I already started
Every generation has their thing, I suppose.
2 years ago by The Picard Maneuver to c/whitepeopletwitter
I already started
But I fucked up, I'm with friends now and beyond drunk.
This is the way
Edit: (to add some actual discussion) it's honestly really nice since Ubers are getting expensive and no one will drink and drive. Sure it's not the same as hanging out in person but it's the next best thing.
Actually for real it is, my buddies and I just hang out and drink and smoke and have a gay old time. Maybe we're all playing dufferent games, sometimes maybe somebody or nobody is playing nothing just chilling.
FR, this is what my wife and I do. We'll get on a group call and chill with friends separately. Sometimes the same game, sometimes not. Less stress, saves money, still fun.
We drinking again? I still haven't stopped from last night.
(stares at naked wrist) it’s blur o’clock, I can’t remember when the fuck I started, and I pretty sure I’m on an entirely different goddamn continent than the one I started on. So far it’s going pretty drink.
Beware of accounts promoting division between millennials & Gen Z. They’re trying to prevent a powerful political alliance.
The Gen Z bit is accurate, at least for current college students. I'm amazed at how little they do, how few relationships they have, etc. I actually feel quite bad for them.
The kids aren’t alright
I also feel quite bad for us.
I just generally feel bad.
hug
Even the hugs feel bad now
Older Gen Z here. Getting involved in community organising helps.
GenZ has fallen victim to car culture and commodification of literally everything. There are no places to go and many younger people never even knew different. Life's only affordable or respectable in the 'burbs where there's nothing to do and nowhere to go without a car. Meanwhile inner cities with intact structures are bulldozed for more car infrastructure or unusable because of traffic.
Everywhere people can go costs money. Even the internet is no commons any more, peer pressure pushes people into walled gardens where algorithms push brainrot.
You can't blame the people being affected by our literally unlivable world. It's been getting worse for some time now and in some aspects millennials had it worse than gen X who had it worse than the boomers. No single generation is to blame for losing the class war, however I hold every single person not fighting against the capitalist class accountable.
As a young person, I have never had an opportunity to do much of anything. I blame living in a suburban wasteland and being overly sheltered. I mostly just read, program and go on bike rides. There isn't anywhere in my city to actually hang out besides the walmart parking lot or the library. I do spend a unhealthy amount of time at the library.
I do not trust certain friends around throwing axes precisely because they're way into the idea of throwing axes
Then do it!
zoomers don't leave the house because the world is currently on fire
It's been burning since the world's been turning

But we didn't start the fire!
World has always been on fire
Shit sentiment tbh. The climate crisis has never been as bad, we're also experiencing the fastest mass extinction event in history. Far right parties dismantle democracies around the world, there's nowhere to go if you wanted to flee (besides, mass surveillance, border militarization and growing xenophobia made escaping much harder than it used to be). Life has rarely been as expensive as it is currently. So no, the world has never been as on fire as it is right now.
What control do you have over any of that? Adjust how much you focus on something by how much you can control it, and you'll be much happier.
Yeah, the climate crisis is bad, and has been for 50+ years, it's just getting a lot more media attention lately. Yes, politics is a mess (always has been), but it's getting a lot more media attention lately. Surveillance is bad, but rights have always been stripped as much as the powers that be can get away with, it's just a lot more accessible these days w/ technological progress.
Life has rarely been as expensive as it is currently.
Life is around the cheapest it has ever been, if you exclude the last few years or so of inflation, at least in terms of what a typical person can afford. The main problem I see today is that access to credit (i.e. spending more than you have) is so prevalent, so many people get themselves into trouble by spending beyond their means.
If you focus on what you can control and do your best with that, you'll be a lot happier. This means:
Doing more of things that make you happy and less of things that stress you out. Generally speaking, you'll be better off that way, and your capacity to fix the things that stress you out will increase.
Thanks for your effort post.
However, disconnecting from reality is not a good strategy imo. Too many libs care more about brunch than about climate change which is partly why we're so deep in shit.
You might be right about affordability of fringe high tech products and fashion, but at least four generations before us had almost guaranteed housing. Now, buying a house is impossible and renting is expensive as fuck. My financial situation is fine (luckily) but seeing people around me struggle does not make me feel great tbh.
