.
Some spammer
Or some random image used by a spammer... Who can tell?
"Nicole" is (likely) a fabricated character. The character is (likely) different from the image, although the image is commonly associated with the character in our minds. The image is an unaware person smoking weed. However, the character itself can said to be a spammer.
Thus, Nicole is indeed a spammer. However, the person in the image is not a spammer. The image and the character are seperate, even though one is a symbol for the other.
Basically the first concerted spam/phishing attempt hitting lemmy, so this most certainly non existent lady is now a meme.
Damn I feel left out. She hasn't messaged me :(
No. Nicole and I have pledged our hearts to each other. If you dare make a move, we'll need to throw hands.
she's watching you...
Ooh they've updated the friendica url - new urls to add to the block list!
Man, why do you have to be so mean to the Fediverse Chick :(
I thought I was unique, I was the one. It was true love, man. To find out about this betrayal, breaks my heart.
She is, and always will be, MINE. Seethe and cope.

I was hit too just now.
There are dozens of us
is that a bottle or a crack pipe
This still comes off as misgendering. Maybe don't do that. She makes it clear that she uses feminine terminology even if she is spamming people.
You are still making an assumption against the wishes of the person or people that indicated it. So what if she is lying? It demonstrates that respecting people's gender is conditional on being good.
Personally, I prefer ‘she/her/hers’ when referring to the likely fabricated character, and ‘they/them/theirs’ when referring to the real person in the image.
I got 4 nicole messages, beat that
I've got like 9...
Kinda off topic, but may I ask what client that is?
I answered it here.
Ah. Sorry to make you repeat yourself then
The day Nicole moves from DMs to posts is the day we all are in danger.
OwO that's cool to know. Do they follow the same format as the DMs?
Also, great job on the moderation!
Does anyone know if the image is AI or if someone's pics have been stolen?
Probably the latter; the person, background, and outfit (when they didn't change it) look too consistent between images for it to be AI.
I’ve not seen this yet but that’s insane 😂
Why have you been messaging my girlfriend?
This is actually a really good question that I don't have the answer to lmao
I think I found Nicole. Maybe she plans to play a doctor on TV?
I'd prefer if you keep her blocked and don't initiate communication with my girlfriend...
I usually just ignore these DMs and don't bother to block them because the person(s) behind the account just create more. Also, the spam seems harmless and quite amusing.
I tried the Matrix, it didn't seem to exist :/ Then I tried Frendica, and found out that my ISP blocked the main Frendica instance.
The matrix is trying to stop you from being happy
I tried the Matrix, it didn't seem to exist :/ Then I tried Frendica, and found out that my ISP blocked the main Frendica instance.
All I ever hear about Matrix is when they close another pedophile instance. I'm not saying everyone in Matrix is a pedophile, but every pedophile is on Matrix.
Yess, I finally got her with the updated outfit
I feel so left out
Off topic but what's the name of the app you are using for Lemmy?
I'm pretty sure that's Thunder. I haven't tried it myself though.
I'm using Thunder. I switched to it from Voyager. I'd say Voyager is stable, but boring. Thunder, on the other hand, has more bugs, but is also more customizable and ultimately looks better.
It’s only marginally better than the other deadshit image they were using.
Don't you dare insult my girlfriend! She said she'll go on a date with me!
thanks for using Leebra!
go to feed...
I told her not to message strangers on the internet yesterday. I feel she might be cheating on me.
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