The advice that helped me way more than any of the calendar mottos you had to offer was 'get organized' and 'improve your behavior'. I joined a party and local mutual aid orgs, stopped eating meat, sold my car, and stopped flying. Now I'm at peace because I know, even if everything goes to shit, it's not my fault and I did everything I could. Put me mentally in a very good place.
Delusional
... and if you're a stick (or a plant in general), the best thing you can do in that case is to not leave the house.
Sometimes the best thing a flower can do is die
...wait I think that's the wrong reference
if you're a plant, throw some seeds, bury them, hope they'll make it once the climate's better.
TIL I'm a zoomer. Sheesh skibbidi rizz Ohio
On God, no cap All facts no printer
Caps lock, no fax urinal
no fax
That's something I can get behind, even if it's at a urinal.
wait i always assumed you were anyways
I don't want a fucken culture war between the generations like what happened with baby boomers. Gen X forward are all fine by me, live your life, be conscientious of other people and where they're at in life, and for shits sakes lets be open to changing our societies based on different generational challenges. The generational wars were always stoked by cynical conservative bread and circuses propaganda, fuck em, stop paying them attention.
I dunno if it's maturity or just...
Look I interact with a lotta kids, and they are not alright. If you told me a large number of zoomers literally did not know how to invite their friends to real life activities, I would believe you. I've spoken with a lot of Zoomers who are so socially awkward they don't seem to understand a spoken conversation. I feel like we have an obligation to invite them to stuff, just to show them that there is a world off the net that's worth living in.
That's how it always is. It has nothing to do with the "generation," but more the stage of life someone is at.
I didn't get invited to things with people a generation or two older than me when I was younger, because I was an immature little jerk. Now I do, because my stage of life is a lot more similar to theirs now that my kids are more independent and I've learned to behave.
Sure, but I know I didn't rip on the genXers just because I was an immature little shit. I ripped on my peers because I didn't give a shit about the older generation, and by the time I did, I knew genX was cool, if a bit detached and the real enemy was the capital class (and boomers to an extent because of how wrapped up in chasing the status they'll never have while pulling the ladder up behind them).
The shitheads writing the culture war articles and voting for Trump and his kind in greater numbers than the boomers are Gen X.
cynical conservative bread and circuses propaganda
It's not "conservatives," it's mainstream media in general. Mainstream media lives and dies by viewership/readership, and the thing that sells clicks/views the most is drama. Age related drama is timeless and relatively easy pickings, because it doesn't really matter what you say about a given generation, a number of people will identify with it, a number will disagree, and everyone seems to have an opinion.
It's incredibly stupid and a big reason why I generally avoid mainstream media, except for coverage of important regional, national, and international news.
Same, but I gotta say that I have noticed a trend of zoomers just calling everything Millennials do as cringe. Usually every generation makes fun of the next generation, but this time it’s the other way around. Making millennials the target of both the older and younger generations.
I've just spent my evening nit leaving the house drinking wine and playing hell let lose with nt wife sitting behind ne playing the sims.
That's peak millennial in my opinion
I played on my Steam Deck while my SO watched some drama last night, and we ended the evening w/ my SO bawling into my shoulder about something emotional that happened, which I had no context for but still gave some emotional support for.
Seems pretty Millenial to me as well. 😀
Yoooo - played Elden Ring whilst SO played TOTK on the same couch drinking wine and then we went to bed and totally didn't do it because we're both super tired 🙌 Peak Saturday Night Millennial Club
As a millennial this hits way too close to home lol - although I guess now it’s Inzoi for her instead of the sims (for a bit).
Same but also I don't have any friends to go out with anyway, to fill out the full requirement I guess.
Key point here: Millennials still make an effort to hang out, outside of the internet. Hoo boy that birth rate is really going to plummet. Lets see how well the capitalist's infinite growth system works when the next 3 generations are smaller then each other. How does retirement work for the proles?
If you think capitalism is bad wait until you see what's coming next: neofeudalism
Extremely wealthy few who control everything. No more payment, you'll simply be a serf. No more owning, you won't own anything, all in your life will be leased.
In that world, you have kids because your told to, or else. Individual freedom? What are you a lord? A feudal master?
I doubt anyone will have to be told to have kids. Putting people in misery will leave them grasping at anything to have a moment's respite of pleasure. Right now they can do that with hobbies and 'toys.' In the future? Only the embrace of your fellow miserable hopefully-only-half-kin will be an option, and kids will start popping out.
That’s ok. At this point trump’ll tank it all first, saving us the reich wing tax incentives to bang out kids and talibangelicals preventing women from obtaining jobs or higher education so they can stay barefoot and pregnant kn the kitchen.
Gen X here. When I get bored I go out to eat by myself. Without the drinking though. I’m lonely, not gonna lie.
I would too. I get overloaded on social interaction pretty quickly.
Explosion Museum of Naval Firepower
Wtf its an actual place! The name sounds so ridiculous i's not sure if you were havin a laugh or not. :)
It's a real place and a couple years ago I had a years ticket to go in as often as I like and take the ferry around the harbour to see other things too like the historic dockyard (Victory, Warrior, Mary Rose) and the submarine museum. All included in that one ticket. It wasn't even that expensive really. Lasted for a year.
Wow! The Mary Rose... you just sent me down memory lane. I hadn't thought about that ship in decades. So i saw that ship when it was still going through that water treatment business. Blew my mind then, i's really young at the time.
And now i realise i've been to Portsmouth, we were staying over in Eastbourne at the time.
The trip was full of museums and castle visits all over the south of England at least between Battle and Tintagel. So we could easily have been to the Explosion museum as well. I'll have to dig out the old scrap books and see if somethings written in them about it.
The years ticket to all of those sounds like a great way to spend some weekends, get to enjoy the harbour as well.
Skip the alcohol and go to a modern laser tag arena with friends. Insanely fun. They somehow got the Halo 2/3 announcer over a massive intercom system, and they have similar games. Feels like a match from when we were kids!
Skip the alcohol
No.
Depends on the arena. The one in my area, absolutely zero chance of them ever being that cool.
Also, I wouldn't skip the alcohol. How else would I have had a couple full bottles of sake on my 21st if I had skipped it?
We have inexpensive arcades as well, which are a ton of fun. $5 gets you about an hour of entertainment, and I wouldn't go over 10 because you'll probably get bored of the games before you use up your credits if you put too much on it.
Some other options:
These all cost money, but probably not much more than drinking, and they're generally more enjoyable without alcohol. You can show up alone and have a great time, and there's just enough social interaction that you won't feel so alone.
But maybe this is my millenial side showing.
Hey. Don't do that.
Hey, hope you'll learn to deal with self destructing habits, every steps in the right direction matters !
And dont be too harsh on yourself, perfect is ennemy of good as we say in France, especially if its derail you from wanting to get better :)
Hmm, maybe we could call it "Big Alcoholics Rally" or something. Maybe we could organize them as community centers, and give it a neat acronym. Hmm...
This is all good advice, but even if you don't follow it at least part of the issue isn't that you're alone, but what you're doing while you're alone..
Like. Years ago I decided to build a nine foot tall statue in the living room of my one bedroom apartment. It took me months, and it's actually terrifying,, but it also interests people. Like. No one responds to "I have an eight and a half foot tall statue in my living room" with "okay".
Having hobbies isn't just a way to meet people, it's a way to learn new skills, grow as a person, and have something you can look back on and say "I did that".
If you spent all your time alone building or making things you'd probably feel a lot better about the time you spent alone, and doubtlessly people would pick up on that
And before you say, "but hobbies are expensive," I bet there are a lot of things you're interested in that are cheaper than alcohol. You just need to find those things and start them.
I wish I had friends
As much as the whole generation thing is made up, sometimes being a zillenial (late millennial/early gen z) really makes one feel left out of everything
Being old millennial is weird too, most millennials think I grew up in the 50s compared to their life experience. The generation gap between me and my dad is what kind of manual car with a carburetor and hand crank windows we consider ''new'' looking. But I entered the job market at EXACTLY housing bubble burst. And I was worried I'd get drafted for Iraq, but, alas it thankfully didn't happen.
As you get older you will eventually be considered both. For example people who grew up believing they were gen X might technically be labeled millennial nows. Like there are millennials who are in their 40s
Suddenly realizes no one under 30 goes to the bars he goes to
Holy shit. I never thought about it, really.
I don't go anywhere exclusive or special, really. They're just not fucking there. 😯
There's no reason. Drinking is expensive and even if you have friends it's easier to talk to/play with them online. Also, women keep telling us they don't want to be approached at bars, so now bars are losing the quick-fuck market.
Central Bank QE skyrocketed asset prices and rents increased dramatically, and higher interest rates need to crash the economy to restore balance. Its all the ebb and flow of monetary policy, which has dramatically misallocated capital via cheap debt.
sir this is a generational circlejerk
Y'know what? There are people in every generation causing clichés and also enough people ranting about others clichés. As long as it's in good humour, that's fine.
Easy fix: drink.
I'm kind of on the border between Gen Z and a millennial (1994) so I enjoy brainrot content but going out to go axe throwing or going to an escape room and having some drinks sounds amazing too. I wish I had friends to do that with :(
We exist, come find us. 😁
I was thinking the same thing lol.
Me and a couple buddies got motorcycles over the past year. We're literally going to go for a ride tomorrow, then meet at the local axe throwing range. I've been looking forward to it all week!
it's also possible to stay home and not curl up into a ball. There are a lot of options!
I guess buying hops is a lot easier than gitting gud at brewing.
Most of CTs breweries also have a nice stout. My favorite is the romanov bourbon barrel stout at Woodbury brewing company.
The brewery near me has more non IPAs then IPA. They usually have at least one stout or porter, an American Ale, a couple Honey ales that are very popular and a Hefeweizen, at least one fruit flavored beer and maybe two or three IPAs on tap.
IPAs are just still very popular. My pet theory is that it's partially the alcohol content as there are a lot of double IPAs that are high in alcohol content.
Oh it's absolutely alcohol content, and a little bit of holdover from hipsterism. They also have a strong taste so it's a good base to try out various different wacky flavor combinations.
I wish more places around here had American ales. Whenever I find a brewery that does it ends up being my favorite beer on the menu. I especially like the ones from thimble island and city steam.
Would you like me to add some fruit juice to your beer?
Our best local brew(Red oak) is a Bavarian amber lager. Only the people that hate beer drink IPA.
Millennials be like: Let's feed into generational hate we learned from the boomers.
Wasnt the millennial hate the first post?
Yeah when zoomers first showed up to adulthood I remember being surprised when they started ripping on Millennials first (making fun of our love of gifs, single panel memes, Harry Potter, etc.). It was a "what he say fuck me for?" moment and it's been going on ever since.
Some zoomers are also guilty of generational hate.
GenZ here like, those things sound great but they also cost money.
Before ipas we had really light stuff, browner stuff and black stuff. It was a little boring
Other millennials go out??
Isopropyl alcohol
I legit had this in my mind because I know nothing about beer and plenty about linguistics. "Millennials are bilabial trilling?"
The cilantro of beer.
Well thats a surprisingly accurate description.
I absolutely have been drunk and thrown an axe . Who hasn't?
Wait. What if I'm a millennial that doesn't want to leave my house and spends all day consuming garbage content? I won't go so far as to say brainrot, but it's not really benefiting me in any way.
Though I will say I do like a good IPA but am not limited to IPA.
Cool.
I don't drink at all and consume my fair share of garbage content, and I consumed way more when I was younger. I also don't like going out, probably because I'm pretty introverted and going out w/ friends takes energy, so I save that for more special occasions like birthdays. My typical evening is playing video games, working on side projects, or reading a book.
That's exactly my stance too, tbh. I used to be extremely extroverted 10+ years back. I'd hit bars and just meet some really cool people. I'm a friendly drinker- sometimes a bit to oversharing, but better than angry. I'd talk to anyone with no fear and made a lot of great friends and acquaintances that way.
Now I probably drink once every couple months because I live by my sister and she has a big back lot with a fire pit. She has to literally pull my teeth to get me out, though. They probably party every other week and even that is just too much for me.
I'd much rather have a quiet day booting up modded Minecraft and playing with my gf on local lan, writing my book, or cuddling up with dinner and watching a movie.
Dang, am I a Gen Z now?
As an elder millenial I'd like to proudly declare I have never gone to and escape room or axe throwing because those would require some sort of social interaction.
I drink a lot of IPAs though, you don't need to speak to people to do that.
I hate them both. I wish the silent generation was still alive
Not my fault you all had shitty grandparents
They are, they're Biden's peers
Have fun dying your Easter potatoes
Do you think pointing out that Biden is literally part of the Silent Generation makes someone a conservative?
Yes. When there was no mention of politics at all in the conversation and then you go, “Biden also old af.”
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Old millennial here. Want to drink at home by yourself while I drink at home by myself?
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